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Meeting men vs meeting women...

September 21 2014

Just a little light-hearted question for the bi ladies... Do you prepare or dress differently when you're meeting a woman than when you're meeting a man? Let's face it, guys are happy if you show some leg and some cleavage for the most part (yes I know that's a massive generalisation but no less true for it). Women on the other hand tend to notice lots more, like your shoes or your earrings or your eye make-up (well I do anyway). So, as I'm getting ready this morning for a brunch date with a lovely girl and afternoon drinks with an equally lovely man, I wondered... Do you do things differently depending on which sex you're meeting...?

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  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    But I'm not bi so probably doesn't count. I dress for me and for comfort. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Keepitsimple72'Do you prepare or dress differently when you're meeting a woman than when you're meeting a man? I dress to feel sexy for me, not anyone else.

  • NawtyNNice777

    NawtyNNice777

    10 years ago

    I dress to feel good about myself

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Blue track suit for the bits and pink for the girks - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    10 years ago

    I do tend to dress differently dependent on male, female, combo and where we are going... Probably a bit more subtly than cleavage/leg. My dress probably shows more difference in the shoes, hair,make up and accessories... It's strange but mostly these styling bits and accessories etc seem to be wasted on guys so I don't usually bother so much!💅 Xxviolet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'NawtyNNice777' I dress to feel good about myself You looked gorgeous

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Violetincredible' I do tend to dress differently dependent on male, female, combo and where we are going... Probably a bit more subtly than cleavage/leg. My dress probably shows more difference in the shoes, hair,make up and accessories... It's strange but mostly these styling bits and accessories etc seem to be wasted on guys so I don't usually bother so much!💅 Xxviolet That's what I meant. Of course I dress so that I feel good and comfortable, etc.. I'd assumed that was a given, but there are things that girls notice that guys don't. Interestingly, I was thinking the same thing when I was cleaning the house today. I have a female friend coming over this week and I was much more particular with things than usual... Women see things that guys either don't see or don't care about...

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Im neither bi nor female, but i actually do take notice of all the "accessories" & effort ladies may make/wear to a date. I love a lady (or three ooops) who wears matching necklace with earings, matching purse with dress shoes etc. hair styled. And make up, over done? Under done? None at all? Perfume - oh how i love a sexy perfume..and i know this may be old fashioned but dearie me mascara really does it for me.... Hope i didnt interrupt anything here its a very interesting topic by a v hot lady.... SDxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When you turn up to a hot chicks house.....and she is actually wearing clothes :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I take alot of notice in what people wear, always smell pretty , personal hygiene a must,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'SensualDP' Im neither bi nor female, but i actually do take notice of all the "accessories" & effort ladies may make/wear to a date. I love a lady (or three ooops) who wears matching necklace with earings, matching purse with dress shoes etc. hair styled. And make up, over done? Under done? None at all? Perfume - oh how i love a sexy perfume..and i know this may be old fashioned but dearie me mascara really does it for me.... Hope i didnt interrupt anything here its a very interesting topic by a v hot lady.... SDxxxx It's nice to know that some guys notice this stuff. Mascara though... really? That's a bonus, do you ever see a woman not wearing it these days?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Stufu1969' When you turn up to a hot chicks house.....and she is actually wearing clothes :-) The lingerie is good though right...?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sorry, I was distracted by your hair, earrings, shoes and stockings so wasn't listening properly. I do notice the accessories, but admit I can be stunned in the 'headlights' so to speak. Lovely cleavage with something hypnotic and shiny such as a necklace stupefies me. I do prefer less make up and less 'busyness' or fuss generally, so sometimes what I notice is too much accessorising. Coco Chanel: "Before you leave the house, take a look in the mirror and take one thing off" Wonder if that holds true when wearing a swimsuit? Anyway sorry, to bust in on your lady talk..

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    10 years ago

    I actually notice what a woman wears from head to toe. Rings, earrings and bangles. Tattoo and piercings. Sexy is sexy and you don't have to "sell" for that. I'm probably a bit different than most guys as I like class and style. 💐

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    I dress to impress myself, if I can look in the mirror and say "Damn" then I'm happy with that...... I like to feel sexy, it's a package, from the underwear I'm wearing or not wearing, to the cloths I choose, the stockings, shoes, my attitude and of course my smile...... My style is not going to impress everyone all the time, so as long as I feel sexy, I'm comfortable and I'm happy, then I'm ok with that.......💋

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Tell ya what. Come over and I'll put on a suit.....I'll evaluate your reaction. Then I'll put on the kilt... and see the difference.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Tell ya what. Come over and I'll put on a suit.....I'll evaluate your reaction. Then I'll put on the kilt... and see the difference. I am a sucker for a man in a kilt, something about the easy access to naked buttocks....

  • Circe

    Circe

    10 years ago

    I take a bit more care with hair and underwear when meeting a woman. Men like sexy lingerie but women really appreciate and enjoy it. Women notice if your hair is not done well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Exactly! That's it! That's exactly how I feel too.. I dress to impress me first, then I am happy with myself irrespective of whatever anyone else thinks :-) One comment though, if I dress for women it's more of a personal thing to be appreciated, almost like good taste, men? When and if they turn up.. They don't seem to mind as long as they like what they see..