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Men - this is about what attracts you to a woman ...
November 05 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
Id check her walk first, then if she's hot she'll have everything in the list but very rarely will everything be to ur particular taste. I'm not an ankles man (WTF)😊I've had slim woman with long sexy legs that walked the walk but no tits. And I've woman with enormous natural tits that weren't as elegant. so I guess it's hard to have it all but I'd rather have a decent normal girl next door than sexy bitch💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The way her hips are swaying ... Well I know mine do when I am feeling sexy. That gets some attention.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Eyes firstly ,cheeky smile ! Next face ,dress especially if gracefully attired! Love stylish lady (perfume if close enough) Legs if can see /nice dress Last but not least sexy bum huge turn on!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Followed closely by the eyes and face.... Then her tits, arse and legs lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
Will get me every time, followed by her hair, then figure and so on. And the waist for some reason! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hips and thighs. They are just so sexy and unique to females. Don't care less if they are swinging or not. Its a crying shame that the wafer thin straight up and down stick type is getting traction
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SensuousMasseur
10 years ago
Always the smile, the smile, the smile, then the eyes. I think that almost all ladies (99%) have sexy legs, adorable butts and seductive breasts .... However, if they have that lovely smile, as well as stockings and heels on, then I am normally happy to immediately become their obedient slave (if allowed .... lol) and normally start to think how I might be lucky enough to satisfy some or all of their secretly kept sensual fantasies ....
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RHP User
10 years ago
The smile and laugh followed by legs, butt and alcoholic state.
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RHP User
10 years ago
the posture, the way she carries herself !The other attributes do help and contribute to the overall package…… But sexyness in not limited (for me) to a particular body type….it has something to do with the confidence, the body language and the attitude in display. They say that our unconscious do pick up millions of information that ends up translated into judgements (positive as well as negatives)…. So don’t try to hard, just be yourself, feel your beauty and don’t be afraid to display it :) :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
…and back to eyes again. Once I'm this close I don't want to be busted admiring her breasts, hips and legs.
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RHP User
10 years ago
from afar, it's the hips/walk - confidence seems to radiate out from the hips when a woman is walking. from near, it's the smile - especially if the smile reaches the eyes, I find that very alluring. Agree with other comments that it's not cool to be caught looking for too long, even though you might want to.
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beebs
10 years ago
Always the eyes.
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6exxy
10 years ago
That is sexy
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inspirit
10 years ago
Code for breasts - in a mans world
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
When her tongue deliberately caresses her lips - with eye contact.....oh dear - yummy...
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beebs
10 years ago
Wonderful as they are can't look at you back and don't sparkle when the person smiles :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm totally magnetised by women with great posture... Then the way they move, walk, gestures then boobies- I 💗💕😋 gorgeous boobies- all sizes... Hmmm now I've totally distracted myself!!! Xxviolet
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RHP User
10 years ago
It sounds crazy, but when a girl has just walked out of a salon or has longer hair, I just notice it. I notice the bounce and shine strait away before I am drawn to any facial features.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Eyes, except if she is wearing sunglasses...then the hair and face. Then a quick scan south and back up again. Shine on you crazy diamonds. Silva
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him_and_me
10 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' …and back to eyes again. Once I'm this close I don't want to be busted admiring her breasts, hips and legs. In normal life, I am with you all the way on this one. I am primarily attracted to a woman's face and pretty much just as you describe it. It's not one certain hair colour, style or anything else, but an appealing combination all aspects together can quite easily make my heart skip a beat.The exception to that on this site is that the face is the last thing you see. So I find myself in a quandary as you can be drawn in by other physical attributes, but if the most important aspect (her face) doesn't work for me...it just isn't going to work. That is torture if you've messaged for a while, find them attractive in every respect, and then you find that there just isn't the requisite level of attraction there when face pics are opened :( I hate having to say it just won't work.On the flipside, when everything looks great, and there is chemistry there, and there is a decent level of attraction...then we're back to heart-skipping-beats territory. Him
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RHP User
10 years ago
Legs, curves, & i've got an obsession with natural red/ginger hair.
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Insomnian
10 years ago
The way she carries herself.
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four4fun
10 years ago
Hahahaha love it Inspirit I think you got it!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Great smile and sense of humour do it for me, seeing someone laughing at something is like an unguarded moment when they are themselves without all their walls up. The rest of it is just bonus. Incredibly attractive for me. And besides, they'd need a good sense of humour to tolerate us around haha MR
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
From afar or close, the heels will influence her posture, her walk and the way her hips and arse move. A delicate totter will expose her sexiness and confidence in the way she balances on those heels giving the impression that she can handle herself in any situation . The jarring of those heels to pavement will also add a nice bounce to highlight the breasts If the heels are too big for her to handle it will negate those other positive features and reduce the appeal. Whilst only a small part of the package, those heels will serve to enhance and attract attention until other features pull the perver...er I mean viewer....in further. Yes. Can you tell. I'm a shoe queen. And any one that has poise in six inch heels has my vote.
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Seachange
10 years ago
So far nothing new jumps out to me. Pretty consistent to what I thought. How ever I'd like to hear more from a man's perspective. Not that women's posts are not anymore valid. Juat would like to see something new. Popcorn anyone?
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Plain
10 years ago
Or TITS,THIGHS, ARSE and WOBBLY BITS, but first is the walk and the carry of all those gorgeous parts.Then eyes and eye contact smile good, frown or unfriendly pout danger do not approach.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not really required normally we are leg or breast Not that complicated,art of recon is a skill though xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Apparently approaching women in the street is harassment ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's the first thing I notice , followed by the eyes teeth and hair.. she may not be drop dead gorgeous, but if she comes across as a woman who takes the time to make herself look the part , that counts.. In fact , she may be dressed in ripped jeans and T , but if she make sure everything matches 'something screams out ' look at me' and I do... PS... I know Im shallow... but Im honest...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Women have an aura ,confident strut,beaming smile xxx They stand out from the pack,in a good way!! Not too much make up ,just right! Swag is common term but it is package a quality which the lady exudes!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
keep them coming .... Hugs LG
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' Apparently approaching women in the street is harassment ? I think you are in the wrong thread? Lol. You may be referring to Steel100's thread? Cheers.
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SoSoPretty
10 years ago
After having a second look, do you any of you guys actually get the urge to approach a woman that has caught your eye?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' Quoting '50zcool' Apparently approaching women in the street is harassment ? I think you are in the wrong thread? Lol. You may be referring to Steel100's thread? Cheers. Exactly
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's how she holds herself, confidence in that she knows I will look a third time after she has walked past - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoSoPretty' After having a second look, do you any of you guys actually get the urge to approach a woman that has caught your eye? You mean exercise my egotistical sense of entitlement ? No way, i'm not a misogynist bully !
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
I'm going to throw a spanner in the works, to some degree.Upon reflection, I think most guys will understand where I'm coming from, too.For me, it is a matter of perspective, literally. Being of the taller variety, I generally don't see a woman face to face, or face to boob, or whatever. When I first see a woman, I see her overall composure - the way she carries herself. There are some that carry themselves 'elegantly', and others that, well.., not so much. I can see the overall picture of the woman concerned pretty much in the one glance, right from the tip of her head right down to her shoes, and see how well she carries it off all in one go. Then I look for the individual details (when interested), such as hair, face shape, boobs, legs, taste in clothing, and all the rest. I usually don't need a 'second look', as I can generally spot someone from a distance, and pick up if the details interests me, and will just watch for a while. What specifically intrigues my initial interest - hair. As mentioned in a previous posting, I am very attracted to ladies with long brunette hair (say around waist length), and that will usually pique my first glances. But that of course is not the only item that may attract my attention - depends on what else I can spot from my vantage point early on. Tall
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoSoPretty' After having a second look, do you any of you guys actually get the urge to approach a woman that has caught your eye? I believe you will find it depends on the circumstances at the moment, as well if there is any sort of acknowledgement on the part of the lady (such as eye contact or similar). Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes' of course... If I fancy a woman I will approach her sooner or later.. If she gives off good early vibes it's sooner.. Otherwise I bide my time and wait . But once I set my mind to something / someone , it's just a matter of time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoSoPretty' After having a second look, do you any of you guys actually get the urge to approach a woman that has caught your eye? Oh, But the banana thing in a shopping trolley is BS.............Don't ask me how I know this
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RHP User
10 years ago
A woman's walk, especially when looking from behind can be just as potent as the cleavage. But on a side note, how is it you can never tell when a woman is checking a man out?! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is the clothes and how they are worn. Then it is the bodily curves Up close it is the face and the life force shown in the way she smiles. - Posted from rhpmobile
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imupinthesky2
10 years ago
CONFIDENCE !! I am not your typical man I guessif a woman exudes confidence in herself it doesnt matter her features as she is proud of who "SHE" isI find beauty in everything, be it a smile, a walk, fashion sense, just to name a few ..... I quite often take a second (sometimes a third look heheeee OK so I am greedy !)but in the first case as an incessant flirt (all talk and no trousers ..... ) I always smile in appreciationa smile is contagious, I give it freely without expectation of returnI am not adverse to giving a compliment or two if the opportunity arises ;) so ladies, strut your stuff, your all unique in your own special wayhold your head high and walk with confidencex
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RHP User
10 years ago
A woman's posture before anything else. Then face, hair and body shape.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My distance vision is not great and I try not to creep people out by squinting at their face, so the first thing I notice is almost always clothes. Clothes will tell me a lot about style, personality and general taste. Well chosen clothes will also show off the other fun parts. For my tastes, I tend to prefer women in simple, classic clothes or flowing, breezey ones. If someone's all dolled up on the street I usually think 'not for me'. Lots of white and gold? Nah. High heels and miniskirts in the city on a weekend? Pass. However, elegant little black dress? Ooh baby! Knee-high boots? Where do I sign up?! Boots will actually be the first thing that draw my eye, and from there my eyes tend to work their way up. Discreetly, I should add! ;)
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
So I need to walk straight, head up, eyes ahead, be confident, swing my hips, dress well, shinny hair, big smile, no sunglasses but no squinting, because you need to see my eyes, boobs out there, but not to out there, nice shoes, nice arse, nice legs, so I don't have to change a thing😜.....geez cut me a break guys and girls.......this is probably why I don't go out much lol, but going down to the shops today could be funny to watch......😜
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Missb4u
10 years ago
by the hair comments. I never would have thought that was a consideration.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' So I need to walk straight, head up, eyes ahead, be confident, swing my hips, dress well, shinny hair, big smile, no sunglasses but no squinting, because you need to see my eyes, boobs out there, but not to out there, nice shoes, nice arse, nice legs, so I don't have to change a thing Sounds just like you, I think you've got it down!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was approached in the street by a young guy who got down on one knee and sang to.me. I loved it, it was very flattering. Apparently, it was the way I held myself when I walked. I think we are far too "politically correct" these days, and a man showing interest in a woman in a non threatening way is still lovely as far as I'm concerned. My son and his friend were with me, they thought it was funny that an "oldie" was getting some attention!
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
You and me both lovely.....😜
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RHP User
10 years ago
The way she is dressed and carries herself. As she walks towards me I'll checkout her face and tits and as she walks past I'll check out her but hips and thighs. Then I just imagine what the rest looks like underneath😉 probably should've said hello to her as she walked past 😔 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
10 years ago
You are not an oldie. You are a beautiful warm person and you exude elegance and class. You look very friendly and sm niy surprised bubthe attention you got. Ya sexy thang!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's beautiful, love it ! Now check out the thread "Is it ok for Heterosexual men to hit on women "
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RHP User
10 years ago
Eyes face smile
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Naughty_nature
10 years ago
The fact she's breathing haha. It varies from person to person attraction is so subjective it can be eyes smile combinations even heaven forbid personality. Getting to know the person learning about them as well as the physical will not only attract me but keep me coming back. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you, gorgeous, and you too are a beautiful person, hurry back to Perth xxx Macguy, we are so clever at "secret checking out", years of practise
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RHP User
10 years ago
When a woman is inwardly content she has an air of confidence and purpose that show in her posture and gestures which generates interest like a pheromone, and its very hard to ignore a beautiful body and pleasing smile coming toward you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its all about the shoes for me and her fingers. well you did ask !!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
First noticed is her face. Is she pretty? Then it's overall size and height and finally, if it can be established, does she have a nice bum? So face, size, then bum, nothing else matters. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
But if the person upon whom it is bestowed can't crack a smile that makes her eyes twinkle, my attention is lost. Too oftenthe ice queen who thinks herself too good or too classy too let her hair down and simply enjoy herself rather than keep up appearances has missed out on all the fun by maintaining her cold demeanour. Give me a girl who enjoys herself and can have a laugh at her own expense anytime.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's in the sway, then the eyes, hair, the rack , the pins and the ass, love em all anyway!!!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'macguy29' But on a side note, how is it you can never tell when a woman is checking a man out?! I have given up on being subtle as I've gotten older. I make eye contact, do the slow gaze up and down the whole body, stopping whenever I find something I truly appreciate, then back to eye contact with a raised eyebrow and a cheeky smile. I'm guessing women don't do this very often as the usual reaction is surprise and a big grin, even from guys that may not be attracted to me. We women need to be more straightforward in our appreciation for men, I don't think they see enough of it...
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Djd_2014
10 years ago
In my professional opinion it is always the facial features, boobs, booty and legs that catches my eye at FIRST! I only take that second glance if she looks confident, in control and aware of her surroundings. When you work outside every day there are always plenty of women either taking their kids to school or going to work or taking the dog for a run and naturally you say hello how ya going to a passer by, most people react with a smile and Hi, great thanks response but if you first catch eye contact and you both know you have been sprung for doing the old up and down look then you both look away and then back at each other then walk past in a straight forward stare into space without saying anything.. That is really awkward haha :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Combined together is perfect....means confidence in oneself, and open to interact....( even if for only a second) Without the smile, it's still good...but without the warmth... A confident (therefore sexy) woman who wants to have a moment with me....PERFECT! :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Body then eyes would you believe, reflection of the soul perhaps, unsure but do both of those attributes = persona? along those lines anyway. Then you know...you start talking to them that usually determines something. Not so so much each person deciding separately, but more so something happening between them, a spark. along those lines haha
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a combination for me. The way she holds herself, confidence and purpose in the way she moves. Eyes and smile. A woman that takes pride in her appearance.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Presentation is what I initially spot, (would refer to clothes, shoes, face and hair). As she gets closer, a scent that is sexy but not overpowering. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
A woman with hips and a graceful neck.
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alwayshard80
10 years ago
Show some skin! Whether it's legs, shoulders, cleavage, midriff, back, anything. You'll get a second look. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes, a great body, cleavage, the usual suspects are all there, but what really makes me perceive as woman as sexy?Some women are just naturally sexy, exuding sex appeal, regardless of how they are dressed or what they are doing, and for me, it doesn't fall into the 'dollybird' category.It is more a combination of things, but it is the eyes, that look of confidence, mischief and a glint of adventure that really captures me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find all good relationships are where there's balance. And initial interest is one aspect to get off on the right foot. An inviting smile or glance is most interesting. It need not be much but enough to show that you're single, interested and open to being approached. Avoiding eye contact or not returning a smile will quickly get you labelled as uninterested and my eye will wander to the next possible smile. And for those women who are nervous and expect the guy to do all the work, well sorry you'll probably find the guy go for an another inviting smile. Chatting up women requires confidence and putting yourself out there with too many knock backs, makes us selective to more inviting opportunities. Plus to be very honest, if you're not confident and inviting with eye contact, then sorry for me this translates into many other aspects, especially in good sex. So moral of story. If you catch me making eye contact, return it with a smile if your interested. First impressions count and this is a big one for me. And for what will get me to make initial eye contact, well I'm 6 foot 6 so head up is a good start :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
made me smile..
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RHP User
10 years ago
How they walk. Hard to define, but if you can not walk like you don't need the ground to support you then you will never be able to dance like there is no tomorrow.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Attitude is king then the generic attractions ass breasts face clothing perfume etc. - Posted from rhpmobile
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blackbig
10 years ago
Eyes and general face compression first.. If they can top up with nice voice or a smile then it is a bonus. Then will look at the body shape. It will depend on how everything interrelate to make a whole beautiful lady. - Posted from rhpmobile
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