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Melbourne party time - Spring meet & greet
September 23 2017
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi, I'm interested in going and meeting and mingling with like minded people......Although, I'm slightly shy at going it alone. It's always a bit awkward when you show up solo at a party ๐ฌnot knowing anyone. I've been reading a few of the comments on previous forums and it seems that there's a great online rhp community between you all. My question is should I just do it and deal with my singlehood amongst couples and groups of friends? Ps I'm sure you peeps are all fun, friendly and welcoming โบ๏ธ - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Going it alone is fine! You will only be alone for a couple of minutes, because we are a friendly bunch...very welcoming of those who may need a hand to meet some people and feel comfortable and included. Best thing to do is grab one of the optional name tags and slap it on, along with a huge smile ๐ I went to my first big m&g alone....and made the trip to Qld for it....and only knew one person going to the event. Amazing event, amazing friendships made, many of which are still in place all these years later. Sometimes sliding out of your comfort zone reaps wonderful and unexpected rewards.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I concur with the above reply :) I went to my first meet and greet 3 or so years ago now, when after a few months of joining I had not met anyone from this site. Of course, I knew of people through the forums and online communication, and so the meet was an opportunity to put real faces to usernames and online conversation. And like myself back then, there is likely to be others that are essentially attending solo that you can also connect with, as well as people attending with pre-existing friendship networks. I think many men are used to travelling and going places on their own, but even in vanilla life and events, women can be much more hesitant. Of course not everyone is there interested in everyone else, but many will be happy to chat and make you feel welcome and accepted, as I was, even as a solo/single male :P
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RHP User
7 years ago
To what Jonesy said :) Come find us 1sweetpunk (I'll be the quiet one hiding behind Jonesy and Annie ๐), you'll be more than fine ๐๐ผ๐๐ผ *don't believe what they tell you about me*
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RHP User
7 years ago
Jonesy and country touch. Hope you all have an awesome time ๐
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Don't listen to Betty.... And never ever drink champagne with her.....
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RHP User
7 years ago
Who always drinks champagne with me, and even listens to me sometimes ๐๐
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
not long to go ,going to be a great weekend , - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
please make sure you try and go ,it's a great bunch of people ,who are most welcoming and can make you feel like you found your lost tribe in the first few minutes ,we have all been that single person or couple once ,best time ever ,no pressure of dressing down or sex at all, just chatting, laughing ,catching up with people you haven't seen for a while ,hopefully swapping some phone numbers for the future and just letting your hair down in a completely safe. environment with like minded people who love life and all thing sexy mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's cool to get such encouraging and cheeky responses ๐ I'll def try and make it as it's a fairly easy location for me to attend. I'm looking forward to a fun and flirty social gathering and meeting new cool peeps ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
7 years ago
I'll be going solo as I always do. So see you there. You can't miss Annie. She's this tiny creature sitting in the corner. Dont blink or you'll miss her ๐
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
Experience was the same as MsJonesy..only opposite directions! I flew from QLD to Melbourne by myself for the last m & g there, only having met one person that I knew would be there. My RHP friends list was empty before that...now it's made up of all the wonderful people I've met. Best decision to leave my comfort zone ever!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Head to the Events section of the site, scroll through the Victorian listings until you find the listing for Spring meet & greet on Saturday 7th October, listed by our host Country Touch. Once registered he will be in touch with the venue details ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
Assuming anyone makes contact with me, registers, comments here, or otherwise gets my attention that you are interested in the event, I will try to make contact with you to confirm. I can probably do that up until the day before. However I will need to have return communication with you before I send out the address. So don't leave it to the last minute - literally :) Also, if your profile is hidden, it is not possible for me to make contact with you.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm pretty shy, so please don't be offended if I seem reserved - I'm most likely freaking out on the inside.
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Missb4u
7 years ago
totally bummed I cant make this one. Unless my payout comes through in time I wont be financially able to make this work.Fingers crossed it come through in time
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
we have all been there done that ,hardest steps are the ones through the door for the first time ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Everything is crossed ๐ค
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
If you are new to the scene and unsure if the meet and greet is for you and seemingly daunting to attend alone, try and make the effort and you may well find what many of us have. Meeting and making friends with like minded people within this rhp world who we can share our deepest thoughts and feelings without judgement. Many cannot share the experiences with our "normal" friends for fear of being judged and ostracized. We can set up our safety checks with rhp friends when we have our play meets to make sure we are ok. We can debrief with them after our meets. As they say, it's not a root until you tell someone..... We have our circle of rhp friends that we can socialise with. And the weather is rarely discussed. What I'm trying to say is, the meet and greet can be so much more than networking for your next sexy meet, it's an opportunity to feel comfortable with back up and support for the rhp lifestyle that you are entering or thinking about entering. From the first time l pushed myself through the door just over 2 years ago, l have made lifelong friends right around the country from WA to Qld. Easily life changing and easily worth the nervous moments leading up to it. So give it a go. For the really nervous, we have met singles in another venue and arrived together so you are not one out. Just message or flirt and we can sort something. See you there Annie
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
Are 2 single women flying down from QLD on the Friday. We'll be there by lunch time. So if any nervous single women want to meet in the afternoon for coffee so you'll know a few familiar faces on the Sat night let us know. Apart from S&S Fri night we have no set plans and we're always happy to make new friends!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
written and said Annie,couldn't add anything or agree more - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wow I'm actually in a similar boat as some of you in here. I'm also attending on my own. Without really knowing anyone in person. But reading the comments has definitely eased some nerves ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Eiliethiya and l are also heading to the Spirit Station Pier for a few cocktails before the Meet and Greet if you want to come Meet and Greet us before the Meet and Greet ๐ Or anyone else for that matter. Why there? Not sure just random and Groupon had a great deal on for cocktails ๐ so we're making the most of the weekend while we're there. Can't wait!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
i thought you picked there for the kids sized chairs and low tables for ellie ,my bad๐ณlmao - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Ssshhh don't let her know that ๐
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Ssshhh don't let her know that ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
The way I have invited people, is that I have sent a enquiry or pre-invite, and asked for a suitable reply. Without breaking down into categories, I have heard back from 71 persons at time of writing, that have replied to me in the positive after sending the final invite/address. In addition, after correspondence, I have sent the address to another 32 persons, yet to reconfirm. So a possible 103 persons (plus myself) that have replied to my messages with interest and then recieved an invite. I assume a decent turn out rate because of the nature of the messaging. Plus I will message and/or hear back from more over the next week. :)
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
why not go into catergories,would be nice to know , unless it's more than 50 percent single guys ,then maybe not so much ,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Organisers never reveal the categories of attendees because who you want to see/meet on the night might be the exact opposite of the next couple. Some therefore would make a decision as to whether to attend on a random number, rather than just coming along and having a fab time. And we all know that the actual attendance on the night differs from the registrations, always does and always will.
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
we will be there reguardless , just 1week to go whoop whoop - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
The formal RSVPs are as expected and just like have turned out to previous events. The biggest amount is definitely couples, and some singles bringing a friend, and some solo women and men (eg yours truly!).
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not really much of a cat to let out the bag MsJonesy :P
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
The 1 sacrificial Trans......
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' The 1 sacrificial Trans...... No one will be "sacrificed" unless it's some weird BDSM terminology :P Plus I wouldn't attempt it, you are bigger than me... well in height, that I know lol!
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Hottie1
7 years ago
I'll be thinking of you all as we set up our new house in Brissie :) Gotta love it when you're allowed to buy new furniture and stuff for the new house ... I'm so excited :) Have a great night all, play nice (or not, your choice) and I hope many new friendships are formed. Lots of love, Mary xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
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RHP User
7 years ago
Make those totals as I mentioned above, now 84/34, possible 118.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi Constancec I think I will be going it will be my first time maybe we could get there together I think I am driving I'm In Bayswater that way we could have each other's look out - Posted from rhpmobile
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
There's no need for kiddie chairs! I'll have you know I can handle bar stools just fine! They may provide a climbing challenge initially...but that's all part of my workout regime!
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dirtydomtradie
7 years ago
Im also going solo and also nervois but excited also finally meet some of these great people - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm not afraid of going alone but i will be going after i shut my gastro pub. Where is it being held and is there a dress code/cover charge? Happy to escort any solo ladies to the event if timings match. This could get interestingโบ - Posted from rhpmobile
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brownsugar130111
7 years ago
Hi...new to this! Haven't been to one...and Interested in attending. Just wanted to know what's it all about...and what goes on at the meet and greet... Sorry kinda Newberry๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Please note that as we are at approximate venue capacity, we may not be able to make room for a bunch of last minute registrations, also to ensure a fair balance of guests. Priority will be made if needed to those with existing enquiries and messaging.
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
It is a social gathering - a party if you like - with a bunch of people who are open, friendly and relaxed about this lifestyle. There is no sex/play at the party - it is a chance to meet others in a public space and make some new friends. Further details can be found in the Events section of the site, and you can register to attend there. Once you have, Country Touch will message you with some further details. We were all nervous attending our first meet & greet, but honestly folks, there is always a friendly & welcoming bunch of people at these events. Just turn up, say hi, be willing to chat and laugh, and before you know it you have a lot of new friends ๐
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
To hanging out with a few of you mad fuckers on Saturday night. Itโs been a while since stirry made an appearance at one of these events, so hopefully none of you fuckers will be too shy to come say hello....and have a casual bourbon with me while I hang some shit on random stuff... - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Country Touch may be in contact....I just saw his latest post. Sorry about that ๐ฃ
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
I'm looking forward to hanging shit with you (or is that hanging shit on you? ๐๐)...its been ages since you have been able to make it to a m&g
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Either/or Iโll be happy with.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
I'll bring the crucifix, you buy the bourbon. With coke for me...... Thanks
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RHP User
7 years ago
That I was coming along ๐
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Are we forgetting the restraints?? Or the ice?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Hottie1' I'll be thinking of you all as we set up our new house in Brissie :) Gotta love it when you're allowed to buy new furniture and stuff for the new house ... I'm so excited :) Have a great night all, play nice (or not, your choice) and I hope many new friendships are formed. Lots of love, Mary xx You will be missed x
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Mask_007
7 years ago
These will be my first time as like a few of others. How does it goes when you are a extremely shy male at start and take a bit to loose in up? I do few like a teenager going to my graduation night. But in saying that looks like will be a great fun. Really looking forward to. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Can you leave your glass behind this time ๐๐๐ MsJonsey l think some people find it hard to grasp the context of a Meet and Greet ๐
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
I know right ๐ Fancy having a no sex gathering of RHP folk where they can meet a lot of people with the same concept of sex as them...and maybe even get to arrange some sexy meets after the event.....such a novel idea lol.
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Letsgetcrazy09
7 years ago
I will return again one day Gadget............ Might even have to dust off some of the other spring chickens and blow the cobwebs away....... What is that alcohol anyway......tastes like aftershave to me..... Hehehe
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FredAndGinger2
7 years ago
? - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Think there are 50 couples registered so I'm sure there will be a few dozen. I see you are registered so the big question are you coming?
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'Freaky_Fun' Can you leave your glass behind this time ๐๐๐ I can l think. But then l didn't put it in my bag anyway? Things are a bit foggy in that regard. I vaguely remember something about a glass. Your fault I'd say...... Or Some of those other Brissy crew who took advantage of a lone traveller........
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'the_antichrist' Are we forgetting the restraints?? Or the ice?? Let's not water down a perfectly drink..... Did you mention restraints?? Don't tease me.....
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Quoting 'Rubenesque_Red' That I was coming along ๐Wishes you were too....
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
being sick this week is putting a downer on my weekend! One more sleep!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Can't find Events section on rhpmobile. Any help please? - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
ohhh gawd i need one more sleep ,and fuck you ,you germy bastard in the crowd who tried to wreck our two days of fun ,last laughs on you ,four days in bed and i'ma good to go ,mr and mrs b will finally be equal in go go berries ,i will running at 75 percent ,lol, - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
I'm hearing you! Thanks very little to whoever gave me a lurgy. ๐ In other news...at the airport to collect an interstate party animal who is joining us on the night. A big thank you to our interstate guests - we love your support! ๐
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RHP User
7 years ago
Two more sleeps for me, I do work Fridays and normally would be on Saturday :)
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Doing the airport run tomorrow for the Brissy 2. They be busy winding the clock forward to the fast lane
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Allow 29,000hrs to get there....could they do anymore roadworks on Freeways - NOPE! ๐ฃ
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Over the road works in Melbourne. By the time they finish the city link, it be due for another widening. Take airport drive off the ring road. Melbourne's best kept secret for the airport run... But don't tell anyone.....
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
At the airport checking in...but we are finally on the plane!!! Never a dull moment when I'm with freaky_fun - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
7 years ago
Don't forget my kisses and hugs to a special couple ๐and cuddles for Annie ๐ค xx
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
next time take the batteries out ,lmao - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Who the fuck turned the heater off. Bit of a wake up call getting off the plane in thongs and singlets. Didn't someone think of the Queenslanders ๐ฌโโ๏ธโ๏ธ๐จ Thanks for the pick up Annie ๐๐ป๐ No worries Indi, I'll hug random people just for you ๐๐
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
To our hotel. Heater on straight away!! B_o_b..not a battery issue...that could have been funny though! Freaky had a "weapon" in her bag. And the security guy did the swab test on me and my bag because he said I looked bored?!? (And here I thought I was just practicing my resting bitch face!) ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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twotootouch
7 years ago
In the cab from the airport....quick change at the hotel and off to the pre drinks...hoping we make it :) see you all there
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72scorpio
7 years ago
Hi ive never been to a meet and greet and im on my own. Dont know what to expect and if i can attend alone. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
10am heading to breakfast after no sleep , too much fun last night ,or too much ch caffeine or both ,lol,please lord tell us ,full tummys will get us some sleep before tonight ,or it's going to be the real halloween look for real ๐ณ mr and mrs b,xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
It's party night! Melbourne has put in a beautiful Spring day๐ for us, should put everyone in an excellent frame of mind to have a great night ๐ฅ ๐ป ๐
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Not those with S&S hangovers......
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
๐ณ๐๐๐๐๐๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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twotootouch
7 years ago
....strong coffee...food....and maybe a sleep...and do it all again tonight....and did we say, AWSOME night...
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
You beat us up! We just had breakfast..or brunch, ok it was 1pm "Melbourne" time..so more like lunch ;-) MsJonesy...spring weather???? This is marginally warmer than yesterday, but I can't see any sun from our hotel balcony! lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hello everyone, I wasn't planning on coming tonight however my plans I had for this eveving have changed. I have registered on the events page but alias I'm sure it's to late as numbers would be full. Unless a beautiful lady would like a handsome gentleman to acompany her this evening? Hope you all have a fabulous night and I will definitely make the next M & G. Take care and have fun, Dan xo ๐
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
we hadn't been to sleep yet ,,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
I made it.... Now I just need to figure how this iron thing works *sizzle* OUCH!!! Fuck that bit is HOT!!!! This may take a while - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
You ironing your blue singlet?
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
Anti without the hi vis...how will we recognise him? !? - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
To iron my gorgeous purple pvc g banger thatโs grape bubble gum scented so my farts smell inviting lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
7 years ago
Thanks for great night. Thanks to YouandMeEqualsFun for running us moles around Airport run done, no flights missed on my watch
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PurePeony
7 years ago
...CountryTouch, for the effort you've put into organising the M&G! ๐
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PurePeony
7 years ago
... you are really a wonderful person! ๐ Elliethiya, was really happy to meet you last night! I'll keep an eye out for future Brisbane M&G's. ๐
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twotootouch
7 years ago
Another fun night meeting new peeps and catching up with some lovely lovely friends...not such a bad hangover today compared to yesterday but off to find a decent coffee and breaky/ lunch. Heading home tomorrow but 'we'll be back' again soon :) Mrstwo xx
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
great evening and great venue ,thanks to everyone else who kept the partie rolling till the wee hours AGAIN omg so looking forward to our bed and sleep tonight loves the brissy girls ,but we never got to say bye bye ,so hugs to you both , great seeing you or in freakies case HEARING HER ,lol. thanks again ct what a relaxed and fun night for all your guest ,job well done ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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NewVicCpl
7 years ago
Was a great night last night, we had fun meeting and chatting to some new friends. Thanks for putting the effort into organising this CountryTouch - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks for putting on this event. Was great chatting to the few people I did get to meet ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
7 years ago
Catching up with old friends, and making some new ones! Parked on the couch for the rest of the day, full recovery mode required....although not as bed as some ๐ Thanks for organising CT, great job ๐
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Was indeed a great night filled with fun and laughs.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Wow! What a great night! Thanks so much CT for organising this off your own bat. From the great venue, great people, terrific cake and not to mention the outstanding raffle, where we won 3rd prize! The gifts inside the basket were sensational. You should be very proud of all your efforts. To R and S, you disappeared before we could say goodbye! Possibly next time! L and C
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
Thank you CT for organising a fantastic night! You Melbourne people go ok ๐๐ Too many people to thank for driving us around, keeping us entertained and just making our weekend what it was. Love ya guts. Bahahaha BOB are you saying I'm loud ๐ค๐๐๐ Bigs hugs to you both, would have loved to have seen you before we left. Fucked if l know what happened haha Loved meeting so many gorgeous new people and thank you for making me feel so welcome. l feel like l found my village and if border security let me back into Victoria again I'll be there with bells on (and probably not much else ๐๐๐) Now I'm back home in Qld where the tempature reaches over 15 degrees l realise I'm too old to be partying all weekend ๐ oh well you only live once. โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ
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Eiliethiya
7 years ago
weekend in a long time! Freaky_fun...my wild sidekick and travel buddy. Airport shenanigans aside, and the cocktails that weren't...best travel companion ever. Luv ya! xx CT - you did a fantastic job, venue was great and you out did yourself with the cake and prizes! Annie - Can't thank you enough for pickups and drop offs, and just your amazingly wonderful company! xx B_o_b...you guys are amazing...so full of energy and just beautiful people, wonderful to be around! Thank you for continually "checking up on me" while I just stared at everything, mouth open in awe ;-) Betty - Luv ya guts, so so glad we got our quiet chat time in a sea of craziness! Always here for you xx PetetheElite...your lap was very comfortable for our quick hello! So sorry I didn't come back around to chat again, and meet the other guy...WildMuffinHead?!? lol And to everyone else I met for the first time (Shells, Purepeony, Cat & the Hatter) or reconnected with...you are all just so gorgeous and friendly! Was an awesome night! Back in WARM QLD now and back to reality unfortunately! I'm thinking early to bed for recovery purposes!
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