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My first lap dance

April 22 2019

I went for my first lap dance last week and it was a really great experience. However, being the first time. I am not sure if things were "normal"? I paid $200 NZD for a 30 minute touching lap dance. The house rules were no kissing nor touching the stripper's private parts. The girl I've chosen was quite cute and made me very comfortable about everything when I told her it was my first lap dance. The lap dance started out normal, she makes some small talk asking about what I do and how old I am etc. Once the lap dance begins, she hops on me cow girl style and started to get to work. About a song in, she was really enjoying the way I was touching her with my hands and the compliments I was paying her. We got a bit comfortable with each other as I asked her if she enjoyed me feeling and spanking her as well as if she was into dirty talk. Then about 3 songs in, she took her underwear off and began to grind on me and opening up her legs for me. She let me kiss her all over her body including the neck and ears. I summed up the courage and started to lightly rub her private parts. She stopped me briefly when I asked her if I'm crossing the boundaries and she did mention there are cameras but she end up letting me continue anyway. So there I was, dirty talking and rubbing her at the same time until a point where she was quite wet and I began to slip my fingers in her. She got real into it and started rocking her hip to the rhythm of my fingers until she came. Afterwards, she was talking about how she's single and haven't sex for a long time and that was the most fun she had in a long time cause she don't usually finish from non-penetration sex. She said she would love to return the favour but we can only do it under the service of 'sensual message' with happy ending which is priced at $600. I said the price is a bit steep and she agreed but insisted I come back and see her anytime and she'll love to make me cum. Now I don't know if she's genuinely enjoying her time with me or it was a performance to sell me the massage. The average escort price here is around $200-250/hr so $600 seems very overpriced? If someone is more experienced in this part of strip club/brothel could shed some light it would be very helpful. What does the sensual massage actually involve - just a massage and blow/hand job? Why is the price so high compared to a pure escort service? Is there a way to negotiate the price somehow? I had a really good time with this girl and would love to do more with her but the price is ludicrous compared to an average escort price range.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Go with your gut feeling. I don't know how much the price of things are but you do. It's just a job to her and she's very good at making clients feel special, wanting to go back for more. It's very expensive and you don't know what you're even going to get for it. Don't let her charm fool you.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Was it normal? Yes...she’s trying to make a living. Part of that is making you feel good (eg faking an orgasm) so you spend more money. Up to you to decide whether it’s “worth it”.

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Freaky_Fun

6 years ago

Was it a performance to sell you a massage? Yes.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Working girl for the main course. Prostitution is fully legal in NZ, and the range of service providers is diverse. There are some beautiful Kiwi women making ends meet by making ends meet 😜 There's even an adultforum catering for the industry, just add the usual Kiwi suffix and you will find it.

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Mischeviouslad

6 years ago

Born every minute You were just part of her job. And that’s fine, but you’re getting far too carried away and invested in a scenario which I’m certain she has played out a hundred times

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FeistyFatty

6 years ago

Come in Spinner.....🤦‍♀️

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EarthQueen

6 years ago

Escort is usually round $200 half an hour round these parts and that include PIV. I guess its worth a try on her part but thats a lot of cash. It's up to you if you want to spend that much. Just ask her exactly what you are getting?

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sweetnsensual

6 years ago

It’s a business transaction for her nothing else She would make every guy she has feel special

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RHP User

6 years ago

That's standard operating procedure. Think with your big head and don't the little man down stairs.

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summersolstice

6 years ago

Why all the negativity and comparison? She will enjoy you if you bring your money. You will make her feel that she's good at what she does. I'd imagine it's a lot harder than stage acting because in her time with you she's giving all of herself to you, body and mind. Whatever her price I don't think it's your place to haggle because you are diminishing her worth by even the suggestion. So the question is, what is she worth to you? If you really need to compare, you could ask yourself would you be more satisfied with three visits to other girls. Or would you be happy at all paying that much on sex? How much other people pay for sex is irrelevant and limiting. If you do go ahead, absolutely savour that special time and keep coming back to a good memory. If you don't, she's not worth what she's asking and that's life.

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RHP User

6 years ago

Mate I couldn’t tell you the price ,,, But you bought “ an experience “ A fantasy ,,, nothing more . It’s called ‘ Up Selling “ ..... would you like fries with that ?

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