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More confidence or less?

August 29 2014

Are you more flirty, more confident, more openly sexual on here than you are in real-life? I certainly talk openly about many things on here that I would never discuss in real life, except with my partner, with friends from here and with one other very close friend. Most people in my life would have no idea of how sexual I am and how open my mind is. There are various reasons for why I choose to only share that side of myself with a select few, and I'm happy with things that way. It's also one of the reasons I love RHP - it allows me to express a side I myself usually hidden. So, are you expressing things here that you don't or can't express outside of here? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • OPNmarriagecpl

    OPNmarriagecpl

    10 years ago

    I (mrs) am exactly the same in real life as I am here on RHP. Every friend and most family members know all of our sexual proclivities and eccentricities. I am the Queen of "Too Much Information" apparently but I don't see it that way. I see it that too many people today are repressed in many many aspects of their lives and that I would just not be me if I had to censor my thoughts, my feelings and my life. More people should feel that way. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Im like this in real life. Actually I can say more in real life than what I can on RHP. Go figure ?????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I agree some people are repressed. I wonder if those people find the freedom of RHP liberating for their spirits :) However not everyone who chooses to separate aspects of their life is repressed. For example discretion - my choice - does not automatically equal repression. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    In my real every day life that I can talk to you like I do in here. In real life I am pretty quiet and reserved.

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    10 years ago

    I think that I am the same on and off rhp... Mrs Cheeky Mr Cheeky however is more flirty on rhp and behind closed doors.....

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    I think I'm about the same, maybe a little more out there in the flash, but me nevertheless......💋

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovinit28' I think I'm about the same, maybe a little more out there in the flash, but me nevertheless......💋 Would you please advise the masses hereon whereabouts you carry on such activities, and is it a regular activity... ? Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I like to think of it as suppressed rather than repressed. I am certainly more confident here than in real life. It is easier to express thoughts which would not go down well in the more conservative work and family environment I live in.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    back to your OP.... It really depends on whose company I'm in. By nature I'm very friendly, can be somewhat cheeky, and will come up with plenty of double-entendre's, always waiting and watching to see who may cotton on. I have found, unfortunately, that here on site my dry wit has had some trouble translating into effective moments of humour, and has not always appreciated by some. I don't generally show my more sexual side to those I know don't know about this side of me. As the OP has also made mention, I clearly separate my areas of my life, not through repression but by careful selection of the company involved. Tall

  • Circe

    Circe

    10 years ago

    I'm more flirty in real life. There's a real filter for me in writing. No such filter exists between my brain and my mouth!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I mr am more open on and mrs well her net ball friends a few years ago said while on a netball trip that they couldn't imagine her having sex because she was to innocent , little do they know of her 2nd life ;-) lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I am as I am Maybe even more open in person because face to face you get to see the reactions and the jaws drop at some of the things I may say .... I love that ! Seeing how far I can push buttons :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'JayJay_66' I am as I am Maybe even more open in person because face to face you get to see the reactions and the jaws drop at some of the things I may say .... I love that ! Seeing how far I can push buttons :) - Posted from rhpmobile I have the feeling that many guys that you meet will automatically have their jaws drop when they first see you anyway... Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I never used to be I was quite shy and reserved when I was younger but now I don't give a shit. Most of my friends know what Im Like and I do have select people who know about my personal sex life. I have friends for certain areas of my life, I don't have a best friend who I can confide everything with but I have a mix. I'm much more flirty in real life and sometimes I've just let out what I was thinking to people and it's paid off well. I'm generally a good reader of people and I kept things to myself depending on the situation. Only a small select group know my kinky world though and I prefer to keep it that way

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think I am exactly the same on here as in real life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think I wouldn't talk about my love of DP's in real life unless I knew them in an intimate way! I thought apart from that I was exactly the same as in real life, but a friend recently told me that though I'm never passive aggressive in real life, my comments sometimes read that way.I'll be a lot more aware of that, thanks x

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    10 years ago

    But it depends on the situation. I think I am consistently flirty and very confident in here as in real life. I am very outgoing and very social. I am playful and caring with my RHP FWBs as those with the vanilla friends. No one in my family, friends nor work colleagues know I am on RHP and it makes it difficult to bounce ideas with wrt some dating or meeting behaviours. I know they are conservative and this would shock them and I will be judged. I do not want my 'real' life to collide with my rhp life and take extra measures to ensure this is so. Just the way it turned out. At work nobody would suspect I am here. I am quite conservative in my main work circle but in my other businesses, my other employees can handle a less formal me. The way I like it. Work and pleasure does not mix well.Among my close circle of friends, I can be brash, cheeky, silly and outgoing as in here. A couple will not be too surprised if I am here but it may affect our friendship as they are conservative. I lead a dichotomous life but not to my choosing as I wish I didnt have to hide this aspect if not for the backlash towards me and my kids and my career/businesses.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ... on how comfortable I am with the people around me. I tend to start off a bit shy, but once I figure people out... even some of the people who do know what I enjoy are surprised or shocked by some of the things that this clean-cut, suit-wearing WASP says. On the other hand, I made a joke at work about wearing a leather cap and g-string on casual Friday, and one of the other guys said "that's your other work uniform!". Laughed so hard it hurt for about three days...