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Meet up in public or private?
November 23 2020
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Tall74nHard9
4 years ago
No. I believe that any genuine gentleman would be more than happy tp meet in public first - in fact, I would believe it would be expected by the man. Any decent bloke would also like to meet women in public as well. I think it is in both parties interests. Tall
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teamaj2
4 years ago
Babydoll , I find it disheartening to hear that many women you know have experienced such abhorrent behaviour. I 100% agree with meeting in public . We , as a couple also insist of public meets. We also reiterate this does not guarantee play will 100% proceed meet . Obviously , it’s about all of feeling comfortable, attracted and feeling no ‘alarm bells ‘. We are hopeful that the people we invite into the private sanctuary of our home would be those we feel safe enough to do so . Stay true to your beliefs and boundaries . Ax
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RHP User
4 years ago
I agree with tall_n_hard. As a man I much prefer meeting in public first.
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Kokoflamingo
4 years ago
I prefer to meet in public first. Apart from the safety issue, why would you have sex with someone you realise you have no attraction to? I know some people like the thrill of sex with strangers, and thats good for them, its just not for me.
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The_Antichrist
4 years ago
This is a two way street.... Women have the risk of rape... Men have the risk of being lured in to be beaten, robbed etc too... In both examples thankfully I suspect it would be a minority of cunty shitcunts that would perpetrate such acts.... But people’s safety is paramount to make it an absolute requirement to be meeting in public first
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MsSuperFoxy
4 years ago
People met in lots of places, including their homes, public places, Hotel rooms, Adult Clubs, Night Clubs, public parks, parked vehicles (dogging spots), beaches etc. I have met many people in various spots. One just needs to keep themselves safe and know what to look out for. In saying that, anyone could turn, spike drinks etc. It's best practice to inform someone of your meet up or go in a group for safety reasons. I'm am trained in protective actions and can look after myself. In saying that, No is No, right! Sadly, a small majority do not comprehend that Ms Foxy
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jessica__rabbit
4 years ago
Huge red flag if someone is against meeting in public, same if they get annoyed when you don't give out your number or ask if condoms are necessary. Unfortunately the overwhelming majority of sexual assault is commited by someone the victim knows well and trusts, but of course can still happen from randoms on dating apps.
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Libertine001
4 years ago
Once you've been online for a while you hone your vetting for prospective partners and getting to know someone for a month or two prior to a meet you already have insights into their life and what type or person you expect to meet. Having phone conversations instead of messaging gives you a better idea of the person as messaging the person has time to literally say anything to lure you in rather than a phone call which is a normal conversation. Rushing it can be risky and anything can happen by not vetting properly to a point you're both comfortable meeting. The venue of where the meet will occur should have no consequence if both parties are totally comfortable with each other which takes time. It is unfortunate for the majority of men that there a few unsavoury characters that have tarnished what genuine guys are about. No matter what you're on here for l, getting to know someone over time builds that connection and trust or it shows the red flags that everyone is looking for. Also the timewasters that have no intention of ever meeting up and like the attention are also people to watch out for. Being online is a difficult process for all involved but there are gems in the rough and you have the full spectrum to trawl through to get there. Best of luck and keep it friendly..😊 Libertine.
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NrthCanberra2
4 years ago
Fuck know, NEXT that fool every person has the right to feel safe and if that means a 10 - 20min to a hr meet in greet public place so be it, Yes were all on here coz we like to be sexual kinky and open minded but still have to feel safe and then you still have to click with them, Photoshop and msging can hide so many flags about the person
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FeistyFatty
4 years ago
No. I've been online for many years now.... hubby as well. And I 90% of the time am inviting to my home. Occasionally to their home. I always chat and get to know people fairly well prior to agreeing to meet. Admittedly not always lol..... I'm sure alot of have reached out to a sexy stud at 1am on a Saturday night after a few wines for a Ninja Fuck ..... good times hehe. I have found my instincts and vetting skills are trustworthy and have only failed me a handful of times and that was more just no chemistry upon meeting. I'm not sure what being the only member of your social circle that hasn't experienced rape has to do with anything though. Do you mean you're always thinking a potential meet could result in an assault so you automatically take steps to avoid this from happening (if it even ever was)? I have been sexually assaulted and don't have a similar thought process. Maybe I've misinterpreted.
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AnnieWhichway
4 years ago
Gotta use the old brain . Sometimes go with your gut. Best fuck l ever had was a ninja fuck in my apartment. Sight unseen, no lights, no speaking, no bullshit. But l agree, best in public first. But if you think it guarantees your safety your having a lend of yourself. Most rapes will occur after you INVITE them home after meeting previously either that night or otrbiois date. So my ninja fuck was safer than your public date.
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AnnieWhichway
4 years ago
Otrboisis was meant to be" previous" date Good luck in working out your public date is a rapist
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AnnieWhichway
4 years ago
As a side note, its now possible to delete your previous posts. Now there's progress ..
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MsSuperFoxy
4 years ago
I'd like to add, it's not just women this happens too, it's men as well. Some mem get lured as well. I have seen first hand emails, inviting them over once the kids have gone to sleep/bed (goes vice versa). Some even take that offer up, turn up and the wifie/husband isn't there. There's so many unsafe sinerios out there, I could mention. I'm sure many of us have been there, done that because our vunerabilty has been dropped or we've been charmed one way or another. OP, you are indeed lucky! Ms Foxy
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RHP User
4 years ago
Public meets only for me and coped abuse when Ive said they dont respect women if they cant understand that safety is a priority. Which is just fine as I wouldnt meet anyone with that attitude.
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WitchFinder
4 years ago
Public meet first always, even if at minimum it's just a coffee and a chat before the decision is made to take it further. Prevents the obvious things like catfishing with old or someone else's photos, terrible hygiene, and just in general making sure the attraction is there. Ultimately its about making sure everyone is comfortable, if you can't do the minimum to make that happen then you're obviously not even going to think about putting any effort in and probably not worth the time.
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RHP User
4 years ago
Public first, always. Watch out for the catfish. Would love catch up with those single guys pretending to be couples....
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Shuttman
4 years ago
If someone cannot respect you enough to chat normally and meet in a public place of you're choice then best bet is to stay away from them. Respect and manners seem to be disappearing and the worst part is we all suffer from the actions of those who can't be decent.
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Jekyllnhyde1
4 years ago
Ive tried public prior to every meet. Bunnings, Kmart, Woolworths, coffee....yesterday I met someone near where they work, and had coffee,and a little car fun. There should always be an our for either party if the attraction isnt there. Is there a term for a daytime ninja fuck?
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Sawadee
4 years ago
If anyone cares to read my profile , you will see one of my requirements is to meet in a neutral location first.. l know im a honest type ' and is why meeting publicly is important.
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Serendipity69
4 years ago
We always do a social meet first, neutral ground and a good way to see if here is not only chemistry and sexual attraction, but also to see they are who who they say they are...
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Dixie5777
4 years ago
Definitely public for her and my safety, and usually more than once preferred.
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