RHP

RHP User

F48

Meet then block

July 08 2014

How many have chatted, decided to meet, click, then meet to play, only to find you're then blocked with no explanation? Told on occasions of playing that I have oral skills and a high sex drive for a woman, but no contact following the goodbye..... I'm here to play, learn, have fun, but to have a simple thanks but no thanks all that hard? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Take it to heart... People on this site can sometimes be brutal,cowards or both....some people only want one off encounters and are not up front about that....the RHP mantra is next xQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A lot of guys just want 1 off encounters but lie about things just so they can get in your pants Wouldn't matter if we were supermodels a lot of guys ( not all though) are just after that notch in the bedpost - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I understand that, but if upfront about it then so be it, just over the lies!!! Oh and the no- shows and fake pics!! But still lots of fun to be had!! ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    with messages...is is really that hard to answer with a thnx but no thnx, especially after they have initiated contact and you have then opened photos for them (PG)? If you don't like what you see at least have the courtesy to let people know...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    He was too gutless to say "thanks but I'm not wanting to go further with you." Irrespective of why he didn'twant to take things further, it's still no excuse for being a pussy. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    10 years ago

    Its much easier to hide behind the keyboard and block and not have the balls to face the person or at least have the decency to message and at the very least say "I have changed my mind". Doesn't have to be a reason but at least message. Look at it another way if someone is thoughtless enough to just block and hide then the flip side is they did you a favour in not meeting and seeing their personality, manners and lack of respect in RL.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Araps she did meet him,then he ran for the hills...xQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's been a combination of both. Meet, nothing further then blocked. Meet, play then blocked Chat then blocked. If I'm sent a message, whether new or been chatting a while, I will still respond in some way. Be it no thanks, another time, or more please! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Bendigoman

    Bendigoman

    10 years ago

    I sympathise, not empathise, with you.It happens to the men on Redhotpie as well, just ask them.I have been in receipt of the “thanks but no thanks” message and you deal with it, thanks to those who at least gave an answer.It is disappointing when it ceases with no explanation. Until the next contact comes along and there is that excitement again.Is it cyclic? Part of the relationship wheel? I don’t know, I have been trying to understand women for over 50 years.(Can’t get ethics approval from any academic institution to research them properly)

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    10 years ago

    Unfortunately .. a lit of people here use this site solely so that they DONT have to pay for a professional Hooker Screen well. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It may be some have made n error as the delete button is right next to the block button?? Silly thought but possible

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'uneventful' Unfortunately .. a lit of people here use this site solely so that they DONT have to pay for a professional Hooker Screen well. - Posted from rhpmobile couldn't have said it better myself.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I agree,I no longer meet anyone from dating sites for this reason...I have been offended by some of the things that men have done and said to me...and that is why I didn't invite them back...men over fifty in particular,it seems that many men still have a negative view of independent sexually active women..Here are some of the things that have been said to me...I will tell my wife about you because I want her to be jealous.... he was in an open relationship...why don't you pop over to the RSL,there's lots of lonely men over there...apparently this was s joke...when I was in hospital one man sent me email after email ,not to enquire about my health,but to find out when I would be able to have sex again...l won't go on but the double standard in my opinion is unfortunately alive and well and doesn't alwsys show it's face at first xQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I actually had to block someone last night, he started out being really nice and seemed so genuine in what he was saying, moving to my town and looking after his sick mother, we exchanged mobile numbers and then it was like a switch was flicked all he wanted to do was exchange dirty texts and naughty pics. I messaged him and said Im quite confused about who you are, one way on RHP and then completely different with sms. He sent a nasty text back and said Im going to delete you because you're weird... I was like WTFyeah alright dickwad and deleted and blocked him instead. Manners are free and its not hard to be upfront and honest, but then again for some people it is. This internet dating world attracts all kinds

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    That has happened to me also it’s a shame