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Multiple Profile Views
November 13 2014
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
Not long ago about who looks at your profile, and a guy was confused because although he's straight a lot of other males look at his profile. I get that too - some people look at mine multiple times. And they're from across the country so they can't be checking out the competition..... I TRY to only look once at a profile, but some are too good to resist! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It doesn't bother me at all if people look and look. I don't have a face pic or identifying things in photos, and I do have my pics on a public profile, so I figure go for it. I assume some are re-reading my profile but most are perving. If I look at a profile multiple times it's usually to perve :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I view someone who has looked at my profile, and something attracts me to them, I will have a look now and again. Brightens up the day. But a couple of guys who keep looking at my profile pop up in the chat room now and again. I say Hi and they ignore me?
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
I have my setting set so they don't know I'm looking at them, so they had no idea if I'm stalking them or not.... Just so everyone knows, I've readed most the profiles of the people in the forums, some maybe to much. Yes shells, koko and ralf I've looked at your profiles, more than once......😜 But yes I've offended wondered why some people have a look, then another look and then look a bit more. I'm interested to know why they don't message me or anything either. Yes koko I know where you're coming from, I have one man that looks at mine regularly, I sent him a message once with no answer, strange really.....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
I use all of those reasons, and a few more. If I'm going to send them a message i may look a few times to get more of an idea on how to tailor a message to that particular person. Sometimes it is just because they have amazing pics and i cant help it! I'm terrible at remembering profile names so if they change their main then I'll look thinking I haven't yet. Although repeatedly looking over and over in quick succession isn't what I'm talking about, that's just creepy! haha! Have an awesome day! Yowie.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I very rarely pay attention to the either the real time info or who has viewed and operate in stealth mode to avoid any unnecessary confusion. It's been my experience that having been seen to have looked often gets perceived as interest & initiates communication. I may have been looking out of curiosity for any number of reasons, not necessarily because I'm interested in pursuing anything further.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love stealth mode. It means I can imagine loads of women looking at my profile !
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RHP User
10 years ago
I too am forgetful. . But I also read the forums a lot and I like putting a face to the people posting.. that would be my main reason for re looking over and over again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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SacralChakra
10 years ago
I have regulars that have been visiting for years. They can't see my private pics though so I'm really not sure what it is they're after. It's kinda nice to see them though - I'm like Hi! Have a great day... Lol
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Looked @ BL, Kiwi, 50zcool, Twisted I would call it almost stalking lol, yowie no! But I'm about to check you out now...💋
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totallygenuine
10 years ago
As of late I've had a few view my profile multiple times so when I do check out who is viewing me its shows they haven't been online for over month. Can't work that out cause I do happen to log on a couple times a day.
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Told us 'thanks but no thanks' and continue to look at us. If we didn't do it for them when we opened up our PG why the hell are they still looking since we've gotten the brush off. 😳 Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
do stealth..I mostly look at forumite's profiled or any one who is looking at me when I am online...otherwise.. can't be hovered xxFreya
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
nor do I have an issue who views my profile or how many times. It's not something of real high importance to me. A big wave heeeeeeeeeeeello and blow of kisses, to my daily regular visitors/peeping toms' who make their daily appearances. Foxy XXX
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think most of us have our regular viewers, I dont think much of it. I will have a look when I see someone view my profile that I do not know or can not remember. I also have a gold fish memory, especially for names and handles. I am a guest so can only watch them look. I would never consider anyone repeatably viewing my profile as stalking because if it made me uncomfortable the block button is always handy and stalking is only so when its unwanted attention.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That way some get feel special that someone has checked them out.... But... I can't seem to manage their disappointment when they realise it was me lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
10 years ago
We just move past many profiles while browsing only read few but I guess all get registered as views. Mobile app allows random browsing where you don't control which profiles comes next. In short it is possible we may pass same profile many times in a day with absolutely no interest. It is of no interest to us to track what we have already viewed to avoid repeat view.It will be naive to guess reason for view. There is an interesting incident that makes me laugh. There was a couple who approached us and we said no. off comes the reply even we don't want you which was bit funny considering they asked as first. Well the couple thought we continued viewing them. Few days later we get other message. "You are following us but that will not help as we are not interested. Don't waste time". Just made me laugh for ever for that self proclaimed importance.
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RHP User
10 years ago
50z... You can't see who the stealth viewers are but they are still counted in your page views... Sorry mate, you're as popular as the rest of us... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ladies you do know for some of us 100 views for a month is the big time. It took me a week before I found stealth mode and more importantly realized It looked like I was stalking the person who came up 0 km from me every time I did a search. But I'm sure there are a lot of RHP's that are like "why turn it off" and I would turn it and leave it on if just said "looked today".
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RHP User
10 years ago
All those people that say they don't care about their peepers. How do you know they are even looking? LMAO. Sounds like lots of people are looking at their who has viewed me list me thinks. RALF, maybe you are coming up when they are doing their profile searches, I believe that people that are online come up first, so of course if you are online every day you would be coming in peoples searches every day and when they click from one profile to another this may come up as they have viewed you, when in fact maybe they just flicked past you. Does that make sense?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I dont get it either... Have always wondered myself...good post :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
when someone looks at my profile often they perv .................thats ok.....I can not force them to make conduct. Its a free world....my photos are there I made some public....how can I complain when someone looks "often"
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RHP User
10 years ago
Because your hot ! Because your sexy ! Because when browsing through profiles using up and down arrows every profile shows up even if you just click past . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' 50z... You can't see who the stealth viewers are but they are still counted in your page views... Sorry mate, you're as popular as the rest of us... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
not getting many views so far this morning, I might have to use the search function for a perv today *sigh* lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
..but I don't use it myself when viewing others. Being a member of the underdog sex here I'd rather let women know I've viewed their profile…who knows what it may( or, more likely, not ) spark. After all, if I don't show the courage to let someone indirectly know I'm, at least, interested in them on here…what does that say about my ability to talk to women in the real world? Wouldn't do anything for my pride if I had to admit to myself I was too scared to let a woman be aware Iwas perving on her... I can understand why it is a useful tool for the women on here..being the hot commodities they are.Usually when someone checks out my profile I'll have a look back out of curiosity. Except for the guys..I don't want to give them the wrong idea, I suppose..and probably half the regular views on my profile are from men, usually the same half a dozen. Though, the first and only friend request I've received came yesterday from a young man…and I was curious enough to have look at his profile. After all, he did appear to be a very attractive young woman.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meeka... It's not that I don't care if people are looking at my profile, I actually like it, and I usually look back at them... But it doesn't offend me that they look repeatedly... Ralf... We can't have single men feeling good about themselves... 😋 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' All those people that say they don't care about their peepers. How do you know they are even looking? LMAO. Sounds like lots of people are looking at their who has viewed me list me thinks. ? I only notice the people that check me out while I'm online (which, granted, is a lot). I don't mind, though I blocked someone once who looked at my profile several times daily for months after us having an unsuccessful first date.
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
And noticed I had 29 views since I was last online. 24 by the same person. Crazy!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' All those people that say they don't care about their peepers. How do you know they are even looking? LMAO. Sounds like lots of people are looking at their who has viewed me list me thinks. RALF, maybe you are coming up when they are doing their profile searches, I believe that people that are online come up first, so of course if you are online every day you would be coming in peoples searches every day and when they click from one profile to another this may come up as they have viewed you, when in fact maybe they just flicked past you. Does that make sense? I know another site I was on had a function like that and I was sure people were flicking through them all. I contacted one guy on there once when he kept coming up as looking but not contacting and I asked him and he told me he wasn't interested and not to email him again, lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
one couple profile who I did send a message to a while back has looked at my profile a number of times since then..is odd. They never replied, which is fine, but seem to spend a lot if time looking at my profile over a period of time. Sometimes if someone changes the main pic you check to see if it is a new profile..then realise you have messaged previously, but I can only put down multiple views over a long period as a bad memory? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Bazingal
10 years ago
and my inability to use it properly. I often press the back arrow and get thrown out of a person's profile, so have to go back in. I remember once I replied "Thanks but no thanks" to a male profile and he was a bit upset and asked if I wasn't interested why did I look at his profile a so many times..... Ummmmm..... because I pressed the wrong button, repeatedly..... Whoops. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
of looking at some of the Forum Members' Profiles here.That's because I have just become a "paying" RHP Member and I'm just looking at gaining friends. I notice that most of the female RHP Members here, live in the Eastern States. That is a shame as we won't be able to meet for coffee. I need girlfriends who are my confidants and maybe also my co-conspirators; just like my husband is to me. Having said this, please don't be surprised when I finally get around to "messaging" you. It's not "Sex" that I am after . I'm just looking for some advice. Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
You are welcome to look at my Profile anytime !!! Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meander, the people who look at you while you are online, will know that you have the ability to notice them too. So there's a good chance that if you are interested in them, you won't just "look" but send them a "flirt" or "message" too. When I am online, I do "look" at whoever happens to "look" at me. I've also taken to looking at some of the Profiles of the Members who have viewed me, since I was last logged on. Amy
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
Yep all of those darn unicorns viewing me - oh dear which one to choose...Not - be me's still havn funnnnn...
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RHP User
10 years ago
One thinks your hot but one thinks not ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm guilty of profile perving. I prefer looking at real people than 'porn'. K xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'amylee2000' Meander, the people who look at you while you are online, will know that you have the ability to notice them too. So there's a good chance that if you are interested in them, you won't just "look" but send them a "flirt" or "message" too. Tell 'em they're dreaming!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well we are all on this site for the same reasons ,were naughty ,sexy ,curious and kinky All in various degrees,repeated veiws by people you have said thank you but no thank you ,can be a bit frustrating but if thats what floats there boat and no ones hurt ,whats the harm .we are very forgetfull and veiw online at different times so we can chat to each other and discuss the pros and cons .Its a interesting lifestyle we all live on here but it is tricky so relax and enjoy the complement of lots of veiws ,cozz were all voyeurs at heart
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RHP User
10 years ago
Id rather they look than not look.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'amylee2000' Meander, the people who look at you while you are online, will know that you have the ability to notice them too. So there's a good chance that if you are interested in them, you won't just "look" but send them a "flirt" or "message" too. Tell 'em they're dreaming! Dreaming of your profile pics! Consistently topping the hottest intelligentsia of RHP list! I didn't even know it was a competition..
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RHP User
10 years ago
doesnt bother us..we do it sometimes as well (forget who we've viewed etc). the only time we block people for doing it is if we send you a message, you dont reply but keep checking our profile..wtf?
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RHP User
10 years ago
one little bit people can perve and read as much as they want :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
who would put up a profile and not want it looked at ...? I struggle to remember who has what preference until I see it again, so I would look but not contact if I wasn't their preference, most times. The system must record views in excess to encourage us perhaps, especially the way the app jumps about randomly. Many lovelies are worth much looking too.... sigh.... Had feedback that some messages weren't getting through to guests. Had some multiple views, flirts sent to me, then reply with message, then nothing ???? I guess there is much perving on all sides .... all good !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like others have said, I will at times read the profile of those who post on Forums. It give an idea and perspective of their comments. This is why some views may be from interstate. At times I may be bored and do a random search to see who else is on here. Multiple views would generally be because I have forgotten I have viewed that person most times.
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RHP User
10 years ago
the way I look at is if your back twice then there may be many reasons. A third time and I'm messaging you, odds on because I'm interested in the next step. Don't answer the message but your back another 2 times and your a creepy stalker! Just sayin... Play safe - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ralf - can definitely relate to the failing memory!! Also, some of the photos are definitely worth a second look..... and a third.....
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mature101
10 years ago
As a more mature member of RHP it is great that so many members like to view our pics and make contact with us. That is what this site is all about. Put yourself out there and see what happens. If you like what you see, make contact. Don't be shy, who knows what may happen. We have met some great people on here. Sometimes you have to go back more than once to see if there maybe a connection. Love to you all. Mature101
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have/had some multipass viewers, they seem to do it phases though. Lots of views, then nothing. A week later it's multipass time again :D For myself, I may be in two minds about contacting that particular woman, and need to sleep on it and have a fresh look the next day or two. Otherwise it's to help formulate a message to break the ice :) Also +1 for the app being what it is. I've clicked a few women looking for women by mistake. My bad :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
I use stealth mode, puts me more in control of who I wish to talk to as it reduces the number of messages I receive. So I can happily flick through profiles and don't get the obligatory view, flirt or message just because I have viewed them. As for repeat viewers, I'm fine with them they don't bother me that's what the profile is there for to be looked at so enjoy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I regularly look at profiles just for a quick perv. If I look at someone another time, it is probably because I forgot that I have looked at their profile before.I have no problems with people looking at my profile at all, but have encountered some who have looked at it several times. Surely they must remember they have seen it by now, so it must be for another reasons, however they are yet to send any flirts or messages.
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Rockme2018
10 years ago
I didn't read the whole thread here - just skimmed to get the gist of it - so someone else may have already offered this answer. I like the "can't remember if I looked at this profile" comments, that's usually what it is, especially if you are looking through a search listing. You're going through the list and seeing if anyone takes your fancy, and youre like "did I already look at that profile?"
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RHP User
10 years ago
I too have a memory like a goldfish, I don't always remember user names so if someone changes their profile pic I'll look again, plus I often forget if I meet someones age bracket/other criteria, so I'll look again, then remember that I'm not a 6'10 body builder with a degree in rope handling etc etc, and probably look foolish... But it's not like I know them so it doesn't matter! I will purposely look at profiles again if... I'm making up my mind if I want to message them or figuring out what I'll write; To see if they have new pics :-D ; Or to have a perv even if I'm totally not what they're looking for but they've got great pics ;-) If I like someone but not sure they'll like me or not sure how to approach, I will look at their profile regularly, maybe every couple of days... If they then look at my profile that gives the impetus for me to message them. That hasn't worked so well here, but has elsewhere. g
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RHP User
10 years ago
Stealth mode? Haha sounds like I need to turn it on :p Nah I usually have a half legitimate reason for the double triple or more profile views.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do check out profiles multiple times if I like what I see. I also have my settings in stealth mode but not sure if they work on the mobile version. Happy for people to check me out multiple times, unless it's a guy then I'll block. Is that wrong? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I do a 'search' and then flick through the members displayed, or an automatch, I will repeatedly flick past the same profiles. You are just one mouse-click on a search. I also click to see who looked at me. Sometimes I send a 'noticed you noticed me' or 'I like your profile' but it doesn't mean much more than that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have been known to have multiple views of people's profiles. I don't mean to come across as a pervert. Most of the time it's because I've forgotten that I've checked them out and it's not until I start reading the profile again that I realise. Other times I'm checking people that have viewed me who in turn check my profile which can turn in to a vicious cycle lol. Mike. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Plain
10 years ago
But also read the man spec for want of a better meaning and when I see no attached, married etc,etc resign myself to wistful dreaming oh well.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Looked at everything early on to get a feel for the joint. Now if i see a good,bad or otherwise post I'll look at a profile. Male/female/couple/TV whatever. My curiosity doesn't discriminate. Been caught out a few times due to a change in profile pics or names
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RHP User
10 years ago
Same here. When I search, I don't filter except for age and sex. So I search ALL women, sorted by last online and in my age group. That way I can be sure I don't potentially miss someone who I think *may* possibly respond to a message. Doing this, I get to remember some obvious profiles by content, photo/s and usernames, but I can't remember all of them. Next time I search, if the woman has perhaps changed her main photo, chances are I won't realise I have already viewed her. And Plain, more often than not it seems the man spec says muscles and min 7". That's when I think "oh well". Of course had I muscles and 7" I probably wouldn't contact them anyway as I'd be looking for someone who likes me for me and not for my Mr Happy.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sometimes I check out who ive viewed and see multiple of the same profile..in which case is either true coz im a bit of a perv, or because I really suck at using this app! Not sure whats up with the delay..but the same goes for msgs and flirts. I no im not alone coz I get the same flirt or msg up to 3 or 4 times..press send..wait..nothing..press send again..wait..nothing. Adding someone to my hot list makes me look to see who that might be on line too. Either way I dont think people really mind or give it too much thought. - Posted from rhpmobile
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