Newbie couple advice

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Swingers clubs are great place to socialise and meet people and a lot of people don't really drink too much. Too busy doing other things. Just make sure you go on a theme night when there are more people who go. It's really fun. Otherwise I am not really sure how you would build up confidence without getting in amongst it?

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  PatchworkGirl

  8 years ago

  I agree with Summer. Couples Club is non threatening, you can just play together with others in proximity, and I have to say that, whilst the decor is a bit dated and daggy (or at least it was when I was there last!) that helped me feel less nervous - it added a it of humour to the whole experience.

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  Tall74nHard9

  8 years ago

  you are also looking to expand your future opportunities here as well, I would suggest you expand your profile a bit more too, including some pics people can access. You will probably find your chances of connecting here will increase with some extra info and clear pics. Good luck here. Tall

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  Sawadee

  8 years ago

  You sure you don't have shares in the couples club ? You certainly are a great ambassador .. 👍

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Advice to you guys from another new couple to this... Be very clear about what you are hoping for and also your rules and boundaries with one another. I looked for quite some time online to see how I could go about this and just kept running in circles. I settled for a swingers club (chateau vino) with no idea what to expect, we went in flying blind. It exceeded our expectations and we met another amazing couple that we instantly clicked with. It was totally non confrontational and a very relaxed atmosphere. Whatever you do, keep and open mind but keep your partner feeling like she is the most important person in the world :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Having seen countless first time couples I can say that the last sentence of friendlycouples2 is the gold standard for advice to newbie couples. Quote: friendlycouple2 "Whatever you do, keep and open mind but keep your partner feeling like she is the most important person in the world :)" If you forget that rule I guarantee there will be regrets rather than fond memories.

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  rupamohan

  8 years ago

  Hey! The girlfriend and myself are looking to explore some new things and expand out our sex life. We have discussed that we would like to experiment with others and other couples. We are thinking of starting with watching and/or some same room sex and seeing how that goes, then maybe trying partner swapping or more. We haven't really done anything like this before and aren't really sure where to start - Start by meeting others without any expectations or where the best places are to meet people. - Anywhere on this planet where you feel comfortable We like to go out but neither of us drink much and aren't really into the bar scene or clubs. Additionally, we would like to become a bit more confident what is your fears? if you tell may be some one can give you better feedback. However this is practical science the only way to get confident is by trying it out. There are no flight simulators. before we go to a swingers club or something similar. If anyone can help us out or give any advice, it would be very much I can give you specific advice if you can share which country is your birth place. How long you stayed there. How long you have stayed in Australia. That give me idea about your sexual values. appreciated. Thanks!

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  boobsandbusted

  8 years ago

  We too are new to all this and summers advice back then and now is spot on ,clubs on couples only night ,is the best, no exspectatioms or pressure of hooking up or being worried about most things at a meet and greet ,have a yap ,get naked?leave your under wear on what ever , do what you want with others or as we have done many times ,go at it by yourselves with an open door and watch to see if anyone turns up watching from a distance ,sometimes there's just that couple, that you welcome in ,and exsplain your boundaries,and go from there and see if you are happy to move a boundary a bit,has surprised us when we have ,and felt great about it ,failing the previous statement ,find a closed room and Just go for it yourselves ,there's something about hearing others screaming and moaning the house down to join in make noise and have a great time - Posted from rhpmobile

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