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NSA
July 01 2018
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boxestotick
6 years ago
Simply means - “just fun sex without a relationship and emotions attached”. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
If a guys ask for NSA I walk away There are working girls to do that lol Prefer couples now as they actually spoil you Dinners drinks massages I don’t do NSA
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RHP User
6 years ago
I don't use it because of the various connontations involved. However, if I was to use it, it simply means I am making no demands that the other person MUST see me again, let alone offer her wedding ring finger :P So I would be thinking about the other person, as opposed to myself.
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nightingale8
6 years ago
To me means sex without emotions or expectation of relationship. Red flag because it's emotions that make sex worthwhile. I don't want another committed relationship but enjoy the company of someone who is emotionally available and who values me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Rlee552
6 years ago
Silk Ropes Attached. Much much better than string.
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RHP User
6 years ago
"Like a puppet on a string"... Peachy 🎀
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deepestpurple
6 years ago
NSA = Don't expect to follow the socially conventional relationship progression program and therefore don't expect exclusivity which is typically the first stage of said program. It seems to me to be a bit self defeating for women to view it as a red flag if they themselves are not looking for a relationship either. Of course if they do want the potential of a relationship, even if they haven't fully admitted it to themselves, then it should be a giant red flag. Women often state that they want guys to be upfront and honest about what they are looking for but if it's become a heuristic for identifying lazy, entitled and selfish men then that would be understandable.
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Mischeviouslad
6 years ago
Rather well put. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Don't want to get caught up in any entanglements? 🎀 As a couple... NSA is something we used to have on our profile... Peachy
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RHP User
6 years ago
and haven't realised yet that they will be judged and pored over for every letter on their profile. Don't worry about pictures being worth a thousand words... Peachy
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Xxalex
6 years ago
If I was to use it, it wouldn't mean no effort made on my behalf.. It would simply mean no demands or expectations for future meets.. I wouldn't treat you with less respect or even in a less personal or effortworthy manner.. More a once off is fine, I'm not going to be Txting or hounding you for more meets.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Hawt1
6 years ago
Quoting 'nightingale8' To me means sex without emotions or expectation of relationship. Red flag because it's emotions that make sex worthwhile. I don't want another committed relationship but enjoy the company of someone who is emotionally available and who values me. - Posted from rhpmobile I prefer friends with benefits myself.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Fucking without feeling,non commital cum sesh only......? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
You protest to much
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nightingale8
6 years ago
😙 - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
6 years ago
I agree with your definition... However... I can’t help but wonder about the emotionally available component. You’re attached and make no secret of that, but I’m curious as to why a potential needs to be emotionally available when you’re actually not due to your emotional investment in your primary relationship?? I’m sure you’re not the only person that prefers this, and I’m not knocking you at all, I just find it a hard concept to grasp that one party could ask that when it’s impossible for the asking party to reciprocate to the same level... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Rlee552
6 years ago
You can still have a connection with the other person when nsa - and still take pleasure in their pleasure. However, there is no expectation or demand for a commitment. So nsa can still have emotions attached to it, but they are non-demanding emotions.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Can be meaning just friendship? But is friendship a string in the context of it all? We seem to want to label our sexuality to the infinite degree, labeling our interactions/relationships is going along the same way. Straight to Gay and all the bits in between NSA to Marriage and all the bits in between. So on that basis, NSA is drop your duds, get it done and see you later
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RHP User
6 years ago
NSA means different things to different people. Using NSA in a profile is a no win option, using a label for the sake of brevity will get you labelled. Thanks for asking the question Annie.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I concur with your reasoning, Dr Annie..
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
my hand has a nsa relationship with my dick mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Usually means ONS. Need to be a bit lit to make it memorable or is that an oxymoron? Lol I believe that a lot of women do associate NSA with guys who don’t want to put much effort into the flirting and foreplay of the whole thing and tbh that can be a bit boring. Not very exciting. Unless you’re into more of a stranger thing.
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
I'd call it long term poly relationship.....
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RHP User
6 years ago
Where would I (we) be if my hand said f**k off dick I'm not interested in you anymore? My hand would be on strike and would even refuse to hold a fleshlight. - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
hopefully your other hand would get jealous. and step up to the party ,with incredible vigour 🤪 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
sex without the tampon inserted?
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nightingale8
6 years ago
Who said I'm not emotionally available? 😊 I care for my friends, I like that my friends care for me. Friends can have other friends that are not my friends. The same with lovers. It's possible to love more than one person. Though it's bloody hard to maintain even one good relationship. I'll stick with one! I'm not talking about puppy love either. The kind where they hijack your senses, the warmth you feel, even the sight of their name almost appears a different colour. To love without need. Is this not the purest love of all? Combined with sex, why would I settle for anything less! So. Finding someone with the capacity to love, what a wonderful thing that is. - Posted from rhpmobile
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The_Antichrist
6 years ago
Hmm interesting... I came to the conclusion you’re emotionally unavailable through your attached status, and that of your previous response where you said you’re not looking for a committed relationship... To me, those two things alone diminish emotional availability as you already have, I assume, a primary romantic relationship....and whilst it may be considered friendship as an emotional availability, I think it’s a far reach to equate them in the context of lovers as not many people I seen/met/spoken to ever really engage in sex with those who they’ve friendzoned.. When I see people saying that they can 2 people at once, I’m not really one to disagree, but I wonder how?? If your primary relationship is as you describe above, how is it even remotely possible to give yourself to that depth to another without risk to the primary relationship?? Because if you could love 2 people simultaneously you’d essentially have 2 primary relationships, and that would be something I would find hard to accept as from what I have read of such arrangements, the lover assumes the role of merely that...yes a friend, but if push ever come to shove, the lover would be essentially discarded in order to protect the viability of the primary relationship....so is that relationship with the lover as equal as people claim it to be?? I’d hazard a guess at no... I couldn’t agree more though regarding love without need...that makes love a choice, and a gift, not love that has been forced upon you so to speak as that suggests a level of manipulation of one party.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
By agreement After a one night stand, I won’t be checking my phone 29 times a day looking for a text, and we both move on with a great memory and some dignity intact
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bonefide
6 years ago
No Spooning Afterwards Couldn't let that happen. Agree with MrMojoRisin 100% NSA means different things to different people NSA- could mean Nice Sexy Afterfeeling 😲
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Hope you are ok
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inspirit
6 years ago
I couldn't agree more.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
6 years ago
To means they are emotionally unavailable for FWB. Thats cool as we all have different shit going on in our lives.. Personally I am defo NSA for the time being.. Life is horribly difficult at the moment and I sure as hell would not want to involve another person in it. It wouldn't be fair on either party. So NSA does not always mean a person is selfish. It can in fact mean the opposite. However there are still the players. I was once a player too. It was an ego thing..😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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inspirit
6 years ago
Really? Thats not really thinking outside the box now is it? Hahahaha so I read on you PF you think outside the box..... Oooops - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Really? Thats not really thinking outside the box now is it? Hahahaha so I read on you PF you think outside the box..... Oooops - Posted from rhpmobile I thought it was fkn hilarious...no else did though huh,,oh well...epic fail
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RHP User
6 years ago
I'm looking for someone to play with let me know
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
The topic is about your determined meaning/outlook, not asking if your looking for it. You and 5000 others.... Datefinder is your friend and obvious money is your friend: you dont wanna part with it to become a member to be serious to find someone. You need to message peeps, they rarely come to you
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