New couple to the scene

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  It depends on where you are. One couple we played with at their unit in the early days of our swinging lifestyle suggested we play some adult games, which was a great way for all of us to get naked and enjoy the naughty stuff. If at a club or private party flirt a lot, touch, kiss and it will take its course from there.. Good luck guys, enjoy the journey.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Seriously tho. It only takes one kiss for the nervous anticipation to evolve into a night of debauchery. Once its started its hard to stop. Then comes the reflections afterwoods of how good it was and what can happen next. :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  My Partner and I are new as well but would love to meet up for a drink and see where we end up

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  erotictouch4u

  12 years ago

  I find massage to be a great ice-breaker. It can start off non-sexual, being sensual to erotic as the clothes come off and the oils go on. Once comfortable with the nakedness and touch it doesn't take much to go from there. If you don't know how, find someone who does or go learn at a college course. ET xox

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  its all ways hard to make a move should u do it should they do i have lernt just do it if they are still there the nights getting on they want it like euorpianbilss said it can star with a kiss and thats it then it can be mind blowing lol if u all click got for it good luck guys and have fun

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Massage is great but it is hard to go past a bottle of champagne, in a spa together. Then remember it is a date, like any other date; just there are 4 of you J. Music, candles etc set the mood and may all the stars align for you.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Our first time meeting was a up and down one as I got on really well with the lady as she was hot as ever, no sooner we after her and I went one way and her husband and my partener went another she had the boob out for me to suck and play with the you can imagine where it leed. All the time we were intermate her husband was looking around the door at me.Which never worried me as long as my partener was being satisfied also, well that was not to be she wonted to come to me but he wouldnt let her desturb us. He up set my partener by telling her he loved chunky women, she is on the larger side but that is no way to talk to someone on first encounter. So I hope all other first timers dont go through what we did. The worst part of it all it has ruined it for me as she wont do it again and I wont do it unless she is with me. So happy first time to new ones.

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  rupamohan

  12 years ago

  Well everybody being different the best is to think why it can be hard to start....swinging start up is like time crunching few relationship dates in less then an hour. Firstly to do this you need to be in a very sexy mood..not always possible even if you like others a lot. Other is a hesitation not be judged as desperate..One practical way is to put a time limit to next milestone and all agree to this milestone...   Now what to do...this is our method - before going to date we read profiles carefully and make a list of what not to do...and if we do want to do what not to do we simply ask...for rest we don't ask and the onus is on others to say no. KEEP IT THAT SIMPLE!!!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hello... JimNbee here, were a happily married couple, just looked at ur profile..keen Would like to know more...let's have a chat see where things lead...were not bed hoppers, were looking for a serious couple for poss friendship.. Friends with benefits... Look forward to hearing from youse... JimNbee

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