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Naughty Dinner Party

March 28 2015

I'm looking for your thoughts about how/if to arrange a naughty dinner party with optional sleepover...classy, cheeky and flirty without pressure to go any further would be my preferred flavour. My first thought is something with a theme, six to eight people, catered, maybe rent a four bedroom cottage in the Blue Mountains in winter. Has anyone done this before and have tips to share? Are there naughty caterers? Or is it best to do the food yourself? Would you choose only people you knew well or would you mix up the group (eg invite someone you know and ask them to bring a friend along...of either gender perhaps...or even total strangers from RHP). What types of games or ice breakers would you suggest? What themes can you suggest? Is this just a crazy idea doomed to fail?

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jedi_knight

10 years ago

Hi there , I have been fortunate enough to be invited to a couple of naught parties at a Cbd apartment. The organisers rented a services apartment for the evening and had catered food. It was great fun, much classier than the clubs. A suggestion would be some people that you know from parties and Rhp , some newbies, but am sure you will manage the mix well! I liked all the cocktail dresses and sexy lingerie, all the guys were well dressed , so all up a great evening.

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RHP User

10 years ago

Seems to be a brilliant idea :) I would mix it, otherwise it will takes you hours to collect a good group ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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6exxy

10 years ago

in another post. I think it's a great idea. Have you thought about what to do if it gets awkward for someone or some people? The getaway part is great if all the players know each other or they are players. Hmmm blue mountains brings back some memories ☺️

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RHP User

10 years ago

Start with a dinner.then it can be friends or strangers..a whole weekend is a huge commitment ..what if someone is annoying or much worse..boring..who will cover all the costs of a weekend etc...if the dinner works and everyone clicks..plan the weekend 😜xxFreya

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RHP User

10 years ago

That would be loads of fun and a debaucherous weekend away would be even better. I would only go with a group of people I knew though. Not so much into the random thing.

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RHP User

10 years ago

Thanks for you help, guys. I thought it had 6exxy but it didn't come up when I tried to search it :/ Would love to hear your Blue Mountains reflections too.Posting the questions has made me think it through a little more...likely a weeknight (suits me best but takes some out of the equation), arrive 6ish for cocktails (in suits and cocktail dresses) and stay till breakfast if you like. Thinking a room for each couple/two people with a policy that if the door is closed it means they don't want any company...gives a safe place for each of us to breathe...no compulsion to stay over...or take things any further than a cheeky dinner. Ice breakers like 'truth or dare' or 'I have never...' and perhaps a lingerie parade after dessert...or a game of strip poker ready just in case things are stilted??? Glad to hear you enjoyed your experiences Jedi! Catered does sound more fun.

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RHP User

10 years ago

especially of the participants who attend are from a wider group - that gives an opportunity for those who plan to attend to connect prior to the event which makes things easier doesnt it?

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LightCatcher

10 years ago

When I was on here as part of a couple we organised a couple of parties that were heaps of fun. I think the advantage of a party over a dinner party per se is it avoids any ambiguity. If people accept the invitation to attend they know that a sex party is what's on the agenda. They don't have to participate but that's what most people will be doing. So it makes it easy to kick start proceedings. Each time our parties got underway within an hour of everyone arriving. Whereas the one dinner party that we attended organised by someone else was a brilliant dinner party but the dinner itself went on for hours because no one knew how to make the transition from the table to more "active" interactions. So half the dinner party guests left after a couple of hours obviously disappointed that nothing happened. It did happen - in fact it was an incredibly memorable night but only after people got sufficiently pissed not to care about who made the first move. In the meantime half the people had left. Another point is yes it can be good to have "breakout" rooms, but having a living room with a bunch of futons or mattresses thrown down works a treat as it creates a central focus for activities and for the random permutations you tend to get with a bunch of people all in one place :) As for catering - we just told everyone to bring alcohol to share and we supplied the nibblies - keeps that side of it very simple. Hope that is of some use :)

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RHP User

10 years ago

sorry! Just sounds so sexy! - Posted from rhpmobile

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