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New to squirting?

May 19 2015

If that's even a thing. Husband has been working away recently and we send each other videos/pictures to keep things going The other night he asked me to use a new toy(g-spot) and I came so hard and squirted, I have felt like this before usually when he's using his fingers, question is why after 8 years of sex I can now do this?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It probably just hit the right spot and you were very turned on, maybe a certain time of the month, etc, etc. People teach themselves to squirt so it doesn't come naturally to all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    So young. I know women in their late 40's that did not even know where their own Gspot was and some women have never had a real or decent orgasm and they are in their late 50's. You are just 24 and lucky you as a woman your peek is still years away. So look forward to a healthy and happy sex life and some truly amazing orgasms. Things will just get better.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hi I'm Boo, the fem half of the couple here. I've been squirting since I was sixteen. I didn't realise what I was doing (other than it feeling good) & that it wasn't the norm until I started playing with women regularly in my 20s & 30s & found out how few women did. It puzzled me, so I looked it up & found that the majority of medical resources I could find online tried to debunk female ejaculation. Pffffffft is what I thought! So I decided to help my girlfriends (& some of their girlfriends) find their squirt. I believe every woman has the capacity & just needs to find her way. Every woman is different in the way she reaches orgasm. And some don't realise that sometimes it takes several layers or stages or a certain level of intensity to reach squirting or gushing stage. It's about pushing through and not freaking out when you're orgasming & feel all of a sudden you want to pee. It's not pee, it just comes down the urethra from a separate reservoir (where the fluid for your pussy juices come from). Apparently there's roughly 250mL available to tap into for ejaculation. Yummm! I recommend putting a thickly folded towel down that goes from bum to beyond your feet, get comfy, do what turns you on the most for masturbation, lots of lube, take your time, and have as many orgasms as you need to unleash the one that will bring your squirt on. I find it hard to squirt with anything inside my pussy, because I'm bearing down & clenched so hard at the point I want to release. But others are different. Happy to report I've helped 7 women so far learn how to masturbate to the point they squirt. I'm genuinely hoping to help more. It's not something that has to happen every time you have an orgasm. I sometimes choose to just not go that far,or I'm tired, or dehydrated, or grumpy. lol Having the know how to make it happen is just fun & satisfying & gives me confidence & connection with my body! Oh & if you're squirting on cam.... wrap your laptop in glad wrap! Hahahahaha Hope this helps & inspires! Feel free to drop me a line & say hi & ask me anything. I love talking about sex! Cheers, Boo xxoo - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I just can't get there, so I'm a bit envious of you! Hope it is a regular happening now. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • compressor

    compressor

    10 years ago

    you are lucky so enjoy the experience. your hubby is a lucky man I think

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    didnt start squirting until she was 44, Hummingbird vibrator does it for her, I love it ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If your even the slightest but nervous it won't happen, I've always held back, one out of sheer fear that my husband would even like it, let go completely babe and try again

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I would love to be able to do it!! Any tips? I don't orgasm from just sex I need clitoral stimulation. Any tips? And is there a way to orgasm just from sex? My partner is not a fan of using toys and is disheartened when I don't come just from sex. Any tips? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I posted some earlier in this thread, & am happy to chat some if you want to message & say hi! Cheers, Boo xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Aureesa_87' I would love to be able to do it!! Any tips? I don't orgasm from just sex I need clitoral stimulation. Any tips? And is there a way to orgasm just from sex? My partner is not a fan of using toys and is disheartened when I don't come just from sex. Any tips? - Posted from rhpmobile Practice, experiment, and patience. I think it is time you have a bit of a talk to you partner as well, does not sound like he is doing his best to please you. Many women find it hard or impossible to come from just sex and need clitoral stimulation. it is perfectly normal to be like that. Your partner by showing he is disheartened, and not letting you use toys does not sound good. You may have as much to teach him as you your self have to learn. You need some balance in the sexual relationship or you will not be moving forward.. Maybe you should suggest that a few times he should not cum and together you can show him what makes you get off. If he loves you and wants you to be happier he should readily say yes. ****** Any guys that read this and relate to the ladies partner. Time to grow up. Guys making some women climax is going to be the toughest job you have ever faced. Putting your pecker in for a few shakes does not cut it. Listen talk and learn. When you have worked it out, you will know

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    and this is my first time at squirters anonymous ..... 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Did you bring your rain coat and a towel..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Don't understand why people would congratulate a woman when she squirts for the first time. Is there a prize I don't know about? Should squirting be viewed as an achievement or a goal that was reached through hard work? You'd think they'd given birth. *Eyeroll*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Punishment or not, you can forget about me gushing. Any which way. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'EvilCat_Kittee'it just comes down the urethra from a separate reservoir (where the fluid for your pussy juices come from). Apparently there's roughly 250mL available to tap into for ejaculation. Yummm! The only 'reservoir' connected to the female urethra is the bladder. Vaginal lubrication fluid (i.e. pussy juice) is produced by the Bartholin's glands located near the urethra. The small amounts of true ejaculate in squirting fluid most likely come from the Skene's glands which are also located near the urethra. Since this ejaculate isn't produced in amounts nearly enough to account for the amounts that some women squirt, a process of elimination says that the rest of the fluid is coming from the bladder and recent research has produced strong evidence of this. For the people who will inevitably yell, ''it's not urine!!!'', I'm perfectly aware that the fluid does not resemble urine and it appears that there are physiological processes going on that result in the differences.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Don't understand why people would congratulate a woman when she squirts for the first time. Is there a prize I don't know about? there should be a Squirting Olympics

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    You dont have to worry. I never made anyone squirt before. I'm a good cook.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' there should be a Squirting Olympics After Chev saying how he made four girls squirt in a club, I'm now having visions of them doing it synchronized! The 10 meters for women, with hurdles.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's like walking through a car wash Sometimes. Damn squirters. I mean have you seen the enormous wet patches women leave?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I've gushed myself (even made a gush angel on the sheets once), but it's just not my thing. A fortnight ago I found myself in a hotel room with a prolific squirter and though she was great, all those big wet spots on the sheets turned bloody cold after a while! Not the most comfortable.

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    10 years ago

    Meander there are women I have met as old as 45 whohave still not even had an orgasm.Now I know this sounds wrong but to come along andbe the first to give them an orgasm and make them squirt is a big turn on for 2 reasons.First is the look on there face as they scream at how goodthey feel and second is knowing your the better man.It is always better to give than receive and seeing themhaving so much pleasure. Quoting 'Meander' Don't understand why people would congratulate a woman when she squirts for the first time. Is there a prize I don't know about? Should squirting be viewed as an achievement or a goal that was reached through hard work? You'd think they'd given birth. *Eyeroll*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I give up.

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    10 years ago

    That will make you popular..... LMAO

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Oh Chev.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm also fairly new to squirting. I've only been able to do it with my current partner on a few occasions. Although he loves it and thinks it's a huge turn on, I can't say I'm really a fan. It tends to be uncomfortable, messy and leaves me feeling rather bruised on the inside. I'm definitely not a fan of sleeping in a cold, wet bed either! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    9 years ago

    Don't let squirting take over from orgasm.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Do this, interesting that i've said this before, and encouraged women to message me, yet no-one ever does. More imporrant is that this type of orgasm, wonderful as it is, i'm a big squirter, waterproof material required on the bed, but the guy has to work me over, not hard, but has to turn me on, then it'a really messy and amazing, power squirting while deep throating, intense. BUT there's more, there's another orgasm that takes you to a whole other place, most women don't ever experience it, how do i know this, because even the so called sex experts don't believe it exists. I'd hate you to go through life thinking squirting was it, trust me, a proper clit orgasm is very hard to achieve but it will blow your mind, shoots up to your brain. I've never had a guy get me there, only ever solo, largely because they also don't know about it. I keep most of the stimulation external so i don't squirt, happened to me by accident and changed my life. It has major healing capacity, makes my hair shine, keeps me healthy, gives me energy and makes me horny for more, it's so good. I won't go on, there's so much more i could say. But if you want to know more, pm me - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    got it bang on, well done my friend, first guy i've ever heard say that, or woman for that matter. If you're aiming for the bigger orgasm, squirting will reduce the intensity of that one, keep gspot stimulation to a minimum. I can get there when i have my period purely with external - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    and doesn't have the same sensation. To all the women here who are bagging chev, you just don't know what you're talking about. I used to fush and it was ho hum, okay but like a warm release, no huge pleasure, until it developed further into proper squirting where the pleasure is intensified, i now love it, the feeling is awesome, very different though to gushing, so instead of bagging women who squirt, which i think is based on jealousy, let people comment who actually know how to orgasm properly and actually know what they're talking about. Sounds like a bad case of sour grapes to me - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Gush i meant - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    When you say orgasm properly, what do you mean? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Is also required before a good G spot session to get the G spot engorged with blood and more sensetive to the touch. Also the Gspot as good as it can be looses sensetivity if over worked so dont just focus on it .There are so many other spots that are just as sensetive to touch and play . The mind is the best sex organ explore it and it will open your body to so much more. Mr TwosomePlus - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Im new to gushing. It's not super intense but it feels goood and turns me on even more. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Get on top. Had girlfriend that did it everytime she was on top,because she was in control of she was doing. Careful what you wish for once it happens the heavens will open.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I really don't mind where it CUMS from , but DO KNOW , that I love making a woman do it and know how