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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hi, welcome! I Can't help with the whole 50 shades thing, but I've little doubt you'll find lots of answers here. Take some time to read through old forums (use the search feature (not available on mobile)) and keep your communication with each other honest. Hope you find what you're looking for :-) IAT - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hi! I hope you two find what you are after.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Every where I go, that book gets mentioned. I haven't read it, but I get the plot. When you say mrs t is interested in the 50 shades experience, I hope you mean the sex and not the rich eccentric :p There are heaps of forums here about people's kinks, as well as about their experiences. Is there a particular aspect that you both are interested in? In a recent forum, a lovely lady was talking about her first time going to a hellfire club function. If your both wanting to play as a couple then events like that would be my suggestion. Everyone is there for the same thing and there is no pressure. Hope I see you around the forums ( if I don't I probably pass you in the street :p ) Any

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Go and buy some toys!!! :-) And check out fetlife.com Kinky fuckery sounds good in theory (and quite the fantasy when written in fiction) but may not be everyone's cup of tea in the real world. Welcome to RHP and I hope the two of you have a great time exploring.- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  50 shades is written so lamely it hurt my eyes after a few pages - in fact I never made it past about half of the first volume (and I have all 3)... so if you like to read about some first experiences look for entry made on 21 Nov 2007 in blog called phantasie on wordpress - hope it's not too cryptic for you but if I put the whole link it gets filtered out in these forums :-(BTW I'm coming to Canberra next week if you're wondering ;-)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Not sure if I can help as I'm quite Vanilla...As others have mentioned, the Forums are a great starting point...here you 'll most likely find more than 50 shades of personalities... I hope you find a few that can match up with what your looking for..... Good Luck and all the best.. FOXY xx

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Your not on own there, Im very shy and new to this too, but hell you only live once so lets just kick back and see what happens i say,

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Sorry guys - gave you a wrong date for the article - it was meant to be First Time With a Couple 25 August, 2008Hope you find it - and also anything else you're looking for ;-)

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  lovman8

  12 years ago

  SuperFox If you are "vanilla" I think I want to become addicted to vanilla,............ and "the fifty shades of grey experience" ........I think it was an ordinary story ( but parts of it made me horny) but just jump in the deep end, and not worry too much about the book, and be open to anything offered on this site and see where it leads you.....and don't take it too seriously, stay sexy and have fun

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You know, 50 shades certainly wasn't the most well written trilogy ever printed.   BUT...what it did do was bring BDSM out and into the spotlight with mainstream society and it also had average vanilla women reading soft porn. Women and Men everywhere benefitted!   (and hey.....lets not forget how profitable it's likely been for the author!)   No way i'm criticising, i read all three, and will confess at times i was turned on by it. You do need to be able to suspend disbelief to some extent....but hell that's the point of reading a novel.   Anything that puts women in touch with their sexuality i'm a fan of!

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