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"Need Female Advise" - I get turned on watching other men with my woman
May 23 2017
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Absolutely nothing wrong with the feelings you have. You would be surprised how many share that turn on, both female and male. The only downside is finding and raising the subject with your partner/s. Not everyone is after that and must remember we as a society are not brought up in this world to accept that scenario. I share the same fundamentals as getting turned on by the thought of my gf with other playmates. Not something l even thought of until l came to Rhp along with many other things, but my mind has been vastly broadened to try, accept and seek many things that our society deems taboo. So don't put yourself down for your kinks. You aren't hurting anyone and if anything, allowing your partners to enjoy their sexuality if they are up for that journey. Just that many are not up for the trip. Good luck on your own journey
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langton11
8 years ago
That thought drives me crazy and I see nothing wrong with it at all. In fact, my wife would like a unicorn to join us, and that does very little for me. Actually, now I think about it, if you join us Annie, we'll have all bases covered ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
No you are not sick. You just have unconventional sexual tastes. I do too so I know how "traditional" people just can't get their heads around certain sexual concepts or anything that challenges what they think they know to be true like Love = sex and monogamy is the right and normal way to be.
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inspirit
8 years ago
For your heartfelt post OP. No, you are not "sick". In my view you're sexually mature in understanding your sexual desires/needs. I too enjoy voyeurism with a lover. It's HOT. Enjoy your journey. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
I experienced it with my ex and it is a damn huge turn on.. Besides ali the sex going on , I loved it when she looked up, smiled , and gave the thumbs up while she was being fucked .. It really is about pushing your emotions to the limit...
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
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RHP User
8 years ago
OP - You are not sick. I think what you feel is normal and is fantasy and desire shared by many other men too. I can understand the feelings behind it, because I too sometimes think how hot it would be to watch my man fuck another lady but I'm there and watching on or joining in, but knowing he is all mine and our love is just for us. He too shares the same desires, to watch me be pleasured by another man and that excites him... ALOT. His sentiment behind it is seeing me happy and having my sexual desires and pleasures fulfilled and thinks there is nothing sexier than seeing a lady in the raptures of orgasm. We are a breed that is not scene as "normal" by some people... but I ask you, what is normal? We are all normal, none of us are sick regardless of our desires to explore our sexuality in a way that meets our needs.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I haven't experienced what you want to do but I don't find it offensive in anyway. It may be that with age we become more open minded. All of the replies so far have been positive but with the exception of Candyd are from people around your age. I know when I was much younger I associated sex with love. I know better now 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
....as each to their own as long as between consenting adults. All about communication and making sure you are on the same page. Not something I would just spring on a partner nor would I put any pressure on my partner to be involved unless they were ok with the fantasy. Oh and that goes for any fantasy :) I wish you well KH
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RHP User
8 years ago
There's nothing wrong with what you find arousing. Wanting to see your partner being pleasured is a very selfless and caring thing. And it shows you don't have any insecurities about sharing a partner. Unfortunately, traditional society won't see these things the same way, even though a lot of seemingly traditional couples are doing this behind closed doors anyway. I think you're desire to see a female partner experience another man is s lot more common than you may think. And definitely more common than many would care to admit. MM - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Ain't that the truth.. The older we get ' the better we reason things out.. Things we once thought taboo ' now became things we want to entertain.. Just another chapter to explore in our life.. Jay..
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nothing wrong with that in the slightest. I just got off the phone from my wife, excitedly talking about plans for her first hotwife experience. We're so pumped!! So two votes here for you not being sick at all. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Bought back some nice memory's ... I know the excitement your experiencing and feeling a little envious.. lol...
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