M52
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February 24 2016
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Get your profile in order with some photos, pay your membership and always respect others. Did i mention respect? Welcome and best of luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Well you are fortunate that you have mates that have had positive experiences on here. They can give you a few pointers on creating an appealing profile that stands out,and maybe take some pics for you. Enjoy
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RHP User
9 years ago
If it's women you're looking to attract keep in mind they week read your profile. Personally, using the templated text indicates a lack of imagination or willingness to put yourself out there. The type of pics are always contentious... To do a cock shot or not? My preference is not and to see it a little later when chatting individually or meeting. Good manners would suggest if someone sends you a message or a flirt you respond even if to say no. I know some people don't do this but I think it's wise to. You never know how big or small the community around you is. Good luck. Happy playing!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd suggest approaching side on, and slowly - then you can jump back if it tries to nip you (and it gives you a flattering profile)
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RHP User
9 years ago
it's hard on here as you probably haven't looked around the forums as lots of guys generally don't and want some input It's up to you to describe yourself on how you want to come across , I have no pic up as I don't have much luck but if your mates are ask them for advice as on here you will only get negative feedback from the perfect posters Good luck - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
A guest,you have no face pic,those two factors put you at a disadvantage...you can't contact anybody and most women won't contact a Fuzzy whose profile is to say the least boring..says nothing except that you are newly divorced which actually says a lot ...Fix all of those things and you might have a chance..xxFreya
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sweetgem
9 years ago
So here goes my thoughts.......I would say no if I received a flirt from you because: 1) Your profile is not very clear of what you're after when you say "looking for fun". Everyone interprets the word "fun" differently and so what I think it might mean might not be exactly what you meant. Some people interpret "fun" as in having many hookups and sex after sex only; some see it as in having certain level of connection, affection, passion and intimacy all combined together with the right company. Hence, it is not an advantage to be too brief in this case. 2) Your profile is not verified, which gives me little confidence that you are a real and genuine person behind the screen. 3) You have absolutely no photos available for sighting, which makes me wonder why and who am I talking to? I would not mention "divorce finally done...." as the first opening line in my profile if I were you. That phrase would rather bring out a negative vibe and not necessary, but if it's your style, then of course I would respect that :) Anyways, above is only my 2c and I don't represent any women with my comment :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Are you here to fuck?Well you have no photos so you will have zero luck here, plus you are a guest and the caste system here would see you as less than worthy. Also your sexual interests are zero, again that equates to zero luck. You don't list body type so I'm guessing you are really fat or anorexic, best of luck with that. You have stated..... "not looking for anything other than friends"....... normal people don't look for friends on a sex site (for real). As it stands you have no hope of meeting anyone. If you are not here to fuck then join a local sporting club/gym and meet people there. Sorry but I find your whole profile weird.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Think your shotgun will need reloading after that
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Think your shotgun will need reloading after that lol, its brutal but honest and accurate. Its a weird profile, I get people being here for the forums etc, but to look for friends is odd.
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Quoting 'social_suicide' Are you here to fuck?Well you have no photos so you will have zero luck here, plus you are a guest and the caste system here would see you as less than worthy. Also your sexual interests are zero, again that equates to zero luck. You don't list body type so I'm guessing you are really fat or anorexic, best of luck with that. You have stated..... "not looking for anything other than friends"....... normal people don't look for friends on a sex site (for real). As it stands you have no hope of meeting anyone. If you are not here to fuck then join a local sporting club/gym and meet people there. Sorry but I find your whole profile weird. Tell him what you really think.
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lokingforfun2016
9 years ago
Well it took about 6 months of nagging from my mates to get here and yes my profile is a work in progress I was married for just over 20 years so jumping on this horse I expect to get bucked off and get the crap kicked out of me , thanks for the input I will now start tuning my profile and yes I will redo the just friends part a fb or fwb would be great but i will tread water until i can swim thank you everyone
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Seriously?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Friends is a good way to start off. A few people have that on their profile. Ive made lots of great friends on here, so dont worry about that. Youll find that some couples cant grasp the friends thing, as they already have their constant friend. e.g. their partner. Its up to you how you use the site ..... there are no hard and fast rules. But a photo goes a long way and a bit more about yourself would also help. Now Im scedaddling before I get the inevitable condescending follow up posts.......
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horneycouplewa
9 years ago
I have in the past when we put a date in for date finder looking for couples we get no replies even tho we know we match up with other couples that are looking also on date finder...is it a situation you express your interest first ?. However when we add others such as man (verses couples/groups) we get hit with heaps of men obviously BUT with no profile pics or info on there profiles....really such a waste of time. Is Date Finder worth it ?
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horneycouplewa
9 years ago
thought it was a new forums post
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RHP User
9 years ago
Stay the fuck out of the gyms..! I'm sick of waiting for people who'd rather stand around and talk "making fwends" because they're lonely, holding my training up...... Join a chess club instead😂 Riveting people there I hear....
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Quoting 'VWGolfGTIQIK20Z' Stay the fuck out of the gyms..! I'm sick of waiting for people who'd rather stand around and talk "making fwends" because they're lonely, holding my training up...... Join a chess club instead😂 Riveting people there I hear.... I was thinking about "crossfit", so you'd be safe.
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RHP User
9 years ago
But by saying fun in the profile is me expressing the fact about how easygoing we are and initially it would just be chatting and having a laugh as once I'm comfortable I tend to be a bit of a clown as I love to make other people laugh and enjoy themselves even if it's at my expense. I for one need someone who has a gsoh and loves to laugh otherwise I doubt I'd be even remotely attracted, nothing sexier than seeing people happy and letting go. We all put up with enough dramas and stress in our day to day lives that this is the side of me that I want to just be fun. Doesn't mean I'm not serious when I have to be. People shouldn't make assumptions based on there interpretation of another purely because they used the word fun. Don't you ? But then again that's just my little old opinion, - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
A profile is personal and represents you, so just go with your gut there. People's biggest mistake here is not having a profile pic. Many people will tick 'with photo' in searches, you wont show up. Also, many females wont be responsive to flirts or messages if there is no picture to inspire imagination. Just our thoughts. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'VWGolfGTIQIK20Z' Stay the fuck out of the gyms..! I'm sick of waiting for people who'd rather stand around and talk "making fwends" because they're lonely, holding my training up...... Join a chess club instead😂 Riveting people there I hear.... Serious chess players are often very interesting. It's not a game that any old dummy can play. Unlike going to a gym.
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RHP User
9 years ago
That's true too. I'm a low level chess player myself, never played top ppl though but have come across some real 'boring' types (many moons ago). I was going to put 'Checkers', but I'm sure SOMEBODY would have comeback with some "witty" retort..... There's no pleasing some in these toxic forums- and you just can't 'win' all the time....😔 *pfft*. whatever
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lokingforfun2016
9 years ago
Summer thank you for your input I have been reading the forums and trying to gain insight into the world that is RHP i will just paddle at the edge of the water for a bit before jumping on in the deep end either way I do believe i will still need a life-jacket and shark spray lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
(Inserts MASSIVE sarcastic tone) Try adding something to the national conversation that's righteous & beautiful for a change. So let the OP have his thread already....
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RHP User
9 years ago
...I bet you play a mean game of chess .
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon'Quoting 'VWGolfGTIQIK20Z'Stay the fuck out of the gyms..! I'm sick of waiting for people who'd rather stand around and talk "making fwends" because they're lonely, holding my training up...... Join a chess club instead😂 Riveting people there I hear.... Serious chess players are often very interesting. It's not a game that any old dummy can play. Unlike going to a gym. I'm not biting, just an exploratory nibble and swimming away "this one move a couple squares in one direction, then one in the other", "that one moves diagonally". Tricky. I'm going to say that they're both full of a lot of "people you don't want to talk to" e.g. "shreddin for stereo brah" douches at the gym, or chess fellow who'll lock you up for hours talking about that time he used a Scheveningen setup. Hilarity ensued. I'd say the OP should stay away from normal gyms if he wants to make friends - mostly because nobody there really wants to make friends, a friendly nod is enough. Somewhere like a crossfit, F45 or other group fitness gym might work, they are very encouraging of everyone becoming friends.
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'VWGolfGTIQIK20Z' Stay the fuck out of the gyms..! I'm sick of waiting for people who'd rather stand around and talk "making fwends" because they're lonely, holding my training up...... Join a chess club instead😂 Riveting people there I hear.... Serious chess players are often very interesting. It's not a game that any old dummy can play. Unlike going to a gym. GOLD!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' "this one move a couple squares in one direction, then one in the other", "that one moves diagonally". Tricky. That ignores the strategy and purpose behind the moves, and the pre-planning and thinking that's required. At the higher levels of play anyway. I don't play it myself, I don't have the patience or the right type of strategic mind, but I've known a few people who do. Some of them were very interesting, worldly, think outside of the box types, and no they don't talk about chess all the time either. Jeepers....I'll even bet there even are people who play chess AND go to the gym Anyway, I'm not intending to continue in a debate about chess vs gyms, or where the OP should go to meet people, nor did I intend my comment to be disparaging towards all gym goers. I go to the gym myself. Well...I have done and am trying to motivate myself to get there again.
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social_suicide
9 years ago
How many games have you won in 4 moves?....and have you ever lost a game in 2 moves?
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Follow the masses. Photo of ya dick, photo of your torso flexing in s gym or bathroom mirror, minimal profile detail, and send messages that say "how r u".... and that wink from your empty profile asking others what they think about you. 54885392 guys in RHP can't all be doing it wrong.... right?!! 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Follow the masses. Photo of ya dick, photo of your torso flexing in s gym or bathroom mirror, minimal profile detail, and send messages that say "how r u".... and that wink from your empty profile asking others what they think about you. 54885392 guys in RHP can't all be doing it wrong.... right?!! 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile Bad bad man. lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
I just took up CrossFit last month- it's awesome. And yes I make fwends there too. There's a real camaraderie amongst us all in that place. And it does beat wearing jumpers & trackpants in the middle of summer training- with earphones in, hat on real low, looking at the floor- avoiding eye contact so as not to talk to people when I'm training. (Commitment takes on different forms for different people). 😏😏This also helped to avoid those loooong hours checking myself out in the mirror between sets, as all these fatties seem to think you do in there 😂😂
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RHP User
9 years ago
....5, 4, 3
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would love to see their score rates in comparison to someone without an abs and cock shot? Just so you know - there are some of us there (can't give you a number I'm afraid) that prefer the absence of cock in cornea when we open someone's profile, along with a well written blurb about themselves. VW (buy the way the GTI is one of my cars, just sayin) - maybe some would prefer a gym that provides women on their knees with their mouths open at every chest press machine? Might cut down a few of those annoying time wasting conversations? 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
😏stunning cars, huh..? 😉__👍 Enjoy. I like your idea of this new gym business model. You think it could fly though..? Anywho, enough of highjacking this OP thread..
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' "this one move a couple squares in one direction, then one in the other", "that one moves diagonally". Tricky. That ignores the strategy and purpose behind the moves, and the pre-planning and thinking that's required. At the higher levels of play anyway. I don't play it myself, I don't have the patience or the right type of strategic mind, but I've known a few people who do. Some of them were very interesting, worldly, think outside of the box types, and no they don't talk about chess all the time either. Jeepers....I'll even bet there even are people who play chess AND go to the gym Anyway, I'm not intending to continue in a debate about chess vs gyms, or where the OP should go to meet people, nor did I intend my comment to be disparaging towards all gym goers. I go to the gym myself. Well...I have done and am trying to motivate myself to get there again. (I suspect you know I was being deliberately reductive and having some fun ;) ) well, that or it it's just regurgitating rote learned sets of moves from famous chess plays rather than independent discovery of moves. - You are using Bonetti's defense against me, eh?- I thought it fitting- Naturally, you must expect me to attack with Capo Ferro- Naturally, but I find Thibault cancels Capo Ferro, don't you?- Unless the enemy has studied his Agrippa, which I have! The gym really depends on the folks who you encounter there, I happened upon a rather interesting chap who brought his own chains to the gym, we talked about Zatsiorsky and shoes... Also encountered kids who decide to 'spot' for their buddy doing preacher curls and put their head in the way of a hundred kilos of descending metal from the squat rack next to them :p Anyway, what was the topic again? hopefully something to do with my quotes above (go on say it)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Did someone say gym. 😂😂 Look just be yourself, don't worry about what other people do. Get a couple of pic's up, explain a bit about yourself and take it from there. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose'well, that or it it's just regurgitating rote learned sets of moves from famous chess plays rather than independent discovery of moves. I'd say for the good players there's both involved. Also...it's been the inspiration for some fabulous musical theatre Now we just need a musical set in a gym....although I wouldn't be surprised at all if one's already been done
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lokingforfun2016
9 years ago
thank you for at least responding to my flirt this is going to be a learning experience and yes I will be making mistakes as I go
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nice but self incriminating photo of the dumbell hidden down your shorts....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Don't tell me my idea of a blow job gym has already been established? Geez I'm always just slightly behind the 8 ball
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RHP User
9 years ago
Remember the ladies get bombarded with messages and line up the cock shots. We all have baggage and it helps define who we are along the journey. But you have to leave your baggage behind to start fresh. 20 years.....hmmm, I was 30 years. We all worry about how we look to others, I am 51. All you have to think about is being true to your self. There's nothing like trying to take a selfie with the mobile..... Lying there in the buff, Trying to think possitive that the ladies will find you sexy.....not!, I fell off the bed! Even getting to meet for coffee may be a huge deal, Just keep positive as there will be a lot of no reply to your messages. Keep swinging the bat....Cheers Pete
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ooops sorry.....wasnt supposed to sound negative. One of my favourite pics to see in profiles is a the outline of a hard on in some tight shorts or boxers.....
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sexy lingerie....you realise you will incur the wrath of he who knows how women work? Loking......looking forward to seeing your pics!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Face pics help alot and yes include your words not templates ... Goodluck 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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