M47
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April 25 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
You hide away in a private gallery so they have to have contact with you before they can even view you, then they don't like what they see, and you expect a reply? Don't bother telling me you need to be discreet. I've heard every excuse in the book for unattractive people not to display themselves. Oops did I say that 😱 well someone had to 😏
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RHP User
8 years ago
If I'm wrong, and I have been once or twice 😉 throw a few pictures in public and make me eat humble pie, I don't mind a slice every now and again 😛
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RHP User
8 years ago
Rude. Me personally I will try to reply to messages that are decent or well spoken even if it's a thanks but no thanks. Messages that are basically just shit get deleted straight away. No efffort in writing no effort in replying. But at the end of the day everyone is different and a ignore is a no also, so no point stressing too much, just keep at it 👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have had it done to me. I always let the guy know with either a "no thanks I am not interested" or sure "let's chat". Doesnt take much to be polite. But saying that when I do send a "Thanks but no" I do get some very rude messages back. So I can understand why people don't reply as well. Good luck - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Everyone has their reasons for doing what they wish, sure I don't agree with some but I have my way of doing things. I used to see it as a rude thing sometimes still do but I am the type to reply to everything, easy as I don't get much to reply to but I know If I were female I'd be no different as it's just my nature. Couldn't count the dozens of times this has happened to me though and a lot of other males here. So OP I wouldn't be concerned or let it get to you as.... 'Some girls will ooohhooo some girls won't' Haha now anyone who reads this won't be able to get that tune out of their head
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inspirit
8 years ago
In my opinion is RUDE. However ive been told I'm online when in fact I'm not. Be careful before you judge. Just sayin. 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It doesn't take much effort to be polite but that emotion seems to have go the way of the doodoo.. There are plenty on here like it - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
...interesting to see a married guy looking for discreet fun, who's complaining about class, respect, and manners.
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noeleena
8 years ago
Hi, don't think I can I,ll take it means some one send you a letter, and you can read it. okay ,I think you have to be a paid member and I,m not so it wont happen for myself . This includes many other forums I,m a member of if I,m asked for some photos and I,ll assume its nudy one s they wont to see I say not going to happen and that's the end of it, I have never asked any one for thiers only their normal face photo, I know to night I was told to get more attention from others I should put some I,ll use sexy photos on the forum, I said not a happing and I wont ,I,m shy enough now as it is so no,,,,, oh he said you could block your face out, ...nope....I,m very well known plus my name and I,ll remain dressed in all my photos . am I a prude ....yeap. naive yeap....and shy. gee am I learning detail well some any way ...noeleena...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nothing wrong with a thanks but No Thanks :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Inspirit. That's happened to me too - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have to admit I tend not to reply. The main reason for this is that I don't want to be rude by pretty much saying "thanks but I don't like you"! So maybe I'm being rude trying to avoid being rude 😄 I'd like other people to tell us why they don't like us rather that not replying though, so that I can improve our profile (do I need to change the photos, the bio, the message...I want to know! 😄) -Ethan - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
8 years ago
I used to reply to all messages and even those after seeing pics to say no thanks. That was in the early days of being on Red Hot Pie. After 12 months of abusive rude messages I stopped. I don't need that kind of negative crap in my life. Prettubsire I sought advice from the forums and even adjusted my messages. Didn't make any difference. Everyone's experiences on here are different. I can only speak of my own, that being a chunky, curvey, little extra padding how ever you want to describe me, woman. I find that when I send rejection messages I receive an abusive quite vindictive very personal attack back. It can be soul destroying. Understand I'm talking 7 out of 10 reply with some nastiness, not just an occasional "you're a bitch" message. So why would I continue to reply with a polite thanks but no thanks message?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I get the same re my age, sling insults about that, I also used to reply to all, when I first joined. I have no interest in being polite to every weirdo on here, and there are plenty of them
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RHP User
8 years ago
I must admit in agreeing with Itm2, if you don't have a profile pick up in your public gallery then your limiting yourself to receiving a reply or a message!. As also mentioned in many prior forum topics in the past. No reply = Not Intrested. So many women get abused even when they say thanks, but no thanks. Not being attracted or fearful of being abused would be a main factor in not receiving a reply one might guess. Have been guilty in the past but mainly because I wasn't attracted or didn't won't to hurt anyone's feeling. To anyone that I've done that to I'm truly sorry. Be Intrested in knowing if any gents have been abused by saying No ? Iol i doubt there would be many. It's life. Not everyone will like you or be attracted to you. Don't sweat the small stuff. - Posted from rhpmobile
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ajcouple
8 years ago
Yes it feels uncomfortable to reply "thanks, but not what we're looking for. Best of luck in your search" after having requested face pics. But I remind myself that just comes with the territory for people who've decided to hide their face pics. It's extra uncomfortable to be doing that in kik after some conversation. But again, same thinking applies and it's never my preference to have to go about things that way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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ZetorOMG
8 years ago
Ladies !! I understand you receive heaps of messages from all types of people , but please , please , please either respond politely or just block the sender if he or she is undesirable ..............Only takes second to take this action ...........!!!!" No Way do I Agree " to abusive or appalling language , so you guys on here who think its ok !!! Go somewhere else and stop giving this site a bad reputation ..............Now !! who wants to join Zetor in the Dungeon ............xxxx
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RHP User
8 years ago
If a woman is going to read my message could they please go through the process of going to your inbox and open it so I can see that it has been read as a non reply also means no. I also like Zetors just block them strategy
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RHP User
8 years ago
Good for you for having your beautiful faces on display, and together, even rarer 😉 lovely picture btw 😃 stand proud I say 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Omg we agreed 😱 😉
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
I'm hopeless at answering them, really bad and I'm not ashamed to admit it. I'm seriously only here so I can lurk around in the forums. KC72 answers 99% of them, because he's good like that and he knows how hopeless I am. 💋
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RHP User
8 years ago
...someone messages you, you reply, but they don't reply back....what are you going to do? Is that what you mean?It is rude, for sure...going by the unwritten rule book .I guess you can either get upset about it, just like in real life if that were to happen...or you can quickly move on. Relegating that moment in time to the scrap bin of history.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Doodoo/Dodo same thing right? 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
Like a 5yo. Stop making us all to be knuckle dragging swamp apes.. Soz whoever I stole that from its gold - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Love the comment "be careful before you judge" ! I know its human nature whether we are aware or not... We all make judgements, however the way we deal with and express our opinions of other people is what matters. Do you think someone can accurately judge your personality from a few messages or words sent? We can gauge how well aligned we are with that person at that particular time, but we are judging our own views on people not the actual people (unless someone is abusive or something is different, but still)..does that make sense :-0. Like send the same message to different people and you will get different reactions !!! Ive just noticed there is alot of nitpicking and double standards... with alot of what everyone else shd be like, people complain about not getting replies but won't reply to people and/or block them if they feel they don't like the interaction for whatever reason they decide, if you dont explain what the issue is the person might not realise how they are coming accross or maybe they just need someone to actually say hi, maybe they want the reaction how do we know ?!?!?! And that's perfectly ok, we have a choice dont we ?!! :-) im not perfect, im just a girl and dont fit into one particular box, none of us do !!!! hopefully people remember not to be too judgemental, everyone is different!!! * online integrity* we cld call it maybe ;-) !! Maybe im just making up for some really average messages ive sent here and there ;-) sorry to whomever feels so ! P.S. SOMETIMES PEOPLE GET BOMBARDED AND OVERWHELMED WITH MANY MSGS, impossibpe to read or reply to all of them !!!!! if you want a reply maybe message them again something really catchy and irresistible, try not take things too personally from someone you've never met!! X blah blah take care and have fun :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
lmao i know right 😂 We may have different views on some thing's, but not all. p.s I'm a lover not a fighter. 😉😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It's possible they recognized you...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Regarding your profile showing that you might be online when your actually not, I to thought the same, but received a polite message from the mods awhile ago saying that you need to actually log off, so you don't appear online. Hopefully that info will help other's. So guy's if you think the lady's are ignoring you then maybe consider there really not there. Presumption is the fucker of all evil. 😇😇😇😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yeah me too, but shh don't tell anyone 😉
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