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Need some advice...

October 23 2013

There is a guy that viewed my profile a couple of days ago.And yes, I always do check out those who check me out and if I like them I send them that little flirt that says "I noticed you noticed me..." I have met some great guys this way who have said that they are apprehensive about sending messages because they are sick of being shot down all the time.Now, I sent this guy the above flirt and the other flirt that says "If I sent you a message would your reply..."I am only a guest but get one free message a week.Anyway - I get no reply from him at all but he has viewed my profile at least 10 times today as well as yesterday...I don't really want to waste my message on him and think that if he doesn't have the courtesy to reply to my flirt then is he really someone I want to get to know.Would be interested to hear what you all think about it.If he isn't interested why is he viewing my profile so much ???If he is interested why hadn't he flirted back ???

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RHP User

11 years ago

He is a married man with out his wife's approval and he's just looking around. Knows full well he cant go anywhere with it but just likes looking. Could be something completely different of course but thats just one thought.....

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RHP User

11 years ago

:) I truly hope he reads this though- Posted from rhpmobile

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Mr_MrsAraps

11 years ago

Is if he is interested and serious then why is he only a guest?? Then he can send as much messages as he likes ... let alone reply with a flirt. You have flirted so you have made your intentions clear as can be with a guest account. IMHO Just a profile viewer and nothing more, move on, next. Cheers, W.

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Mischeviouslad

11 years ago

I look at a Riviera 48 every day. But ddo I buy it? No. He isn't committing to interest in you either..... so until he does.... say... NEXT!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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inspirit

11 years ago

Lot's of purty pictures on RHP.

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RHP User

11 years ago

I get that all the time too! The serial profile viewers. But unlike you, I never flirt or message first (and I'm a paying member!). I figure if they are serious, they will make first contact. If he doesn't reply to you, he is just rude and not worth your time anyway!

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RHP User

11 years ago

he's interested in me. In my experience men are pretty clear with their signals so if he's not making it obvious, I assume he's not interested. I honestly wouldn't spend a message on the man you describe. No disrespect to him, he just doesn't seem to be sending you any signals that it's worth messaging him.

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RHP User

11 years ago

get membership if you are serious

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RHP User

11 years ago

Stopped wondering what men "Mean by that" two decades ago.

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RHP User

11 years ago

only way to find out ,send a message

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RHP User

11 years ago

some quit astute some quite amusing.I guess there's always the block option...

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RHP User

11 years ago

that's sad, lol.Having said that no, don' waste it, hang on, yes do it

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RHP User

11 years ago

If he can't manage to flirt back... As DG said... NEXT !! MsElle72 As a fellow paying member I have zero idea as to why you wouldn't initiate contact, and I know other women who are similar to you, to me it seems a bit lazy to be honest... I know that you reply to all proper messages, but there's a lot if women here who don't... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...

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RHP User

11 years ago

I get too many messages as it is without initiating contact.At least I know that if they bother to message me first, that they are genuinely interested. Yes, I could waste my messages contacting people who are not interested in me. Do not confuse fear of rejection with laziness!

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BrightBubbly

11 years ago

for all of your replies.I was mostly just curious as to what people thought and how they would react.Some very interesting thoughts to ponder !!!

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Playful2looking

11 years ago

Yep I go with usandu73 hes married move on. Also I like the other suggestion from mesmerised stop thinking what men like. She's right it is so last centery. mY adice go to house parties or clubs to meet people at least you can look into their eyes and see if they are lying ; not hiding behind a key board. but you should sign up for membership then you can messages them and say whats up honey why dont you talk the cat got ya tongue or is the wife looking over your shoulder

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RHP User

11 years ago

Quoting 'lilmiss_fussy'A man would have to hit me around the head with a club for me to believe ...he's interested in me. In my experience men are pretty clear with their signals so if he's not making it obvious, I assume he's not interested. (Looks around for his Captin Caveman club)

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RHP User

11 years ago

Perhaps he just doing it for a bit of payback he maybe like me just sick of sending messages which i do put a lot of thought into not using templates and never get replies lets face how hard is to say no thanks

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