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Men that beg & plead.
January 03 2014
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Gonna need a heap of popcorn for this one :-) I expect a lot of guys in here do a lot of pleading in their messages. It's a reeeeeeally attractive trait, huh lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I mean I like nothing better than a line of pretty boys with their dicks swinging in the breeze....... but a bit of shoosh please. LOL.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't get mad....get even 😈 My ex wife was a good one for this.... I was home for one night a week due to my job, I'd only roll over in bed and I heard "don't touch me." Erm did I even suggest sex by moving or what?? *shrug* meh.. Anyways I left it till next time and I never got the don't touch me, so I'd move in close and try to initiate. Yep "don't touch me". Lol ahhh ok...I'd roll back over and go to sleep. The next week my lovely ex rolled into me "cuddle me??" She asked. So I'd oblige....she initiated sex this time ... Well tried to 😈 ....so...here's what I did.... Went down on her for a bit and got her really wound up.... Then..... Rolled over and went to sleep :) She was not happy I might add....but quite frankly I don't care. I can handle no. But I will not let you change your mind either. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
is boring and desperate. Unless he's tied up and wearing a butt plug with naughty bi boys breathing hot breath on his cock. Then I'll forgive the indiscretion .... maybe.
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
grinning at paint_me's answer...love it
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RHP User
11 years ago
Reeks of desperation, I don't find it very attractive at all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have to say the middle ground is the best... Too cocky and ordering me around (unless I know the person well and it's all part of the play) is also a total turn off.
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PlushVelvet
11 years ago
Its harassment ... and its unattractive, uninvited and desperate.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'paint_me' is boring and desperate. Unless he's tied up and wearing a butt plug with naughty bi boys breathing hot breath on his cock. Then I'll forgive the indiscretion .... maybe. Unfortunately I didn't have any rope to tie them up.......... hehehe
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RHP User
11 years ago
No matter how much I want it I will never beg for it... unless it is part of the game. SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Stir_it_alot' Don't get mad....get even 😈 My ex wife was a good one for this.... I was home for one night a week due to my job, I'd only roll over in bed and I heard "don't touch me." Erm did I even suggest sex by moving or what?? *shrug* meh.. Anyways I left it till next time and I never got the don't touch me, so I'd move in close and try to initiate. Yep "don't touch me". Lol ahhh ok...I'd roll back over and go to sleep. The next week my lovely ex rolled into me "cuddle me??" She asked. So I'd oblige....she initiated sex this time ... Well tried to 😈 ....so...here's what I did.... Went down on her for a bit and got her really wound up.... Then..... Rolled over and went to sleep :) She was not happy I might add....but quite frankly I don't care. I can handle no. But I will not let you change your mind either. - Posted from rhpmobile Well that sounds healthy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To sometimes play hard to get......to a certain extent! Ive always been a disobedient little brat and wanted what I've been told I cant have!!Tell me not to do something and I'll do it...Tell me I cant have something and I'll push heaven and earth...I love a challenge!! There is no challenge in a guy that begs or pleads...total turn off!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Totally agree toxic bred toxic.... :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Spot on 👍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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ruby_blossum
11 years ago
Pleading will not change my mind on playing with a married guy... ...just turns me off even more
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RHP User
11 years ago
Its your trait , you attract desperados bwhahahaha I use to beg my ex to make me dinner ,that never worked so did not push the begging for sex angle.Lucky i can cook and wank !
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have meet a few of those types of guys and it is a complete and absolute turn OFF! Have also had to step in to protect my female friends at parties and clubs from guys who just don't no when to stop nagging, and begging. They wont stop till another guy steps in a tells the to back off she is not interested. I today
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have meet a few of those types of guys and it is a complete and absolute turn OFF! Have also had to step in to protect my female friends at parties and clubs from guys who just don't no when to stop nagging, and begging. They wont stop till another guy steps in a tells the to back off she is not interested. I today agree and think that there are a lot of men who use this passive aggressive method to get what they want. They are predatory and selfish and i feel sorry for any woman that has had the misfortune of getting close to them. There are also a fair few men at the clubs that seem to think that because they paid to get in that means they have a right to get sex. I like to look after my friends and will quickly sort out and problem guys that become annoyances. Its terrible that the girls will say no not interested over and over but as soon as a guy tells them the girl is not interested they back off. What can they only understand male voices... :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
I find men who are at the mercy of their sexual urges to very totally unattractive. If I'm deliberately teasing and taunting a partner then a bit of light-hearted pleading is expected, but desperation smacks of immaturity and lack of self-control. Yuck on both counts.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I completely understand. Sometimes I get so sick of ladies begging me, I'll only let them cum once.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can you please, please please, please, pretty please stop having a go at beggars? BTW, good to see you Amicus. Where you been? The Bahamas?
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RHP User
11 years ago
one chromosome set
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RHP User
11 years ago
th@ should be :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
How dare those Beta males (aka creepy males) beg and plead for sex from women. Pulease.. only the "yummy" buffed alpha male should enter my hallowed zone. Only allow gods into my presence not all those boring drones (that keep modern society running and me in comfort). Let them eat cake. Interestingly I found this on a website about evolving technology: "This is why when I say that the more technology grows, especially when inexpensive but lifelike sex robots become available, sexual power in society will slowly start to shift away from women and towards men. Right now it’s men who “ask” for sex and women who “give” it. Don’t be surprised in several decades to see this completely turned around. Especially when women want those pesky babies." I'm now heading back into my trench, helmet on and peering out with a periscope and anxiously awaiting the "incoming".
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RHP User
11 years ago
Perhaps some people think that if they beg enough , they will wear you down ...? GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I really don't get how some people think that begging will help. As has been said, it's a desperate move and says a lot about a person. Unless of course it's part of some humiliation fantasy they have going on and they have their own little agenda. In which case, it's still wrong. A pest is a pest regardless
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't beg for it but we have had a few guys beg ms_liquiddesirez for it at the club. Comes across creepy and sleazy. Funlover love your style. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' I today agree and think that there are a lot of men who use this passive aggressive method to get what they want. They are predatory and selfish and i feel sorry for any woman that has had the misfortune of getting close to them.There are also a fair few men at the clubs that seem to think that because they paid to get in that means they have a right to get sex. I like to look after my friends and will quickly sort out and problem guys that become annoyances. Its terrible that the girls will say no not interested over and over but as soon as a guy tells them the girl is not interested they back off. What can they only understand male voices... :( That is absolutely their behaviour Blindman. I think women are still being polite, so they are saying no but without any real force or aggression. I know that is what I do, particularly if I am with a lover.... occasionally he then has to sort these guys out because they just will not go away. He doesn't call me cockbait for nothing. If I ever felt threatened, which sometimes you can, then I start being aggressive and rude back as this seems to be the only thing some blokes will take notice of.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' And I completely understand. Sometimes I get so sick of ladies begging me, I'll only let them cum once. Oh I do admit, I sometimes like to beg...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Arten' How dare those Beta males (aka creepy males) beg and plead for sex from women. Pulease.. only the "yummy" buffed alpha male should enter my hallowed zone. Only allow gods into my presence not all those boring drones (that keep modern society running and me in comfort). Let them eat cake. God some men are whiny bitches aren't they?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've never had a guy begging for it....not sure if that's a good or bad thing? But seriously, I've never been to a sex club or swingers party which is where I imagine a lot of this sort of behaviour happens. If it did happen to me, I'd respond politely once, then if he continued I would tell him in no uncertain terms where to go. Unfortunately women are normally indoctrinated from the time they are children to be passive and not offend, so many find it very difficult to be assertive, let alone aggressive, even if they feel threatened.
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RHP User
11 years ago
This happens at sex parties where there are lots of single men or at a nude beach sometimes :P There is a bi-sexual club in Sydney that is enormous four floors of single men walking around. Often they may only be one or two women there so you get followed around by all the men in the place. You feel like the pied piper. These guys have no idea how intimidating that is, and they need another male to tell them to back off. Thank god for the private rooms they have in that place. I haven't really encountered it much at swingers clubs, all the guys there already have a partner so they are not desperate I suppose, to put in bluntly. I sometimes think even decent guys when they get a bit hard...I don't know, some how all normal social conventions goes out the window and they become this other person.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why some of you women feel that being aggressive is a beneficial trait ? I can understand your frustration with the behaviors described, and I agree that it would be frustrating and annoying... But is aggression the way to deal with it ? It would appear that the men in question are not the sharpest tools in the shed, and as such aggression might be the worst way to deal with them. You as a woman should always be firm and strong, and mindful of sending out mixed messages... Blokes who don't already, need to learn to understand and respect your wishes... Be it last drinks at the pub on Friday night or at sex club. Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry but until you have been in that situation... where you have a few men standing around you doing that... and trying to touch you as well after you have said no at least 5 or 6 times and have slapped their hands away, you would be aggressive too. And by that I mean raising my voice and being quite blunt in what I say. Rather than .... no sorrry, look not right now which is what you do at the beginning. As Blindman said, they literally don't listen to you until another blokes comes up and says back off. This is only at some places, not all places are like that.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't think some men realise how threatening that behaviour can be to women, and you say yourself they are they not the sharpest tool so how you think reasoning your way out of it will work?? Sometimes you have to raise your voice and clearly say back off. I was at a huge club once and with mainly bisexual men and they were following us around, and one of the women in our group had never been to a place like that before. She was terrifed... the men kept touching her and in the end she was screaming "please stop touching me" And we had only just got there and we were walking around, fully clothed! Not good.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The only time I want to hear "Please", is when it's directly followed by "Don't stop".
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RHP User
11 years ago
I never dated in high school so I managed to avoid all that teenage begging and desperation.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If the guy is submissive by nature or a switch then begging seems fitting for him.Personally i don't understand what on earth would drive a man to beg if he considers himself 'Dominant" which begs the question of what he really is!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Come to think about it though i've had to shoo a few overly eager girls too (to the point of hiding once). I've ever heard of GUYS begging for it though.. Little thing called pride. But hey makes sense, you want it when you want it right and i guess it goes both ways. Old mate ArtenArten, you're crack up bro. But you just dug yourself a deeper hole with that website thing (in more ways than one). And come to think about it even further (partly because of arten's spat) i reckon you'd change your tune if a guy you were really attracted to done the same thing. Don't you?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi KidSTEEL, I think that younger men often brag about their conquests and how good they are in bed. No disrespect meant at all, but I can tell you young guys BEG ALL THE TIME!!! All the time, seriously. If some of your friends say they don't they are lying.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'A_r_t_x' If the guy is submissive by nature or a switch then begging seems fitting for him.Personally i don't understand what on earth would drive a man to beg if he considers himself 'Dominant" which begs the question of what he really is! Well, my lover told me to bend one of the beggers over and spank his arse. Which I did........... so no, men that are dominant would not beg I don't think.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe we misunderstand each other with our definitions of aggressive ? I suspect most men would equate aggression with violence... Not quite hand in hand, but close together. While the behavior of the men as you have described it is appalling and unsavory, I'd hate it to be "required" to be sorted out violently... After all, there is far too much violence already in male/female relationships, the last thing that we want is to be encouraging more... And yes I understand you are there to play and not educate, but surely trying to educate the poor twits is the better option ? And banning for the truly dim... And yes, its much better for the venue to to take the lead role in this than to leave it to individuals... So inform management of the behavior that you don't like, and if they don't respond favorably then move to another venue... Hey... I dream sometimes... Xo Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
HP yes, I think what I mean by being rude and being agressive is different to probably what a man would mean by that. Absolutely. I am not talking about being violent.... and when I say my lover has to tell them to back off, he says it in a I mean this voice, but there is never any violence, or hitting, or anything like that. OMG that would be awful.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Actually any of that sort of physical violence would have you thrown out and banned from the club. Most of these guys are harmless I think, they are just annoying and they I don't think they realise how daunting or intimidating it can be when there is quite a large group of men and you are the only woman. They don't mean to be scary. Why SOME of them just go up and touch a woman, I am not sure. But they do this at swingers clubs as well.... I just think that SOME men always take that opportunity if it presents itself. This is not all blokes, and this is not all blokes in the club either.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Funlover u sound full of it... Turn off :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Timing, I was chatting to a guy I had gone on a date once with on a vanilla site the other night.....subject lead to FB's I told him I was fine there it wasnt what I was looking for........to which he proceeded with his but just give me a chance....see what I can bring to the table......blah blah I deleted my account....over that shit. I pick my FB's.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meeka, thanks for clearing that up. Clubs and patrons should be enforcing acceptable behavior, these people are trainable... It's their dicks we are talking about here, they will do anything to get them wet... So they simply need to be encouraged for their good behaviors and punished (banned) for their bad behaviors... There was a women's campaign in the 80's, "yes means yes, no means no, however we dress, wherever we go"... And it should apply to men and women in the streets, bars, sex clubs and nudist beaches of this great country... Or have I been using mados peace pipe again ? Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Interesting subject :-) mmmmm begging men are as bad as women who waiting for their knight in shining armour :-) just saying. I do however find it interesting when people go on about vanilla sites really I find them all the same lol! They are what you make or want from them :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can't think of anything worse than begging for any kind of sex. What's more , I don't remember any female that ever made me feel that way? Besides', being the proud man I am, it just ain't gunna happen. ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
You just haven't met strappy and Bruno yet... 😋 Great thread by the way... It's been a good ride 😉 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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inspirit
11 years ago
when your mouth is full
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inspirit
11 years ago
do like begging and they like the "No, Fuck Off" for an answer. Some want to be slapped for begging as well. That's the part I do like hehehe
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inspirit
11 years ago
do like begging and they like the "No, Fuck Off" for an answer. Some want to be slapped for begging as well. That's the part I do like hehehe
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RHP User
11 years ago
well, not a fan of woman "Man Bashing".. but begging isn't attractive... just as unattractive (And down right annoying) is women who give open ended answers and not simple yes or no answers GRRRRRR that's my lil 2c worth "giggle" ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi Meeka100! Loved stumbling across your forum this morning!! Strangers or semi-unknown men begging for sexual contact fall into three categories for me.... a) narcissistic wankers that feel entitled to sex with women because they're on an adult sex site OR b) Closed off and closet type of men (the same ones that say they're straight on their profile but still contact you with their love of cock...) and that are quietly gagging for a woman to completely turn around their demand and smother them with their pussy instead....c) The seriously impared or the ones with psychological issues you don't want to to inherit. (in no way am I insinuating that's the entire male population... ie: disclaimer...) Utimately these people have no respect whatsoever for you, if you're at a party with someone then he has no respect for your partner either.Call me old fashioned but I ask permission by subtly asking (eg: would it be ok if I licked your pussy as my partner slides his cock inside you please ?? ) before I do anything intimate with anyone. I suppose it's what you're prepared to put up with as an individual, however if a complete stranger came up to me and slapped his old fella out demanding me to suck it, if my man didn't put him in on his arse first then I wouldn't be far behind. ( If I knew that 'old fella' it could be a different story, no guarantees!!!!) Oh that's the word!! Respect. Oh, and etiquette. Oh, and manners.Or am I just old school and this whole lifestyle is just too fast paced and disengaged these days?? Or we really have gotten to the point where we have to discuss via a forum just how we as women expect to be treated?? Meeka100 thanks for letting me vent!! One of my first lifestyle' experiences I was circled like a broken bird and felt completely helpless and utterly vulnerable. I wish no one else had to go through that but that's totally misguided!! If any woman out there would like to have a chat maybe we could organise a closed chat or something. Thanks. X
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've had someone beg and plead was to "please stop teasing me and let me inside you. Make me cum." :P Love having that power over him *devious grin* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bahahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Never thought to try begging. Although I do know a guy who got a gf through constant begging. I guess she just wanted to shut him up. I've had women beg. It's weird what happens when you're the only guy not trying to get into a girl's pants. Must be a blow to the ego, so she has to get you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'paris_j13' Interesting subject :-) mmmmm begging men are as bad as women who waiting for their knight in shining armour :-) just saying. I do however find it interesting when people go on about vanilla sites really I find them all the same lol! They are what you make or want from them :-) I dont believe in fairy tales my life has been far from it. I make the reference to the vanilla sites as it would be ironic for me to turn down sex here. but hundreds of times women are told here on rhp if you are looking for more go there....I was looking for no knight but a companion possibly a friend. I am in no mood to be attacked have had enough of that in the last 24 hrs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'paris_j13' Interesting subject :-) mmmmm begging men are as bad as women who waiting for their knight in shining armour :-) just saying. I do however find it interesting when people go on about vanilla sites really I find them all the same lol! They are what you make or want from them :-) I dont believe in fairy tales my life has been far from it. I make the reference to the vanilla sites as it would be ironic for me to turn down sex here. but hundreds of times women are told here on rhp if you are looking for more go there....I was looking for no knight but a companion possibly a friend. I am in no mood to be attacked have had enough of that in the last 24 hrs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've definitely experienced guys begging for a meet on here. "Oh babe come on please" "We could be amazing together, come onnnnnn" "Why not, what have you got to lose? Come onnnn!" "I'm a normal guy I swear, pleeeeease"Especially after I've made it clear, taking it slow, not into meeting up today/this weekend. Just chatting, cool? They always agree, okay yeah sure that's cool. Then a bit of small-talk and the begging starts. This is a sign of disrespect and shows me they don't give a shit about my needs or wishes. That's why it's such an immediate turn off, desperation and disrespect is not sexy beggars.
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wingman2014
11 years ago
I can only remember begging once. Because at the time I was bound and blindfolded and ready to explode !! Gee some women are controlling biatches lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Caz90' Funlover u sound full of it... Turn off :) Reverse psychology. Come on baby, you know you'll love it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' I've never had a guy begging for it....not sure if that's a good or bad thing? I'm sure you'll have guys begging for your attention......Not I though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Given the right set of circumstances and the right mind set.. I think I could take a bit of grovelling! I might just give in .....if the grovelling is sufficient! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Will i just.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Begging is not a substitute for foreplay
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RHP User
11 years ago
is that men are so biologically driven for sex, while women to relationships more so than sex. Its a set up from the get go...but yeah, if you beg for it, you're a loser :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Some days you just have to put aside your ego and realize that she's just not into you. Begging and pleading is usually pointless and debasing. Hitch up your big girl's panties and move on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do you want me ? I thought at the time it was one of them hypothetical questions which deserved a yes or no answer . With abit of a laugh I told her probably, then she came back at me with a " No ' I'm serious " do you want me .? Now if that was reversed and it was me asking that same question , would that be classified as begging ? I think it would... So it gets down to who,'s asking the question' a female or male ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Do you want me ? I thought at the time it was one of them hypothetical questions which deserved a yes or no answer . With abit of a laugh I told her probably, then she came back at me with a " No ' I'm serious " do you want me .? Now if that was reversed and it was me asking that same question , would that be classified as begging ? I think it would... So it gets down to who,'s asking the question' a female or male ? No that is begging at all. That is asking a question, and a woman hoping that you will tell her something wonderful and hot and make her feel all sexy. I thought that was pretty normal conversation between lovers? No?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have to say.... I used to see this guy who kept his distance from me which used to drive me wild. So now that I think about it, I used to beg, I used to accommodate him and his wishes............ Hmmm. But you live and learn and I would never do that again. He can go suck a fat one.
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RHP User
11 years ago
*** Sorry, that should say. No that ISN"T begging.
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RHP User
11 years ago
On second thoughts that makes absolutely no sense? What, if a women asks it isn't begging, but if a man does, it is?? You know what, listening to a man tell you how much he wants you is an incredible turn on. Think of it like foreplay........ that isn't begging at all. But I am not going to tell you how you can speak to a woman to turn her on, and I sincerely hope you don't think telling a woman those things is begging. Begging is hounding someone for sex after they have said No. They have either said they don't want sex, or they are not interested in you but you don't accept that and you start pleading and say things like, "Please, please, why not?, Just a little suck, etc, etc. " Two completely different things.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Who is with me? When a mean you are interested in tells you he wants you and describes how you make him feel.... what an massive turn on that is! *Pussy twinge* I feel sorry for the women that have husbands and lovers who don't articulate how they feel. It's a real shame.
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Missb4u
11 years ago
Total with you on that. I want to know the effect I have on him, it's a massive turn on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'll do my best to answer this without sounding overly clinical. @ Meeka100 I am aware that there are some men that have little to no self restraint when it come to seeking sex and the methods of how they go about getting it. The act of a man begging a women for sex should always be discouraged. Hopefully for most intelligent or maybe attractive males it will be never looked at as an option. I understand however it has been done unfortunately. Come on If you have to "beg" then you need to re-assess yourself as a man and develop your confidence and knowledge. Unfortunately some men lower themselves to the behaviour of "asking repetitively"or begging. Mistakenly thinking that the women will miraculously give in. Perhaps this kind of behaviour may originate inside married relationships or long term relationships where the female may have a low libido or no sexual interest in the man thus rejecting the man's requests for sex, leaving him willing to try almost anything to get laid. It is in this predicament that a man will blindly try to use any tactic to persuade her into sex, naively thinking that by showing his vulnerable side she will in return show some sympathy to him. The truth is women are certainly not that stupid or sympathetic. Now look at how women responds to a man's steadfast pursuit for their attention, making them feel worthy and beautiful. This is greatly satisfying and essential for her confidence to feel highly desired by a man also maintaining a sense of inner-purpose and identity as a women. So he should be rightly put through a few criteria before she is happy to offer herself to him. When one is trying to understand the psychology behind the behaviours in the interaction of men and women It helps to first understand that women hold the majority if not all of the sexual power over men, it is this power that can have a man doing whatever be asked of him. Women can be very persuasive and clandestine when using their power, making men obedient and corporative. So why would they give themselves up for sex without asking a price or making sure what you offer is equal to the task? Only unless it is 100% of her choosing will a women show no resistance or hesitation in offering sex to you, it's not common practice for women thus it can be strangely overwhelming for some men as it defines all science and experience he had of a women's normal sexual behaviour. He may act amazed, confused! Thinking it's an act of female trickery he may even turn down the women's blatant request for him to fuck her brains out. He could retract changing the subject or just bailing the scene altogether! to the utter surprise of the women!. It is the classic story of when a women recalls she was totally offering herself to a guy and he freaked out and rejected the offer. As always much love, R.J.F
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RHP User
11 years ago
Personally, and I speak for myself when I say this but, as a woman, I take responsibility for myself. I don't appreciate the kind of "full on" attention you talk of here so, it stands to reason, that I don't attend the types of places you talk of either. I mean, really, if you don't like being one of two girls in a place full of desperate men, why go? And if I did go, not knowing the attention I was going to receive, I would simply remove myself and not return. It doesn't sound like a great night out to me! I'm submissive, so I REALLY don't find begging men in the slightest bit attractive however, I'm also human and understand that some women do not only like, but crave such attention so I'm happy to leave those guys and girls too it. I, no doubt like lots of chicks of here get hounded by "desperate types" but hey, it's RHP! Do you really expect that men won't be asking, and at times begging for sex! It's as simple as using the block feature if they continue to message but I really just accept it as a compliment and move on. Not everyone is lucky enough to have "sex" falling in their lap whenever they feel like it. Be kind in your journey x
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's been so long that I've forgotten ... In fact ... I can't actually recall ever being told something like that ... or did I just not hear it??? Maybe before I joined RHP I probably wouldn't have believed it anyway ... Even since joining I've not met any men who are expressive like that ... *crawls under her rock to think*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Paintme.... I agree and yes you usually have to ask the guy. But sounds like some men think that it's beneath them or that it is begging?? Anyway, it's those men who do express it, all those players and bad boys who are so charming.... They get the women and they are the wonderful lovers. So it's not that women want a bad boy, it's just that they make us feel so good & sexy & appreciated, etc etc. I personally make the effort to verbalise or even write about how gorgeous my lover is or how they make me feel. I can be very expressive. :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry, I made that sound like only players express this... Nice and good men do too. Even if it's like pulling teeth some times. Haha
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Sorry, I made that sound like only players express this... Nice and good men do too. Even if it's like pulling teeth some times. Haha Often people (yes sometimes they are men) replace verbal expression with other types, like physical expression. You have to tune your ear in to alternative methods of expression, then you may hear what you need to hear. His erection in my back is saying something, that's for sure. Not quite sure if it's "you are sexy", or "I am horny" or "I woke up with this, lets capitalise" . SPEAK UP ERECTION!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'paint_me' It's been so long that I've forgotten ... Yep...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have only been to that club a few times, and I would like to point out that it's not all the men there that do that at all, and I when I was there no man was really begging either but then again it's because they are slutty bi-sexual men so they all have each other. :p Looking back at my earlier comment, I probably made the place sound horrible... Which it isn't but it isn't for the faint hearted either and probably for those people that occasionally like the odd bit of sleaze. As for the line of guys, well they just don't want to miss the action or are hoping the woman will put on a show for them. Which quite often happens I am sure, hence them following the women around. Again I am no expert but the few times I have been there there were only a couple of women there, as in 2-3. Personally I don't enjoy that aspect of it and I would rather walk around with out the line of men following but each to their own eh. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dick is free, pussy costs resources. Dick has to gain its worth, pussy is like Visa...accepted everywhere...
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
I was at a BBQ yesterday. The host, a friend of 25 years has a 2yo retriever. That dog ran frantically from person to person with both his tongue and dick hanging out sniffing the air, dribbling, and desperate to taste any crumb or morsel thrown his way. Doesn't sound to dissimilar to your story lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
You make a hell of a lot of sense... Found myself agreeing with what you had to say. Good read.. Jay.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And they do a lot of arse sniffing. Yep, same same. :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
what if we are begging for meekas strap on? ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well Jay me it's the same really at the nude beaches... Just because there is an element of sleaze and desperation does that mean I am not allowed to go there either? It's unfortunate but there are some guys that just ruin it for everyone, like they do on sex sites, nude beaches, and sex clubs. Should I give all of those things up? Hell no, I have far too much fun when I go. Besides that is a side issue, I was just explaining to HP the reason why some women need to be aggressive with some men, and used that particular club and incident as an example. My question is about men beginning... Wherever or when ever that may occur.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Beginning should say begging.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe because she wasn't a lover and just a new friend I just meet I didn't take her that serious.? If I'm really into someone' I'll let them know with subtle compliments ? If their reaction is positive , then I never know what I'm likely to say... So yes ' I understand females getting off on being told what you want to do to them. Specially if they are in tune and reciprocate ... But I still can't see myself begging. ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Point well made... In a ideal world these grubs wouldn't exist. You don't give up the good part of your life just because of these drop kicks.. Sadly , you have to take the good with the bad... Jay
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RHP User
11 years ago
Actually I have travelled to certain countries where some men feel they have a right to come up and touch a Western woman, it's almost impossible to walk in the street without being molested. Does that mean we shouldn't go? I have been on buses where the men slide their hands through the seats so they can touch your leg. Does that mean I shouldn't go there? Even a slap across their head with my guide book didn't deter some. Like I said above, it's not everyone and it isn't everywhere. Yes sometimes you do feel unsafe so you leave immediately. I have reached this grand old age of 43 and I have never had anything "bad" happen to me, so I must be doing something right. I know a lot of people will not understand where I am coming from and probably think I am mad for doing the things I do and for the places I have gone.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Even in the clubs you wouldn't have seen the extent men can beg for things, sex one. You would need to spend a weekend up on top of the Mnt Panorama Holden race track at Bathurst, and be there for that one weekend each year. Mad Max (closest similarity) It is known fact that a V8 (Chev) sounds like sex, they sing to the tune. Another fact is that a car is an extension of a mans cock, Well you should see the Ford blokes Beg for a win, and see how they behave when they get a knock back. Power poles come down and a game of tug of war to the power cables, of the tip of things. It has been referenced to the public from the local police command centre and through the media, as bordering on antisocial behaviour, well that was a time where a round about was destroyed, gone, just a shallow hole in the ground. This is groups of men in the hundreds and all very safe, and it is every year, up there perfectly normal and the ford blokes carry on the same way. It's tolerated through a little banter, that's all. There not grubs though. Jay me eveywhere else they seem to behave to a somewhat normaler world. hehe HP it is Champion Gold and I roll it, It's the tobacco that is god for you, none of those chemicals cigarettes have. And time travel, difficult to say. Mado Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
11 years ago
Good not god
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RHP User
11 years ago
So much wasted progress, thrown away for the short lived satisfaction of witty banter. Asking questions loaded with a mindless agenda to feed hungry ego's as they compete for the silent appreciation of others. So many primitive minds hoping for a snicker of interest from the leading lady as she routinely spews out emotional porn for them to grovel in. As always much love,
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Missb4u
11 years ago
that's a total turn off...I haven't been to any club's so haven't experienced it in that context, I do imagine that would be a bit intimidating though. (mental note made to go with a male) But it does happen through here in a multiple of different ways. Example sending someone 7 flirts all at once and then continuing to do that everyday. What is up with that I thought there was a limit on how many could be sent?
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RHP User
11 years ago
No limit on flirts. And yes, I would always go with a man when going to a club or party for the first time. Unless you are a total exhibitionist or like to be gang banged & happy to go on your own. Not all parties and places are like this by the way. But if lots of single men are there....... It can happen, not always but sometimes. Thing is some women do go there for the attention and to put a sex show on for the guys, so they follow women around just in case. They don't want to miss the show! And that is fair enough, once they realise this isn't going to happen they go on their merry away. It's just that they don't realise how a group of men can be intimidating to a woman.... They don't mean to be though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
By the way, the reason why I asked this question was because of a guy I met at a nude beach last week. :)
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