M43
New to this rhp
March 02 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
...the VB and spend it on something that might get you laid. Fucking beats drinking 7/10 times according to a recent survey published somewhere. ʗɱ
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RHP User
6 years ago
Ffs - what everyone else on here doesn’t have expenses? If you have to talk yourself into it maybe you don’t deserve the benefits of being a paid mbr.... Sure. Sit back and let the women flock to you.. let us know how it goes... I’d suggest drinking less, give up the smokes buying an iron and cleaning the house but maybe that’s too harsh??? 🤔🤔
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twowithnolimits
6 years ago
Quoting 'Redmustang' Ffs - what everyone else on here doesn’t have expenses? If you have to talk yourself into it maybe you don’t deserve the benefits of being a paid mbr.... Sure. Sit back and let the women flock to you.. let us know how it goes... I’d suggest drinking less, give up the smokes buying an iron and cleaning the house but maybe that’s too harsh??? 🤔🤔 RHP only exists because of the paying members..... btw we still waiting on that PG ;-)
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RHP User
6 years ago
Love the comments already yet no one knows the circumstances........ but i work 7nights a week and getting ahead in life so great to see some narrow minded people The main point is getting a idea of the paid membership as im new to this also im unsure what would be better to go for As for the beers and smokes its not costing me much and I'm only 1/4 through renos on the family home since i now own it
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RHP User
6 years ago
Wow. Just wow! Whatever you do don’t ask if membership is worth it, apparently that leaves you open to people throwing out wild assumptions as to what you spend your money on that shouldn’t be as important as getting laid. You spend your money how you see fit, if you’re tight on money spend it on the right things, if you’ve got enough to spare and want to potentially waste it (as seems to be the case with most songle men on here) then go ahead and get a membership. Personally I’d have to be absolutely rolling in cash before I’d throw any at a dating site but each to their own 🤷🏼♀️
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RHP User
6 years ago
I enjoy a drink but I wouldn’t necessarily post pics of myself with beverage of choice as an introduction to myself.. With regards to smoking yes it’s an individual choice as to whether they do or don’t but it can be a turn off. Everyone renovates so maybe reword the profile so it sounds a bit more favourable that between working night shift and renovating hosting can be difficult but you are willing to pay for a nice hotel room maybe... Honestly with the site you get out what you put in. So if you want to contact people you will have to upgrade and pay to be able to do this otherwise you may find the site not very fruitful for you.
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deepestpurple
6 years ago
Quoting 'carsandsex' Love the comments already yet no one knows the circumstances........ but i work 7nights a week and getting ahead in life so great to see some narrow minded people The main point is getting a idea of the paid membership as im new to this also im unsure what would be better to go for As for the beers and smokes its not costing me much and I'm only 1/4 through renos on the family home since i now own it My advice to you is to focus on the journey you're currently on before really getting into this one. It is basically impossible to get anywhere on here without paying for membership but I'm not sure you're ready for that yet for a couple of reasons. If you can find my "People of RHP" thread in the Dating, Meeting and RHP, read the first post. Your initial foray onto RHP has some similarities to Mr Cum At Me Ladies. What you have done is underestimated the wolves you're running with here and overestimated your own ability to run with them. Don't worry, every guy does it at first. You now have a choice, leave because it's too hard or stay and learn to run. I suggest you start by getting your own shit together first. Working 7 nights a week is not conducive to successful RHP meets, nor is not wanting to host because your house is a mess. While you're sorting all that out, use that time to get to know RHP a bit, put some effort into making a profile that engages, get some good pics of yourself, get your body fighting fit for the sexperiences women on here are actually seeking and educate yourself on the responsibilities of safe sex. And finally, if the working 7 nights a week and house renovations are your strategic white lies to hide the fact you a have a wife and three kids and you are looking for discrete daytime meets only at someone else's house, forget it. You won't be able to get that to fly nearly enough to make it worth your while, people here aren't fools. Save that for the drunk slappers down the local or just save all your effort and pay what it costs for that sort of thing.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
You do not have to explain yourself, situation, renovations, or finances to anyone, especially on here. To be honest, most do not want to know. You have however made yourself a hot chip to the seagulls. Yes, I have had a paid membership, worked shift work and at the same time did renovations on a couple of properties (at the same time) as well as socialised with a few drinks. If I can do it, so can you. At the end of the day, It is your choice. You can do want ever you like. Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
It is against Rostering guidelines, policies and procedures,k unless of course you work max 5 hours per night being a casual (total 35 hrs per week) but that alone needs approval over and above Rostering policies and procedures. You can't fool this little black duck who has been doing rosters (for shift workers) for over 20yrs. :) Ms Foxyo
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RHP User
6 years ago
Lol since my daughter started school i have not had her 2 days a week and her mum has not come to an agreement with what days so since then 7 nights a week but i am my own boss so if i feel the need to take a night off i can and most certainly not married and i don't think i ever will As for the site im learning bits and pieces and reading things on but for now im off to work
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RHP User
6 years ago
And im beginning to think people have the wrong idea about this post nor do i know how to get rid of it. Im wondering other people think of the different memberships so i can get a understanding of it all
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AnExtra14Us
6 years ago
Sorry to say but it is possible to be working 7 nights ... depending on the type of work it is ... just sayin 😉
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RHP User
6 years ago
So some of you are a guest like myself and some of you are premium or platinum.... how does that work out for you
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AnExtra14Us
6 years ago
My beutiful wife wrote the last post and I have to agree with her. It is possible to work 7 days a week. Do you know if carsandsex has two jobs. Just maybe he works full time during the week and has a casual job. Or maybe he has is own business. We all judge people on what they say and in some cases misinterprete what someone is saying. IMO, this guy spelt out what he was like and how he lived. If this is not for you, don’t wink or message. It’s that simple. It is funny though how most of you have turned around a simple question and gave him shit for it. Maybe I have misinterpreted what you all where saying. My apologies. Carsandsex. My opinion for what it’s worth. Consider the time you spend on it per month and way up the cost/hour. I feel that paid members are genuine as to those who aren’t. Why would anyone waste money if the weren’t genuine. However, if your available from 4-8 every day then pop into the chat rooms. You can meet people in there. After all that’s where my wife and I met. Good luck.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Thanks for that im a professional driver who works hard to get things moving (without sacrifice there is no victory) and yes right now i have been working night after night and im used to being on the road However im new to this thing and still learning what its about so i thought i would ask what i thought was a genuine question to get answers that i got...... your a guest on this like myself how do you find it as a guest? Im lacking in the adult fun department possibly being too busy or whatever but im open to suggestions on what or how and willing to try different things also my job is that flexible if i want to work part time i can do 35hrs if i wanna make money i will do 60 plus hours
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boobsandbusted
6 years ago
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
You will find monthly membership expensive. I'd suggest a six or 12 month membership which reduces the cost down to about $3,50 per week for premium. I think as a social experiment for yourself, you need at least 6 months to hone your communicative style, fine tune your profile etc. That gives you 5 messages a day. Sure you can get memberships for 25/50 messages a day but 5 a day get you to be selective with whom you want to try and meet with a personally tailored message 25 /50 messages a day seems a bit random fire into the nether nether with cut and paste messages that will fall short if their mark. Perhaps a nice craft beer chug a lug may draw more in?
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RHP User
6 years ago
It is a big expense for something you don't know is going to work. It will NOT work if you don't put in the effort.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Annie i like that answer and you make a good point i have no clue what to say in profiles but i have taken some criticism and changed some of my profile so far i thought showing the real me would be best rather than putting on a show i am not sure about craft beer but the more i look on this app the more it seems that a trial of the premium does seem like a good experiment
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RHP User
6 years ago
I cant imagine 3 houses im flat out with trying to get my bathroom done the extension fixed and the garage done but once its done then i can relax a bit more As for the expense comment it does make sense and i keep reading different things when i can on here
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friendlyguy65
6 years ago
Mate to give yourself any possible chance to compete with the overload of blokes utilizing this site, beg, borrow, steal the extra and least get a premium. You are only wasting your time if you cannot message, send photos or even access other member's photos. After meeting some great people on this site, you will deem it money well spent. The ladies and couples can get with guest membership, but a bit of leg work is required for males. For what it is worth and good luck competing with the vast magnitude.
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