Meeting online to meeting offline

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  Not "all" women go out on the "Prowl". Yes, some do and they are embarrassing to be around. The problem (as a single woman) going to "meet up groups" is "some" guys think women are there for one thing and are so desperate and behave inappropriatly that good women don't attend. I myself go when I want and prefer meeting people that are a fit with me whom I get on well with socially. If "some" guys are that desperate maybe they should pay a prostitute rather than be encouraged to head hunt women on the prowl. 😎 Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  5 years ago

  Some prefer/choose to meet online, as that suits them and their lifestyles (IE shift worjers/children) better than loud noisy clubs etc etc. Introverts are suited to quieter environments. There's plenty on here who are just that. I myself included. Ms Foxy

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  funtimescouple1

  5 years ago

  We have had a similar experience with social meetup groups. Lots of good looking, mostly classy single ladies out having a good time. We would recommend that single males might have more luck in that social environment, rather than online. We have noticed that most of the few single males that go to these meetups are a bit stand offish and just need to show more confidence.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Thanks I don't understand why men think the woman are desperate because they are in a meetup group, I think it's a good way to meet people with same interests . By the way I have read alot of your replys on forum which I agree.

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  countrytouch82

  5 years ago

  What kind of Meetup group? If you're talking about social groups on the actual meetup website, or speed dating or singles groups, I don't think I've ever been "hit up" as such at any. But I'm more than happy to hear suggestions on these other Meetup groups or locations ;)

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  countrytouch82

  5 years ago

  I must say that in my general experience of going out to nightclubs and such places, which have normally been done alone and not knowing anyone, it's really hard to not appear like a lost puppy when you don't have anyone to converse with for a while. It's different in the company of friends or with a partner per se as you describe. I think some people might see these guys as being loners even though they're trying to actually meet people, and perhaps less likely to be approached than people that are obviously out and about with a group, and therefore may appear as much more sociable or approachable people. I don't know but that is also just my experience being single too. Of course meet and greet events on here I know a fair few people now, so going there is not so much lonely anymore.

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  sweetnsensual

  5 years ago

  The single girls we have met haven’t Necessarily been on the prowl but more looking for specific experiences that they can get from RHP. We have some girlfriends on here’ who find it easier to meet someone online then out at a bar!

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Interesting topic! I think if you’re a respectable guy, meeting in person would surely improve you chances. Chemistry is so important for what most of us want. Apps take away that chemistry so, for me personally, dating online is like dating blind. Superfoxxxy, you made an interesting point about guys paying for sex. I wish more of the “pests” on dating sites/apps would realise that paying for sex is a better match for them than online dating.

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  I think every opportunity to meet potentially like minded people is just another tool in the arsenal of options.... Mr dragon.

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  Sawadee

  5 years ago

  ..long enough to realise meeting someone face to face is the only true way to connect. Too many individuals pushing their own barrow with too many varients on line.. Meaning ' the person your trying to connect with online ' although seem OK ' you never get to meet because of all the uncertainties. But if you choose to meet that person face to face in a safe environment, its becomes so much more realistic. So for me, its face to face over a coffee. We know within 10 minutes if its worth going further , and if its not ' l made a new friend and the coffee is usually nice anyway...

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