Newbie here, no idea what I'm doing..

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  Welcome 💋 Hopefully you find some fun and adventures here. It helps to start understanding some of your Kinks and likes. If you’ve only lived vanilla until now, then hop online and do a BDSM Test (literally type in that term). It will help you to identify some elements within yourself and also help you to hone in on what you’d like to further research and perhaps even experiment with 😈 There’s also a website called Fetlife that may help you to research and connect with people. Especially when you start to identify some of your Kinks. RHP will also help you find clubs and groups locally that help people to explore and safely play. 🥰 But the biggest piece of advice I can give you, is learn true consent and respect. Work on using these skills to communicate with dignity to prospective couples and women. Because truly, when a man treats you with real respect, as women, we open up. We get comfortable. We share more and offer more. And as a bi-product, you’ll gain more confidence. You’ll find your groove. You’ll fully develop within yourself and whatever latent primal energy you have inside, will come to the surface and have a chance to play. Throw your hat in the ring young one. Approach lots of women. Be a little cheeky but always respectful. Be playful. NEVER send a photo of your cock unless the woman asks. LOL. And have fun 💋💋

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  Kokoflamingo

  4 years ago

  Read profiles. Dont under any circumstance message couples who have NO SINGLE GUYS on there or you will be lamblasted from here to New Year. If someone takes your interest send a message with a bit of thought behind it. Its hard for single guys on here but dont get disheartened. Look on the Events pages and go along to one of the Meet up evenings, thats the best way to meet people. Good luck!

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  teamaj2

  4 years ago

  All of what Koko said is 100% good advice . Reading the profiles to see that you are what people are seeking and respect are paramount. When sending messages be respectful , make sure the messages show that you have read the profile ( what people are seeking , their boundaries, their time frames for meeting etc etc ). Be engaging -for example -(Messages saying ‘Hey ‘ , ‘Hi’ or ‘What do you think of me?’) won’t do . There is many many single guys on RHP . Competition is fierce . Don’t give up . Never send intimate pictures unless you have consent . Some people may like to see them . It pays to perhaps have a G rated Private Album and another one with intimate pictures . We personally , don’t like daily X rated pictures being sent to us . Perhaps others do . I think it’s important, if you seek couples to be mindful that there is two people you are speaking to in messaging . Good luck . Ax

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  sweetnsensual

  4 years ago

  Attend some social events where single guys are allowed and get to know people socially first. That way people can get to know you in a no pressure situation.

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  I_touch_myself2

  4 years ago

  Don't listen to any forum advice. That would be my advice 😁 You'll do just fine 😉

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  Mrs_Deep_Love

  4 years ago

  Do yourself a favour.... Do a search of men in your local area. Then do a search of women in your local area. Compare the numbers. Therein lies your problem. X

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  Lunchbox73

  3 years ago

  If you're here to get into the lifestyle I'd suggest trying to find a single woman with the same goal. You'll struggle as single male. If you're here for hook ups you'll be more successful. Tips Be honest and upfront about what you want. Don't message people with "hey wanna fuck?" Sell YOU a little. Expect zero success... at least that way you wont be disappointed. Remember single males have zero value in this world. They're a dime a dozen.

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