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October 31 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm positive that almost everyone would experience nerves to some degree before a meet, so you're definitely not alone!! After all it's normal to be a bit nervous before meeting any new person....wondering what they're like....and will they actually look like they do in their pics... and will we have enough to talk about etc. In this case you're also adding in the factors of either considering or actually getting down and dirty with them, and you know they're sizing you up for it as well, so it's natural to be a bit apprehensive at first.I've had quite a few meets now over the years so I don't get as nervous as I used to, but it's still there. I have an initial meet tonight and have a few butterflies flitting around.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That I don't really meet at all.....you're definitely not alone :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's the part I love. It's a great feeling. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Absolutely. I don't like first meets at all.
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wingman2014
11 years ago
You should be more worried about not having the odd butterfly in the stomach. That anticipation is part of the excitement of meeting someone new.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I get really nervous before any meet up and probably chatter inanely for the first 5mins before settling down and enjoying myself. It's normal! It means you care...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'll admit that meeting up with someone over something social (and not at someones house) is exciting and a little nerving. Mind you the little nerving part was due to our communication to meeting at China Town and though we both ain't Asian, finding a missing stud on a paddle is easier than to find herIn the end we left to catch and chat else where, and had a good time for the first meet. \Hopefully next outing we can catch in caucasian central lolMind you, I was a little chatty (according to her). Maybe the nerves or just me settling in hehehe. Quoting 'Awesome71' I get really nervous before any meet up and probably chatter inanely for the first 5mins before settling down and enjoying myself. It's normal! It means you care...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its good to know i'm not alone, "nerves r us", it must be the appetiser ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Awesome... I'll start packing earplugs 😛 I don't get butterflies too often nowadays, sure a little excitement... But after all I'm going to meet someone who is aching to meet me 😎 I find the sexual tension almost unbearable though... Leaves me breaking doorknobs off, crushing wine glasses, that sort of thing... Like the early Steve Martin movie... I think it was "the man with two brains"... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm mainly cool meeting prior it's the one after that, that I get a little nervous about.If I really like the person I think it is more fuzzy wuzzies of getting to see that person again.I have a girlfriend who as soon as she gets the hint of bad nervous, expectations or pressure put on here - she's cancelled!Think she has dogged a bullet a few times now.FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
it's the anticipation that sex make come of itinstead, imagine your rocking up for a game of yahtzee ....see, problem fixedMr S
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am always nervous before the dreaded 'coffee date'. Always worried that they won't turn up, won't be recognisable from their photo, bring their husband (yes that happened once) or just take one look at me and do a runner. The funny thing is once they turn up I become my normal super-confident self, it is just that LONG wait until they finally turn up. Mooka
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RHP User
11 years ago
Most definetly I do. I also get nervous about how I'll leave if they don't look like their pic or if we don't have a spark etc.. I hate confrontation, haha- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think its a normal reaction.. but mostly' for me, its the anticipation of what might be.. Being a fairly confident person I dont get too concerned. I always go with the attitude ' I might or might not like who Im about to meet. Until that happens, sit back and enjoy it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I find the lead up to the first meet a mix of nerves and excitement. As for the first play date, I love the anticipation of discovering and enjoying a new friend.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Always nerves for us.
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
It's a pretty normal feeling - most of us are in the same club. You are full of anticipation about the other because of the unknown. Just like being worried about bumping into a spider or cockroach, coz you're unsure of how they will react. It's just the normal 'fight or flight' response in us all, because of the occasion that it is. Tall
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RHP User
11 years ago
Same here always nervous lol
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chevtrek
11 years ago
Part of it could be the fact your married.Plus all the above.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That moment when you take the OP seriously, then you read chevs comment. lolQuoting 'chevtrek' Part of it could be the fact your married.Plus all the above. Chev,You are by far the funniest dude on this forum. Hands down.@girlhavingfunNot judging you, do whatever makes you happy. But Chev is right about this one - and it should be a pretty obvious conclusion to make when speaking about yourself.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is exciting and nerve wracking at same time. I like the unknown possibkilitoescof it! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's all above board with girlhavingfun, not all married people are here without their partners knowledge and enthusiasm.I do get nervous, but excited too and the lead up to a first meet is always an especially horny time for my husband and myself
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RHP User
11 years ago
Even when I meet couples with hubby so it is nothing to to with the fact I am married- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
What drives me mad is the people who make arrangements to meet up, talk the talk all week and then cancel at the last minute! Arghhhhhhh - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I LOVE that butterfly- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thankyou, they are my fairy wings!
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Quoting 'ScratchyandItchy' it's the anticipation that sex make come of itinstead, imagine your rocking up for a game of yahtzee ....see, problem fixedMr S I love it! I think that could become our new mantra. Walking in, butterflies on speed in the belly, thinking "It's ok, it's just a game of Yahtzee. It's just Yahtzee." Just be sure you don't yell that at the climax of the night!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'him_and_me' Quoting 'ScratchyandItchy' it's the anticipation that sex make come of itinstead, imagine your rocking up for a game of yahtzee ....see, problem fixedMr S I love it! I think that could become our new mantra. Walking in, butterflies on speed in the belly, thinking "It's ok, it's just a game of Yahtzee. It's just Yahtzee." Just be sure you don't yell that at the climax of the night!! ....of course, the word for that would be BINGO!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just crack a few jokes get rejected and leave !Its how i roll....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Part of the anticipation of a hook up is that tingling in your nether regions - hoping things will go well and knowing that if they do there will be two (or three or more) happier people on this planet!! I always like 1st dates for just that exact horny nervousness!! S
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RHP User
11 years ago
very funny dude
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think it's hot as fuck meeting a girl that u have never met before and fuck and play with them without my misses knowing is the best I love it If any girls want too meet up i will ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
First meet flakes and misrepresentations have pretty much killed those initial nerves for me. But when I meet someone special and there is a connection then the nerves appear because the world becomes full of endless possibilities that may or may not come to pass. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'iwouldlove2eatu' I think it's hot as fuck meeting a girl that u have never met before and fuck and play with them without my misses knowing is the best I love it If any girls want too meet up i will ;) - Posted from rhpmobile Seems you are on a real intense recruitment drive there. Good luck, I think you're going to need it after your thread post over yonder. My pet hate is wankers having a couples profile to blatantly deceive. No wonder men have such a bad rap in here My money would be on you going Pffftt...... very soon.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'Any_Whichway' My money would be on you going Pffftt...... very soon. My money is on his Pfffffft-ing.... being on his own in front of his computer with pants at his ankles
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think it's just a normal feeling in a social situation. I get nervous weather it's meeting for coffee, champagne or sex. But particularly so, when you're meeting a person for the first time. Will she like me, is she anything like her pics.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think most people are a tad nervous but just being yourself and not thinking ahead tends to work for me. When meeting it is just that until the connection and that oh yeah arises (damn that pun). The initial meet should expel the nerves with a bit of luck.
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