M55 F55
Myth buster
September 19 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
I, personally never hesitate to send a message if I see something that interests me. From the conversations I've had with women from RHP they do the same. Not sure we are a representative sample though?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I heard that Female Guests can send a Message but Male Guests can't . Is there any truth in that ? GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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Beachlover1999
11 years ago
If I am interested I message without hesitation, that's what assertive women do isn't it?? However I know on other sites you feel the vibe that you should wait for the introduction......yawn!!!!! Lol I love being on the hunt!!!!!! ;)))
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RHP User
11 years ago
Women get one free message a week.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Published data, experience and intuition all suggest the ratio is around 20:1 or something. Did you check the last page on each search ? Maybe unsuitable matches are used to pad the searches to produce this result ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think that if you took out all the fake profiles and all of the people just dropping in for a look with no real intentions then it would definitely skew very much towards men being in the majority on RHP.It has been my experience that women still predominantly either want or wait for men to make the first move, either for messaging or the first kiss or touch. I would also guess that many women would consider that they have made the first move by giving hints or subtle signals to invite that attention.Kaleidoscope, respectfully, I think you are in the minority when it comes to sending the first message. A delightful minority, but a minority nonetheless.
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RHP User
11 years ago
So , Male Guests are essentially impotent here , unless they choose to use a Cheesy Flirt . Yet most Women won't reply to Flirts . Hmmm , seems like Women who wait for a Message from Prince Charming could be waiting for quite a while ... GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is subtle?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kaleidoscope' I, personally never hesitate to send a message if I see something that interests me. From the conversations I've had with women from RHP they do the same. Not sure we are a representative sample though?- Posted from rhpmobile ---I think it would be a scant few men getting messages - those with the right combination of being able to write more than a sentence of broken not-english, and ab-ownership. Im no oil painting, but i dont think im totally fucking hideous, and i have a profile with 3 syllable words and everything, and i have received maybe 3 or 4 flirts, and a handful of messages - though all of those messages have happened as a result of things ive written on the forum, and tend to be on the 'lol i loved your forum post' side of things... which might mitigate that somewhat.I would suggest there are many, many more men on the site. Forums are different, and tend to be more appealing to women, whether its here or elsewhere, so the lady-heavy demographic of the forum should not be considered as an accurate representation.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Doesn't have to be very subtle for me to is it lol. I am a bumpy with hints!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Autocorrect.....should be numpty
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RHP User
11 years ago
I mean most guys would be flat out getting a response 90% of the time, let alone actually getting approached.Its no different to any other area of dating life - guys generally have to make the move. yes there are examples, but yeah, they just prove the iron-clad rule.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Women get one free message a week. I just wanted to add to your post Meeka... there's a thread in SWB about that 1 free message and to be absolutely precise. Women can have one message every seven days. That might sound like I'm being an arsehole, but I say that because (women who have verified their profile) can only send a new message 7 days after they send the last one. I've tested it. . Looking on the bright side MrGreen, it does give male guests a better chance of getting in touch with women... women can only send that free message to men!
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'IndefatigableMe' Published data, experience and intuition all suggest the ratio is around 20:1 or something. Did you check the last page on each search ? Maybe unsuitable matches are used to pad the searches to produce this result ? I didn't use any of the matching stuff, just the first two boxes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think the listings only go up to 200 pages. I like to test things a lot because like you, I don't like to just believe what I am told. Bear with me, I will get to a point... One of the 'tests' I did not so long ago was to compare the numbers of female and male paying members. I set my search parameters to people online at that time to minimise the number of pages lol. Doing a very quick search now, there are 172 pages of men online now who are seeking women. Repeating the search for women online now who are seeking women, there are only 12 pages. It's a rough test but I think bears out the idea that there are far more men on the site than women. ;-) . And MrGreen, I do realise my last post is small consolation! Sorry... :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'justforfunisall' I think that if you took out all the fake profiles and all of the people just dropping in for a look with no real intentions then it would definitely skew very much towards men being in the majority on RHP.It has been my experience that women still predominantly either want or wait for men to make the first move, either for messaging or the first kiss or touch. I would also guess that many women would consider that they have made the first move by giving hints or subtle signals to invite that attention.Kaleidoscope, respectfully, I think you are in the minority when it comes to sending the first message. A delightful minority, but a minority nonetheless. If its someone of the forums and I like what they say. Its not to hook up, as most are not anywhere near me anyway. I message other women if I am having a girls coffee day , to get them to meet other women in a social non sexual , environment.There are a shit load( thats the proper numerical term for men on rhp) , I repeat a shit load of men and not enough women.I would say at the min 50 men to every woman that is actually after sex offline. Its hard to find women that are real, as fakes help to lure guys in and they are often guys , pretending to be women.There are women with several profiles. They do this for a range of reasons, some to make sure they guy that says they are just after them is not posting to other women as in their other female profiles,There are women trying to find out if their husbands are on here, so not really going to respond to guys they are on a mission to trap hubby.There are women who , put up fake pictures and dick with a guys brain and never go near a his dick in reality.I dont contact or message for meets, its hard enough to keep up with messages and flirts without going out there into man land to find more.Some women like the attention they get online and are fear full to go off line in case they do not meet up to the great myth they have created on here. Or they are just to busy in the reality of their lives and this is a good little fun diversion to get some ego stroking.You can be a woman and as ugly as a hat full of arse holes and still get a guy. Even old wrinkled gals with bad backs and jowls like Fred Bassettthere is a god! Lady T , a lady on RHP who likes the odds
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' So , Male Guests are essentially impotent here , unless they choose to use a Cheesy Flirt . Yet most Women won't reply to Flirts . Hmmm , seems like Women who wait for a Message from Prince Charming could be waiting for quite a while ... GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile I pay, how else can I get to see prince charmings cock?And yes , I tell guys pay up or forever hold your cock in hand, it may work for some stud with a great picture and handsome face but your average joe, nope.If you join for a y ear its cheaper anyway, so if you work out the odds , and you get at least one root then that covers the cost as it would cost more for a hookerAnd the perception right or wrong is your not serious about the hunt. Your cheap as well. I love guys that say , rich businessman runs his own business and yet cant invest in marketing himself.try it for a year guys, work on your profiles give them some polish, throw in a face picture and then try to read the profiles, allllllll the way to the end. Then respond, you may get very surprised if you follow a few basic steps.change your name if it has all cock, big cock , oral for you all night long, or what ever , I tell guys to take BOY out of their name as well, and try to think of something grown up , fun and not sexual, now there is the challengeit can be sexy, like the name.. pleasuretobehad, not so overt in sexuality.the girls have good names, its not often you will see, hotcunt4y , unless its a guy or a hooker.
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madotara69
11 years ago
We could just about say Myth busted. Research is amazing
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear' I think the listings only go up to 200 pages. I like to test things a lot because like you, I don't like to just believe what I am told. Bear with me, I will get to a point... One of the 'tests' I did not so long ago was to compare the numbers of female and male paying members. I set my search parameters to people online at that time to minimise the number of pages lol. Doing a very quick search now, there are 172 pages of men online now who are seeking women. Repeating the search for women online now who are seeking women, there are only 12 pages. It's a rough test but I think bears out the idea that there are far more men on the site than women. ;-) . And MrGreen, I do realise my last post is small consolation! Sorry... :-) I did not do the women seeking women, I just did and guess what? 200 pages +
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RHP User
11 years ago
Whatever search you input, if you tick the 'online now' box, it will cut down the results dramatically.
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RHP User
11 years ago
People keep mentioning that the cost of Membership is less than the cost of a Prostitute . Is it just me , or is there something intrinsically wrong with that idea ? GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
No, it's just you. Often with the type of messages I used to get when I had a saucy profile made me feel as if a lot of men viewed women on RHP as a free hookers, this is why women make these comments. I have even been offered money, offered a trip overseas and interstate, offered a high class dinners followed by a 5 star restaurant, etc etc.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Seems like the Full Moon must be making me Crazy then . I might nip up the road and renew my Membership . GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think its not fair that women get a free message to send and guys dont.If the shoe was on the other foot.. well lets just say the guys would be getting kicked in the NuTz!Only free thing that i get offered off the women here is the "Block Button" bwhahaha.The 200 pages is probably what the search engine goes up to/can store.There are way more men here ,most pages of women i have seen on line is 12How many men are on line i wonder
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kizza1973' I think its not fair that women get a free message to send and guys dont.If the shoe was on the other foot.. well lets just say the guys would be getting kicked in the NuTz!Only free thing that i get offered off the women here is the "Block Button" bwhahaha.The 200 pages is probably what the search engine goes up to/can store.There are way more men here ,most pages of women i have seen on line is 12How many men are on line i wonder ---I actually think the 'Online Now' numbers are fudged also. I reckon anything past the first couple of pages is probably a waste time to contact, as they are likely not actually there...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Off line I wonder compared to on line at time of viewing?? Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
There's a tab up on the right hand top of the page that gives you a list of men, women and couples and what they're looking for. http://www.redhotpie.com.au/MemberProfile/OnlineNow.aspx . ATM I see, 234 women looking for women and 2412 men looking for women. . Also 210 women seeking couples with 1384 men seeking couples. . Using those figures, there is definitely close to a 10 to 1 ratio of men to women. Signed: Peachy... who loves facts and figures, specially the figures we get to see on RHP!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think I got what you meant. Looking through those 200+ pages a general search brings up includes all the profiles that haven't been on for over a month, so I don't like to include those as active profiles. I have looked at the figures quite a few times in my time on RHP (aaahhhh those figures again LOL) and the 10-1 ratio of men to women has stood close to true every time.
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madotara69
11 years ago
we have used the advanced search features, a while ago, though they change at all different times, so, my post is not so much directed at online ATM. I am just bored.You are beautiful, Miss Peachy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love puzzles. I know it's not the online thing so much but it seemed the easiest way to answer the question... and I do like to do my best to get to the heart of the matter! :-D I'd love to know the comparison of men to women in the forum hehe... And why it seems that more women than men have instant posting??? All those important mysteries of life ya know. You're a funny bastard Mado. xxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
thankyou... wish I could say the pics were recent.
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RHP User
11 years ago
in the interests of your research, I went searching for men in Queensland between 50 and 90,after trawling through 100 profiles I found one man who is 70...most of the hundred were 18-40....now I feel better
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madotara69
11 years ago
If he is reading the forums, he must be fizzing at the bung about now.
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RHP User
11 years ago
LOLOLIt is..................... "WHATEVA TREVOR"?FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
You guys are just on the wrong side :P Come into the light.....- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm far more interested in his ability to hold a conversation, given my preferences for more than a quick Blow and Go conversation is mandatory. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm not into subtlety ......when I know what I want, and I usually do, I ask for it......nicely, ofcourse 😊- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' People keep mentioning that the cost of Membership is less than the cost of a Prostitute . Is it just me , or is there something intrinsically wrong with that idea ? GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile But at the same time, the fact is that many guys think that we are free hookers.If you look at it in a logical way , there may be some truth to it but we are also getting pleasure back , unlike a working girl.do you know that a lot of working girls go out of business, and brothels find it hard to make ends meet because of online sex sites like RHp and other sites.so we are competition its just the way it is. Some guys go through a ton of women on sex sites, I know as some do the rounds of a lot of women I know. So its not a bad investment to pay for member ship if your just after some sex.It works for me, I prefer to pay so I can have some power to message back etc or respond to a flirt if I find the guy attractive. Most married people do not have have the capacity to pay, not all of course, but many do not want to leave a paper trail re their activities.truth is there are many posts about this and women seem to indicate they prefer paid members to contact them.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Used mine on numerous occasions, and often quite successfully.
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RHP User
11 years ago
To be honest.....you're assuming that ALL profiles here are legitimate people. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
What, so that could mean some of the messages we get are not so real, or really real? Thought some of them were from dreamers. Because they are really fucking stupid, just some of them, he he
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RHP User
11 years ago
Women like the seduction , the allure , they want to be aroused . When and where doesn't do it of them , and yes they get a message a week . So clearly if your serious about attracting a lady , take the time , make it special , make it count.
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Plain
11 years ago
20 Doberman Pinschers with their dicks all tied to the one tree in a yard!!!I think Lady T is right these sites are competition to the local ladies, mind you on some other sites they are allowed, you just dont know until you arrange a meet, thats $150 all inclusive for 30 minutes and $300 an hour, extras like kissing and cuddling $25 each. Now that is a huge turn off, the basic facts are most guys have unrealistic expectations, that is the bad side of the net, until you meet or arrange a meet you live in fantasy land. Thats it guys dream more than girls, but dont talk about.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'tulips4u' You guys are just on the wrong side :P Come into the light.....- Posted from rhpmobile Indeed ... the inside is always warmer and more comfortable than the outside.
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madotara69
11 years ago
look through the forums, there seems to be a reasonably even even amount of women men and couples.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is usually where i look and it is fairly normal to see >2000 guys looking for women but I have never seen women looking for men go over 1000 (now it is 2274 men to 474 women). Also pretty sure that the 'online now' figures are fudged , otherwise some people live on this site
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RHP User
11 years ago
Probably because the forums don't appeal to everyone and they require at least a little bit of effort Mado & Tara
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'justforfunisall' Probably because the forums don't appeal to everyone and they require at least a little bit of effort Mado & Tara I have been egging Tara on, to Say hello to you all, she is blushing.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I received a flirt from a fifty year old man,no photo but he lives in the next suburb.Soooo I sent him a message in the interest of research
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RHP User
11 years ago
break the searches down into age groups...for example.in the ACT there is 166 pages of men aged 18 to 25 looking for women........but only 26 pages of women from the same age group...looking for men...in Qld there are 108 pages of married men aged 30 to 35 looking for womenbut only 15 pages of married women in the corresponding age group.....looking for men.. its no myth..the men outnumber the women.
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Kaleidoscope'I'm not into subtlety ......when I know what I want, and I usually do, I ask for it......nicely, ofcourse 😊- Posted from rhpmobile that you would be taller than most guys around anyway, so getting your way shouldn't be too much of a hassle Tall
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Tall74nHard9
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'I received a flirt from a fifty year old man,no photo but he lives in the next suburb. Soooo I sent him a message in the interest of researchAnd what did you deduce ???
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madotara69
11 years ago
U r such a fine sport.
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RHP User
11 years ago
exchanged a few messages and had a phone conversation...we shall see
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RHP User
11 years ago
he seems rather nice but I was surprised at how nervous he was ..his words..... so I reasured him that I didn't bite
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' he seems rather nice but I was surprised at how nervous he was ..his words..... so I reasured him that I didn't bite That might come back on you if he reads half of your posts
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