M47 F47
"Mummy Tummy"
March 31 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
just checked out your profile, if you should be worried, I should become a hermit never to have sex again!! You look hot in your pics and I don't think a little bit of loose skin or stretch marks should worry you. These things aren't isolated to people who have had kids either. When I was a kid, I was paranoid about how fat I was, when I look back at the pics, I was wondering wtf I was worried about. If someone is going to be attracted to you sexually, you should determine that beforehand at a meeting, just make sure you are comfortable with who you select to join you. Nobody has ever stopped to tell me how fat I am, I have been told prior and that is fine, if you aren't attracted, that is cool, as least I know these people know what they want and they aren't willing to stray from their standards just to get their dicks wet and then make me feel uncomfortable.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes, my mummy tummy does cause me lots of grief but at the end of the day we all come in different shapes and sizes. (Nothing sucky-inny undies can't hide under that slinky dress- you just have to do a quick visit to the bathroom & swap them for the sexy g string before getting naked lol!!) As long as we think sexy and act sexy I think the mummy tummy is the last thing that our playmates are going to criticise. Baring all to hop into a spa should you be so lucky takes a lot of guts the first time but hey, once you do that your tummy is the absolute last thing on anyone's mind. Muted lighting can help with your confidence too. Everybody has things they don't like about their bodies and at least ours should be worn with some degree of pride. This tummy of mine once housed 3 babies the size of watermelons is how I now look at it. If anyone has a problem with that they are not worth the time it takes to get undressed. As a side note, I've found (being one who loathes the gym) that the best thing for burning calories and reducing the size of my mummy tummy has been hot, physical sex so go forth and conquer I say!! X Mrs L_T_L
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just looked at your pics. Where is it exactly?? Lol. You are being far too hard on yourself. My goodness, wear it with pride, you have a gorgeous body!! X Mrs L_T_L
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey thanks ralf74, I agree too, if someone is genuinely interested after seeing the pics and a meet before any actual play then it should be all good ....I hope?! I too aren't bothered if they also say "no" due to my physical appearance after seeing my pics, I get everyone has their personal preferences.....it is what it is :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had to giggle at the undies switch (so doin that ha). I have housed 5 watermelons and believe me it's there - poochie I call it haha. Of course I have not always looked like my current pics and I'm not goin to wah on about the transformation blah blah but I did work my ass off to get that current figure lol but all laughter aside I am a bit scared lol to get naked in lighting in front of strangers BUT hubby & I are looking forward to heading out regardless so I'm just gonna suck it up! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Check out a blog called reshaping tanya - a very fit woman who embraces her mummy tummy with pride :)
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
There was a forum about 6mths ago about Tiger Stripes and would you believe it, men actually like them.. To be honest I do get a little paranoid about mine too- however they are my very own little personalized tiger stripes. If any man said something to me about them and how they are turned off, they can go get F***ed, as they are my imperfections of my perfections. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Baby-Bellies-and-strechies-40502 Happy reading. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you Foxy & Lilmiss_fussy for that info, I've found the blog/FB page & forum posts - so I'm goin to indulge in those after I eat :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wow ok Inagree with rest here and say that you have nothing to worry about. But then again I understand it is your body and as humans go, we seem to more critical of our own bodies than anyone else's... But yeh tiger stripes, mummy tummies, scars, lumps and bumps, cracks (no pun intended) ....etc. all just go to show a life we have lived. For me I have little scars on my hands (silly fights)...a dent in my skull (a guy hit me over the head when I stopped him harassing a woman)....anyway my point is each has it's own story. As for you I can't think of too many stories better than being a mum and having the privilege of being just that. For a guy we pride our scars and bumps and dents..I think women should adopt this same mindset :)
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JohnAnn2227
11 years ago
Mr & Mrs AJ if you are intending to play with under 20's it may cause issues as they have no understanding of what a real body looks like. But as you are a similar age to us and will probably playing with other couples who have kids etc it won't be an issue. We all have a few marks here and there and I know my boobs are not as firm as they were before my beautiful angels sucked all of the firmness from them! But then I am always teasing Kohn that his balls are getting saggier! You are beautiful, be proud of yourself and bless anyone who you decide to play with with your hot body.
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madotara69
11 years ago
We have a mummy tummy, wouldn't change things for the world. It's Mado the hubby so it comes from a guy. It has never been a problem with our playmates, too much passion that blows their minds. Mado Tara xx
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' There was a forum about 6mths ago about Tiger Stripes and would you believe it, men actually like them.. To be honest I do get a little paranoid about mine too- however they are my very own little personalized tiger stripes. If any man said something to me about them and how they are turned off, they can go get F***ed, as they are my imperfections of my perfections. Foxy Could be wrong, miss foxy..... but Id expect that given the option of liking them.... or saying something to offend so that you kick them to the curb, boner in hand..... .... theyre going to say that like them.
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Smilingwithfun
11 years ago
Its where we all came from. I think its terribly amazing. Sexiness comes from between the ears.
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RHP User
11 years ago
if this has hindered our opportunities for MFM experiences however when they don't turn up we have our own sexy times LOL....having said that we are always self conscious of this and use lingerie to enhance our positive bits ....looking forward to seeing the replies.....for the record Mr and Mrs AJ - mummy tummy Pfffffft yeah right!!!! LOL....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your mummy tummy and good on you for looking good and working hard at it....... I truely believe you are as sexy as you feel...... This idiot posted on the forums just recently and called it an apron, I say idiot because he was roasted by men and women alike who extolled the beauty of this 'extension' of our bodies.
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
Men dont care....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mummy x 2, so I feel like I have earned it, along with my grey hair and wrinkles. Oh, and lets not forget my lightening bolt tattoos :-). (Tiger stripes). When I was pregnant my doctor told me I had really good child bearing hips. I wasn't sure if that was a good thing or a bad thing, lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
In my view the mummy tummy is both natural n sexy as it shows the natural side of life :)) I can't say I go for bigger girls but I don't find them in any way disgusting :) I like the smaller framed lady's the show a natural body as a result of life in its self :)) I think it's sexy
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RHP User
11 years ago
There are two lady's I'm keen to meet in person and get to know much better on all levels and I guess the fact they both have mummy tummys was a draw card to them ;),, but once I spoke on the ph with them (1 more so then the other) it confirmed how real they are...
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
LOL I reckon they would too! Is there any men out there that would say to a women's face, looking in her eyes "MY GOD they turn me off "???? I don't think they're game enough to be honest. I carry 5 brick in my bag remember..LOL! Behind her back....most definitely! I have had some men say it to me..how they have been grossed out by a woman's tiger stripes, after they have put their boner/dicks in. Take for instance "Mr.Apron" who recently posted. It's sad, for some in reality and what they say on here are two different things. :( Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just be confident and comfortable with who you are. Most of us men will see past it. We're not perfect by any means. I've never been lucky enough to have a 3some, however I'm assuming, other than the fact there's an extra body; the laws of attraction and sex still remain. Have fun and stay safe, regardless who you're both inviting into your fun times. Koz.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm reminded of the old joke: Her: oh God, I'm naked. He can see everything. My muffin tops, my chunky thighs, my big butt, my stretch marks, my mummy tummy, my tits are heading south... Him: oh God, she's naked. Fuck, she is so gorgeous... Mr FFO
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are newbies too, and are yet to take the plunge and play... But I am the same as you, 2 babies and the war wounds around my tummy to show for it. I call it my nanny belly because the weight has gone ( mostly) so now the skin resembles nanna saggy bags ( possibly exaggerating lol). Its something I can constantly aware of, and I am definitely nervous about revealing too. But in general, the first time we play is scary and exciting enough so hopefully 'ol nanny belly' will be the last thing on my mind! Maybe we should play together MRANDMRS so we can have a big ol nanny belly party!
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RHP User
11 years ago
in that I didn't get stretch marks you can really see. Mine a thin and a silver colour rather than red.I do have the horrible loose belly that wont go away though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Loved all the comments, its nice to hear from others on this topic and knowing Im not alone, I do have my good and bad days with "poochie" but its my reality and not everyone is going to be in love with pooch when they see it haha but yea I just have to be more confident about that part and not over worry too much lol :) Mrs_AJ
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RHP User
11 years ago
we all have things we dont like about ourselves so your not alone on that front. However, you did say you and hubby are gunna play regardless so good for you.. I checked out your profile and if there is something cant be too bad... What I seen was enough to catch any mans interest.. Good Luck.... Jay
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Cheekyarses
11 years ago
You just answered your own question - :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'polys' if this has hindered our opportunities for MFM experiences however when they don't turn up we have our own sexy times LOL....having said that we are always self conscious of this and use lingerie to enhance our positive bits ....looking forward to seeing the replies.....for the record Mr and Mrs AJ - mummy tummy Pfffffft yeah right!!!! LOL.... Don't wonder to that, turning up probably has something to do with being aloud out, nothing to do with you, please trust us on that, we only have had MFM, it just does not come into things. You do though and worry you should not, wonder yeah MFM it's worth wondering too, but don't fault your self you are way more than any of the doubt. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'polys' if this has hindered our opportunities for MFM experiences however when they don't turn up we have our own sexy times LOL....having said that we are always self conscious of this and use lingerie to enhance our positive bits ....looking forward to seeing the replies.....for the record Mr and Mrs AJ - mummy tummy Pfffffft yeah right!!!! LOL.... Don't wonder to that, turning up probably has something to do with being aloud out, nothing to do with you, please trust us on that, we only have had MFM, it just does not come into things. You do though and worry you should not, wonder yeah MFM it's worth wondering too, but don't fault your self you are way more than any of the doubt. Mado Mado Tara xx Thanks Mado and Tara - we try not to think about it too much as it can be a bit demoralising when you are left wondering why LOL....- e.g. we physically met with three chaps and not one of them turned up when we planned for an evening but like we said we made the most of the opportunity in our swanky hotel LOL....in fact if made it even hotter!!! Thanks once again Mado and Tara
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are talking about both of us here in terms of mummy tummy and pot bellys LOL......
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RHP User
11 years ago
than a confident woman who is free to truly enjoy sex and sensuality with others, tummy and all !! BTW you have nothing to worry about...seriously!
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