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  Insomnian

  13 years ago

  There's a variety of reasons. They either, don't see a possible match, aren't interested, have way to many messages and haven't gotten through them all yet. Those are just the reasons I can think of off the top of my head, I'm sure there's plenty more. Is a usual thing with this site, wouldn't lose sleep over it. Move on, find someone/s who do, does, will.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Sometimes need templates

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Everyone will have a different reason, but I suppose some people have so many, they only reply to the ones they have an interest in. Some people are just rude. Perhaps you need to make sure that you fit the seeking criteria of the person you are messaging,that your profile is interesting, That the message you send has some substance to it ,and is enticing.XHugs H

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  There are many reasons why messages aren't responded to; lack of time, interest or manners are common ones.Your OP doesn't give much away and that would make me wonder about the detail in the messages you are sending out.Though we as a couple reply to all messages (because we believe its rude not to), we pay attention to those that are clear, well thought out, show that our profile has been read and understood. A good message will also share some information that is not in their profile. Really good ones will make us smile.Avoid short messages like 'hiya, how're you going?"....hardly inspiring and shows that little effort has been made and try to make the subject header something relevant and more substantial than 'hi'. In short, make sure they are well composed, individualised and free from spelling/grammatical errors as much as you can (having said that, we are all human and absolutely allowed to make mistakes; aaah, the curse of the over-enthusiastic fingers).Try adding a brief sentence at the end to the effect that you understand if you are not their thing, but a quick 'no thanks' would be appreciated and that no offence will be taken. Sometimes, people just feel bad about saying 'no' so they choose to say nothing at all.Good luck.

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  jenniecruising

  13 years ago

  Generally because the originator hasn't taken the time to read preferences.Profile looks fake.Introduction started with "Wanna fuck"Have too many messages in the inbox they have lost track.

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  xFunlovingx

  13 years ago

  That you didn't get the old line...."Oh this has been done to death"....but then again you are a hot couple and not a single male writing this! Go figure! . Noone knows why people don't reply to messages let alone why some people don't even read them to start with....Ego boost? I guess there are many scenarios on why they don't do it! There is absolutely no excuse to not reply to messages at all....RHP has even been good enough to give us templates so that we don't even have to type a word back to the person if we are not interested! . Are you patient in waiting for a reply? Do you expect the reply within 5 minutes (trust me there are people like that out there)....Sometimes it may take me up to 2 weeks to reply to messages...but I do eventually get there with each and everyone of them..even if they can't read my profile and are outside my criteria...they just get a template reply. . But my question to you is...would you want to meet someone like that anyway? . Hugs...xFunlovingx For some reason my smiley faces and colour text is not working :(

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  im with FUN all the way on this one....there is NO reason at all for not replying   its just lazy and mannerless   Hugs

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  because I always reply......unless you become a serious pest and then I block!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  ....as they have messaged unto you.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'MistressT' ....as they have messaged unto you. Pure GOLD

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