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NSA? Let me tie you up, Baby.
December 17 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
ha ha.. go girls. As it is said.. "A good wank is better then a silly root" - so from MY perspective, I dont profess to do NSA :) Mind you, IF a female wanted to just tell me to "Shut up" and do my natural... MAYBE I could :) Caveman
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
I would rather EBP (Elastic Bands Preferred) because they stretch and allow a degree of freedom for both to do their own thing but also have you keep intouch as friends do. Than there are also SRI (Sexy Ropes Included) for those that are so good you don't want them to squirm away ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hiya Meeka, Well to me no strings means I don't want to get emotionally involved. Basically sex without relationship issues. However having said that I don't believe you can have sex regularly with someone without some form of emotional attachment, but that doesn't mean I want to live with them. I had to laugh at Krissy's comment. The profile pic goes so well with it. :-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lol Krissy ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Strings aren't bad Meeks, just add complexity that makes NSA more difficult. Thinking with my boy sex brain here.....i have only now just learned how to include friendship in my casual relationships. It complicates, a fuck is a fuck and friendship is friendship and i don't fuck my friends...............but i've met such sweet people........some of them have become friends.....as much as i tried to keep them out of the circle of friends(emotionally attached and invested) and keep them in FB status (hot and sexy) they're just tooooooo fabulous and sweet and adorable to resist!
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RHP User
13 years ago
That made more sense at 1.30am last night. I know one of my RHP friends will be taking note of this and coming up with god knows what. Do your worst Doctor. ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
It wasn't me..... Not THIS Doctor anyway. But on the subject, I have had several NSA friends. Its a lot of fun however you have to be careful. I like to have a friendship as well as just a FB. The risk is that someone may get attached and want more. The problem is that I am just sooooo cute and there is something "Special" i do that that makes them want more and more. I have some very very good friends as a result of being here on RHP. 1 of them is my best friend as well. It can work but as with everything that is sooooo good, there is a risk........
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Meeks, you're on the right track, as is goodgrl - there's nothing at all wrong in forming friendships with fbs, I've had a few fwbs who started as fwb and are now friends without the sex. Mind you, in my view the only way for amazing sex in an NSA is to know your lover - that can't be done in a one nighter situation, you've got to be able to stimulate the big sex organ before the other ones a yard lower will really come out to play! Just sayin...
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RHP User
13 years ago
lol and here i was thinking it meant Non Sexual Activities? i always wondered why any one here would advertise for that?
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
No strings doesn't mean just sex with nothing else, it means sex with no obligation for anything else.If I don't feel like fucking today, you don't get to pout about it but you can rest assured I won't be asking you to come and 'just cuddle' with me. I might ask you to just come and fuck me and leave but you're not obligated to do it if that's not what you're in the mood for, and there's no hard feelings either way.We might chat, laugh, have a drink and enjoy each other's company before and after or even during sex, but we don't just hang out and not have sex.xx Sarah
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't tie me down(Lance Desardi)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Until I joined this site it wasn't something I had really thought of to much, so my definition is still a work in progress I suppose. Currently it means I want to get to know you and see if we have a mutual attraction and if we do then go from there. I believe friendship is important and being able to see eye to eye so you can talk about what you're both going to get out of it, because otherwise it would be dull and possibly a terrible experience for one or both of us.What I'm not after in an NSA is a 3 am call crying that their pet ferret just got eaten by their pet snake, being introduced to their parents as the boyfriend or at all really (Unless it was a REALLY kinky family). Having a deep conversation about where I see us in 6 months time. Weekend sleepovers that are only compromised of cuddle spooning because that is relationship territory and it is full of strings.
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Miss_CC
13 years ago
I agree with Miss Sarah's comments, NSA for me means we hook up when we are both available without one or the other getting upset when it doesnt happen, no emtional attachment at all, I dont find it very hard at all, maybe that says alot about me, though. Im not looking for a relationship and I am quite clear on that fact, so in that regard, we can catch up, have a few drinks, some laughs maybe a meal and then get to the sex part, and then part ways until next time!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes, Miss Sarah nailed it so well, what else can be said.... so Meeks this Doctor will not be saying anymore either ;-)
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inspirit
13 years ago
There the Booty calls arent they ..Ring Rng "i've just been to a sex party and still feel horny..........." When you have accomplished the deed you were commisioned for, shut the door behind you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Sydney__guy'Until I joined this site it wasn't something I had really thought of to much, so my definition is still a work in progress I suppose. Currently it means I want to get to know you and see if we have a mutual attraction and if we do then go from there. I believe friendship is important and being able to see eye to eye so you can talk about what you're both going to get out of it, because otherwise it would be dull and possibly a terrible experience for one or both of us.What I'm not after in an NSA is a 3 am call crying that their pet ferret just got eaten by their pet snake, being introduced to their parents as the boyfriend or at all really (Unless it was a REALLY kinky family). Having a deep conversation about where I see us in 6 months time. Weekend sleepovers that are only compromised of cuddle spooning because that is relationship territory and it is full of strings. Dam and I was just about to bring over the pot roast, and put a flower cover on "our bed". and bring the poodle called sugar over( nahh f that I have a German shepherd) cant introduce you to the mother cause I am the Mother...kinky enough for ya :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
NSA is what we as a couple are seeking..... only and always no strings.... we dont need to know .....last names, employers, birthdays, family dramas etc etc etc..... we just need to know you're keen, clean and available when we are wanting........
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RHP User
13 years ago
just do a wham bam... always like the interaction before and after. I have "not after a relationahip" in my profile mainly because I dont want the complications that comes with it at this point in time - life complicated as it is. That said still doesnt mean you cant get to know someone and meet someone in an ongoing way. Problems is emotions always get in the way at some stage and things can change :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
A colleague of mine in Adelaide had a one night stand with a lovely young lady in Melbourne. When he was next in town he thought he'd look her up (so to speak) and next thing you know they were having a devonshire tea and checking out antique bric a brac shops in the Dandenongs. Not long after she visited him and suggested she might move to Adelaide to be with him. . What's my point? Well I believe NSA is added to profiles as a bit of a contractual clause that rules out antique shops without some further consultation. . "I’m the one he loves and trustsHe goes out on the town I don’t get jealousIt’s all about affection of possession with usAnd I do exactly what I want, when I’m with him, and when I’m notIt’s not domineering, just endearing, what we gotSo if you love someone, let them be freeI know I don’t want no one, suffocating meDon’t settle for ownership, make it deepIf you love someone, you should feel good to let them breathe, " I'm his Girl - Friends.
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RHP User
13 years ago
MissSarah & Miss_CC... you have described what I consider to be a friends with benefits situation. You certainly don't need to know birthdays, or what they do for a living, or anything else or maybe you know a little. That depends on how long you know the person for. When I see them I say... "see you next time" without any expectations. I suppose for me, I can care about people without feeling that there are strings attached, well not on my side anyway. I care about my friends. If they ever needed help or even needed a date to a wedding or something like that, I would go. Not because of strings or because I expect anything to develop, just because I like them and that is what I would do for friends. If I saw a guy more than once that would mean that we have good chemistry and some sort of connection, and for me if I find someone interesting then I normally would like to be their friend too. The other "NSA" flings are just bad sex usually.JMOxxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
Now that isn't to say that I haven't crossed over the line myself... that is started to want more from someone and I can't guarantee that I won't do it again. At the end of the day I want good sex... not mediocre. Well as we all do. Happy rooting.xxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
"If I saw a guy more than once that would mean that we have good chemistry and some sort of connection, and for me if I find someone interesting then I normally would like to be their friend too. The other "NSA" flings are just bad sex usually." Here here! Well said Meeks. . Flirty x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hear, hear is an expression used as a short, repeated form of hear him, hear him. It represents a listener's agreement with the point being made by a speaker. It is often incorrectly spelled "here here".<1> Thanks Wikipedia! . ... thanks JG *eyeroll*
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MissSarahCurious
13 years ago
"MissSarah & Miss_CC... you have described what I consider to be a friends with benefits situation. You certainly don't need to know birthdays, or what they do for a living, or anything else or maybe you know a little."It's different to being friends with benefits in that with a FWB the friendship is, for want of a better word, 'bigger'. There can start to be crossover between sex lives and other aspects of life because the very name implies that there will be consideration for what's best for the 'friendship'. NSA or what I would call a fuck buddy keeps it more... contained, I guess.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I had thought about this many times Meeks and sometimes the answer depends on the moment I dont see it to be cut and dry. I feel like no strings is ok for a one of meet sure but with continued contact no strings does not mean no feelings compassion or friendship. Never shag again ................ I cant always tune out my feelings and I can often keep my business to myself but when I have been with fbs they often have the urge to talk and unload which leaves me with a compassion for them to be happy in their endeavours. So I have strings then. The strings as I see it are : relationship constant contact It just seems the more I think about it the more complicated it becomes. I am sure Mike and shel that if you are lucky enough to find this partner then if that person were to tell you they had a crisis that you should not have to help but you would feel for them arent they strings heart strings. It should be smipler but when it comes to sex it never is
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RHP User
13 years ago
For example Meeka, if I said that to you it could only mean Nice Sexy Arse - which I'm all for but that tight thing you've got on in your new profile picture has got me all turned around on how I like to see things...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I that good or bad Gonzo?? I have loosened it up for you ;-) Meeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
You shouldn't have - but I'm glad you did!
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RHP User
13 years ago
NSA = obligation free.I don't have to show up when you demand it. Yes I will come back, if we click, at a mutually convenient opportunity. I can stay over and cook you breakfast in the morning, but I don't have to. You can ask me to leave after sex. We can go out for dinner and drinks. I can be your friend. You can request exclusivity. I can oblige or deny as I see fit without worrying about your feelings. You can choose not to accept any action or behaviour I exhibit. You didn't even have to read this post.RA
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'NSA is what we as a couple are seeking..... only and always no strings.... we dont need to know .....last names, employers, birthdays, family dramas etc etc etc..... we just need to know you're keen, clean and available when we are wanting........ exactly .. i'm not trying to take anything away from the intimacy of having sex with a fwb but i'm simply saying i'm keen for sex when we are both up for it .. if you want something more serious then i'm not (right now) looking for that ... i'm just being as honest as possible!
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RHP User
13 years ago
it means no obligations or expectations, both ways. if i didn't want to know anything about the person or have a laugh or conversation with them, i would go to a prostitute. for me nsa does not mean no interest in the person or a lack of respect for them.w
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Letsgetcrazy09
13 years ago
I think NSA means different things for different people, just as kinky has different meanings depending on the persons own perspective. As for tying up, isn't it just a shame that ties are on the outter at the moment from a fashion point of view, at least silk ties had several purposes
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RHP User
13 years ago
If i state NSA.. its just that... plus friendship.. but FRIEDNSHIP comes first before NSA play.. i aint a man-whore yanno :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had a friend last week that put me through hell with some crazy crazy msgs after I left . Because im an idiot I forgot what happened last time I must of been thinking with my other brain. We were partying and had an awesome session in bed and as I was driving home she was sending msgs to please come back for more. She did say a nasty coment about someone and I told her to not speak like that after that did a complete 180 with the most hateful words it blew me away. Long story short I think I trailed off the subject but no stings can get complicated with only small things . Im a very chilled out laid back dude that I forget that some people maybe should be in a mental institution where to me it seemed fine that a couple of old mates could have a hot session in bed and have a laugh and everything is fine. Lesson learned so if and girls out there that can hang out have sex if the mood strikes us and carry on with no emotions and no strings attached please contact me im a lover not a fighter o and I dribble heaps of shit lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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