Adult Forums   \   Hot Topics   \   Mid life crisis

+ New Topic

RHP

RHP User

M66

Mid life crisis

August 17 2013

age

Had a phone call from an old friend this morning to tell me her partner had dumped her recently. She told me that he had exhibited all the signs of entering into a mid life crisis: trading in the sedan for a sports car, completely changed his wardrobe, hit the gym, got his ear pierced and a couple of tattoos and is now frequenting all the hip nightclubs in Sydney chasing the 20 somethings (he is in his late 40's). About the only thing he hasn't done yet is to take up some daring activity like sky diving! Actually I think my friend is glad it is over lol   She asked me if I ever went through that or am I going through that and it got me thinking. I have no desire to chase after a woman decades younger than myself, been there done that and actually found it, well them, boring. Whilst I would like a sports car, it isn't to show off, I would dearly love to own a Mercedes SLK-350 only because I drove one in the USA recently and loved it lol, would make a wonderful weekend ride. As for the act of bravos etc, I started to think of all the things men going through a mid-life crisis to and realised I had done the majority of them when I was in my 20's: jumped out of a perfectly good aircraft, flown at supersonic speed, travelled the world, been under fire, dived on sunken WW2 wrecks at the Solomons. I just think I don't have anything else to prove to myself. I guess I can be considered boring now -yah for me lol   But it got me thinking, is a mid life crisis a male thing or do women experience it as well? Have you seen someone go thru it and how did you react? Are you going thru it now and what new experiences and activities have you taken up?   Mooka

reply

Comments

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    This one is a beauty though.

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If you like Merc's try an AMG C63. That'll blow your socks off more than a SLK-350. :)- Posted from rhpmobile

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Its a catastrophe   I am showing my tits on cam..wtf am I thinking? I have a hundred naked pictures of me on the net..wtf am Ithinking?   I am bonking hot young men.   I am having threesomes. I am flying to far flung places to meet RHP forum posters who drink out the mini bar!   I am spending more and more time in five star hotels with sexy strangers. ( but I always bring my girlfriend) safety in numbers you know   I am in a five star hotel right now, but this one like many other times its all for moi to spoil myself and as I don't have a bath at home,well whats a girl to do?   I am buying clothes , doing my hair, looking after myself   yes I am well and truly over the hill and lost the plot. But when I am in that plot I will know I lived it, right or wrong it was my life.   sometimes people go what the fuck am I doing, sliding into old age so they put up a bit of a fight.   the problem is that sometimes its the end of a relationship. I guess the are having a relationship with themselves for a change.   if had the money I would by a four wheel drive and go out into the bush as my life crisis. I do that anyway but my car is not four wheel.   sports cars are lame to me.   LadyT , over the hill and picking up speed

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    1. Are you regularly looking in the mirror for white hairs?2. Are you thinking of doing a Bungee jump?3. If you are a man, are you thinking of getting a Harley Davidson or sports car?4. Are you flossing and brushing your teeth diligently now?5. Are you spending more money on vitamins?6. Are you thinking seriously of getting your first tattoo?Ohhhhhhhhhhhhh fuck these questions...WHO'S ALREADY THERE WITH ME??FOXY

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Like the sound of yr "mid life crisis" haha heres hoping mine can b a even slightly as interesting as that ;)- Posted from rhpmobile

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There is a plethora of info out there about the mid life crisis.So it is easy to classify someone is / was / will be experiencing same.Not into the term myself, although its an easy out to placate some when they are in need of justification for their actions when around that demographic.

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    life crisis,and I love it..........necessity is the mother of re-invention.

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I was going to say no, but... I fuck twenty-somethings, hit the Couples Club regularly and am thinking of getting pierced. Crap.

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I hit 50 and my mid life crisis kicked in.... Bought myself a Mini Cooper S convertible and found myself at the beauty parlour regularly becoming girly..... Luckily it didn't last too long and i found myself returning to watching the football....but i did keep my little car...... Cissy

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I for one are thoroughly ejoying mine... Chasing Women with about as much success as a dog chasing cars - but Hey> Everybody needs a hobby.. Chuckle.. at least you can afford good wine to go with your MLC

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    because my mid life crisis saw me simplifying my life. So much so that I live in an old shack and my biggest worry at the moment is my fire wood needs chopping so it fits on my woodfire stove. I've had stuff. I don't need stuff anymore.

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm ... than ... in ... It's Saturday night, bottle is almost gone, keyboard skills have gone pear shaped.

    reply

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'paintme' because my mid life crisis saw me simplifying my life. So much so that I live in an old shack and my biggest worry at the moment is my fire wood needs chopping so it fits on my woodfire stove. I've had stuff. I don't need stuff anymore. You just need some good old Iron Bark, for that wood oven. I hear they are good for making scones, scones for devionshire tea has been popular for a drive out to the country for as long as I can remember. Sounds like you may have all the stuff you need.Mado, Tara xx

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    and their behaviour is so much more obvious and tragic. I must admit I'm surprised to hear mainly ladies putting their hand up in pride (and I rejoice with you sisters) but I guess not many men are going to come on board and say "I got a Prince Albert as it was about time".   Was it circumstance or a MLC that got you ladies moving?   And I need firewood chopped too! Anyone with a splitter near the Newcastle area?

    reply

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    And yes I am going through my own midlife thing and have been for about 4yrs. It started with my Dodge, then leaving a perfectly good marriage....hmmm then a nervous breakdown and now like a phoenix rising from the ashes I hope to get to Lady Tuscan's phase.....lmao woot wooo!!!! I can't DO younger men though....but the ones around my age have been sublime!!! Bring on Brissy Drinks Night folks!!!

    reply

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    If you get yours done, we can do it in October after Sydney drinks night.....anyone else wanna get a commemorative tattoo? Lol

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks one and all for the great responses. It didn't surprise me that most of the respondents were from the ladies. From what I have read a lot of men either don't know they are in a MLC or won't admit it. I guess I missed out on the whole thing, I honestly can't think of something that is atypical to a MLC that I want to do. Definitely none of the typical bravado traits that many exhibit, been there done that with no real desire to go back and repeat them. Naturally there are activities I haven't done that I have on my bucket list: write a novel, get my pilots licence, travel more - but I don't think they are normal MLC activities. Ms Indagine, thank you. I guess I am not the standard RHP male in that regard, I have no desire to chase after a 20 or 30 something lady. Tried it a couple of times and yes it was initially good for the ego, I quickly found it not only boring but non-stimulating as well. Sure the sex was okay, but I stand by my belief that a woman in her 40's and on is more sensual, more erotic in their love making. And most also understand that a 50 yo often won't have the stamina of a 20yo but has other tricks up his proverbial sleeve lol But kudos for the guys that do enjoy the younger woman (and likewise the women who are after the younger men), if you can pull them in, have fun and enjoy. It just isn't something that holds my interest. Mooka

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm not sure if it was a mid life crisis that saw me take off to Ireland for five months when I was 40. I did also end a relationship that year and quit my job (I was only going to take a leave of absence). And this year I took a leave of absence, left Tasmania and am now in Darwin, busting a gut to get onto remote communities and truly experience the Outback. Could it be a mid-life crisis? And is it really a sign of a mid-life crisis if you buy a strap-on and a whip, start wearing lingerie that you've never worn before and start shagging people younger than you? If so, I've been in crisis for awhile

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    they had a show about it on ABC radio last Sunday, it was quite interesting.I think its a term whereby maybe the majority reflect on what they've done, or haven't done and as such say it's now or never. And for the majority its around mid life it happens as then (generalising here) the kids are off their hands, they have a bit more disposable income, they listen to too much ABC radio .........

    reply

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    and send you onwe only to discover DARN IT my automatic membership renewal didn't kick in cos I lost my keycard on Thursday, had to cancel it and won't have another until next Friday. Bugger how bad at timing is THAT???

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'paintme' because my mid life crisis saw me simplifying my life. So much so that I live in an old shack and my biggest worry at the moment is my fire wood needs chopping so it fits on my woodfire stove. I've had stuff. I don't need stuff anymore. You just need some good old Iron Bark, for that wood oven. I hear they are good for making scones, scones for devionshire tea has been popular for a drive out to the country for as long as I can remember. Sounds like you may have all the stuff you need.Mado, Tara xx make legendary scones. They're a speciality of mine and are a very special part of my mid life crisis ....

    reply

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My partner did. Left me for someone young enough to be his daughter. I hung in there and four months later she dumped him for HER ex. Him and I are slowly becoming friends. I did not go through it. Menopause is hard enough to cope with thanks.- Posted from rhpmobile

    reply

Tags

View all

sex

swingers

couples

swinging

redhotpie

women

relationships

advice

messages

dating

Boards

Forum help

Get the RedHotPie app
appStore googlePlay

Contact Us

®2001 - 2025 Digital Quarter Pty Ltd - All Rights Reserved The word RedHotPie and the RedHotPie logo style are trademarks of Digital Quarter Pty Ltd.

X