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Negative not Positive
January 11 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
is someone who doesn't want to have sex with YOU
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RHP User
12 years ago
... not a word I would use in a derogatory way (maybe in play). Not fence sitting (honest) - just got nothing. KK xx
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aristippus
12 years ago
Labels or names for things are completely useless. It's up to everyone to decided what they want in life, what makes them happy, what kind of sex they want and go for it all. As long as we're honest, safe & not hurting anyone what is the point of labeling
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sluts are promiscuous, that is sleep with lots of different people. How many people will depend on the person's view of the world. Men can be sluts too. I know a guy who can have sexual contact with up to 50 men in a weekend when he is on a huge bender. Not penetration... Sexual contact of some sort. That is the other thing... What do you mean by sex? Full penetration? Or if I am at a club and have 5 girls touching me... Does that count? As 5 people? PS: I reckon most men are sluts, or would be if they could be. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Men are sluts except for some reason we call them players. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Because at the end of the day people do label these things. Lots of men still come to these adult sex sites to get sex or wild kinky sex they wouldn't ask from their girlfriend but they wouldn't really consider women they meet from these sites as girlfriend material. They want a nice girl to marry. What about do you think about that? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
the origin of the word slut dates back to the 15th century,it was first used to describe an unkempt or dirty person and appears in a number of different languages. I love this definition from the ''Ethical Slut''..a slut is a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical prposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you''...my namesake Freya was an uber slut Why OP would any woman care about the opinion of a few men here whose antediluvian views pre -date Noah.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have always associated the word Slut with a woman without standards. And that is really not me. Would I be insulted if someone called me a Slut? Nah, I've been called way worse.
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RHP User
12 years ago
is, in the derogatory sense, someone who has no respect for themselves or the people they interact with.People who use others and discard them without a thought, users if you like, people who will knowingly pass on an std. People with poor personal hygiene who have no care as to what others may think as long as they get their rocks off.I do not think someone is a slut for merely being promiscuous.
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aristippus
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Because at the end of the day people do label these things. Lots of men still come to these adult sex sites to get sex or wild kinky sex they wouldn't ask from their girlfriend but they wouldn't really consider women they meet from these sites as girlfriend material. They want a nice girl to marry. What about do you think about that? - Posted from rhpmobile 'The one' for me wouldn't be the quintessential 'good girl' but everyone has their own agenda for being a part of said sites. Not a fan of sweeping generalisations All i know is that some of the relationships of couples that i've met that are open & honest with each other..share fantasies & experiences....would be the envy of many muggle couples that think they have great relationships
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RHP User
12 years ago
To me it's not the fact that a girl sleeps with a lot of men (or women), but if she doesn't care if she hurts anyone or uses them along the way just looking out for herself and stringing her partners along. It's a pretty harsh word really there's not many girls I would call that, there's quite a few guys I would though.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' I have always associated the word Slut with a woman without standards. And that is really not me. Would I be insulted if someone called me a Slut? Nah, I've been called way worse. u kinda assiciate with me. bahahahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess by vanilla standards, everyone here could be considered a slut. In my view, I think it's a person who lacks standards or who isn't honest with their partner (i.e.fucking someone behind their partner's back), a person lacking in basic moral/ethical standards with regard to sex.
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RHP User
12 years ago
When using the word slut most peoples minds immediately tend to think of a sexually uninhibited female who has sex with many different partners. We on the other hand see the term slut relating to either gender & feel the sexually uninhibited part as a bonus rather than a negative. We also believe it's not always a promiscuous term as my sexy lady is a slut for me (and my tongue & cock) as i am a slut for her & her yummy titties & deliciously sweet pussy.Possibly some will find this post a little offensive but we are entitled to our view & extremely happy with where we stand on this subject.Try being a slut for your partner guys & girls & we're sure you'll enjoy it immensely. funwithusnow
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RHP User
12 years ago
I totally agree. What does your handle mean I wonder? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
All your descriptions above can also apply to men. Why does a slut always have to be a woman. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Re: "Why does a slut always have to be a woman". If there was an amendment to the dictionary to include men in the definition then maybe social attitude would change too. It's just another example of gender inequality :-( KK
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' is someone who doesn't want to have sex with YOU I like this Freya and so true.For me anyway, slut is meant in affectionate way for someone who enjoys sex. Why do people have to be judged on how many partners they have (male or female)? Far more important things to judge someone on such as their character and actions.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Look at the descriptions above of a slut. They have been described as women with no standards, dirty, unkempt, no feelings and no respect for herself or others. It's really awful. The double standard. Why is there no equivalent for men? Certainly there is no name that is used for men that can equate to the word slut and the manner in which it is often said. But I digress and my point is certainly nothing new. Carry on. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was called that by a bunch of men, I was staying at a friends house I was all of 13 But I had a body that was 36 24 36, ( it was inches back then) I had that look about me, but I was unaware about my sexual aura So there I was and going to the bathroom and my friends brother and his mates were in the kitchen drinking and playing cards I was to topic of conversation yep they said she is a slut, bet she fucks like a bitch on heat and I would love to stick my cock in her mouth I was not only embarrassed but I got frightened and I then saw for the fist time how men looked at me. I had that label all the time, and I was a virgin till 18 Sometimes men are utter shits with that word. The damage they do to a woman And women are also just as bad. I tell my daughters there is no such thing as a slut, they do not exist
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RHP User
12 years ago
in 1386 Chaucer used the word sluttish to describe a slovenly man.Words and their meanings change in common usuage,slut is in our lexicon lets change the meaning to a positive one....there should be no negative connotations attached to the word slut.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i hate the word slut due to other people's conotations, and in true unsexist form, I just refer to 'promiscuous people' (no stone throwing from my glass house)
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RHP User
12 years ago
The word SLUT is just a word...For me personally I view the word SLUT as ones own "BEHAVIOUR" not the person it's self..It's more they way they behave and integrity, morals and ethics regarding anything to do with sex...I believe as well it's has a lot to do with how we are raised and out parents beliefs and ethics relating to sex..It was such a Taboo word years ago and as people are becoming more open about sex and education in society it is now accepting of females and males having sex and a lot of it....We can never have too much sex!!What shits me is... women tend to be called "SLUTS" more men...ARGGGGGGGGGGGGH!! why??For me I think it's because we tend to be more open about sex?? are outspoken about it?? discuss sex like it's just like having breakfast?? Taboo for women to speak of as we are raised to be ladies and ladies don't talk like that (yes mum!!!)We can sit around having coffees and make discussions about sex...then all it takes is one "sour puss" to ruin it..yep one prude woman to say "EWWWW That's so slutty" and then it's frowned upon - Topic ceased...If some called be a slut I see it this way....They are jealous of the way I carry myself sexuality. They want to be just like me.......They are jealous of the way I am confident about the way I look, my pride and yep you bet I feel god dam SEXY.Yes I say "I love sex, I love Penis" but what women doesn't. Does not mean tho I sleep with every Tom, Dick or Harry...I'm very choosy whom I sleep with...It's my attitude about having sex...I don't go around bragging whom I sleep with to boost my ego.Nor do I sleep with married men... So Does that make me a SLUT?? NO in fact it does make me a HERO in my eyes (and daughters eyes) because of my open attitude and behaviour about sex. Infact my 17 yr-old daughter thanks me for being so open and understanding when it comes to women and their sexuality. I try to role-model to her that having sex as a women is not SLUTTY and that it's how a women carries her self in a positive way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thanks Beneath_blueeyes - Fantastic Discussion Topic...
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
So very well said Superfox and as a dad of 2 young daughters as well good on you for being such a positive role model for yours
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RHP User
12 years ago
The word slut belongs to both genders and I use that word for anyone that seems to be nice but eventually screws my life. And for those who believe that only women are sluts here on in real life I suggest to get a better mirror.Question; How can someone find 10 sluts(as i said women or men) among 10.000 people ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Isn't it funny (not really) how so many other connotations are attached to the word slut other than plain old promiscuity.No standards, doesn't look after herself, treats people badly, a user, an std ridden disease spreader...Why do these things get attached to the word?I am a slut because I like sex. I am a slut because I will have sex with men I like when we both want to have sex. I am a slut because I am not in a relationship and yet still have sex. I am a slut because I've had over... well, I don't even know the number. I am also clean, considerate, empathetic, compassionate, nice, loving, honest and trustworthy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
connected to the word slut because she/he likes to have sex then, I AM THE BIGGEST SLUT and I love myself...
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RHP User
12 years ago
and we love you too,Sydney ladies this man is a gorgeous sensitive sexy man...with a huge.BRAIN.
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RHP User
12 years ago
im a slut because ...well the guys where i working thiink im one..i was on a roll and was meeting someone new every weekend for months.though not fuck all ot them....strangely though only 3 of them were from this site....i just wish at my age i got to be a bigger slut then i actually am
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' and we love you too,Sydney ladies this man is a gorgeous sensitive sexy man...with a huge.BRAIN. I had the constant fear that you were about to say huge right hand........cause my brain is like a chickpea...... I love you too my fair lady :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
So, a friend of mine who is a sex researcher (best job ever I know right???) shared this term that she stumbled across the other day:sociosexualityCan be used to replace slut, and promiscuity.I like it!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Polar_Bear_Girl,that is a fantastic term...sociosexual...should be on the RHP list in our profiles
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