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New Year

December 31 2020

As we march down the final stretch of what has proven to be a rather difficult/trying year I thought it might be a good time to reflect on the year that’s been and look forward to the year that will be… Please feel free to contribute to the conversation in any way you feel appropriate, although I would especially love to hear about any positives that came out of the year e.g. I am still enjoying seeing my wife and kids more as a result of working from home, any resolutions for the new year and I am not talking about just losing that Christmas pudding as I feel that’s a given and because we’re all sexual beings any fantasies you would love to / plan to cross off that bucket list. And go…

Comments

  • Rlee552

    Rlee552

    4 years ago

    The positives that came out of 2020 is a renewed focus on self care and my own well-being; which were tested and found to be more fragile than I had anticipated. TBH, while there is a lot of symbolism then associated with ticking the clock over to 1 January, I do not feel like this will result in major changes - and I am okay with that. This then ties into NY resolutions which are focussed on my relationships with myself and family. And realising that work is not as important as those relationships. Sexually, I will take it as it comes. I will be relaxed about it. I won’t get anxious or devote all my spare moments to making it happen (certainly will devote some though). And will just laugh and enjoy it with people who enjoy it as much as me, with everyone caring about the pleasure (and sometime pain) of the other.

  • ExhibitionistEve

    ExhibitionistEve

    4 years ago

    Had you asked me a year ago what would be on the top of my bucket list going into 2021, I certainly wouldn't have guessed MMF. It's definitely been a year of evolving and changing it up for me.

  • Phoenix_Rising

    Phoenix_Rising

    4 years ago

    Positives....wow, I like to think I stay happy enough but I can’t think of any big positives from this year, it’s truly been so bad, lol. Every event was ruined by someone I loved, the covid thing happened, I had surgery for endometriosis that wasn’t really successful and now they’ve just announced face masks are back, because they just couldn’t even let us see in the new year with an ounce of hope. I wish you all well, I’m going to find a nice place in a rainforest to meditate, then I’m getting drunk. Happy New Year 🥳😘♥️

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    4 years ago

    The positives from the turbulent , often stressful , uncertain year we are about to say a fond farewell to ... ⁃ perhaps we need to be grateful for what we do have , not what we don’t have . My husband and are grateful we both continued to work throughout 2020 . Myself , in a somewhat stressful environment but I’m eternally grateful . ⁃ I’m grateful for FaceTime so I could see , hear and connect with those dear to my heart ♥️ ⁃ I’m thankful that we don’t live overseas in one of the many countries where loss of lives was much more significant than ours . ⁃ I’d like to think we all could take away from the past year the knowledge that we can appreciate and be grateful for the small things which we previously we took for granted . ⁃ We ( as a couple ) put in even more effort than usual to make sure we had many wild naughty weekends full of fun during covid . We used our imagination. We do look forward to a time when others joining us means not feeling anxious or unsure if it’s the right thing to do . ⁃ As always ( even prior covid ) I’m grateful to have an amazing partner in crime that I never tire of sexually or otherwise . Lockdown only reinforced that . ⁃ Many things to be grateful for in 2020 . May 2021 see us more humble , forgiving and may the fun exciting year ahead begin without fear .Ax

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    4 years ago

    My downstairs neighbour and I adopted each other, and we had a block party with all the neighbours last week to send out the year. People in the right circumstances can be giving, and I found that a lot. Hope the love and luck is shared around in 2021

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Like Phoenix there unfortunately weren't many positives for me in 2020. Made redundant from my job (not due to Covid), lens replacement surgery which didn't turn out very well due to the negligence of the surgeon, my interstitial cystitis giving me hell. One positive was that up here Covid hasn't been much of an issue and it's largely been life as normal in that respect. I don't do resolutions, but I've been wanting to move south for a long time and I'm hoping that this year I can make it happen. Adelaide is on my radar.