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My first time at a nude beach!
September 05 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
As a lot of nudist beaches have kids and families on them I would say having an erection isn't cool at all. No, a nude beach is so you can relax and be nude and its a natural thing. It is not a sexual thing... Well except for the gay dudes checking each other out and the meerkats up in the bushes. I have seen some of the older sleazy guys wearing cock rings... I didn't think that was appropriate??? You do know about the bushes right? You know, where all the action is happening. I am sure you would have noticed guys walking off to the right off the beach and into the trees..... ;-)
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lovman8
11 years ago
Not many bushes at nude beaches these days. Most women shave!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Stay in the water till your raging boner cool down. Other option, walk to the bushes, someone will give you a hand. :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
will only draw male attention at a nudist beach. Like Meeka said, it's more about the liberation from clothes rather than the sexual aspect. Erections can be inevitable, but don't make it weird or gross.People have this misconception that there's an orgy just waiting to happen, but it's not true - there used to be a guy who'd have a perv on women and jerk off high up on the path, making them uncomfortable. Eventually a group of gay men who'd gotten wind of this started to walk back and forth (conspicuously, sometimes brushing lightly against him) along the trail to check him out, and in turn make him feel uneasy.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Whenever I start to fatten up I always roll over. I don't think we're that liberal yet that we accept guys walking around all boned up. Even though its a perfectly natural thing, i dont think we feel comfortable seeing it. Besides ' most nudists go there to be relaxed. Can you imagine if every guy was walking around with a fat ?
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
I do a lot of boating, and some of that boating takes us to live bait catching locations near nude beaches. And one of life's ironies is that the people you see on a nudist beach..... Are the ones you really least want to see. This topic reinforces that lol DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
But was thinking of going to one in vic this summer although it would be great to be able to know where a good one is- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
There's one down near Mt Eliza I'm pretty sure. Sunnyside beach or something. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Heh vicroads.. Silly autocorrect. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
They're supposed to be for everyone, including families. Yes, getting nude at the beach makes you feel sexy but adults should be able to contain that and show some respect for others. If you want to walk around naked with a raging boner while being watched and maybe getting lucky, go to a swingers club or party where everyone's there for the same reason. If you look hard enough I'm sure you could find a day time, poolside party, so that you can enjoy the sun at the same time.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Many nudist beaches are also popular gay cruising areas and beats., which can go completely unnoticed by many people down there who'd have no idea. . If u aren't aware of what those terms mean, , look em up and keep that in mind! Erections, like gay beats, are fine as long as ur respectful of the people who are there who don't want to be exposed to it.. Obvious things like Families and kids etc, try to be discreet if they are within sight. But if they aren't, then i say flaunt your Boner proudly and enjoy the (wanted) attention it can bring. Just do it in a way that is respectful and out of sight preferably to those who won't be keen. If ur new to gay cruising areas this will be new, but is common knowledge to those who are. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nothing worse than being at a nudist beach as a couple and the single men walking past time and again leering and rubbing their cocks. Do they think it is really going to happen. It ruins it for us. The wife gets , understandably, uncomfortable and wants to leave. Love being naked and not shy about people seeing us naked and having a look. But if you get a hard-on, sit down, lie on it, take a dip or sort yourself out behind the dunes. AND as we have seen if a couple are getting amorous together it is not a signal for you to sit 6 foot away and wank. We try sitting near other couples as it feels safer in numbers. Isolated we have felt threatened. Rant over
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm not up on nudist etiquette so I'm not sure if its appropriate to stare at another's genitals or pass comment on their parts either? Kind of a novice attempt to get nude in front of others without being charged with 'Flashing' or an ego showing it's physical extravagance. Or just a bunch of folk who like wind in their Goolies?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'hotsukn'Many nudist beaches are also popular gay cruising areas and beats., which can go completely unnoticed by many people down there who'd have no idea. . If u aren't aware of what those terms mean, , look em up and keep that in mind! Erections, like gay beats, are fine as long as ur respectful of the people who are there who don't want to be exposed to it.. Obvious things like Families and kids etc, try to be discreet if they are within sight. But if they aren't, then i say flaunt your Boner proudly and enjoy the (wanted) attention it can bring. Just do it in a way that is respectful and out of sight preferably to those who won't be keen. If ur new to gay cruising areas this will be new, but is common knowledge to those who are. - Posted from rhpmobile Hahaha! You think it goes unnoticed? Annoys the crap out of many, and means that they go far less than they would otherwise. Which is a pity, because sitting in the sun and having a swim in the nuddy is very relaxing and lots of fun. What's not so relaxing is when its used as "cruising area" as you describe.
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RHP User
11 years ago
you see plenty of guys walking around clad beaches with erections too!
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's about enjoying the sun and nature nude rather than gaining a sexual thrill. Often you have little control about what your penis does, sometimes it starts to pop up and say hello without any regard for the circumstances. At that point the big head is supposed to make the call about whether it is appropriate or not. Just roll over and work on the tan on your back until the little man gets bored and goes back to sleep again.Oh and enjoy the nude beaches, not very many of them these days, so make sure you enjoy the beach and don't ruling it for everyone :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'TongueCramps' Quoting 'hotsukn'Many nudist beaches are also popular gay cruising areas and beats., which can go completely unnoticed by many people down there who'd have no idea. . If u aren't aware of what those terms mean, , look em up and keep that in mind! Erections, like gay beats, are fine as long as ur respectful of the people who are there who don't want to be exposed to it.. Obvious things like Families and kids etc, try to be discreet if they are within sight. But if they aren't, then i say flaunt your Boner proudly and enjoy the (wanted) attention it can bring. Just do it in a way that is respectful and out of sight preferably to those who won't be keen. If ur new to gay cruising areas this will be new, but is common knowledge to those who are. - Posted from rhpmobile Hahaha! You think it goes unnoticed? Annoys the crap out of many, and means that they go far less than they would otherwise. Which is a pity, because sitting in the sun and having a swim in the nuddy is very relaxing and lots of fun. What's not so relaxing is when its used as "cruising area" as you describe. Reread before being melodramatic: I said it goes unnoticed "by many", and it does. Many people are still genuinely naive to things like this Tonguecramps, though regulars and astute people will of course know or notice there's really more going than just people 'walking around' the dunes.This is also a symptom of Australia being a little behind the times and too conservative with nudist beaches. Theres really just one in Perth for example. In other countries gay nudist beaches are common, and as you can imagine, many people whod a desire to use a nudist beach as a cruise area would simply go there instead if the option was available, instead of the one where Moms and Dads want to relax without this sort of stuff going on. But itd be naive to think that it would solve all problems still, though itd help.nghytndsm, learning to cruise (straight or gay areas) and things like having a good perve/voyeur session/indulging in the thrill of watching and being hard in public - while not offending the wrong people or making them uncomfortable - is like learning a fine dance. You just need to learn the steps. Things like what most have already said, use common sense to avoid famlies/kids and the average couples who loo like they genuinely want to relax hassle free. But, with more experience, you'll learn to recognise and notice whos receptive to advances or who will react favourably to them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I know of at least 2 nudist beaches ... but then you can only be in one place at a time. The WA coastline is vast and there a long stretches of beach where anyone can be a nudist in private to enjoy the sun and freedom without being perved on or annoyed by wankers! Just watch out for the sharks...lol Thank goodness we don't have the Pacu (testicle chomping fish) in our waters for all those enjoying a little free floatation of the family jewels. SF xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'hotsukn' Quoting 'TongueCramps' Quoting 'hotsukn'Many nudist beaches are also popular gay cruising areas and beats., which can go completely unnoticed by many people down there who'd have no idea. . If u aren't aware of what those terms mean, , look em up and keep that in mind! Erections, like gay beats, are fine as long as ur respectful of the people who are there who don't want to be exposed to it.. Obvious things like Families and kids etc, try to be discreet if they are within sight. But if they aren't, then i say flaunt your Boner proudly and enjoy the (wanted) attention it can bring. Just do it in a way that is respectful and out of sight preferably to those who won't be keen. If ur new to gay cruising areas this will be new, but is common knowledge to those who are. - Posted from rhpmobile Hahaha! You think it goes unnoticed? Annoys the crap out of many, and means that they go far less than they would otherwise. Which is a pity, because sitting in the sun and having a swim in the nuddy is very relaxing and lots of fun. What's not so relaxing is when its used as "cruising area" as you describe. Reread before being melodramatic: I said it goes unnoticed "by many", and it does. Many people are still genuinely naive to things like this Tonguecramps, though regulars and astute people will of course know or notice there's really more going than just people 'walking around' the dunes. This is also a symptom of Australia being a little behind the times and too conservative with nudist beaches. Theres really just one in Perth for example. In other countries gay nudist beaches are common, and as you can imagine, many people whod a desire to use a nudist beach as a cruise area would simply go there instead if the option was available, instead of the one where Moms and Dads want to relax without this sort of stuff going on. But itd be naive to think that it would solve all problems still, though itd help. nghytndsm, learning to cruise (straight or gay areas) and things like having a good perve/voyeur session/indulging in the thrill of watching and being hard in public - while not offending the wrong people or making them uncomfortable - is like learning a fine dance. You just need to learn the steps. Things like what most have already said, use common sense to avoid famlies/kids and the average couples who loo like they genuinely want to relax hassle free. But, with more experience, you'll learn to recognise and notice whos receptive to advances or who will react favourably to them.How were we being melodramatic? We just stated an opinion. And we'll stick to that opinion - we very much doubt that there's "many" who go to a nude beach that aren't aware of what people cruising around in the dunes are up to. Lol
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cbdlivin
11 years ago
As Cobblers is my regular beach please role over if you get excited, it has a varied group, including families, mine amongst them sometimes and the last thing we want is some guy showing off their erection...Also as Meeka said the guys with cock rings, just so wrong....Its about everyone enjoying the beach and feeling comfortable to always return without any hassles or inappropriate behaviour.Bryan
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm with Tongue Clamps , nothing melodramatic about what they had to say. If you think a nude beach is a place for gay or warped straight guys to get their cheap thrills think again. It's never hard to pick the nuisances who think no one knows what their up too. All they do is spoil it for the rest who just want a nice day. It's not that difficult for most.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me'If you think a nude beach is a place for gay or warped straight guys to get their cheap thrills think again. Its most certainly a place for all people (sexuality aside) to get their cheap thrills. The thrill of proudly being naked in a public place chief among them. It would be naive and akin to sticking ones head in the sand, to assume that many of the other 'associated behaviours' that being naked in public (espeically in Australia where its much more Taboo and so few places to do it) won't crop up. I dont have an issue with it, especially harmless stuff like the OP said, IF they know how to discreetly and respectfully go about it.And the OP will need to expect that many here will vehemently disagree with my words, and it would be the more socially mainstream acceptable thing to do. But I still say its like a fine dance and if you like the thrill - go for it. Be proud of your erection and dont be shy about it. But be smart. Most importantly stay far away from families and kids, learn the finer steps of how to read when people are open to seeing things like this, and you'll be able to enjoy yourself that much more on your next visit.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I stand corrected' i agree everyone can get a cheap thrill, but there's still that silent respect that most observe. I've meet some wonderful couples and singles (females) without having to wave a boner around. As I said, its easy to pick out the wankers even if they pretend their not.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me'I'm with Tongue Clamps , nothing melodramatic about what they had to say. If you think a nude beach is a place for gay or warped straight guys to get their cheap thrills think again. It's never hard to pick the nuisances who think no one knows what their up too. All they do is spoil it for the rest who just want a nice day. It's not that difficult for most. We like your typo! Some clamps will definitely be giving us those cramps...
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RHP User
11 years ago
My local nudie is Swanbourne and I have spent a fair amount of time there. There are plenty of Meerkats in the dunes but I have never been propositioned or hassled in any way. (almost disappointed !)But when going with female company the guys who lay out there towel as near as they dare are amusing to say the least, after moving once or twice I had to tell one creep where to go. There is a locals or regular crowd who are very friendly and keep to themselves. I like it, no probs. Not sure what it's like for single females, I have often been asked to accompany single women but there are a few who get down on there own and don't appear to be hassled.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What was I thinking... ? Now there's a kink.. Sorry cramps... Jay
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RHP User
11 years ago
While the mixed opinions have not really put my mind totally at ease, I suppose if the flag starts flying I will know it is not too much of a big deal and let it settle by itself (hows that for imagery).I would never go to a nude beach with the intention to make others feel uncomfortable, so I suppose a sly "legs up"/lay on stomach approach will be taken in the future.But whoever labeled it as "cheap thrills" before wasn't too far off!See you down there next time :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have been nudist for 30yrs now n no one looks at anyone except the tossers like u that give long term nudist a bad name... Ur a fool to think nudist well all nudist a swingers n peeves
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Anger management course to u6me9....stat!!! lol To you, he's a fool. To everyone else he's a nudist. To me.... I think you're in denial if you expect us to believe you don't attend public nudist locations to share yourself visually with others, and to visually "appreciate" them. Because you'd stick to nuding up in the relative privacy of your own yard if you didn't. Need you also be reminded that as a couples profile, you still vaguely represent as swingers, regardless of whether you swing at a public venue, or not. So give the guy a break. DG
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Anger management course to u6me9....stat!!! lol To you, he's a fool. To everyone else he's a nudist. To me.... I think you're in denial if you expect us to believe you don't attend public nudist locations to share yourself visually with others, and to visually "appreciate" them. Because you'd stick to nuding up in the relative privacy of your own yard if you didn't. Need you also be reminded that as a couples profile, you still vaguely represent as swingers, regardless of whether you swing at a public venue, or not. So give the guy a break. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Disagree DG, that is not what nudist are about at all.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Anger management course to u6me9....stat!!! lol To you, he's a fool. To everyone else he's a nudist. To me.... I think you're in denial if you expect us to believe you don't attend public nudist locations to share yourself visually with others, and to visually "appreciate" them. Because you'd stick to nuding up in the relative privacy of your own yard if you didn't. Need you also be reminded that as a couples profile, you still vaguely represent as swingers, regardless of whether you swing at a public venue, or not. So give the guy a break. DG If there was a beach and surf in our backyard you might have a point DG, but there isn't, so you don't. In fact, there's quite a lot of bullants, which don't mix well with genitals. And no, the main reason we attend any nudist locations is not to share ourselves visually with others - in fact the only place we go is where we have 100s of metres to ourselves...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Anger management course to u6me9....stat!!! lol To you, he's a fool. To everyone else he's a nudist. To me.... I think you're in denial if you expect us to believe you don't attend public nudist locations to share yourself visually with others, and to visually "appreciate" them. Because you'd stick to nuding up in the relative privacy of your own yard if you didn't. Need you also be reminded that as a couples profile, you still vaguely represent as swingers, regardless of whether you swing at a public venue, or not. So give the guy a break. DG If there was a beach and surf in our backyard you might have a point DG, but there isn't, so you don't. In fact, there's quite a lot of bullants, which don't mix well with genitals. And no, the main reason we attend any nudist locations is not to share ourselves visually with others - in fact the only place we go is where we have 100s of metres to ourselves...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have had a hard on at nude beach and didn't offend anyone. I was lying there on the beach and it just happened.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
....but..... you still know there will always be people there.... who WILL look and behave inappropriately.So in that knowledge..... anyone whinging..... is... well.... whinging. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'....but..... you still know there will always be people there.... who WILL look and behave inappropriately. So in that knowledge..... anyone whinging..... is... well.... whinging. DG Your standard response to being shown to have made a less than well thought out comment.. Our last point wasn't whinging in the slightest - simply pointing out that you've made an assumption from your lofty perch that is once again not particularly accurate. Yes, we're well aware that there will always be people who WILL look and behave inappropriately (and in fact we made that same point much earlier in the thread) - but your point about remaining in one's backyard is just rather stupid. Shall we expand? We like to go to the cinema rather hiring a DVD. We're well aware we may come across teenagers sitting in the back row chucking popcorn at people - so by your logic anyone who doesn't like that inappropriate behaviour is a whinger, simply because they knew beforehand it may occur? Ditto going to the football instead of watching at home, and thus encountering some drunken yobs? Simply, and for the same reason we go to a nude beach, is that there are aspects to those experiences not available at our own home. Doesn't mean we're secretly wishing to have popcorn thrown at us or be sworn at by yobs (or vice versa), anymore than we're at a nudist area to be "visually appreciated" by others, or "visually appreciate" them.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Oh really. Heres a thought... Within this topic, there have been plenty of comment about nuisances and pests and inappropriate gay guys at nude beach. Some has even come from those who have been critical of these types but then profess to enjoy having sex at nude beaches.... .....so how are my comments wrong when they've been validated by the kind of behaviour my critics say doesn't happen, but even practice in themselves?! Sure, you may wish nude beaches didn't have this element at times, and that all people kept their eyes to themselves..... but a wish doesn't equate to practical reality. Peace. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seriously, as we see it not many couples go without wanting to show off, and feel free about it, sure not everyone is a swinger, and don't just get it on in public. It rarely happens but I have seen it happen. I have had many men stand I front or walk past my husband and I with raging boners , it's kinda nice that they find you attractive or my husband lol. But it's a free world, it doesn't me they can do it with us, we have had guys play with there boners only a couple metre from us until they exploded, we think it's funny , still wasn't involving us, it's a free place, and yes none of this happens when kids are around so it's all non disturbing. We have also been to beaches in family environment that cool too. ;)
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
We went to Sunnyside last summer. It was our first time going to a nude beach and we did not know what to expect. We found it to be quite pleasant and liberating. To tan nude and swim in the sea nude, it felt good, and natural. There were many families with kids and people of all ages, enjoying the sun, sea and sand. We did not see any lewd sexual behaviour and if anyone was perving at us, or others, we did not notice. However, having seen some of the chatter, in the chat rooms both on this site and others, it would appear that the majority of the meerkats seem to believe that a nude beach is a place where they can go to jerk off and have uninhibited sex with as many people as possible and that women and couples are just waiting for it, on nude beaches. Sadly there are idiots think that nude beaches and nor naturism is all about sex, when in fact it is not. And then spoil the fun for others and give the scene a bad name, and then also result in the beaches being closed down [ complaints of lewd public sex, which is unlawful and results in law enforcement changing the status of said beach]
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RHP User
10 years ago
Anything involving nudity away from a nudist beach will be classed as adult behaviour and only acceptable for adults, so with that said, why is it deemed acceptable by so many here to have children at a nudist beach ?As an adult, I love going to a nudist beach and getting an all over tan, but I would NEVER let my children attend if I had any. That would be irresponsible parenting. And if you disagree with this, then please enlighten me as to why it is considered adult behaviour at all other times other than a nudist beach ?There is no logical reason for kids to be on a nudist beach, and any logical thinking parent would know it can only lead to trouble due to the seedy element that can often attend these nudist beaches. You will never get rid of the seedy element of society no matter how many forums you write on. But you can do things to limit their impact. And what better playground for the seedy element than a beach full of naked kids. How much are you contributing to that playground by having your kids there. How many of the seedy element wouldn't be there if what they were looking for wasn't there either. As for the guys walking around with an erection, is that ALL guys doing this that offends you, or is it just the unattractive, hairy, over weight guys doing it that offends you. I bet the reality would be a lot different if a ripped Adonis with a 10 inch erection walked past. But reality and forums are always different from each other. We can live in a fantasy world and hope to go to a nudist beach where it just other naked sunbathers, but the reality is a different story. You can either go by the results of reality, or you can continue to live in denial and create you little version of Utopia. And if men walking around with an erection at a nudist beach cause you such distress, then don't go. I don't like the loud music and sticky floors at a nightclub, but if I'm going to go to one I have to expect to put up with it. You might change one persons opinion on a forum, but it will NOT change societies attitudes and actions no matter how many forums you complain on, and yes I am aware of the irony of writing that on a forum ! But to complain about erections at a nudist beach is like complaining about chicken while eating at KFC ! How many forums have women written on to complain about the behaviour of men, yet has it changed men as a whole across the board..........not even close. How many times have men made it clear what they want from a woman, yet do we get what we want from a woman when WE want it.........not even close. And all forums are now, are just a platform for people to have a whinge to try and change the world into that THEY perceive as the perfect world.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'QuiteFrankly'Anything involving nudity away from a nudist beach will be classed as adult behaviour and only acceptable for adults, so with that said, why is it deemed acceptable by so many here to have children at a nudist beach ? here the nude beaches have a certain salacious element to them, but in other places it isn't so... In some places of Europe it's quite unremarkable. I don't think it is necessarily "adult behaviour" away from a nudist beach, its just that the only time most of us here are naked is when we're having a shower or doing something "adult". I don't know that a nudist beach is such a dangerous place full of predators - I know they must be attracted to all that exposed naked kiddy flesh... like a playground or scout hall? If I had kids I'd keep an eye on them if they were at a normal beach as well.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think our European friends have long proven themselves to be a lot more open and liberal about sex and nudity. It almost comes natural to many European people. And I bet they don't waste their police resources and time by chasing after people sunbathing naked as much as we do here ? And I hope my comment didn't come across that nudist beaches was full of paedophiles, but I know enough about this world and the people in it to know that if you provide a place where naked children will be running around, then you WILL get that seedy element attracted to it. I would also be concerned at a normal beach, but I wouldn't be taking my kid to a nudist beach. But that's the strange part about the nudity rules, sometimes the only difference between a normal beach and a nudist beach is a very skimpy swimming costume. But 100 years ago it was a crime to wear a swimming costume, now its a crime to not wear one Lol ?
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beachboy05
10 years ago
A female friend of mine who I go to the nudie bch regularly with found it quite nice, she was very insecure of her body at first and the first time she stripped off on the beach was very reluclant to walk down the water nude or down the beach. When she finally did a nice looking 21old guy walked past us and as we got closer he got a huge bonner and was quite shy about it , this made her feel much better about herself so I was quite gratefull . Other times we have been lying on our towels , and perverted guys walk up to us with boner's asking the time etc . this behaviour is unacceptable and un welcomed, sometimes we like to talk to other guy's / girls whislt walking or near the water however we do not like to be approached whislt on our towels especially when were avoiding eye contact etc
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