letsfind1

letsfind1

M44 F44

Name calling

January 10 2021

Hello, my wife and I are into Degradation and I'm just curious if I can call my wife my little slut as she likes to go around with no underwear on and tease me about it.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Well, I'd say the best person to ask would be your wife.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Go on go for it... If, at first it doesn't work try it one more time with feeling. WITH FEELING! What could possibly go wrong?

  • Phoenix_Rising

    Phoenix_Rising

    4 years ago

    Of course it’s ok if that’s what you and your wife are into..🤷🏼‍♀️

  • Fuckmywifexxx

    Fuckmywifexxx

    4 years ago

    It's definitely part of our Vixen/Stag Hotwife dynamic BUT it's not used in a denigrating way. I - Vixen, will use slutty a lot when talking about what I've done or want, sometimes slut but not so much. My stag will use it in the same manner but I DO NOT like 3rd parties using it unless they're already in the bedroom with me and have heard me say it first. Our use of slut or slutty, is like a compliment or a description of being totally sexually open. It's never as an insult or a derogatory term. It heightens our dirty talk and certainly turns us both on. When I was younger and a little promiscuous I had more than one person use it as an insult, in order to shame me and make me feel bad. I have been wondering if that is why I like it so much or whether it's like the n word or fag, queer etc where it's been claimed and disempowered of its hurtfulness. Slutwalk and the growing awareness that slutshaming is a shitty way to be re-enforces to me that we're of an age where it's ok to be slutty and wear it like a badge of honour.

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    4 years ago

    How does her teasing you make the term “my little slut” even applicable ?? I don’t understand the correlation to be honest ... I could if you were in a Hotwife scenario where she’s actively sleeping with other men...just in this instance there’s not much of a logical link to it... But if your wife is okay with it then go forth and call her whatever it is she accepts...

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    4 years ago

    Slut may be used by some as a reference to promiscuity, and depending on your wife, may or may not be viewed this way. Another suggestion might be minx? I'm sure there are others.

  • ElectricDreamers

    ElectricDreamers

    4 years ago

    There's good slutty (sexually liberated, empowered through sex, loves sex, raw sexual energy) and bad slutty (not discerning about sexual partners, cheating, messy drunk flashing knickers, behaving inappropriately in all the wrong places). I'm really surprised at how many RHP'ers are only seeing bad slutty when they read the word slut. It's a term of endearment when used in the right context, by the right people with the right tone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Why is this a question for people who don't know you? This is a question for your wife. Assuming you don't plan on calling her a slut in public.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    You two can do as you please and speak to each other anyway you want within bounderies of course. If she doesn't like it, I'm pretty sure she would say something to you and not put up with it. Ms Foxy Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I think that's a question for her ! ...but if no underwear is what makes "slut"..then mrs Island is guilty too 😂😂

  • Chillymofo

    Chillymofo

    4 years ago

    My Mrs LOVES being called a slut - In the correct context.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Isn’t that totally up to her n you. Remember You’re married just the two of you 🤦🏻‍♂️