New to swinging

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I'm guessing she does not know about this account? I'd be more inclined to maybe find a club or 2 and suggest to your partner that you both go have a look. As well as you know your wife she may not be pleased about you organizing something without her knowledge. Goodluck

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Sorry mate... I apologise in advance for whats coming your way. Don't lose heart though, this place is littered with the skeletons of men that dared suggest their wife is 'on board'.Try the events section..it's always good for club info.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  in terms of clubs i like chateu vino and club whispers on the gold coast if you are up for a drive .. in brisbane there is mikes place I'm not personally a fan but lots are.. there is also diversions out of the two mikes is prob the better one. I'd certainly have a chat to her first though i can be quite the eye opener the first time around , but your wife, your decision :)

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Your topic heading is a bit misleading. New to swinging? If your wife doesnt even know you have made a profile marketing both of you, well it really is just a fantasy of yours isnt it? But if she is willing to check out a swingers venue with you, there is a couple in the goldcoast and brissy. Have a look in the event section on here.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  "partner" 1st and foremost.

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  DynamicCouple36

  9 years ago

  We know a few couples , where the female half was unaware of not only the couples profile on here, but also had no idea that the male half had made plans to go take her to a swingers club or meet, that is until she walked through the door. It did not go down very well at all. Our advice is to speak to her first, about your fantasy & your plans. Get her feedback (positive or negative ). If she is keen to explore further , then take her to a swingers club but make it clear to her that it's just to watch , no pressure to do anything. Remember you are there to look after her and cater to her needs and pleasure first. She needs to feel safe & secure . For most women , sharing their bodies with strangers can be a daunting task. It may take time before she is ready. You cannot rush her. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Darkerthangrey

  9 years ago

  I suggest you cc your wife in on this .... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  so you're a man, not a couple, so lose the couples profile, pretty simple really, you're deceiving people

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  so you do say in your profile your wife doesn't know what you're doing but what do you hope to achieve with this. Who's going to believe that for a start, but you advertise yourself still as a couple when are you planning on telling her, 'oh btw can you keep Friday free, I want you to come with me to have sex with another couple

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  where did that smiley with the hearts come from hahaha I didn't put that in there? glitchy tonight

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  QLDtwo4fun

  9 years ago

  The key to happy swinging is having rules which work for both of you. That requires open communication, rather than surprises.

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