RHP

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Men's fetishes

April 29 2008

I'm bewildered...what the hell is with men always trying to go the back door? While i'm sure some women enjoy the anal pleasures, others see it as an exit only...I just want to know...what is the fascination?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    17 years ago

    possibilities" They are,literally anal- it's a sociological / psychological thing. they have heard something about it being tighter and want to try it. porn scenes that men seem to want to- re-enact in real life - forbidden fruit : the more you can't have it, the more u want it the last chick that they did it with really got off on it- therefore will the next one (seriously sex is about variety) many possibilities... i have crudely summarized a few of them.

  • RHP

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    17 years ago

    To each his/her own...some guys like it...some don't...some girls like it..some don't. The bottom (no pun intended) line is if you don't like something just say No! If they don't respect that...show them the door!

  • RHP

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    17 years ago

    Suggest if he is that interested in anal play that you could go buy a strapon and then you can both share in the experience.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Well a girl doesn't have to ask me twice if she wants to use one :)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Lol there will always be those who go the extra mile though I'm thinking it would scare many requesters off.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    " Over the many years of hav been invited to such offering of personal pleasure & much investigating in2 such a darkened pleasure... 1stly the TABOO factor raised the tempered sensual pleasures that stream through thigh veins 2ndly ... depending on the angle, U can rub the 'G' spot via that slither of lusting skin from anus to ' V' Another fact is, its pure tightness adds to excitement Also, adding 2 its power is, ' just knowing that U R getting FUCK'D up the arse drives a certain WILDNESS to it... ' Reverend Lustschild'

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Arse is exit only for this guy.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thats all it is & shoud be used for,EXIT only.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    What is good for the goose, should be good for the gander.  ;)

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I personally don't prefer the backdoor. I think some men do not have a clue how to pleasure a woman, hence during intercourse their penis is not squeezed by the womans vaginal muscles. Therefore they only know to ram a womans vagina or to go anal. Should a man take his time, the womans vaginal muscles would relax and begin to clamp on the penis, hence giving both parties a hiightened experiance of a tight vagina and can even lead to prolonged orgasm. In regards the g-spot been better touched via anal, this is only a myth. G-spot can easily be touched withen the vagina but only when a woman is aroused in the proper manner.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I figure it's the forbidden apple situation. It's a bit kinky and testosterone driven guys (like myself) tend to like to push the limits. Keep things interesting.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    As a tradie, we have always used the back door.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'brisolderguy' What is good for the goose, should be good for the gander. ;) I can not say it better. There are girls and guys you like it and those that don't. It is something that has to be talked about. I myself like the feeling I get from it but I have never had it done by a Strapon. But if you say NO then it is NO else show them the door

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Miz, I think, as others have said prior, its about variety, about forbidden fruit, however, for me, its about being able to have and take all of you. I guess, ultimately, its a little dominant thing. Personally, I also enjoy having my ass fingered or toyed too, makes an incredibe orgasm.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    anal ? ....as many straight guys enjoy it as gay men, or hetero women, or anyone for that matter, only thing is tho that they immediately associate it with being gay and they scare themselves off............ a suggestion would be that if you would like your female partner to indulge, first let her do the same to you with an appliance roughly the same dimensions as yourself......... see if you feel up to asking for her butt after that...........you'd have your answer long before asking the question.....

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    One word that comes to mind: tight. :D Feeling a finger or toy in the vagina while you're in the back passage, even with another finger or two, can be an amazing. And that's just from my viewpoint. From the way I've had women react I think they really enjoyed it too. :)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I cant understand guys wanting to backdoor Hell guys you have the most fantastic playground in the world for your pleasure and you want to get out of it Unless she asks stay where the fun is and lock the back door

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    love a DP too...

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Maybe they think its just another place to play :) different feelings and new pleasure...oh and pain.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    i agree, some girls are curious when it comes to anal, others cant understand how it could feel pleasurable, my current girlfriend started geting curious about anal but was nervous about the size of my penis and a previosly painfull first experence, after some intimate 4 play and touching i slowly and gentley introduced her to a new experence that to her and my suprise she loved it

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    From my experience its a whole range of things from the naughtiness of it through to the fact that not that many women are willing to try it and jesus christ does it hurt if you are not ready or relaxed. Guys that I have done it with tell me its 10x times tighter and a whole lot warmer creating the most amazing feeling on their cocks. A billion gay guys cant be wrong!! It feels great for guys and its enjoyable for most willing to try it. Just make sure you are ready, relaxed, trust the person you are with and use plenty of lube!! I would even suggest some very gentle digital action first just to get you really ready for it.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I think that done properly anal is amazing and that is all I am going to say on the subject while I am in my current moodSarah x

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    its tighter

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'dirtyslut4grpsex' From my experience its a whole range of things from the naughtiness of it through to the fact that not that many women are willing to try it and jesus christ does it hurt if you are not ready or relaxed. Guys that I have done it with tell me its 10x times tighter and a whole lot warmer creating the most amazing feeling on their cocks. A billion gay guys cant be wrong!! It feels great for guys and its enjoyable for most willing to try it. Just make sure you are ready, relaxed, trust the person you are with and use plenty of lube!! I would even suggest some very gentle digital action first just to get you really ready for it. Definitely gotta be in the mood but I have some lovers that prefer it over normal penetration and the orgasms are better too!As long as there is lots of lube - preferrably of the silicon kind, your lover will always get offJMO

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    it keeps things interesting and there is nothing like a guy cumming in your ass, i never did it till i was with my husband he knows what hes doing though and he makes me feel like im in control therefore making it most enjoyable :)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    lots of woman absolutly love it, sometimes i think its a domination thing, that they are after, and some just squeal there vocals off, and some don't want to have it at all,it taboo to some, either way its a personal preferance, mind you have slipped in before and gone to take it out, and had the reponse,{ leave it in, thats nicer than i would of imagined}keep going> oh and if she reaches for the lube, make sure it is lube she has grabbed, deep heat burns the anal passage as i found out with a poor young girl,years back, poor woman had to sit in bath for over an hour, and still wanted to try it a few days latter, oh well :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    2 words..... U FIRST

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    twice as tight n ten dergres warmer lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    the darn hole is so tight, the sensation is amazing, just like penetrating a virgin for the first time, some men get ultimate pleasure from this.. i've been with girl who I dont get the sensation when doing vaginal penetration, seriously.. no grip.. its like a riding bicycle on a motor way.not every one cup of tea, but there it is...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    i think...no, we think...that any woman whose man is asking them for anal, should only go there, if their partner/husband/whatever, is willing to go there first.... he should know exactly what it is he is asking, and exactly what it feels like.....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    If you stimulate a mans prostate he can have a wild orgasm. Let him do you and then get your revenge he won't be disappointed. Just my view I long for a woman to play with my ass.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Back door can and should remain shut - however - the fun is in the knocking yeah?