MsJonesy

MsJonesy

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Natural activities in a nature reserve

December 04 2019

Driving home tonight along my regular route, I glanced into the carpark of a nature reserve. Not an uncommon practice as I have noticed in the past that its a busy carpark, with a fair number of - not wanting to sound sexist here - blokes cars. By that I mean tradie vehicles, Rangers, Colorados etc, mixed among a smaller number of more regular cars. The averages have made me wonder if its a dogging site, principally for blokes. Well tonight I had confirmation; two vehicles parked at different ends of the carpark, with both driver and passenger doors open, and men standing between the doors, looking down. One had a look of rapt concentration, the other a look of rapture. 😐 It was still broad daylight. Not hard to miss if one is a little bit clued into patterns of behaviour. So my questions are..... Why in such a public place, instead of making use of the bushy public reserve? I understand the thrill of public exhibitionism, but so blatant? There is a men's club barely 15 minutes away if they want to hook up. Would you report it, or just keep driving? Would you do it?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    You couldn't see what was happening just assumed, so I guess if that was me Id keep on driving and mind my own business.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    'The site is quicker at signing us out than a man finishing his business who hasn't had any for a very looong time! Me n he've done, not too many drinks plus nibblies to get off to a good, solid start to the evening after getting to meet people in that non threatening kind of way. Cheers 🍑

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    5 years ago

    If your eyes didn't actually see or it didn't involve myself, then I would keep on driving. It's only becomes an issue, if you make it an issue. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    My bad, I wrote a post and thought I'd saved it before posting but apparently that was the save from another post. That's the second post In lost today. 😑 I like the way you've phrased your post. My answer included that I am stuck in the land that it is a anonymous/psuedo private thing to do that really doesn't consider the effect on anyone but themselves. In consideration of any sign of threat to children's sensibilities, yes I'd report. I wrote about how the small riverside park he and I married at 30 years ago has had to be adapted because of the activies there. Now they have a metal walled building with sinks on the outside. Cheers, 🍑

  • Mask_007

    Mask_007

    5 years ago

    I do agree with Model, if i can't be sure, i would say nothing. At the end of the day, is not my business to say anything anyway.

  • Crackatini

    Crackatini

    5 years ago

    I drive a Colorado

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    5 years ago

    Don't know if I'd make that leap 😋

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    5 years ago

    Ms Jonesy Maybe they were twitchers and had spotted a rare and exotic previously unsighted bird species?? I wouldn’t report it....maybe I’d pull over and watch. I like birds a lot.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Cocks?

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    5 years ago

    The replies are in the 'not my circus not my monkeys corner', which is as I expected. Although I have no definitive proof, as some of you rightly pointed out, a quick read through the google reviews of the nature reserve certainly showed others share my assumptions. I haven't made a report, I was more interested in reading what others thought of the situation. Crackatini.... I doubt one of the Colorados was yours; it would be a long drive across the Nullabor to visit this particular park 😆

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    5 years ago

    Just the boys trading footy cards after a hard day on the job site before rolling home to the trusted wife who is getting dinner. You all be minding ya own business and getting your men folk a nice spread now ya hear.....

  • countrytouch82

    countrytouch82

    5 years ago

    EQ I prefer tits myself :P Or boobies...

  • kisslids

    kisslids

    5 years ago

    Please stop Just bring a coffee and some popcorn next time

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    5 years ago

    The most common vehicle there would have been Hi-lux