RHP

RHP User

M45 F45

New and Nervous

May 14 2013

Just wanted to drop by and introduce myself! Very new (member since yesterday), hesitant, but also keen. I'm not sure what I'm doing really. All I know is that this excites me. I am going to watch and learn for a little, smart decisions are always well thought out. I am looking forward to seeing what the site will do for me! I do want to be really honest with everyone, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings though. If anyone has any good tips for a newbie like me, I would appreciate it.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    you will get over run tons more men than women   just be nice when you say no to the hundred of poor guys looking for what you have to offer be prepared for the idiot few, but most are very nice people   hope you and hubby have lots of fun   cheers TR

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    Hope you're wearing suitable eye protection... lol May the experiences you choose, be positive ones. DG

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    12 years ago

    Hey Maddison I agree with tuscanred - you will bombarded with flirts n messages from Lots of men offering you the world n more!! Just take it slowly n build friendships with men you know you can trust... And of course who your husband can trust! There are also couples out there like us - where I lend my hubby out if ppl are looking for a mmf... Have fun n don't take things to heart... S xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Welcome to our sandpit, where we all enjoy playing. Most of us get on nicely here and know to share, though every once in a while someone will throw a tantrum. That's ok though, we're all mad here. Have a great time, and never ever be afraid to express your opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Like all the lovely peeps before me have said, Welcome to sandpit. If you ever have a question, don't be afraid to ask. These people will help you out. Hope you and hubby have fun. Oh, and don't forget to share the stories every now and then

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I would suggest - breathe, smile, embrace the experience and keep it all in perspective.There are so many loveable and harmless characters on the forums and I do hope you have a wonderful time.x

  • subgal_gc

    subgal_gc

    12 years ago

    As the others have said you will no doubt get bombarded with flirt and message, have fun sorting thru them and getting to find your way round the sandpit. Most of us are friendly and don't bite too hard (unless you ask them too that is...lol) ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    my name and be very wary haven't been brought up yet. moohahahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cold_ass_honky'my name and be very wary haven't been brought up yet. moohahahaha I was more weary of your name when it was runaway_baby. Don't worry Maddi, Honky is just a big Greek hunk of love.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'cold_ass_honky'my name and be very wary haven't been brought up yet. moohahahaha I was more weary of your name when it was runaway_baby. Don't worry Maddi, Honky is just a big Greek hunk of love. how dare u sully my bad reputation with such fanciful comments. moohahaha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    i have only been on here for about a week and a half myself, but my advice is to stick with the forums they really help you to learn the ropes you will meet some wonderful people, who will only be too happy to give you advise....... take and have fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I too agree with TuscanRed, DG, Cheekyarses, ANY, Ms.D and don't worry about Honky.Take your time and enjoy reading and commenting on the Forums.You will be overloaded with heaps of flirts and messages but after time will eventually die down.Relax and enjoy the ride.FOXY xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Welcome Maddisoon, Have a bit of a read of the forum topics as I found them really helpful when I first joined. Good luck, I hope you meet some fabulous people.

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    12 years ago

    Welcome to the party Maddisoon :-)- Just take things slowly, observe and be selective in whom you chat to and/or meet up with.- Be upfront in your profile about what you seek, tell what you don't want and make it straightforward that you won't be replying to every single flirt and message that you receive (because of whatever reason you can think of).- Always remember that you're not in the "young and dumb" age group anymore, and the fact that you have your hubby with you, so you're not going into the wildness alone.- Also, it would help to know your and your hubby's sexual fantasies and desires, so you know exactly who to interact with when you're ready to rock and roll :-)Good luck and have fun :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    *opens her toy box to share with the new kids*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I opened MY toybox... and the girl wouldn't let me play with the toys... BUT.. YOU are a WOMAN.. so.. women can play with womens toys eh?? DISCRIMINATION!!!!!!   Welcome Maddison.. if you ever need a caveman.. I am the one to call...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Welcome

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' I opened MY toybox... and the girl wouldn't let me play with the toys...   Why am I having visions of Dexter?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ......- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Most of the above panel are regulars who frequent here and are always happy to give out advice...It will vary from person to person but most advice you will find sound and helpfull.. If anything' make it clear in your mind what it is you both want to experience. I agree' it is exciting and thought provoking and you can forfill anything you want providing you both feel its right. Above all' you want your first memory to be a happy and lasting one. Choose wisely and always arrange to meet the person you choose for a coffee, drink ' first' so to get a feel . Chatting online or phone is one thing, but meeting face to face is another. You will know if that person has the chemistry your looking for . Trust your gut and dont be disappointed if you dont feel it the first time. After looking at your profile , I dont think you will have any trouble. So a big welcome guys, skit em rex.. Jay...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Just go with the Flow ... Set your boundaries & stick to them , until you've been here for a little while ;) Persevere. There are quite a few people here who are worth meeting . You'll just have to learn how to sort the wheat from the chaff . Get into the Forums . You'll learn plenty here . You'll just have to learn how to sort the wheat from the chaff ;) Enjoy ! GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Best advice I can give is be honest and be yourself. If not interested dont string people along and hopefully you wont get bothered to much by time wasters.Nice profile by the way.