M57
Must include face pic.
November 12 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
A picture speaks a thousand words and I do like to know who I am talking too and if I might potentially be physically attracted to them. It is a sex site. Men in my experience hate 'being led on' - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
needs to see the face, eyes, mouth - full package really, before I know if there is an attraction. Im not here to find my personality match or some deep and meaningful connection emotionally. Its about me and my likes/dislikes, as you can have an amazing personality, but if Im not attracted physically, nothing will change that. Having said that, you can have an awesome face and body, but if you are an arrogant arse, Im no longer attracted (it doesn't usually work the other way for me sexually).
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RHP User
10 years ago
No, you are not judgemental, we are all entitled to use this site in whatever way we wish. I personally like to see who I am meeting because it saves awkwardness if you meet and that person has not been honest about age or profile description. So I won't meet anyone I haven't seen. Looks are not important to me, as I'm no young hottie myself. I like someone who is intelligent, kind hearted and who makes me laugh. But honesty is important. So I will be on your "no" list now, which is a pity as you seem like a very interesting guy and I was looking for a photographer to give me some tips! . Some people have good reasons for asking for face pics.....a guy I know went to a womans house only to be met at the door by a man. So it's not all about being shallow. On another note, photos don't do people justice anyway, as anyone I have met so far have looked much better than their pictures.
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Circe
10 years ago
A few times met people without seeing a pic, in so glad I did, it was well worth it. I don't ask if they don't. If they are going to ask then I expect them to show me a pic first. It can Be so disappointing if someone doesn't look like their pic. Quite often they've stacked on a few kilos and don't look the same. That said, looks do matter to me. I like good looking people, with fantastic personalities, you just can't tell all this from a photo.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
If you aren't prepared to share your face...... but expect to meet me with a view to sharing everything else..... I say...... what ELSE are you hiding. My time is too important to me to waste on "trust me" NEXT! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
10 years ago
I've been told that about my photos. Koko I'm with you, I just like to see people just to know who I'm talking too but I often chat first then exchange photos. I like to meet the 'whole' person and not just make decisions based on photos, because in nearly all my meets, the people I have met are beautiful in and out 😘 Mary xx
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Yes I have met someone sight unseen, he was lovely. Mary
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6exxy
10 years ago
In terms of facial looks which when you think about it makes no sense as many are treating this as a sex site. Totally understand the need to see because when you go to meet it would be helpful to recognise them😳. Also yes confirming other things as Koko commented on. I have met and photo was old and was disappointed so I do like to see. No it is not judgemental but do you take the bloke at the door risk? Lmao Hey Koko did he say what happened after that?😳
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RHP User
10 years ago
With and without face pics. I don't require a face pic to message/talk to someone... But I prefer to see one if we are going to meet, but it's not mandatory. I've had some interesting meets with people who physically/facially just don't fire me sexually... So while I don't see that meet as a total waste of time, I am better off focussing my energies on someone who is attractive to my eyes... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Can be disappointing....I have probably met more people whose photo I haven't seen than those that I have....all the dimensions not just two....BTW I closely resemble my current profile pic xxFreya
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uneventful
10 years ago
In the past ... before RHP time .. by a guy who said in his profile and phone messages ..that he was 6'4" &a professional chef... turned out on meeting .. to be 5'6" and a truckdriver hooked on cigarettes and speed... and by another whose face pic shoulders upwards which looked good and profile said he was 5'11" & 97kgs ..... tured out to be 5'11" & ..1907kgs. no thanks.. I want a face / body pic.. I also wish to make sure its not someone I know through work ..or a former neighbour(as has been the case previously) . its a combination for me .. personality and body. truth in profile helps. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
What makes looks so much more important than personality? If you are a "must see pic" type.I find I just can't connect with people I can't see, like Shells, I think you can tell a lot about a person from their face and I also like to know there is an attraction. I prefer to see a pic before I even make a decision to chat with them because I get sick of having to tell people that I am not attracted to them, it is never a nice thing to say or hear and that is why I put my pics up, I want to know that anyone contacting me knows exactly what I look like so they can make that judgement call. Are you like me and think it rude to ask for a pic before having a chat?No, I don't think it is rude at all, I think it is rude not to offer one. How many out there are like me and consider looks as irrelevant?Looks aren't irrelevant, I bet I can find someone you wouldn't fuck because of their looks. Or are you (be honest) a "beauty is only skin deep" is only something ugly people say?Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I don't expect all other people will find the people I find sexy that attractive. Am i just as judgmental for my stance?Yes you are, but you are entitled to your stance Have you ever meet someone sight unseen?yes I have and to be honest it makes me really uneasy. I really don't like that awkward...is that him, or maybe him, oh please not him, he is alright maybe that's him. It is awkward enough even with a pic sometimes.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I prefer to see a pic only because online chatting without a reference is not something I enjoy. I like to imagine a smile, smirk, cheeky smiling eyes, etc. and can only do that with a face picture. There have been times when I've chatted with someone who hasn't opened their pg only to find out that they have changed their profile name and were hiding the fact we had already chatted and didn't meet up for various reasons. It was a dishonest way of trying again. The personality of someone is important but it does hurt to have a physical attraction to someone as well. They don't have model looks but I have to ask to myself "can I kiss those lips? If the answer is yes ... then ... woohoo! Otherwise I may just love their personality and we become chat friends. LG
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
The problem with online dating is that more than often, after "chatting" online with someone over a period of time, one may very well build up an image, in ones mind, of what they look like, and may then get a bit of a shock when one finally meets and finds out that they are not quite what one imagined. It's therefore a very good idea to get a photo as soon as one can before things go too far. Many many years ago, in the days of IRC (does anyone remember IRC?) when he was still a single, sought after bachelor, he met a woman on IRC (she was in Canada) and got chatting with her. The internet was still pretty much in its infancy and she would often phone him, late at night and talk at length. In his minds eye he had conjured up an image of what she would look like and things were going fine, until one day her photo arrived in the post via snail mail. Well , she was not at all what he expected, had most of her teeth missing, had several kids and wanted to fly over and move in with him. He could hear the theme song from Deliverance playing and so made a hasty retreat. Need we say more ? :) Or the time when he got chatting [again on IRC] with a woman in another state, who had told him she was 28, petite, blond,an attorney who drove a Porche. And how he just happened to be flying to that state on business and so they met up. Well she was 15 years older, one hell of a lot larger, and drove a beaten up Renault, in which she gave him a BJ in the parking lot of a local shopping mall !! LOL Or the time he got chatting to a sexy young female plastic surgeon who worked at a nearby private hospital. He had let his name slip, and being an unusual name, the clever surgeon had located his address and the next morning there was a knock on the front door - and chap [friend of the surgeon] bearing a gift signed " a sharing of a passion Dr ***** " and how the chatting continued for 3 weeks until it emerged that the doctor was not a sexy female blond, but instead a guy. LOL. "She" arrived at a Meet n Greet nicely dressed and said hello everyone I am *** [nickname/handle] and it was hilarious to watch the faces of the guys that "she" had been having cybersex with ... looks of horror that they had been wanking off to a guy !! LOL However, more than often a photo does not show the real person, and by that we mean the personality and other aspects that make someone special. We have met a handful of couples on here, some were once off superficial drinks/coffee meets [no playing] and others have been longer lasting. Two of the couples we have seen several times now and when we say "seen" we dont mean that we have played with them , well perhaps just same room sex once. When we initially were initially sent their photos [ they opened their PG's for us] there was not really much attraction - they were not really our types with regards age, body type and looks etc - yes we are sounding very shallow and superficial now - BUT after receiving several messages, over several months, we decided that there would be no harm in meeting them for dinner and or drinks, on neutral ground at a restaurant. And we are so glad that we did, as they have turned out to be really nice people. And as we have got to know them, their looks and age have no longer been important nor a priority for us. We have learnt to look past that. They have been to dinner at our place, we have been to dinner at their place. We have kids and they have kids, and so the kids have come along. We have been away with them on holiday, we have been camping with them, they even came to our housewarming. Now if we had been really superficial, and blown them off when receiving their photos, well the loss would have been ours as we never would have met them, nor got to know them. So our advice it to not judge a book by its cover only. Obviously there needs to be some attraction if one is going to be sharing ones "bed" with someone. But its best to give people a chance, to get to know them a little better. Beauty is more than skin deep and the most odd looking couples do indeed get together - point in case is us - and we have been married for over 15 years !!
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ruby_blossum
10 years ago
What makes looks so much more important than personality? If you are a "must see pic" type. to me, it has nothing to do with looks being more important than personality.... I like to see a pic so I have some idea of the person I am chatting with, I dont want to be surprised and discover they are someone I may have worked with, a friends husband who is cheating, the neighbours kid, etc Tineye and reverse google are great for picking out the fakers . Are you like me and think it rude to ask for a pic before having a chat? Its not rude at all to ask for a pic before having a chat see above comment about tineye and reverse google. How many out there are like me and consider looks as irrelevant? Not me....there needs to be a level of attraction in my eyes. Does that always equate to good looking or beauty ? No. Or are you (be honest) a "beauty is only skin deep" is only something ugly people say? Why would only ugly people say this? What is your basis of ugly? Am i just as judgmental for my stance? Yes Have you ever meet someone sight unseen? Yes ,and learnt not to do that again that very early in my time on the internet as they were not at all like like they said they were, total waste of their time and my time.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Do I detect a relationship between the subject of not seeing face pics and the username of the OP? Have no problem chatting without a face pic and have ongoing chats with several that are even grey ghosts. But then have lived with a ghost for several years so that is not a big stretch. Luckily the chats I had with my domestic ghost was very one sided!!But my profile states that no face pic, no meet. A lot bang on about the need for a "connection" before they meet and play. I need a connection as well but my connection criteria is fairly basic but still valid. He/she doesn't need to be a pin up but I can't get a connection if the family genes run back to a bulldog. Patted many bulldogs and enjoyed their company but have had no desire to kiss one let alone allow one to hump me. So call me shallow perhaps but don't call me desperate. And another reason for seeing face pics first before meeting?Knowing vaguely what the person answering the door should look like when it does open. Embarrassing not knowing you have the wrong address for several awkward moments. Equally so for the guy answering the door to a dolled up tranny who appears to be intent on coming in to say hi.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
that by the time that we are 30/35 years old the outside starts to reflect all the emotions, thoughts and internal workings of your psyche.I have found that to be quite true. So I believe I/we all can tell much by looking at a face/body image of a person.Some judgement (good or bad) is made consciously and most of it is done unconsciously. But it is done regardless. I rather have some idea of who I may possibly engage, and start by considering if they may be some chemistry or not. Regardless how proper we may all want to be, we are all judging constantly every thing in life. We can’t help it !!
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RHP User
10 years ago
'Kokoflamingo'Its been a long time since I have meet anyone new from RHP and forgot about the impostors. I have been burnt a few time when I first joined those many years ago but have learnt that with the right questions I can workout if someone is who they say they are. Oh and thanks I am flattered, but my no list is currently everyone. I am a student and any sort of meeting is financially impossible for me, fuel, the coffee, incidentals may not seem like much but it is beyond me. I am only here because I like the forums. 'MissBlissBomb'Yes agree, the photo is not always the ideal way to capture someone's nuances and there are of course those that post photos that may have been developed on film. I have meet people that at first did not attract me visually, yet mentally they had me and I find when you get to know and like someone you find the beauty and become blind to the flaws. The warm honest caring smile makes anyone gorgeous. Quoting 'Highpriority'There is more to life that getting into as many beds as possible. I have made some good friends via RHP and it was established very early on that there was no sexual attraction but lets meet. An afternoon of belly laughs and great conversation easily beats an afternoon of incompatible awkward sex. 'Cuckle_shells' Good point it would be a bit of a moment meeting someone way to close to family or work. After I am done here will have a hunt around to see what stories are out there of those social networking meets that should never have happened. As for the under age thing, I put my trust in RHP and i am one of the do gooders that reports suspect profiles when I see them. RHP is very good and quickly remove profiles if they agree with my assessment and send a thank you back to me. From a male point of view we tend to less careful than women and I concur that seeing the face is a window to the soul. As a woman you do face higher risks, I have only once had to use muscle when the guy did not like the fact that I had changed my mind and wanted him to leave. Yet I had seen his face. I think some more timid than me would have regretted meeting him. Quoting 'ralf74' How many out there are like me and consider looks as irrelevant?Looks aren't irrelevant, I bet I can find someone you wouldn't fuck because of their looks. Have you ever meet someone sight unseen?yes I have and to be honest it makes me really uneasy. I really don't like that awkward...is that him, or maybe him, oh please not him, he is alright maybe that's him. It is awkward enough even with a pic sometimes. I bet you could find many, and even more just on the personality. The point I am trying to make by saying looks are irrelevant is not that Ill fuck anyone (I am very selective) but that I must connect, be they drop dead gorgeous or pig dog ugly my desire to be intimate does not come from the looks. My friends have at times said, "How could you?" and at other times patted me on the back and said, "You lucky bastard?" I am a risk taker by nature, that means I pit my skills against the risk. Sight unseen is a risk much more so if you are a woman, and I have regretted some meetings. Had the coffee, and the half hour small talk, never to meet again, time that could have been better spent. But as a average male when active its not like I am swamped by offers. That said 4 years ago I meet someone sight unseen and it took two years to pry us apart. She was coming off a crowed train so it was a sea of faces, I spotted her, easy to do they are the ones that look like they are looking for someone. The cautious hello, yes its me. I have to wonder how it would have turned out had I seen her before hand, I may have been a lot more awkward and that spark may never have happened. Thank you all for your posts and I am reconsidering my stance on the pic or not to pic thing.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
"Never judge a book by its cover" IF that were truly the case, none of us would have a profile to represent who we are. We'd simply have a number, and we'd meet another random number, and it'd be expected that we'd all automatically get along. Obviously... thats NOT the case.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum'Am i just as judgmental for my stance? Yes I guess i have missed interpreted the whole must see pic thing, I may be suffering from early onset cynicism or maybe I am just a grumpy old man envious of all the fun people have as I wait to finish my degrees and get a job. Best bet is I am just a shit stirrer needing to start a thread. But despite that I have actually learnt something today. Why would only ugly people say this? What is your basis of ugly? The question was really a paraphrased quote from some movie I saw long ago. I assume your second question is not rhetorical, the first i could not answer Considering that my question was to find out how important looks were and suspected nobody would agree with it. Ok I have sat here now 10 minutes, could have written heaps on what is ugly, but I constantly come up against exceptions to my definitions. Its easy to say what is beauty from a purely skin deep point of view, but I am stuck to define ugly. Might be worthy of a thread all its own or if anyone cares to make a comment on that please do. Final noncommittal answer to your question.Ugly is much more than skin deep, ugly is something a blind man can see, ugly is personal, and luckily ugly is rare.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Whilst the person(s) in most cases were actually lovely people they weren't attractive to me betond that. Gaving said that I've been placed in the exact same basket which I have no issue with. What I DO try to avoid though is developing a rapport with someone then wanting to see what they look like only to find a lack of attraction and hurt that person's feelings because the attraction is not reciprocated or likely to become anything physical. It's crushing someone's spirit that is most hurtful and sometimes just saying, "You're a great guy/woman and I hope you find what you're looking for." Just isn't going to soften the blow sufficiently. I do believe that there is someone out there for everyone it's just unfortunate that not everyone finds that person. Beauty is only skin deep Blindman but ugliness goes to the core. Like the song says "you're so pretty with an Ugly Heart" I'd rather be me than be someone else's idea of what should be goodlooking.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
I think I'm prettier now than the young woman I was. So I agree with your perspective.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Being a grey ghost on here has a down side! Happy to send piccy to any lady I feel a connection too(friend or potential lover) That said totally understand any lady would be apprehensive without piccy Rhp has it's characters on here some ladies keep me entertained with clever Witt ! Others are sassy and fun ,pictures don't always tell a thousand words xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Annie... Bulldog and tranny knock, knock comments, both gold 👍 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
10 years ago
How all these woman can say 'their physical attraction means nothing, a mental connection means more' and yet they demand a face pic as to whether they go any further??
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Jason_Leslie' IRC well that was some time back. My first ever encounter with the goings on of computer social networking was back in the days of BBS (bulletin boards) so before the internet. Being just 18 at the time me and a work mate discovered that one of the older workers was using the system to communicate with guys while pretending to be a girl. I was very nieve at that age and thought it just a lark. But the more we learnt about what he was doing the the more immoral it became to us. To the point where we hatched up a plan to expose his deception. It did put a stop to his messing with peoples minds on our system at least, but am under no illusion that he stopped. I learnt the lesson that the person on the other end is not always who they say they are way back then and have never really trusted anyone at first contact. A pic can help, and things like google image search are a useful tools. Yet there are no guarantees until you meet face to face.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Photos are just photos, some are good, some no so good..... I mean some people take a good photo and others don't. I have no problem showing my face pics, but I do say that mine are just pretty pictures. I also like to see someone's face pics, but I don't need to see it before I chat to someone. Now in saying that I do have to see someone's face before I meet with them, because I don't want to be looking around not knowing what I'm looking for, when I'm supposed to be meeting someone......💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'anywhichway007' Do I detect a relationship between the subject of not seeing face pics and the username of the OP? Blind in name only. I have meet a couple sometime back that where both blind, it was at a club and they did ask if they may have a look at me. So I let them touch my face, that was a very interesting experience. They were very lovely interesting people, community orientated and very proactive. We could all take a lesson from them as I was left felling I was the one that had a disability (in a good way that is). We exchanged online handles from another site (awkward moment telling the blind your handle is blindman) and as they were from overseas and community oriented it got a lot of friends requests from other people they knew that could not see. All of them had a face pic on their profile. It was not facebook but another adult site. I guess I like the excitement of not knowing and not likely just to jump into something without some communication. I do not ask for pics even if they have. I can always turn around and leave. It may seem a bit callous but I am not in fear of hurting someones feelings, I trust my instincts, so that seldom happens.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
It's funny how alot of men say exactly the same thing! (Soft smile) oh the irony!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'perth_metro' How all these woman can say 'their physical attraction means nothing, a mental connection means more' and yet they demand a face pic as to whether they go any further?? Guess i was thinking that when penning this thread but I was not using empathy. We grow wiser as we age and one of the skills we improve is being able to read peoples faces. As mentioned, life's experiences, and thus your personality is written on your face, and women are fully justified when showing caution, they are looking for beauty that is more than skin deep. Though not a perfect way to see if someone is ugly (dangerous) it most certainly is much safer than sight unseen.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' Annie... Bulldog and tranny knock, knock comments, both gold 👍 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... The knock, knock i can perhaps laugh about now, 27 years on but it was so fucked up on so many levels and potentially changed lives.It was back in the day of ACM(adult contact mag) so no internet as such and not much mobile phone use. I was looking for number 16(still remember the number) but was dark and not much house numbering. Bit confused and the porch light was on. so must be it!!Knock, Knock. Guy answers, looking a bit bewildered and opens his eyes wide. I'm thinking, this guy is pretty hot, i've really lucked out.I sort of make a move to come in but body language says no. Me confused. I see a female head pop around the doorway further up the corridor and i think, great, I'm getting some couple action as well, this is toooo gooood. He says "Can I help you?" And I blurt out "Mick?" "Not me" "This is number 16?" "NO, 18!" "Are you after Mick next door?" Not another word from me. Bailed as fast as my stilettos would work and never heard or tried to hear any more from that night. Turned the answering machine off and didn't answer the phone for a few days. To this day I am wondering about poor Mick and his wife and the conversation he had to have over the fence with his neighbours about the night a tranny came calling when his wife was away for the weekend. You out there Mick? Sorry!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am sure there are people I know who use this site, hence why I don't display a face picture. Discretion is important to a lot of people. I'm sure if required members will share privately a face picture. - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
10 years ago
And had the same experience Blindman. This guy would be in the Club Thurs-Sat, well dressed, well-presented and educated. One night I got the courage up to go chat with him. He was animated, worldly and gracious. I asked if he'd like to see what I looked like and he placed his hands on my face, his touch was soft, inquisitive. He said I had a happy face, I told him my eyes were blue. He said he didn't know colour....I was like DOH!! Then I went foot in mouth and said "I'm sorry." He smiled at me and said he'd been blind since birth and I had nothing to be sorry for. His life was rich in texture, fragrance, feeling and sound. Lol I was truly ignorant...but walked away feeling like the disadvantaged one. ☺️
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'perth_metro' How all these woman can say 'their physical attraction means nothing, a mental connection means more' and yet they demand a face pic as to whether they go any further?? But you can tell alot from a persons face and eyes. To be honest if I don't see that certain spark in a persons eye I am just not interested. Sure they may have a body of Adonis but if his eyes are not speaking to me the sex will just be uninteresting and boring to me. Can I see a spark in someone's photo. Sometimes you can but obviously not all the time. So is this a physical or mental connection - having a person's eyes speak to me? I am not sure but for me the face is of vital importance. I have to like your face, the body is almost irrelevant in some ways - sure I would prefer a gorgeous body, who wouldn't, but just having a gorgeous body is not going to get my pussy tingling. You know? Just having a hot body is just not enough. For me anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not sure if someone has mentioned this already but there have been studies into why a woman find a man's face so important to whether she is attracted or not. Apparently we able to detect all sorts of clues from a man's face. Kindness, whether he will be a good father (how? Don't ask me? but apparently we can pick up high levels of testosterone), whether he is a happy person, etc. etc. We also apparently go for more masculine faces when we are ovulating as we are after some hot loving and lots of sperm to impregnated our eggs. So someone asking to see your face is pretty natural I think, but again I think you have also come to that conclusion also. Can I also say I don't understand why men, which is seems to be most of the time, put up those thousand yard stare pictures or pictures of them being stern and unsmiling. People are attracted to happy people I find.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' It's funny how alot of men say exactly the same thing! (Soft smile) oh the irony!! like....... "I love to push boundaries" See also... (Paraphrase) I will really push your boundaries and take you to new levels of pleasure. lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Final noncommittal answer to your question.Ugly is much more than skin deep, ugly is something a blind man can see, ugly is personal, and luckily ugly is rare. Ugly is an ugly word and used far too often to describe people's looks.
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RHP User
10 years ago
When i met a woman unseen online ! As i reached for the front door handle took the blindfold securely fastened took a deep breath and knocked !!! Some time later unfastened my blindfold hung it back on the door handle and left, to this day still have never seen her !!!! Bahahahaha !!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I had a similar story of a guy who sent me to someone else's house. No idea what his agenda was, fucking arsehole, but I went to this poor guys house in the middle of the night, I think it was around midnight. Here I am knocking on this guys door and not expecting a visitor, he was actually shitting himself as to who was knocking at his door at such an hour. So I drove for half an hour to get there only to be greeted by this Asian man who had no idea who I was or what I wanted. I was so pissed off and the guy I was supposed to meet didn't answer his phone or emails from me after that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I went for a first time meet at someones house, I qould have a look on Google street view and then ask something like, "What type of car do you drive?" Or "Is your house number on the letter box?". Not to be overtly distrustful and in the guise off helping me find the place, but it does ease my mind knowing all the facts align.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' I had a similar story of a guy who sent me to someone else's house. No idea what his agenda was, fucking arsehole, but I went to this poor guys house in the middle of the night, I think it was around midnight. Here I am knocking on this guys door and not expecting a visitor, he was actually shitting himself as to who was knocking at his door at such an hour. So I drove for half an hour to get there only to be greeted by this Asian man who had no idea who I was or what I wanted. I was so pissed off and the guy I was supposed to meet didn't answer his phone or emails from me after that. I've heard of women doing that to guys to piss them off and get even for some reason. But sex is a big ticket item to a guy. For a guy to throw away a root for the sake of pissing you off........Maybe he got cold feet at the last minute and didn't man up. Asian man didn't offer to show you his etchings while you were there? Late night door knocking is a problematic issue of our "hobby". I will start a topic to get a few stories flowing......
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean' When i met a woman unseen online ! As i reached for the front door handle took the blindfold securely fastened took a deep breath and knocked !!! Some time later unfastened my blindfold hung it back on the door handle and left, to this day still have never seen her !!!! Bahahahaha !!! - Posted from rhpmobile Thats hot... LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Not sure if someone has mentioned this already but there have been studies into why a woman find a man's face so important to whether she is attracted or not. Apparently we able to detect all sorts of clues from a man's face. Kindness, whether he will be a good father (how? Don't ask me? but apparently we can pick up high levels of testosterone), whether he is a happy person, etc. etc. We also apparently go for more masculine faces when we are ovulating as we are after some hot loving and lots of sperm to impregnated our eggs. So someone asking to see your face is pretty natural I think, but again I think you have also come to that conclusion also. Can I also say I don't understand why men, which is seems to be most of the time, put up those thousand yard stare pictures or pictures of them being stern and unsmiling. People are attracted to happy people I find. The is something called the Halo effect. This is the tendency for people to rate attractive people as smarter, more trust worthy and a host of other positive traits. Even though there is no correlation between looks and these traits. This effect also applied to the owners of the faces, with attractive people rating them selves higher on positive traits, than there more homelier peers, even though there was no correlation. This second observation did surprise me. Women tended to associated attractiveness in men as more open and easygoing, while men associated beauty in women as more conscientious and emotionally stable. Interestingly the same study showed that when people rate composite faces (that is faces that are digital composites of many faces) created from people that scored high on the positive traits, but with the selection ignoring attractiveness tended to score higher on attractiveness than faces created from people with low positive scores. Another study showed that on average we rate the attractiveness of a person in just 13 milliseconds (thousands of a second) well below the time it takes to consciously recognize seeing faces. People asked to judge the faces claimed that they saw nothing, Quoting from the study"Yet when coaxed to rate the attractiveness of the faces that they thought they hadn't seen, they were astonishingly accurate." There is another study that I remember from a long time ago where psychologists where asked to rate subject's present and ongoing psychological profile. One group was only shown a face picture, the other were able to do a complete psychological interview. After two decades it was found that the profiles based only on seeing the face had consistently more accurate assessments than those that did the interviews. (unfortunatelyI can not locate that study at this time to give more concise details) Psychology is not an exact science, all these conclusions are base on statistical analysis.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Forgot to proof read that :( I'm sure those that read will be able decipher it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
yes was indeed Purchase yourself a blindfold and next time im in the city you can lead a blind man to your pussy sit back and i will take it from there:-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm a 'must see' person for a couple of reasons. Firstly for privacy... it would freak me out to run into someone I worked with. I work in a male dominated industry in a role where I have to influence people. If the people I worked with knew that I was on this site and read my profile, I would lose every bit of my hard earned credibility and I'd only be known as 'the chick who loves sex'. That's not to say that my profile isn't a true reflection of who I am - it is, but not everybody needs to know that side of me. Secondly, looks are important - plain & simple. I need the physical connection just as much as the mental connection. That's not to say that I'm only interested in 'good looking' people. What I find physically attractive may not be someone else's cup of tea. I can't really define it, because I don't have a particular 'type' of look that I'm more attracted to than others. I find that a lot of people who may not be conventionally beautiful or handsome are physically attractive because of the way they behave, their self-confidence, attitude etc. I prefer to exchange pics fairly early on to avoid building up a mental image that could be far from the actual truth. And I'd prefer that people know what I look like too before going too far. I'm not naive enough to think that everyone (or even very many?) people will like my face pics. I'm not 'ugly', but I'm not Scarlett Johansen either lol. Lastly, first face pics exchange for me must be through RHP.. No way I'm giving my personal details (email/phone) just to see a pic lol. Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
It was Shakespear that said "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"In saying that we are all made with different shape and sizes and one has to evaluate what age range are we looking at?I personally prefer more the over forty and yes a pic might give you more chances and make it easier on the eyes but lets ask ourselves questions of reality.We all look at pics and judge from there rather than read the names or profiles.I believe pics should not be posted and make the challenge more interesting and the chatting free
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RHP User
10 years ago
Handed him the bottle of wine and ran for the hills!
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RHP User
10 years ago
With physical attraction being a (if not the) contributing factor for many as to wether or not they'll pursue any further, it's a direct association as to why they're here (to me and in saying that, I get the whole 'putting a face to the name thing too). When somebody demands the whole face pic thing upon a first message, I see it as being a clear indication straight off the bat that we're not here for the same thing and can say with almost absolute certainty that any further communication would be wasting their time. More than happy to grant access at my discretion and certainly prior to meeting, just not something I'll do for the sake of complying with how and why somebody else chooses to operate (among other things) but ultimately, I prefer to be taken for who I am as a person first and foremost.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have face pics in my PG...and there they'll stay. When I chat with someone new, generally I'll open up the PG within the first couple of messages if I get a good feel for the other person...if the chat is unlikely to continue, I don't see the point. I have no problem if the chatees don't wish to reveal their face initially - there could be any number of reasons for that, but I won't meet sight unseen...once was quite enough, given the outcome of that meeting! Everyone is entitled to the level of privacy they feel comfortable with, especially considering what this site is about for most. It is a risky business, after all.
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6exxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Handed him the bottle of wine and ran for the hills! Ha ha ha too funny!
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