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Men that cry

October 12 2014

Is there anything more attractive than a man that can show his emotions? I just watched The Block final auction and watched the winners Simmon and Shannon cry because their fellow contestants won almost no money and they really felt for them. Okay, so they are young and gorgeous, fun and genuinely nice guys which no doubt played a part in my pussy twinges, but when I saw those tears I thought............. OMG I love you! For me, when a lover reveals his vulnerability to me my heart just melts. Does anyone else agree? Or do you prefer your men to be made of sterner stuff?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    that the ridiculous notion of the stiff upper lip' has had it's day.A man who is not afraid to show his emotions is evlovedxx Q

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    However I have had several men cry on me when breaking up with them..I can't stand it or want to see that as it makes me feel even more worse! Watching the bottom lip drop/shake, the tears build up, chin shake... Awwwwww I'm a big softy to crying or seeing someone else cry. I just want to cry with them. Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    It's quite scary to expose.. I believe fear has a lot to do with it. Foxy

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 years ago

    It's quite scary to expose.. I believe fear has a lot to do with it. Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I can't help streams of tears when I have a good laugh. Sort of embarrassing when people point and say "he's crying!!!". Been known to well up in tear jerker movies and some songs, but I try to keep a cork on it for some ingrained reason. Shine on you crazy diamonds. Silva

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    I think trust is a better word. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    men always cry when I break up with them too...but that is out of sheer relief:-) xxQ

  • passion8_l

    passion8_l

    10 years ago

    I just love a man with a sensitive side and find it a very attractive trait

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I cry seeing whales killed, kids abused............women hit.there is NOTHING wrong with a male crying..............I wish most "males" were so sensitive and kind.what is wrong with people?

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Our prime purpose in this life is to help others and if you can't help them, at least don't hurt them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    i am open.........and only accept honest people .............female or male....................one has to be honest and open

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    beautiful and kind people are cool.love K

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    if they can't handle me twisting their nipples, squeezing their balls and biting on their cock ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    with criers, men or women, even kids, I am hopeless and consoling people. I only saw my ex cry a couple of times, when his grandmother died, when his dog died and I made him cry when I cracked the shits when he was throwing things around in temper when we were having a fight so I did the same and threw the ottoman out the front window of the house. That made him pull his head in! I am not against men crying though and I think it is good for the soul, I just don't like dealing with it.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    tulips, you and Tara are so very much alike. She has made me the man I am today.

  • TheLuckyOne

    TheLuckyOne

    10 years ago

    I am exactly the same. I am crap at consoling people and get very uncomfortable when people cry around me. As for men crying, if there is a valid reason then I have no issue with anyone showing emotion, but if they are just wimpy pants who cry over anything and everything then we are probably not a good match!

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    who will console both of us? I think I'm good at consoling people, which is why I generally get a lot of people share some very personal experiences with me. If they are crying and I cry, so be it. If they have opened their hearts then I can deal with it. I don't find crying men unattractive and I love connection with people on any level quite beautiful. Mary xxoo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't see a problem with a Man who isn't ashamed of expressing his emotions but when a Man cries after Sex , that's a whole other story ... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I do have a bit of a soft spot for Onions though . I always cry when I slice 'Em and dice 'em ! GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • lovman8

    lovman8

    10 years ago

    like most of our "rules" of society there is a reason for men to be unemotional and have a "stiff upper lip". When cornered by a sabre tooth tiger most women would want to be with a man who faces the tiger rather than dissolves into tears. So I think men crying is fine in the right time and place, but sometimes a man needs to be strong and stoic and its tricky as a man to know the right time and place for each stance.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I wouldn't say that real men don't cry, but real men do not cry over trivial shit. A movie or a book is NOT a reason to cry. That is NOT a case of men needing to show more emotions, that IS a case of women who cry in a movie or book needing to get more in control of their emotions. We'll do a deal. Us men will get more in touch with our emotions when you women can learn to control yours better ? The real reason why most men don't cry is because the more you allow your emotions to affect your decisions, the more clouded and possible biased your decisions will be. Decisions should be made with a clear mind, not an emotional one ! I've only cried once in 19 years as an adult, when my only and older brother died. I bawled my eyes out because I knew I needed to, then the tears just stopped. I didn't fight it when I knew it was there, but I didn't go looking for it later either.I also have very close friends that lost a young child recently. The man[husband] has had to cop the loss of his child while still going out and running the family business and keeping the home front as positive as possible. The woman [wife] has basically shut down all systems to the point of barely being able to function. If he showed the same emotion as her, what is left of their family will be gone in a matter of months, but with him putting his emotions aside, what's left of his family has a fighting chance. I know he didn't carry the child for 9 months like his wife, but no one can tell me that he didn't love that kid as much as his wife. But here's the thing, even if he wanted to show his emotions, how and when does he get a chance to ? His wife sits around all day every day grieving, yet he hasn't had a chance to scratch his ass yet, let alone grieve or be able to show emotion ? If you want a guy that shows his emotions, then go find a metrosexual or its latest fad version........the hipster. They are the flaky ones you want. They are the ones that will cry because they ran out of moisturiser. But if you want a real man, that will be your rock, then how can he be your rock if he's bawling his eyes out next to you all the time ?

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    "Crying doesn't mean you're weak, it simply means you have a heart." Now in saying that! There is crying because you have aheart or you're sensitive and then there's crying because you didn't get your own way, attention seeking or just plain needy and this isn't an attractive quality in anyone.......💋

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    When Greg Matthews got his maiden Test century in 1986, and again when my son was born in 2004. And again when Collingwood won the flag in 2010. I've never cried when it's too hot, or if my team lost or I got the wrong flavoured ice cream by mistake. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    I'm not shy about displaying my emotions, I just don't seem to dissolve in tears doing it :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    10 years ago

    +1. I was in the same position 11 years back. Someone's got to keep running the ship, or you very quickly have a shipwreck on your hands. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Too many of us lock up.......love my fem side...........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    love compassion and heart...............you are lovely x

  • ItalianVoice

    ItalianVoice

    10 years ago

    I decided to dedicated my life to the Art...And as an artist my "soul", if you believe in it, is really open to emotion...I always think that if I am not the first that could feel emotion for something Beautiful, why others have to?And this is the best way to try to be a good artist...IMHO :) So, when i watch something, i feel something, listen, try, say something that is really artistic, well...I can start to freed my tears :)Music, book, paint...everything could be...And I feel GREAT! Cry is a wonderful feeling for your body...

  • TallBaldSexy

    TallBaldSexy

    10 years ago

    Yep certainly, I shed a tear when both of my kids where born......Shed another tear when Ive had serious life achievement...and I also cried recently when I lost keno.........ooopps........I bet Meeka makes guys cry all the time....her strapons sound dangerous..... SAx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'MisterGreen' I don't see a problem with a Man who isn't ashamed of expressing his emotions but when a Man cries after Sex , that's a whole other story ... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile guys always cry before during and after sex with me. But it never saves them , I have no mercy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think it has also a lot to do with training. My husbands work over the years, emotions under complete control is vital for his job. He did not even cry when his appendix burst, and when he broke his neck once. He keeps his emotions well hidden if you talk about emotions he will switch the conversation in a heart beat. I know it has to do with his training and I accept that.

  • Circe

    Circe

    10 years ago

    A man who is in touch with his feelings. It's sexy! Dealing with a man who is depressed and crying is hard though as is someone who cries when you break it off. Otherwise I'm good with it and tend to be a friendly shoulder to cry on, I'm at the ready with tissues and cups of tea. :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Somebody has too keep running the ship? Well quite frankly I am sure there are equal amount of women who do that too when a man doesn't cope as well or runs off into the sunset because things get too hard. I assume we are all individual though and not some gross stereotypes. I know there are women out there wondering what is wrong with my partner who appears to not care, never talks about his feelings and doesn't seem to acknowledge the tragedy that has happened in their lives. I personally don't enjoy talking about a problem or issue to death... I internalize it first and try and make some sense of it before talking to others.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'QuiteFrankly' If you want a guy that shows his emotions, then go find a metrosexual or its latest fad version........the hipster. They are the flaky ones you want. They are the ones that will cry because they ran out of moisturiser. But if you want a real man, that will be your rock, then how can he be your rock if he's bawling his eyes out next to you all the time ? Frankly, I know men that are tougher and harder than you could possibly imagine and it is their emotions that have made them that way. They have all cried at some point or another, when they do, I would hate to be the reason why. If I called them hipsters or metrosexual, my arsehole would be a new collar around my neck. If we lost a child I would sit and grieve with my wife first and foremost. We would survive no matter of any monetary matters, even in a cardboard box as that is what she would need most. But that's just me, I have cried with her before and I will cry with her again. Call me a hipster or metrosexual and we would have a problem. Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I agree. I think some people view emotions as a weakness but I feel that people who are scared of showing emotions or bottle it up are at a distinct disadvantage. I also agree that showing your emotions can show a strength of character. But as IntheKiss stated, we are all different. :) I sometimes have wild emotional, dare I say hormonal, wild swings of emotions. Fuck it's good sometimes. And yeah sometimes I enjoy a good cry. I see nothing wrong with it, I cry at movies, I was crying watching the Block last night. I don't know... I would like to think that this my caring side coming out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sorry, I was going to mention the high rates of male suicidies in Australia, I think that bottling emotions up is definitely not a good thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If men were able to express their emotions more readily the male suicide rate in this country would not be so high...Mado I love you xxQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sometimes for me I don't have the vocabulary in order to put a finger on what I feel. That then leads to frustration and it compounds then into an expression of either tears in private or an outburst of aggression....though I don't show that aggression through violence I do show it by shutting down and I just go hide away. :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I feel that when a man trusts me enough to share his emotions with me it strengthens the bond between us. If I can cry on his shoulder he should be able to do the same with me. I was never sure how to deal with a mans emotions but now I've learnt that just being there for someone can make a difference.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Only if I drop food on the ground, kicked in the nuts or if I see a gorgeous lady and I can't think of striking up a conversation, in public it looks a little weird

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    10 years ago

    A woman in that has a crying fetish... She can only orgasm if she sees the guy crying and really upset... It's a horrible fetish but hugely funny in that movie... :/ Xxviolet

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    I think partly why for many women seeing a man cry is moving is because it's rare, and it shows us having a real response to whatever is prompting the tears. It doesn't always have to be about sadness., or vulnerability. Sometimes I'm moved to tears by the sheer beauty of something I'm watching - like a great theatre or a dance performance. Tears like laughter are a spontaneous and real response to something and that's why they are valuable. Our world is full of masks and lies, it moves us when the mask falls and truth is laid bare, even for a moment.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    No I haven't seen it. Is it any good?

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    10 years ago

    Really weird- and fetishes I didn't even know existed - but the actors (Australian) are great and the script is awesome. Definitely worth seeing Xx

  • Man2DesireU

    Man2DesireU

    10 years ago

    .. if if is still on in any of the cinemas near you (i saw it at a small art house cinema) .. .. go and see josh lawson's "The Little Death" right now!! seriously .. you MUST see the character drawn to her teary man (major part of the movie) and for all other readers.. seriously .. best movie i've seen in years..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I was bought up by a strong single mother who probaly because of hard times had a tough exterior. As a kid ' if I fell over and cried I was called a sook and told to get up and get on with it. . This taught me to push aside the pain and man up which later paid dividends when I went OK in sport. But it also taught me theres nothing wrong with showing emotions. I remember playing in the last game of the season once and didn't realise how much tension we carried until that final whistle blew and it was all over. The relief was that great and to a man the tears rolled.These days ' Im not affraid to hug friends of either sex and just be myself.. ( not gay btw ) Some things will bring a tear to my eye or I'll well up but rarely do I cry unless something deeply effects me.. Guess thats left over from childhood..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have not had a sad reason to cry for a long time but i do cry everytime i watch "Secondhand Lions" movie oh and when i had box jellyfish wrapped around my ankles but only a just a bit :)

  • TheLuckyOne

    TheLuckyOne

    10 years ago

    So hugging someone of the same sex doesn't mean you're gay?? Well I never!

  • TheLuckyOne

    TheLuckyOne

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Man2Desire' ... go and see josh lawson's "The Little Death" right now!! seriously .. best movie i've seen in years.. Going to see this film tonight! And thanks RHP for the free tickets!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Okay. Will see what I can do to see the movie. Thanks for the recommendation. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    YES YES YES!!!!too many men think its not cool to show their emotions but in all reality it is ok and very acceptable seeing as us women can freely show ours why cant men too.men i hope your taking note. i would quite confidently say most women would like to see more of it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was a tough guy for a long time, then I saw my first child born and everything changed, weep at movies, sad stories, Anzac Day I'm a mess. I know some people think it's weak, I don't give a rats. It's my humanity and I like it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Through my singing... One of my favourite songs is "Stay" by Rihanna. Still looking for the Rihanna to my Mikky Ekko to complete the duet. But there are so many tear jerkers I love. Wish you were here, you crazy diamonds. Silva

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You read right... Just because I can hug a friend who happens to be a man. Doesn't make me gay... Surely you can work that one out ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I only cry when watching neighbours or home and away - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ozzybloke because the acting is sooo bad:-) xxQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me'Just because I can hug a friend who happens to be a man. Doesn't make me gay... I think you missed her sarcasm, Jay. I think to most of us here it would go without saying that a guy hugging another man has absolutely nothing to do with him being being gay. The fact that you thought it necessary to point it out, made you sound (to me anyway) like you were concerned people "might get the wrong idea" about you if you didn't clarify. The Jay_me doth protests too much, methinks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Somebody has too keep running the ship? Well quite frankly I am sure there are equal amount of women who do that too when a man doesn't cope as well or runs off into the sunset because things get too hard. I assume we are all individual though and not some gross stereotypes. I know there are women out there wondering what is wrong with my partner who appears to not care, never talks about his feelings and doesn't seem to acknowledge the tragedy that has happened in their lives. I personally don't enjoy talking about a problem or issue to death... I internalize it first and try and make some sense of it before talking to others. Yet, out of all the comments made, yet again you took issue with what I said and yet again, going by your response, completely missed the point. How many more times are you going to do this to me Meeka ?Did I say, AT ANY STAGE, that women do not keep the ship running. I gave one real life example to show that sometimes a man needs to put his emotions aside. If he did what his wife was doing, there other remaining child would be neglected and their family home would crumble. Yet somehow, you have found a way to take issue with that. The fact that it is always you that does this, proves that you just have some personal issue with me and take every opportunity to try and shoot my comments down. Why does no one else on here take my comments out of context like you do ? I guarantee you Meeka, that going by your many previous comments on here, if men did show their emotions more, as you would like, you would then be one of the first to do a thread complaining "where have all the real men gone", and we all know it. And I do not have a problem talking about death because I can accept death. I don't fear death, I fear the pain that will come before it. I never asked you to talk about death, you chose to respond to my comment that mentioned death :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'QuiteFrankly' Quoting 'Meeka100' I personally don't enjoy talking about a problem or issue to death... I internalize it first and try and make some sense of it before talking to others. And I do not have a problem talking about death because I can accept death. I don't fear death, I fear the pain that will come before it. I never asked you to talk about death, you chose to respond to my comment that mentioned death There is nothing in her comment about death itself, I think you may have missed the point here completely yourself. I guarantee you Meeka, that going by your many previous comments on here, if men did show their emotions more, as you would like, you would then be one of the first to do a thread complaining "where have all the real men gone", and we all know it. I love men who show their emotions, but I think comments like "and we all know it" make you sound like a whiny little child. Not so hot.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Unfortunately I had realized that I had said quite frankly in my post which may have seemed like I was talking to you. I wasn't. I have already gathered that you are too angry and even bitter and I don't want the angst of someone always taking everything personally.... You also try and insult me in your posts and your dislike of maybe me personally? Or maybe you dont like women in general shines through... To me anyway. But from this point on I am not going to read any of your posts nor am I going to reference you, or attempt any sort of conversation with you. If it appears as if I am.... From now please assume that it is a coincidence. Life is too short for bitterness and anger. :))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Why do people like you always assume to know what mood someone is in when you can't even see them. Let me tell you here and now Meeka, do not mistake me making a blunt point with being angry.Maybe if people like you could handle some constructive criticism instead of always just giving your opinion and wanting to argue with anyone [mostly men]that don't agree with your usually biased opinion. And do not try and put this back on me or about anger issues. If you want to play that card, could I say that you must constantly be angry because you constantly have an issue to whinge about on RHP ? Do you really want to play that game Meeka ? But with your track record of taking me out of context, I am not in the least bit surprised that you also think you know what mood I am in. Yet again, you couldn't be more wrong. Maybe you should look at your anger issues due to how much your emotions take over in your obsession to post yet another rant in the world according to Meeka on RHP. A fairer thread would of asked the question, "do women show too much emotion or do men need to show more". Yet look at the approach you took. It had that similar theme that all your threads have, and I am not the only one that has seen this pattern. Maybe you should learn to accept men for who they are, rather then trying to change them one thread at a time into what you deem acceptable ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I do like men that are strong but with a sensitive side. I find them very sexy. I don't like guys that have a lot of agro. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think the movie isn't on anymore. I will have to hire it on ITunes. :-/

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    in Bris Meeka but only at night ...old ladies are scared of the dark...:-) hey Frank,the International Meeka Bashing day was yesterday...Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Qefenta3'International Meeka Bashing day was yesterday...Q Did I miss it again?! *Mutters under breath* Cow...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I think the movie isn't on anymore. I will have to hire it on ITunes. :-/ It's playing at Dendy still.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I get an international day? Woo hoo that is pretty special, I must be famous. :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Learn how to let a tear roll down your cheek while your lips quiver. The ladies find it adorable........ But seriously, physical pain is ignored and emotional pain is usually expressed by myself. I don't want or need people to see me hurting. It's not about being vulnerable, it's just not fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I am not afraid to cry at all, and feel it is a very valuable thing at times. The notion that crying somehow means a man will not be strong in a given situation is not one I agree with. Being emotionally available and being a strong man are not mutually exclusive - in fact, they often go hand in hand. It is about emotional regulation. If I feel it, I will cry when something sad happens, or watching an emotionally driven movie etcetera, or even in certain sporting / triumphant situations. Yet if the need arises, I can put my softer emotions aside and take control no matter how sad a given issue is. Once everything is under control, then it is time to quietly let the emotion out. This is a good way to stay healthy, and I take my health seriously. Ever since I made the conscious decision to cry if I felt it, I have noticed a huge reduction in anger and other negative aspects of my mindset. But it is only one part of being emotionally intelligent, sensitive and available.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I just swear. Like a lot. And then swear again at how long the injury will keep me from doing what I want.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    So refreshing to see a new member with a great profile, stunning pics and no cockshots.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I do like men that are strong but with a sensitive side. I find them very sexy. I don't like guys that have a lot of agro. :) But the more strong a guy is and stands his ground when he knows he's right, the more likely he will have an argument with a woman, or possibly be labelled "angry" or have "aggro".The more sensitive he becomes, the more likely he'll be labelled a sook or a mummies boy by those very same women that wanted the sensitivity. They'll say bullshit to that now, but we've all seen the results time and time again.The perfect partner does NOT exist. But with hard work and communication, the perfect relationship can possibly be achieved. I am prepared to offer an olive branch to you Meeka and say that both sexes need to realise that we don't know as much about the other sex as we like to convince ourselves of, and that goes forme too. I'm not sure what you think about that, but I would like to hear your thoughts.I honestly believe that ever since everyone went online to find a partner, is has done nothing but turn it into a battle of the sexes and divided us further apart. I will never excuse the behaviour of some guys, especially on here, but lets also look at how many women talk to men from the safety of their keyboard, but would never think twice about using those same words face to face. What about their "aggro" ? Do you not think that the over opinionated, very set in their ways women are not as equally unappealing when they act all tough but then pretend that they are this loving sensitive caring woman.Women in general [and yes I am generalising here], but in general women will usually want the intimate, romantic side of sex. Men will tend to prefer the visual and physical side of sex. Neither of us are wrong, or right, we are just further showing that we want different things from the same thing and have different ways of approaching the same thing. Each sex thinks their approach is right and its the other sex that has to change. There is no better proof of this than on internet forums. But there seems to be this online perception that the female approach is the only approach and that men are always in the wrong and always have to change their behaviour. But as the saying goes, "no one has ever been wrong on the internet, EVER".Women are women and always will be. Men are men and always will be [although I hear Thailand has operations to alter that stance], and maybe we just need to accept our differences [ I know that will offend the staunch debaters of equality] but I'm a staunch debater of having individuality and all equality really achieves is to put us all under one big convenient banner. But no two men are equal, and no two women are equal, so how does it ever actually happen in the true sense of the word ? No matter how many men's attitudes a woman can change, she will never change the attitudes of the fat old rich men that promote these agenda's. We ALL should be focusing more on those rich old men's agenda's and less on the word equality. They know that sex and the connection it brings is the ONE thing that truly unites men and women as ONE [and no I don't mean that from a New Age view Lol], but that's why they always have an AGENDA to divide us. They knew that promoting equality would inflame the battle of the sexes. The same old rich men [and their bloodlines] that promoted having traditional roles was the socially acceptable way to go. Then they change the game so it was all things equal. They knew that generations of social conditioning would not change as quick as the new rules, but that was part of the AGENDA [not screaming at you, just stressing the importance of that word in this context]. When has anyone with an agenda ever had anything but their own gain/profit/advantage in mind ? Why do politicians [puppets] always use the word "scheme". Look up the definition of scheme and tell me that politicians[puppets] have its true definition in mind with the word "scheme" attached to it. It's in front of us the whole time, yet so many choose to look away ? And who owns those puppets again ? The men with agenda's. People might think that it's a man's world, but it's a rich, and I mean really rich man's world. The rest of us just play their game of arguing with each other instead of focusing on them, and their agenda's. I am just as guilty as anyone, but I hope to have changed my ways. And to you Meeka, I really do not have anything personal against you, I just resented being taken out of context but I will admit that maybe I could of softened my wording so it didn't seem like a personal attack. But at the moment, we are both playing their game and turning against you. In future I would like to chat civilised with you and I will be more tolerant of your opinions and your right to express them. So lets not contribute to their agenda and maybe start listening more to each other. If all of us were happier and came together more, it really wouldn't matter what that system was called, be it equality or another name.Sorry, just looked back and realised how long that rant was. I'm happy to discuss anything I have said in more depth if you choose to ask. And sorry if this went off topic at all.

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    10 years ago

    I agree with Meander. Love your profile, and you're adventurous but want to get to know people and you show emotions ..... And you are a spunk! Woo hoo! Good luck with RHP. :)

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    10 years ago

    "MMF bi"

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    10 years ago

    Do you really think I didn't notice that!! He could be the perfect man. LOL. 😋

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    10 years ago

    Saw a man cry at an orgy once. Right before he ran to the bathroom to wash the cum out of his eye.

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    10 years ago

    I am tuff.......head chef ffs......three things i cannot handle.......cruelty to kidscruelty to women and cruelty to animals........I avoid watching such programs and do not read the papers.........just cant stop the tears........AM I AM PROUD OF IT.love to all.xx

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    10 years ago

    Love you xxxxxx and thank you, what a wonderful person you are xxxx

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    10 years ago

    thank you for the belly laugh........., love you x

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    10 years ago

    In an article by Bettina Arndt in the Australian yesterday'"Men do it tougher in golden years"...If you are not in touch with your feelings you can't offer proper companionship,and it seems to me that is what women are yearning for"' says Dr.Peter O'Connor who believes that men's resistance to tuning into their inner life and not sharing their feelings,not only prevents close friendships with other men but lies at the heart of the demise of many long marriages.........Many experts working with men also see hopeful signs that younger men are learning to break down ttraditional mateshi barriers....Older men who don't build strong social connection a are at greater risk of suicide.