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New to this - whats the best way about going about it
November 28 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are many newcomers like you who have started similar forums. I suggest you have a look through previous titles or do a search. You may not get many answers on here. Good luck!
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New1tothis
12 years ago
Hopefully i get some people commenting Quoting 'DeviousMissM' There are many newcomers like you who have started similar forums. I suggest you have a look through previous titles or do a search. You may not get many answers on here. Good luck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
yummy pic BUT you need to expand your profile and add a face pic to your pg...good luck
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RHP User
12 years ago
And offer this little phrase...be sure to "man the fuck up." Unlike another man just the other weekend :p
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New1tothis
12 years ago
What are you talkin about hard truckin??
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Very Anal I know, but there are alot of spelling police on here (including me) Go into the chat rooms and just be yourself...don't stare at girls on cam without saying hi! Blend in and make friends with all and in no time at all you will have them knocking down your door! Don't be abusive if you get knocked back or they don't reply (alot of women are on here for an ego thing unfortunately)! Watch who you have on your friends list..If you just have the "model, hot" type girls and you come onto a girl that is voluptuous chances are she will say no as your friends list won't reflect what you are looking for! Good luck! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Don't be abusive if you get knocked back or they don't reply (alot of women are on here for an ego thing unfortunately)! That's a bit rough funloving. The topic of not replying has been well and truly done, and the reasons given are many and varied. I hardly think you can boil it down to women not replying because they just want an ego boost.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I can boil it down to the fact mister gorgeous is attached. :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
...so am I.You wouldn't hold that against me, would you? You have so many other lovely assets that I would prefer you to hold against me.
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Don't be abusive if you get knocked back or they don't reply (alot of women are on here for an ego thing unfortunately)! That's a bit rough funloving. The topic of not replying has been well and truly done, and the reasons given are many and varied. I hardly think you can boil it down to women not replying because they just want an ego boost. In all the years I have been on here it has been an "ego" thing for alot of women....Why would women have a profile with sexy pics and then whinge when they get asked for sex? Why would women be on here if they are not meeting anyone but yet have sexy pics up? We all take a break every now and again and it is easy to not get messages...I just click the "No more messages" box in my General Settings and it saves any Members wasting messages on me when I am not meeting! I do at times take my pics down when I am way too busy...and other times I have my pics up as I am in the chatrooms alot so everyone knows who I am! But...as soon as I am ready I just unclick the box and have fun, fun, fun! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
You have recieved good advice so far and I would like to add my 2 cents worth. When you do send a message to a lady, be courteous and polite and although it is an adult dating site, whatever you do, don't ask for sex straight away and don't be crude and rude like asking "wanna fuck?" to a lady that you have never met. Try and arrange a meeting in a public place and see how it goes from there. Good luck and all the best.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Whoa.... here we go ......... Welcome to the forum N1tt, but beware, as I have heard that sometimes guys (particularly newbies) can ask really honest questions on here whereupon thier actual motives are called into question. I am sure that this won't happen to you as you sound quite genuine, but keep a thick skin on just in case eh?.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Or a job interview. Like Freya said, expand on your sales pitch but be genuine. And she's also right about the face pictures, so many gentlemen don't have them and, while it can be nice to see what's in the "cookie jar" sometimes a blokes best asset isn't in his pants. You have a stunning body, where's the gorgeous smile that accompanies it? I hope you enjoy your time here, it can be a tough crowd at times but for the most part I have found it enjoyable and there are some very interesting and truly beautiful people here. Good luck with your journey. Safari.
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ForeverLovers
12 years ago
It's great to see new users who want to try and have the best profile they can and listen to advice from other members. Don't pay attention to people who tell you this has all been discussed before, it hasn't been discussed by you, so this is your right as a member to have a say/ask questions on the forum. So I've had a look at your profile ..... great profile pic, exactly the sort of pic that gets me excited! (Turn-offs for me include cock pics, no pic at all and pics with other people in them). Yes you should definitely upload some other pics in your private gallery, a nice clear "normal" pic which shows your face is key. You've filled out almost all of the "stats" section which is great, it is very annoying if everything says "ask me". I definitely think though that your profile description and who you are looking for needs "tweaking". I would really encourage you to think about who you are looking to meet. So many men say they are looking to meet couples as well as single women, but they don't mention couples at all in the description. So, couples like us read a profile and think, hmm, just sounds like the couple part was an after thought! I'm about to send you a message with some corrections I've noticed you need, hope that's ok! As other member's have suggested, always answer winks or messages politely, ensure the ones you send are respectful and you've put thought into them to catch the recipient's eye. It's great you are a paid member, that shows you are serious about this. Have fun! Mrs FL xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
1. Don't write too much, woman hate reading stuff and a lot won't reply anyway. Get right to the point.2. Most are speed readers so heaps of text talk and sms shortcuts really help sell your case. Showing a bit of humour too.3. Some are busy and overlook things, so just keep on blasting their email in-boxes.Here's a bit of cut and paste, they like that too:a b b ur hot lol wan 2 root lol u haf nice bo0bees n a hot az 2 lol *shrugs...just trying to help*
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goldcoastcple69
12 years ago
lol @ rightcompany .. awsome stuff lol i know a couple of ladies like that , really short attention span , cant read more than a paragraph without getting bored and distracted lol but not all are like that ofcourse.
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New1tothis
12 years ago
Ive just made some changes in my profile with regards to what i have written, thanks for all the help people, keep them coming. Its great so many people are there to help. Quoting 'ForeverLovers' It's great to see new users who want to try and have the best profile they can and listen to advice from other members. Don't pay attention to people who tell you this has all been discussed before, it hasn't been discussed by you, so this is your right as a member to have a say/ask questions on the forum. So I've had a look at your profile ..... great profile pic, exactly the sort of pic that gets me excited! (Turn-offs for me include cock pics, no pic at all and pics with other people in them). Yes you should definitely upload some other pics in your private gallery, a nice clear "normal" pic which shows your face is key. You've filled out almost all of the "stats" section which is great, it is very annoying if everything says "ask me". I definitely think though that your profile description and who you are looking for needs "tweaking". I would really encourage you to think about who you are looking to meet. So many men say they are looking to meet couples as well as single women, but they don't mention couples at all in the description. So, couples like us read a profile and think, hmm, just sounds like the couple part was an after thought! I'm about to send you a message with some corrections I've noticed you need, hope that's ok! As other member's have suggested, always answer winks or messages politely, ensure the ones you send are respectful and you've put thought into them to catch the recipient's eye. It's great you are a paid member, that shows you are serious about this. Have fun! Mrs FL xxx
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New1tothis
12 years ago
Really want to explore with couples, any suggestions please...
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Quoting 'RightCompany'1. Don't write too much, woman hate reading stuff and a lot won't reply anyway. Get right to the point.2. Most are speed readers so heaps of text talk and sms shortcuts really help sell your case. Showing a bit of humour too.3. Some are busy and overlook things, so just keep on blasting their email in-boxes.Here's a bit of cut and paste, they like that too:a b b ur hot lol wan 2 root lol u haf nice bo0bees n a hot az 2 lol *shrugs...just trying to help*You're out to hobble the poor young man. I have one word for you Sir, "Saboteur!"
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RHP User
12 years ago
As I understood,I shouldn't try to add anyone just because I like what they wrote on there profil or their picture.I have to get a verify profil and add a picture of my face.thks, I think it's a good topic because if he was there I was going to the wrong way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wrote that first post as I was a bit worried you'd be jumped by certain regular posters, saying things like: This the billion-and-third time this topic has been done!!!" I see the RHP team had the same thoughts, so they started their own forum about this. But everyone has been really nice, which is great! Good luck xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think that's the 157 time you've said that...is that an auto reply??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'I think that's the 157 time you've said that...is that an auto reply?? I don't see our planets colliding but good luck in your search
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RHP User
12 years ago
So I take it as.....you don't fuck first dates?? What about the 2nd?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'So I take it as.....you don't fuck first dates?? What about the 2nd? You have me confused with missM, 36, from Surry Hills. She's cute though!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is that French for 'o k bb hook me up wif ur phone #' Women are just so damn complex, I struggle with the english language enough as it is, thanks. Just type in 'yes' and keep it simple, will you please?
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ForeverLovers
12 years ago
I think it's great you are really thinking about the dynamics about playing with a couple and adjusting your profile to make it more attractive to couples. So I see you've taken on board my suggestion to actually mention couples in the "Who I'm Looking For" section ......... and wow, this sets you so far apart from heaps of other "single" guys so well done. From our point of view, when we are interested in a guy, it comes down to me thinking "mmm, yes I'd like some of that" and Mr FL thinking "yep, he seems like a decent guy, we'll have fun". I think you're already definitely heading in the right direction ..... don't ever think that your profile is done and you keep it that way. Keep it fresh, updated, change your "pick-up line" or whatever they call it regularly. Set aside some time and do a search for couples looking to play with a guy. Read their profiles and see what they are looking for. Even if they aren't a match for you ........ you may always read something that clicks with you and helps you in your search. I hope you have your first 3-sum sooner rather than later ........ good luck! Mrs FL xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I thought you mentioned someone else??? Lol oh well you miss out on my massive.....culinary skills :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' But I can boil it down to the fact mister gorgeous is attached. :( Agree.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'I thought you mentioned someone else??? Lol oh well you miss out on my massive.....culinary skills :p While your ahead HT... Devious has got you this time. Good luck for the next thread.
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RHP User
12 years ago
hi all very new to this and a bit lost
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RHP User
12 years ago
Careful Mary Poppins will have a go at you for not staying on topic. So what is worse... Stating the obvious or just making lots of comments that aren't even related to the topic.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Come round to my place and we will work on it.
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