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Men BEHAVING Badly - Licence REVOKED!!
April 17 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
AGREE!!... have had a few of the 2-3 word variety.. didnt matter that I have just had surgery, I got a 'wank me off" message.. pft.. NO
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RHP User
12 years ago
My licence gave me nothing but trouble anyway.
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RHP User
12 years ago
people with respect is not rocket science.Perhaps this behaviour is a symptom of how much of a disposable world we live in.If we no longer value our possessions,replace them when fashion changes or we get bored with them ,then perhaps we have come to view people in the same way .However just because we may want NSA sex,this does not mean respect is one of those strings.I know that this site is famous mainly as a sex on tap convenience cyber store,but who wants to be a volunteer hooker . As Foxy so rightly says,women are people too.Instant sex can indeed be delicious,but if a woman feels like she is being treated like a pot of out of date instant noodles,you certainly wont be invited to stay for desert let alone a return visit. Treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen is a fallacy,not a phallacy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I get messages from males like this I think to myself. This males have not moved out of the mental stage that women today can have sex freely with whom they like and still are very intelligent, smart, sophisticated women. I belief the males on here who treat women in this way will find out they run out of luck, they are starved of sex for sure on RHP. WHo wants to invite a male like that.this types of males are stupid, no wonder women reject them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
who ruin lovely ladies like you for the rest of us half decent guys. This is why nice guys finish last, the tools who treat women like "sperm spittoons" and disposable objects get there first because they don't care who they mess up or step on as they barge their way though their self centred life.
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RHP User
12 years ago
So what dickbags are you associating with that you allow to treat you like this?this sort of behaviour, right off the bat, is an obvious dealbreaker and if you continue, then its on you im afraid.if behaviour like this happens after initial contact/shagging/etc - then ask yourself how you helped inform the behaviour.no doubt - guys that behave like this are total, unremittant douchebags, but what part are you playing in enabling this sort of - honestly - ridiculous behaviour, through your choice of partners, and your acceptance and enabling of shitty treatment.I suggest, that instead of making a little list and demanding that ALL men adhere to your law - make better decisions in the first place with who you do and do not fuck.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm going to start a thread about the good things the guys here have done for us.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeah, I've got one also - my next one is gonna be on the whole "I <3 bad boys *giggle*.... WHY DO MEN TREAT ME SO BAD!?" dynamic.
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RHP User
12 years ago
we are damned with we do, and damned if we dont
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RHP User
12 years ago
Done. I'm sure your name will come up on my thread.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
"If you don't treat women with respect and empathy then you aren't going to get your end wet, are you??"Ive lost count of the number of topics and comments made by guys, wondering what theyre doing wrong.When the SIMPLE exercise of Emotional Mirroring, would clearly tell them what theyre doing wrong.So guys,.... before you say or do anything.... visualise her saying or doing it, and your response... and how you feel about it.Maybe.... there'd be less dumbarse behaviour and more happy shaggers out there...LOLDG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Whinge, whinge fucking whinge. Harden up princess. You mean to say " I spoke (past tense) to a few women on RHP and we have found some men that have been behaving (present tense again) very poorly... not quite as poorly as your sentence structure but still... This is grotesque man-bashing on a mob-mentality scale and slander might I add. To counter - men are people too. They also have feelings. Society has disallowed them to show them. Have some respect. If I had $250 for every time a woman has turned up late, and still expected a shag.... I'd be able to retire by now - and I could tell you the stories but you probably aren't interested in the other side of the coin are you? By the way dear, spread has an A in it. If you want empathy then perhaps you should start giving it, because men are peple too and masculinity has never been a fixed ideologue unlike femininity. So cheer up, as long as you have a hole, you won't be made redundant like a man will. If you don't treat men with the same empathy and respect you demand of them... then you're not going to get any emotional sort of jolly at all are you? Men are not toys. Play nicely or don't play at all. MEN ARE PEOPLE TOO DAMN IT!!
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inspirit
12 years ago
Does this mean you have closed up shop for a bit....I can't really comment to your post as I have found myself doing the same things to ummmmm "them" ALTHOUGH I am never late
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RHP User
12 years ago
DG is right. For me i believe that if you don't treat someone with respect and kindness then you don't deserve to be treated with respect and kindness. As far as this forum post, I f@&king hate hearing what foxy has written because it is actions like that, that make it difficult for the honest men in the crowd to meet people. Sorry, but this is one of my pet hates.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are dead right...I have jumped on here to write up "Honourable Man Licience " Forum as NOT all men do behave badly...There are some Amazing men out there I have met them first hand..Some deserve an Honourable life long memberships of their Man Licience...From my experiences over time (and my career is based on Human behaviours) I believe some behaviours are totally unacceptable due to personal boundaries being pushed by some men and they don't know how or have knowledge on how to treat a woman with respect nor with empathy..After all we women are Humans and deserve that too.... Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
No excuse for bad behaviour.
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RHP User
12 years ago
"it may take two to tango" but it takes ONE strong woman to say "That behaviour is not ok to do with me ya dickbag"... Hahaha I can see it now...all the bitter men who have got rejected cause of their poor behaviour from a strong woman-get get all defensive...well sorry guys can spot you a mile away...For those who have meet me know exactly where coming from here...I am not a bitter woman who just won't be a sperm spittoon, just someone who will not tolerate unacceptable poor behaviour.... FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with your comments. DG you make it sound like a strategy that you have for getting women into bed instead of a genuine respect for the other person. I am sure you don't mean that but I get that impression from your comments a lot. Probably my misunderstanding.
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RHP User
12 years ago
all i heard was blah blah blah
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' Whinge, whinge fucking whinge. Harden up princess. You mean to say " I spoke (past tense) to a few women on RHP and we have found some men that have been behaving (present tense again) very poorly... not quite as poorly as your sentence structure but still... This is grotesque man-bashing on a mob-mentality scale and slander might I add. To counter - men are people too. They also have feelings. Society has disallowed them to show them. Have some respect. If I had $250 for every time a woman has turned up late, and still expected a shag.... I'd be able to retire by now - and I could tell you the stories but you probably aren't interested in the other side of the coin are you? By the way dear, spread has an A in it. If you want empathy then perhaps you should start giving it, because men are peple too and masculinity has never been a fixed ideologue unlike femininity. So cheer up, as long as you have a hole, you won't be made redundant like a man will. If you don't treat men with the same empathy and respect you demand of them... then you're not going to get any emotional sort of jolly at all are you? Men are not toys. Play nicely or don't play at all. MEN ARE PEOPLE TOO DAMN IT!! YEP I totally agree with you..MEN ARE PEOPLE TOO DAMN IT!!If you had a daughter and she came to you saying "Dad I got a text at 2am and it said "you want a F*ck?" and she also said "Dad, my date was 2hrs late or maybe she said "Dad, Why to some men treat women as sperm spittoons??" What would you say ?? Somehow I don't think you are going to say " For F*cks Sake...Whinge, whinge, fucking whinge, Harden up Princess"You see little girls look up to their dads..they should be the ones who should be role-modeling to their daughters how a man should behave, as a human being towards PEOPLE...SOME men just have not been taught that due to their own family values, cultural backgrounds, and not good-role modeling growing up ...There is a few more factors to take into consideration as well- so for a man to say "Harden up Princess" is not good role-modeling nor is that showing empathy or respect to myself or any other woman in this tread.There is NO EXCUSE FOR POOR BEHAVIOR!FOXYOh by the way - I love it when my dad calls me his Princess and he doesn't have a go at me either, for my spelling mistakes, if anything he sees me a human being that is able to stand up for herself to unacceptable behavior.
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RHP User
12 years ago
whinge ,whinge ,moan moan....too tooo funny
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'innerwest123'So what dickbags are you associating with that you allow to treat you like this? this sort of behaviour, right off the bat, is an obvious dealbreaker and if you continue, then its on you im afraid. You teach people how to treat you. If the first message shows any sign of disrespect/dishonesty/rudeness/etc and you (plural) allow a second and third email, thinking "I should give him a chance", you can't be upset if the guy doesn't show/doesn't call/turns out to be a jerk/etc.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Am I starting to sound like DG?
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RHP User
12 years ago
you are DG,Ms.D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, men are people too and so is Foxy, so if you want empathy, perhaps you should start giving it. Incidentally spelling police have been discouraged around here for a while but while we're on the topic of typos, people has an 'o' in it. ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes yes hell yes - very well said!Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'innerwest123'So what dickbags are you associating with that you allow to treat you like this? this sort of behaviour, right off the bat, is an obvious dealbreaker and if you continue, then its on you im afraid. You teach people how to treat you. If the first message shows any sign of disrespect/dishonesty/rudeness/etc and you (plural) allow a second and third email, thinking "I should give him a chance", you can't be upset if the guy doesn't show/doesn't call/turns out to be a jerk/etc. Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Am I starting to sound like DG? Oh hell no..it's impossible, you could never
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPier' Yes, men are people too and so is Foxy, so if you want empathy, perhaps you should start giving it. Incidentally spelling police have been discouraged around here for a while but while we're on the topic of typos, people has an 'o' in it. ;-) Like that!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' "If you don't treat women with respect and empathy then you aren't going to get your end wet, are you??"Ive lost count of the number of topics and comments made by guys, wondering what theyre doing wrong.When the SIMPLE exercise of Emotional Mirroring, would clearly tell them what theyre doing wrong.So guys,.... before you say or do anything.... visualise her saying or doing it, and your response... and how you feel about it.Maybe.... there'd be less dumbarse behaviour and more happy shaggers out there...LOLDGCommon sense. Mindfulness. Like that too.
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' Whinge, whinge fucking whinge. Harden up princess. You mean to say " I spoke (past tense) to a few women on RHP and we have found some men that have been behaving (present tense again) very poorly... not quite as poorly as your sentence structure but still... This is grotesque man-bashing on a mob-mentality scale and slander might I add. To counter - men are people too. They also have feelings. Society has disallowed them to show them. Have some respect. If I had $250 for every time a woman has turned up late, and still expected a shag.... I'd be able to retire by now - and I could tell you the stories but you probably aren't interested in the other side of the coin are you? By the way dear, spread has an A in it. If you want empathy then perhaps you should start giving it, because men are peple too and masculinity has never been a fixed ideologue unlike femininity. So cheer up, as long as you have a hole, you won't be made redundant like a man will. If you don't treat men with the same empathy and respect you demand of them... then you're not going to get any emotional sort of jolly at all are you? Men are not toys. Play nicely or don't play at all. MEN ARE PEOPLE TOO DAMN IT!! YEP I totally agree with you..MEN ARE PEOPLE TOO DAMN IT!!If you had a daughter and she came to you saying "Dad I got a text at 2am and it said "you want a F*ck?" and she also said "Dad, my date was 2hrs late or maybe she said "Dad, Why to some men treat women as sperm spittoons??" What would you say ?? Somehow I don't think you are going to say " For F*cks Sake...Whinge, whinge, fucking whinge, Harden up Princess" You see little girls look up to their dads..they should be the ones who should be role-modeling to their daughters how a man should behave, as a human being towards PEOPLE...SOME men just have not been taught that due to their own family values, cultural backgrounds, and not good-role modeling growing up ...There is a few more factors to take into consideration as well- so for a man to say "Harden up Princess" is not good role-modeling nor is that showing empathy or respect to myself or any other woman in this tread.There is NO EXCUSE FOR POOR BEHAVIOR!FOXYOh by the way - I love it when my dad calls me his Princess and he doesn't have a go at me either, for my spelling mistakes, if anything he sees me a human being that is able to stand up for herself to unacceptable behavior. Meeks,Its already been established in previous posts lately that Nick is never having or wants children so your well written points will be totally lost on him me thinks.FoxyWhile I agree with you that behaviour like that is not acceptable you are always in control of not accepting it and saying next.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I agree with your comments. DG you make it sound like a strategy that you have for getting women into bed instead of a genuine respect for the other person. I am sure you don't mean that but I get that impression from your comments a lot. Probably my misunderstanding. The risk for explaining points of view in detail ... is that it may appear structured and mechanical..... when its simply the explanation of a consistent personality trait.... that includes "empathy".DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Meeka100' I agree with your comments. DG you make it sound like a strategy that you have for getting women into bed instead of a genuine respect for the other person. I am sure you don't mean that but I get that impression from your comments a lot. Probably my misunderstanding. The risk for explaining points of view in detail ... is that it may appear structured and mechanical..... when its simply the explanation of a consistent personality trait.... that includes "empathy".DGSpot on DG. You have never wavered from the consistency of where it is you are coming from. That speaks volumes alone.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I agree with your comments. DG you make it sound like a strategy that you have for getting women into bed instead of a genuine respect for the other person. I am sure you don't mean that but I get that impression from your comments a lot. Probably my misunderstanding.
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inspirit
12 years ago
I like bad boys
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RHP User
12 years ago
You have me confused with someone else, I haven't mentioned Nick or children in a thread together ever before. So not me?!?
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RHP User
12 years ago
LOL. Fair enough. :D
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RHP User
12 years ago
An example for me. I've been in the process of arranging to meet with a guy, but he's now off my list due to asking me to text him pics (yes those types of pics). I don't know what it is with these guys who think that as soon as they have your mobile number, they can ask for dirty pics to be sent to them...particularly when it's someone you haven't even met yet. I'm not stupid and I'm not going to send those sort of photos to a complete stranger's phone.Some may say I'm too picky...I know that I am fussy and in SOME areas I'm consciously trying to be more lenient or I'll probably never get laid again, or at least not while I'm living up here. But there are certain things that mean an automatic "no" from me, and since I've never yet had to deal with a no-show, or a guy just disappearing into thin air with no further contact, or a guy treating me with disrespect while I'm with him, then I think I'll stick with those hard and fast rules of mine. Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'innerwest123'So what dickbags are you associating with that you allow to treat you like this? this sort of behaviour, right off the bat, is an obvious dealbreaker and if you continue, then its on you im afraid. You teach people how to treat you. If the first message shows any sign of disrespect/dishonesty/rudeness/etc and you (plural) allow a second and third email, thinking "I should give him a chance", you can't be upset if the guy doesn't show/doesn't call/turns out to be a jerk/etc.
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RHP User
12 years ago
*Raises hands* It was ME who mentioned children NOT Meeka...I used as a role-modeling scenario if you read that correctly. Was not to have a dig at Nick himself as a person and if it is taken in the wrong way. Please accept my apologies.On this Forum I am talking about peoples "BEHAVIOR" - not the person themselves there is a big difference..You see I get quite taken back when myself and other women stand up to UNACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR - and told to quieten down or shut-up or "Harden up Princess" ..Why should we accept that?If someone is treating myself (EXAMPLES) like some sort of sex object, just so they can get their rocks off or treating other women like a available on tap for sex or people NOT BEING TREATED WITH RESPECT OR SHOWN EMPATHY just to get their end wet..or being treated like sperm spittoons... To me this is behavior is totally acceptable in my eyes..This is about role-modeling good behavior not accepting bad behavior. To me, SOME men think it OK to treat women like this and it is not OK.There are some Amazing men out there who do role-model good behavior and maybe "some" of the other men out there who think it is Ok to treat women like sex object should be taking their advice.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'deepbluesumthing' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' "If you don't treat women with respect and empathy then you aren't going to get your end wet, are you??"So guys,.... before you say or do anything.... visualise her saying or doing it, and your response... and how you feel about it.Maybe.... there'd be less dumbarse behaviour and more happy shaggers out there...LOLDGCommon sense. Mindfulness. Like that too. Maybe some men need to take a page from you DG..FOXY
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Don't say that too loudly in here.... ...those other men might be accused of being manipulative and robotic too LOL I simply accept it as knowledge of what's effective. Because nobody, even the critics, want to be ineffective. ;-) DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've got some sensitive info in my profile ( I think it's best to be upfront about those kind of things) and I've gotten that many messages saying 'oh I'm not really comfortable with your issue but I'll let you suck my dick' Sorry boys, unless it shoots beer I'm not interested in giving out free blowies! :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've also come across some really great guys on here too. You're going to come across arseholes, doesn't matter where you are. Just brush off and move onto the next person :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I do. And it works......sometimes ;-) and it's similar to DG's philosophies. Respect, empathy with a touch of cheekiness and irreverence. Basically, be me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' Whinge, whinge fucking whinge. Harden up princess. You mean to say " I spoke (past tense) to a few women on RHP and we have found some men that have been behaving (present tense again) very poorly... not quite as poorly as your sentence structure but still... This is grotesque man-bashing on a mob-mentality scale and slander might I add. To counter - men are people too. They also have feelings. Society has disallowed them to show them. Have some respect. If I had $250 for every time a woman has turned up late, and still expected a shag.... I'd be able to retire by now - and I could tell you the stories but you probably aren't interested in the other side of the coin are you? By the way dear, spread has an A in it. If you want empathy then perhaps you should start giving it, because men are peple too and masculinity has never been a fixed ideologue unlike femininity. So cheer up, as long as you have a hole, you won't be made redundant like a man will. If you don't treat men with the same empathy and respect you demand of them... then you're not going to get any emotional sort of jolly at all are you? Men are not toys. Play nicely or don't play at all. MEN ARE PEOPLE TOO DAMN IT!! YEP I totally agree with you..MEN ARE PEOPLE TOO DAMN IT!!If you had a daughter and she came to you saying "Dad I got a text at 2am and it said "you want a F*ck?" and she also said "Dad, my date was 2hrs late or maybe she said "Dad, Why to some men treat women as sperm spittoons??" What would you say ?? Somehow I don't think you are going to say " For F*cks Sake...Whinge, whinge, fucking whinge, Harden up Princess" You see little girls look up to their dads..they should be the ones who should be role-modeling to their daughters how a man should behave, as a human being towards PEOPLE...SOME men just have not been taught that due to their own family values, cultural backgrounds, and not good-role modeling growing up ...There is a few more factors to take into consideration as well- so for a man to say "Harden up Princess" is not good role-modeling nor is that showing empathy or respect to myself or any other woman in this tread.There is NO EXCUSE FOR POOR BEHAVIOR!FOXYOh by the way - I love it when my dad calls me his Princess and he doesn't have a go at me either, for my spelling mistakes, if anything he sees me a human being that is able to stand up for herself to unacceptable behavior. I agree with bits and pieces from both parties. Most of what I have to say has already been said in bit and pieces by other people but I've never let that stop me before so! ;pOn the one hand, the behaviour of some men is absolutely reprehensible and not aceptable. Women are not objects, sexual or otherwise. I loathe when people assume that I owe them sexual favours, even if we've never met before. To be fair, entitlement in general is probably my biggest pet peeve. Nobody OWES anyone else anything.On that topic though, men do not owe women respect either. They do not HAVE to be polite or nice or gentlemanly. They can behave however they like. I, however, get to choose who gets to interact with me, and if you do not behave in a way I approve of, you do not get to interact with me. So no, it's not appropriate for a man to text at 3am, and certainly not something so blatant. So I do not have men around me who would do these things. If you have these sorts of men around you (you being general in this case, no specific individual in mind) then you need to look at what you're doing to encourage or allow this. Having spoken with men, I can say that it seems like they get more shit then we do. Certainly I run into people I do not approve of, but at least I don't have people thinking that they can charge me for services rendered. I've been stood up once or twice, I have enough options I can just dismiss them and look at other people who behave in a more respectful manner. I guess because it is harder for men to just find someone to take a roll with they often give people more than one chance, meaning they quite often get disrespected more than we do. What does it say if a person does not show up and does not even bother to let you know? Annoying enough to cancel at the last moment, but a no-show? That person cannot even see you as another person. Cannot see, or worse, does not care about what their complete dismissal of you as a human being does.Does this additional shit being dumped on them give gents a legitimate reason to be assholes? A proper reason? No. Of course not. But because there is bad behaviour on both sides, I don't know I'd say I was going to take away anyones man card. Grown-Up Card maybe. Adult Card. Human Being Card.What might achieve a little more than taking away any card however? Just refuse to engage. When people of any gender treat you badly, tell them politely and clearly that it is not acceptable and you are not interested in their company in any way and then be done with them. They do not get attention or sex. Eventually they will either catch on and reform, or they can be miserable off in their own corner, while you are happy in yours, surrounded by people who treat you they way they would like.So in a way, 'Harden up Princess' while on the outside is unacceptable, from another angle is totally applicable. I would want my Daughters to be strong. To be hard when they have to be. To tell these people 'No, this is not acceptable, this is not how I will be treated' not just to cry about it when it happens and then allow it to continue. You cannot control what anyone else does, you can only control what you do.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No respect ... No go in my world! Kicked to the kirb the minute I`m treated like some piece of meat .. absolutely one of my PET hates! And unfortunately some don`t show their true colours until well and truly after the first intimate encounter , all I can say is - good effort! But now you are done! And dont think I wont warn my friends about you ... silly boyBut in most cases I see it coming ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Foxy :) I've been checking out the replies and I can see where both sides are coming from . Foxy. I'm sorry you tend to attract those Low Lives ...I'm not sure if it's your Persona or they think you're hot n horny go for it ! ..Even tho there's so much more to you:) Ms D Like you I've attracted quality Guys and I appreciate all of them that come say Hi! To all those Guys you make me smile and some do even more and Thank You :) Lu If 1 Moron does slip by because he didn't take time to read my Profile and seeking requirements then he's wasted a MSG . I reply with why the Hell! would I bother with what you have to offer . I'm Not Interested Good L:uck! finding suitable Playmates.. Nick Wilde .I understand your Point and tend to agree maybe not in such an aggressive way he! he! Yes Men are People to with emotions wants and needs to be treated with respect etc.I realize bad Manners selfishness isn't just assigned to Males there are Females who act the same in their own way... Anybodyjustnow.. Well said Hun it's a shame when a Bitch fest on the Opposite sex is Posted in the Forums Like MsD I'd much prefer a Positive view and to praise all those Male or Female who bring something of value into our Lives be it just the act of treating us with respect.. I hope you all Continue to attract the Playmates who have style grace and Manners to know how to treat you ..Enjoy Lu :) Anybody Just now
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'bombshell007' Funlover Not sure how much respect you have when you jump from bed to bed and boast about it on here. We have another post for the Immaturity thread. Naming and shaming... Mods? Really?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I honestly don't understand men like that, other than a power trip thing or they are trying to be cheeky.I treat a woman the way a woman should be treated and also how I treat my wife, with respect and dignity. This always got me my fair share of attention when I was single and why my marriage has been so successful.All I can say is that don't be a hater for all men because there are some great ones out there, even on this site who know how to treat a woman.Now having said that there ARE women out there who aren't true women who I wouldn't give the same level of respect to because they simply don't deserve it, these women demonstrate true colours through there actions. I would not disrespect these women, I simply ignore them as they are not worthy of my attention...good or bad.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wouldn't apologise foxy, you made an open and blanket statement, it obviously hit a sore point and he made a personal attack! Mutual respect for all!
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inspirit
12 years ago
I have had my fair share of DECEITFUL men.... Men who put up single or separated profiles only to find out with in a few days they are married or attached. IF you fools do not have the balls to disclose the TRUTH on first contact please do not contact me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'shy_couple2' I honestly don't understand men like that, other than a power trip thing or they are trying to be cheeky.I treat a woman the way a woman should be treated and also how I treat my wife, with respect and dignity. This always got me my fair share of attention when I was single and why my marriage has been so successful.All I can say is that don't be a hater for all men because there are some great ones out there, even on this site who know how to treat a woman.Now having said that there ARE women out there who aren't true women who I wouldn't give the same level of respect to because they simply don't deserve it, these women demonstrate true colours through there actions. I would not disrespect these women, I simply ignore them as they are not worthy of my attention...good or bad. Yes! Exactly! The mind boggles? So similar to my own philosophy and I think you have said it simply but eloquently, Mr Shy. I too believe there are some good men on here, but, for the ones who are not on the same page as far as respect goes, I have no qualms about cutting them loose and it's not worth entertaining a fool, prolonging agony, seeking payback or harbouring resentment, even for a nano-second. I have found it's better to say, no thanks, then walk away with dignity in tact and move on to attracting a more genuine soul in someone who mirrors my own core. It's always a choice that everyone has available to them at any time, in any situation, and I can honestly say that it works for me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
THANK YOU every one for your comments.Please note that I posted this Forum Topic as an advocate as a "collective group of women" I have had contact with, in and out of this site. I honestly feel for those who have has bad experiences - man and women - I am sorry to hear.I hope that at least one person reads this Forum and actually takes note to what other people are saying and make good changes to they way they treat others, especially towards women.Fingers Crossed.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Everyone has the right to their in opinions and as this was a forum of mens behaviour, than what right do you have to call them on it unless you know more to the situation than you are saying. Otherwise do as you suggest and stick to the topic. Your little addit in red is nothing more than a childish attack on someone (or more than one) person for sharing their thoughts on this an open forum, shock horror. Perhaps if you have a problem with them take it up via a private message rather than telling them off on here. Last i heard you are not judge, jury and executioner no matter what your thoughts are! As for the behaviour of men and what should get their licence revoked well i would say gossiping about your conquests either sexual or non sexual is right up there. I believe a certain person who has been doing this lately and then asked for peoples opinions on his man licence is one such individual. If you want to be indiscriminate as to who you share your bed with that's your choice but to write about it as a form of entertainment well that is neither gentleman like behaviour or deserving of holding a licence ever.
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Goldenage
12 years ago
The problem I think stems from the way society has become.When was the last time you saw a man stand up to allow an elderly lady to sit, or some-one going to the aid of another person.All too often people become so self absorbed in what they want they forget others and their needs.One bad egg ruins it for all, not all men are pigs but the actions of just one over and over makes us all the same in a woman's eyes.I've had more than my share from women on here that obviously have had enough of men and their actions.A simple message asking how they are and if they'd like to chat some day over a cuppa obviously means come to my car and fuck me.........to which I get no reply just blocking.The views of this simple man :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've come to believe in life that you get what you're prepared to accept from others, and I like to think I'm more understanding of men and empathetic to people in general than most, however, given current circumstances, I must (to an extent) agree with some of this post. To add to the topic of empathy, guys: I wonder if you consider at all sometimes, what it is for a girl to make herself available to you in this day and age? especially a single girl? Even for just that first meeting? we don't (typically) just throw on a pair of jeans and a t-shirt from our bedroom floor. If we're the kind of girl you actually want to be around (even have sex with), then typically even just that first meet can mean a day of preparation for us, hair, nails, clothes etc etc, not to mention the cost involved in all of it. if you're the kind of single girl I am, you have to work 14/15 hours a day and normally 6 days a week, so if you're going to actually meet with a guy (for anything) you'll want to do that on your one day off for the week, the day you generally use to catch up with the other stuff you NEED to do in life (your groceries, your washing your house work and anything else you don't get time for when you're working) which means if you are to prepare, then you actually need to take time off work before that day off to get said nails and hair done, and so you also sacrifice some of your income. and then, after you've spent a few hundred dollars living up to the guy's expectations, spent time you could be using for other things you NEED to get done in your life, taken time off work and sacrificed income, (not that he'll recognise your effort, he'll only recognise if you DON'T make it to begin with), THEN to be texted two hours before hand with an excuse (and one that's pretty standard, not even backed up, so that maybe you might be able to give the guy benefit of the doubt) Well! then "WE" are the bitch if we get the shits about it and about men aren't we? Rant over!
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Chelle63
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' "it may take two to tango" but it takes ONE strong woman to say "That behaviour is not ok to do with me ya dickbag"... Hahaha I can see it now...all the bitter men who have got rejected cause of their poor behaviour from a strong woman-get get all defensive...well sorry guys can spot you a mile away...For those who have meet me know exactly where coming from here...I am not a bitter woman who just won't be a sperm spittoon, just someone who will not tolerate unacceptable poor behaviour.... FOXY I thought exactly the same thing Foxy................. sound a little bitter and twisted don't they? I have been treated like that too and it is not nice. What makes it worse is some guys think they are doing me a favour wanting to f**k me because I am a BBW so they think I must be desperate or something. Well I have news for those guys............. I would rather go without then be treated with disrespect.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You appear quite upset over something beyond my control. I am sorry if this Forum has upset you on a personal level..I am not the person you believe I am, as I have not met you nor have I had any communication with. As I have quoted all along this was a "general Topic " never have I once mentioned names nor made personal attacks-Please reread this Forum...Your feedback is noted and I will take it with a grain of salt as I am not going to react further more to any of your postings. We can agree to disagree. All the best ....Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
All I can say is there's guys that disrespect and talk to woman like shit, not only does it speak volumes about what kind of lovers they would be, but it just leaves more beautiful posibities for me, an guys like me that actually enjoy and pride theselves on treating a woman with respect and value. Like they say you catch more with honey. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '1plus14fun' All I can say is there's guys that disrespect and talk to woman like shit, not only does it speak volumes about what kind of lovers they would be, but it just leaves more beautiful posibities for me, an guys like me that actually enjoy and pride theselves on treating a woman with respect and value. Like they say you catch more with honey. - Posted from rhpmobile Catch more with honey than with poo people!
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Don't you find all this pent up angst exhausting???
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RHP User
12 years ago
thanks for saying that...I havent wanted to meet anyone anymore because of all the crap,,games deceit just disrespectful and dishonest wasting valuable time,,,I'm very clear and genuine,,,glad to know I'm not alone,,,sad to know others are getting that too...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wow, talk about polarised views. I've had plenty of mates that are happy to just 'get their end in', but I guarantee that the sex isn't as good as when you give the woman a little respect, a lot of attention and a few big finishes. If you want the caveman approach and have a woman open her legs and count cracks in the ceiling, don't bother with respecting her. Just stick it in (and no, this doesn't change even if you have a 1/4 yard dick), OR you can spend as little time bringing a smile to her face, and reaping the rewards that come with it. I guess that is the difference between men and boys.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's a real shame that so many people concern themselves with the final 10 seconds of an interaction. I say this quite generally as I have found that SOME men AND SOME women, are so focused on the end, that they forget to enjoy the journey that takes them there. Most of the fun is celebrating each other as people, and their cute eccentricities, you all know the ones. The little things that make you just smile and laugh for no real apparent reason. It's enhancing that journey, that makes for great sex..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Anyone these days who doesn't treat me with respect and empathy gets short shrift. When I initially joined this site (over 3 years ago now!) I was just happy to receive some attention! Now I've lost patience, and lost count of the number of douchebags who've contacted me, thinking they're God's gift to women, who give me the standard 'hi, how are you?' or 'fancy a shag?' opening message (Lord give me strength!!), who won't make the effort to get to know me via e-mail first, even though this is what I'm comfortable with, who meet up and expect me to suck their dicks in the car park, who don't understand the meaning of 'discretion', texting me at all times of the day and night wanting me to talk dirty to them etc.(Not helpful when I work shifts either!) Just tell me how any of this is beneficial to me? And don't get me started on the number of married men on this site PRETENDING to be single, or separated, when 'separated' means they work in Adelaide and fly home to the wife and kids at the weekend! Not being hypocritical here, because my profile states I'm married...in the beginning when I was very naive about internet dating, one ratbag kept me in the dark about his wife and family for 8 months!!! Talk about messing with your head! Never again. At least be honest fellas, and try to treat us with some respect and humanity, to see us as people first and foremost, and not just something that feels good on the end of your dick!
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