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NSA (No Strings Attached)
September 24 2017
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RHP User
7 years ago
I always laugh at the term NSA as unfortunately there is always strings attached to everything. I prefer a temporary friend with benefits. As there needs to be a connection whereas NSA there no connection. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MrPlayful
7 years ago
NSA would mean a one off or maybe a few interactions within a short period of time. While you may continue to talk or message from time to time, there would be no expectation to do so. It may be someone you see again in the future though, but probably not regularly, and if you did they would most likely turn into a FWB. A FWB would be someone who you would be friends with, have some strings, meet with for social occasions from time to time, help out when the need arises, talk much more frequently with and generally have a much higher level of care for.
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PurePeony
7 years ago
To me, NSA means hookups. What do I think of men who use "NSA" in their profiles? - They just want to fuck whoever makes themselves available, on their terms, in their time, and at their convenience. Yup... selfish narcissists. - They don't wish to be contacted after the deed has been done, unless it's for sexting or to arrange for the next hookup. - They don't want you to know them too well, not that they intend to stick around for any interaction outside sex anyway. - I get suspicious that they are players, being untruthful about their relationship status, or they are simply at the stage where they do not wish to invest any time in meaningful relationships / friendships. They just need help in scratching the sexual itch and they don't wish to pay for sexual workers' services. I've tried NSA myself before, just to see how it'll be like. Basically, in that mode, I do not choose men who are relationship material, and whom I'd consider as mates / potential FWBs, etc. In that mode, it's purely fuck and dump. 😝 Wham! Bam! Thank you, dick...er... sorry, I meant, Sir! 🤣🤣🤣 I've learnt that I generally dislike NSA and the guy's gotta be reeeeeeeeeally irresistible, and I've got to be insatiably horny and in a really naughty mood, to do it again. It helps that I find most men erm.. easy to resist (I think that sounds more positive than saying, "not attractive".) Lol! 🤣
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PurePeony
7 years ago
... can really fuck you up good in the head if you aren't careful. They'll state NSA, and then they do intimate stuff like kissing on the lips for ages, cuddle you and have long, intimate pillow talk afterwards, etc etc. As women, that can make us so confused. Sooooo... if we agree to NSA, we've got to play smart and play by the same rules. The men wanting NSA think with their dicks, so if we choose to accept NSA, channel the bloodflow to boobies and pussy, and speak the same language. 🤣🤣🤣 Cock and Pussy tales... it's starting to sound like Animal Farm, and if it's going well, you can be sure it's going to be a noisy farm! 🤣🤣🤣
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MsSexyDeviants
7 years ago
Means one night stand to me. FWB is more desirable. Intimacy is a real thing and make sex so much better!
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Is it confusion about the definition or is it just they're telling you what you wanna hear because they've realised you actually read their profile?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I pretty much assume that it means a one-off hookup. Not my thing at all, so it's generally a pretty quick way to filter yourself out with me. That said, occasionally people seem to use it to mean something like an ongoing FWB - but just with very clear intentions of not being available for a more "serious" relationship. That's something I can get on board with. But the vast majority of the time it seems to imply the former. Meh.
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RHP User
7 years ago
No strings at all, just a fuck, won't be a very good fuck unfortunately 😜 Actually not entirely true, I've had amazing 'one of' sexual encounters, but the difference was, some of the strings were offered or on loan to me,. For the passion to truly release, our minds have to have us believe this person is ours. Without that, it would be like fucking a tree 😛 Agree with MsSexyDeviants, it is commonly used on other sites to mean 'one of' hookups. Don't get me wrong, nothing wrong with hookups, I've been doing them for a few years, but I would always want to see them again and again and again, after a good encounter. NSA means don't count on it 😂 I do think a lot of people use it unaware of the negative slant it gives. To me it sounds like they're saying they'll fuck you but probably be pulling their pants up on the way to the door and you'll never see them again. Why wouldn't we see them again? Because that would only occur (the repeat visit) if they had a heart and brain working together 😉
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RHP User
7 years ago
agree with peony's thoughts, particularly how confused it leaves us after an amazing passionate encounter with all the pillow talk, want to see us again blah blah, then nothing until a month later when they have a gap in their sexual schedule 😉By THEIR rules basically, I hate that
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Cheekyarses
7 years ago
No Strings Attached = no emotions, no jealousy, no contact - and usually it ends up with emotion, jealousy and contact
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Mischeviouslad
7 years ago
All of the above..... and yet..... so many guys seem compelled to state it. But where's the fun in a one-off.... ? You enjoyed it.... you would want to do it again, and again. = string So it's likely the ORIGINAL derivation of the term meant no long term relationship type emotional connection. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
"By the time you swear you're his, Shivering and sighing. And he vows his passion is, Infinite, undying. Lady make note of this -- One of you is lying" Dorothy Parker
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RHP User
7 years ago
...that stands for ''No Such Animal''. We are all an intertwined and very complex compliment of our mental, emotional and physical wants/needs thus the thought of simply doin' the deed without some sort of interaction with our three core emotions? Naaa...ain't gonna happen, at least not for me. Best...CM
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RHP User
7 years ago
NSA If I'm having sex with someone I'm already invested so strings get pulled regardless. To me NSA means casual fuck buddy with little to no friendship involved outside of the times u meet for sex. I also believe that NSA is a way to say I don't owe you anything. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Seems we all agree. Redrouge - So do I. If there's no "strings" get a robot or professional. Always some strings. Which is a dumb term anyway 🙄 Mister_playful- agreed. Very good description Pure Peony And Ms sexy deviants - ha ha yes!! The_Antichrist - yeah I thought that too, however after a good discussion, he had indeed thought it meant not a serious relationship and felt the same so adjusted his profile lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
And another cheeky session in the morning 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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cat_n_the_hatter
7 years ago
For me NSA is hooking up, and it is strategically ambiguous. Men usually express more favorable attitudes toward hookups, and this is a response to the increased pressure on men to exaggerate their level of sexual activity. What many men fail to realize is that choosing " hook up girls" as inferior or "sluts" says little about her worth or her beauty, but a lot about him. (Ms)
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The_Phoenix
7 years ago
Personally I don't and rarely do the NSA thing. For me it's more of a just meeting physical needs. Kinda like your typical club/pub pickup. . There are always strings attached in my view. Innocuous flirting and sexy chat before meeting heightens the attraction. Especially if a meet takes a while. Connection brings passion, am I right? I can best Describe NSA as loose strings attached. When the stings start getting tighter, you just have to be Smart enough to loosen them again. I prefer not to cut strings as you can definitely keep and maintain great friendships without the sex part. Sometimes it is difficult though. Can be super fun to listen to your stringy friends adventures, even if your not actively engaged so to speak😉 A little voyeurish maybe, but hey, who hasn't been tantalised by a hot story 🙊 BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'MsSexyDeviants' Means one night stand to me. FWB is more desirable. Intimacy is a real thing and make sex so much better! NSA to me: No Spooning Afterwards As a totally opposite extreme - I actually have several cuddle buddies. As in, ongoing intimate friendships where the sexual chemistry didn't stick, but the affection is still there. It's quite lovely really. Of course, all of us are polyamorous minded, so there's no weirdness or jealousy about sharing such things with multiple people. Sometimes I'm not sure whether it's the sexual or the emotional openness that I like more about being poly. I do really enjoy the connections that have ended up in a safe cuddle buddy headspace. :) Definitely FAR more so than any prospect of NSA sex anyway.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Katurdai - ' opposite extreme. Several cuddle buddies. ' I like that, and you're honest and upfront about it. Not sure I could just settle for cuddles though 😉 Being poly myself, I agree it's about enjoying the emotional and sexual openness with special connections as long as there is honest and upfront communication and respect ✊ I don't have only one friend. So Why should I have just one lover? Why limit ourselves and the possibility of a deep and fulfilling relationship? I had a FWB for 3.5 years before I met my husband. We are still the best of friends to this day, now 14 years 😄 In saying that, I have been monogamous in my marriage for 11 years till recently. NSA - setting yourself up for loneliness and missing the opportunity to find that special someone. (Or two 🙊) Kiss kiss to my boys, strings and all 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
😬 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' NSA to me: No Spooning Afterwards ...spend the night and we can spoon together? The dishes always have to be done and the spoons go in top left drawer here in my loft kitchen as it's set up that way? Ohhhhhhhh you meant the other? There are times when I can spend a night together side by side whispering true secrets. I have promised myself that I will always want someone that I can make love to or fuck into a coma...that's why they call us friends and lovers rather than some a simple pick up. If you promise not to tell...I came home with a woman that was both beautiful and vulnerable then drove her home quietly in the morning. Respect or love in one of it's many forms...who knows. For what it's worth Meander aka Summer aka (shhh don't tell) you are a very uniquely and lovely woman. Best... CM (aka SLH and insert all the letters here)
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Sawadee
7 years ago
.. and never will.. I need attraction to jump in the sheets , so means some sort of emotion. But I can have that without a full on emotional attachment. I can feel emotionally attached to someone without wanting a full on relationship. If she feels the same way , happy days.. Doesn't make me a bad person..?
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm actually worried about snoring 🌜🙉 And not his 😜
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Awww , so snuggly. Want me one of those.
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RHP User
7 years ago
NSA = quick hook up . Can be fun :)
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bonefide
7 years ago
NSA really an acronym... ...that stands for ''No Such Animal''. We are all an intertwined and very complex compliment of our mental, emotional and physical wants/needs thus the thought of simply doin' the deed without some sort of interaction with our three core emotions? Naaa...ain't gonna happen, at least not for me. Just about covers it in a very polite open manner
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