sweetnsensual

sweetnsensual

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Mixing play friends with regular friends

May 26 2019

Recently have included some special friends in social events with regular friends and has been fine. Who else has had dinners or bbqs and mixed play with regular friends?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Some of my regular friends know about RHP. It hasnt made any difference to social nights.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    6 years ago

    Spent time with my mother while I went to Ed Sheeran concert with his daughter. Like Koko makes no difference to me. Ms Foxy

  • sweetnsensual

    sweetnsensual

    6 years ago

    Our sentiments as well!

  • Deep_Love

    Deep_Love

    6 years ago

    Yes, I had my last birthday at a restaurant/bar with some vanilla friends and some play friends who are also good friends. Both sides were respectful of the others preferences. I would introduce my vanilla friends as my 'normal friends.' Code for 'not a swinger.' Your proper real vanilla friends won't care either way. If they do, they are probably not the friends for you. ~ Mrs Deep_Love

  • Bazingal

    Bazingal

    6 years ago

    I have friends from school, workplaces, my neighbourhood, the kids school and sports teams, friends of friends, RHP...... I don't see how my or their sexual activities should impact who I spend time with socially. RHP friends also hang out when my children are with me. Never had an issue combining friends 😊

  • sweetnsensual

    sweetnsensual

    6 years ago

    That’s great neither do we It’s just interesting blending the two worlds!

  • Nudetwo

    Nudetwo

    6 years ago

    We invited a couple of our "naughty" friends as we call them to our wedding. We all had boats at the time and when asked by our "normal" friends how we met each other, we just told them we had met through boating and no further questions asked. Of course we pre arranged with our naughty friends what to say when asked,,,,lol

  • windows_spent

    windows_spent

    6 years ago

    Almost all my friends know I date in two streams... so whilst I’ve not introduced any, I could and would... As to the reverse? I went to a birthday of a play friend and we’d forgotten to prepare a story! Opps!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    For us... Its a huge secret in our life and we wouldn't want to 'mix the worlds' just yet.. We prefer it to be our little secret 🤫

  • 181Dinner4Two

    181Dinner4Two

    6 years ago

    Mixing Vanilla & Play Friends. With a 25yr+ friendship (since the late 80s) where this Lady and I were just good friends. Side by side we worked, played and generally had fun times together. Reconnecting after a few years absent of chatting & texting, I was asked by this gorgeous Lady if I would Like us to catch up together and ... with her husband for some bedroom play & 3ome. Well, so many dreams came true that night for me, and ever since then my eyes have been opened to a wider, fuller and most beautuful world to live & play in. Thank you - You Two, oh so Very much. You know ... for my 2 cents worth, for those cotemplating, 'Mixing Vanilla & Play Friends', you might just find another soul to enjoy and have loads of fun with, and how great would that be ... Cheers & hugs - edd. (imho that is)

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    6 years ago

    Yes, we mix vanilla friends and swinger friends all of the time. Our parents even know them and invite them to family get togethers. They know that they are dear friends of ours, they just don't know we have sex together. We have a variety of stories of how we became friends such as work colleagues, gym friends, mums' group, kids sport and met through friends. Our parents babysit for us all of the time that we go swinging and love hearing that we have gone out with a friends for a night (although in their minds it is dinner, drinks, movie etc not MFMF, MFM, MMF, FMF, FF etc)Some of our vanilla friends know we are swingers and who our swinger friends are and they all get on very well. One of our swinger friend couples are actually godparents to our second child.