M38

Newbie introduction with a couple of questions.

March 17 2017

Gday. Im a bloke who has moved from country Vic to the big smoke. What a difference a few hundred ks does to people. I actually went into the concrete jungle (being Melbourne CBD itself) and noticed all these different hairstyles and a lad with a fake tan. A bit about me. First time doing something like this. Simple country bloke who enjoys his AFL, Froffies, the bush, rock and roll 4x4s. Moved from Alexandra to Melbourne. A bloke who doesn't wear skinny leg jeans with a fancy hairstyle Just a simple rough and rugged country lad. Looking for a (a being 1) female friend for discreet fun/friends with Benifits on a near regular basis. Respectful and with morals. Not wanting to play the field, I don't have the time nor patience to piss fart around trying different women, I find it dis respectful to the women and myself. No I'm not looking for a relationship. Questions about this site/app. Why is there some many people with no photos or R photos. How do we access these R photos (single so spank bank material, don't laugh we all have needs ;) ) Are many of these people on this site active members on here or not? Lastly, if your a female and interested don't hesitate to msg me. Hope you all have a great weekend! - Posted from rhpmobile

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Andremmo

8 years ago

Profiles with no photos are created by people who:- are curious and just want to see if there is anyone they know on the site- are not interested in meeting anyone new at the moment- are here on the sly, probably attached and are worried their partner/family members/colleagues will find their profile here You access the R photos by paying for a membership and logging in. If you are accessing the site via the phone app it seems to be broken and restrict photos as if you are a guest. If that is the case, you click on the photo to open your phone browser which doesn't have the same restriction. There are both active and inactive profiles. You can do searches sorted by 'last visit' if you are worried about looking at inactive profiles.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'Andremmo'If you are accessing the site via the phone app it seems to be broken and restrict photos as if you are a guest. It's because of the different rules for the content that's allowed to be shown on mobile apps. OP, as Andremmo stated there are many different reasons why someone might not have any photos. If it bothers you just stick with the profiles that do. It's also difficult to say how many active vs inactive profiles there are, again as Andremmo said you can search by the time someone was last online to make sure active profiles come up first. I know you haven't asked for any advice on your profile but I'm going to make a suggestion anyway. The lone 'ask me' for relationship status on your profile - along with other comments in your profile and topic - indicate that you are probably attached. My tip would be to state your relationship status on your profile. It really is better to just be upfront, most women will assume you're attached anyway as soon as they see an 'ask me' for that category. If you are indeed attached and you have an open relationship or some other arrangement, then mention it in your profile. If you don't, most women will assume you are playing without your partner's knowledge. Whichever way you decide to go about it and whatever your situation is, I would strongly suggest being upfront with the people you may talk to / meet here. There are women who will play with attached men, but most like to know from the beginning what they're getting into.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Thank you for the pointers. Didn't realise I left it out. It has been amended. Made the profile on me phone. Missed a couple of the questions - Posted from rhpmobile

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Livingandloving2

8 years ago

A great many people on this site are selective about who they show their photos to. They are here to find their own thing- not to be used to satisfy your wank bank needs. You may well find a majority of ladies you seek will find that a tad disrespectful. Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

I'm a little lost for words actually but here goes 😉 I'm with Mrs LAL, kind of turns my stomach, makes me want to put my public privates 😊 into private albums. Porn is your answer dude, or a hooker 😉but insulting articulate, well dressed, well groomed and/or body proud men, whining about no pictures when you don't have any? Massive turn off for me. Almost a little hard to believe, a wind up perhaps?? I found your profile offensive and gruelling. Yeah nah 😀

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'countrylad86' Thank you for the pointers. Didn't realise I left it out. It has been amended. Made the profile on me phone. Missed a couple of the questions You had mentioned you were single in your topic, I missed that when I first read it.

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AnnieWhichway

8 years ago

So much to learn. City people l find have much respect for those that choose individualality. It's a different world here. Skinny jeans, fake tans, top knot hair styles. Gay people arm in arm. It's not the outside we generally worry about but the inside. I can't generalise but country folk don't like shit that's far from the everyday that they deal with. People like me can't go the country to live a life that we would want. But country people can come here and be treated like normal. Just embrace the difference and enjoy the experience but above all, respect those that show you respect even if they are very different to what you know. Annie

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RHP User

8 years ago

Have to agree with some of the others. I tend to steer clear of guys who are quite negative in their profiles and who slag others off. It doesn't put across the best impression.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' So much to learn. City people l find have much respect for those that choose individualality. It's a different world here. Skinny jeans, fake tans, top knot hair styles. Gay people arm in arm. It's not the outside we generally worry about but the inside. I can't generalise but country folk don't like shit that's far from the everyday that they deal with. People like me can't go the country to live a life that we would want. But country people can come here and be treated like normal. Just embrace the difference and enjoy the experience but above all, respect those that show you respect even if they are very different to what you know. Annie Very well said as always.And you are quite right.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Quoting 'countrylad86' Thank you for the pointers. Didn't realise I left it out. It has been amended. Made the profile on me phone. Missed a couple of the questions - Posted from rhpmobile Welcome to Melbs and of course to the sandpit known as RHP.Enjoy your time here. And good on you for amending your profile so quickly. AFL you say? Are you a happy Bulldogs supporter like me?

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RHP User

8 years ago

Wow straight into the Lions den huh. Be prepared to be judged on your profile and every word Op. Take notice of fellow forumites advice and amend your profile to sound more positive. Self reflection is fine but not cool to compare and put down other's. Being humble is a better quality then judgmental. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Why not stick on a couple of pics to show everyone the rugged country boy that you are? People like photos and it makes a big difference as to whether you get a lot of attention or not much at all. Young guys follow the trends, and skinny jeans and fancy hairdos are all the go. A young guy came into my work with 2 top knots, 3/4 length trousers with a cuff at the bottom, one leg was pulled up to over the knee. But he was lovely and polite. Its the person that counts, not the outer shell. Hopefully you make a few friends and realise that everyone is different and that it makes for interesting get togethers! Best of luck on here and enjoy your weekend

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RHP User

8 years ago

But you asked the question so I checked out your profile, and despite your efforts to seem like a simple, normal bloke adrift in the sea of freakery that is urban Melbourne, the resulting impression is that you're a bit arrogant and close minded, and that's probably not going to get you far on RHP. My experience of this site is that the women, or the ones I engage with anyway, are self assured, open minded and adventurous. While they do want to be treated with respect, they probably don't view respect as going hand in hand with the odd sort of non committal monogamy your advocating in your profile.

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RHP User

8 years ago

*you're

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johnisfun3

8 years ago

Welcome to the site and social media. Wohhhh... by now you must have picked up people do not mix their words in this forum. I felt lot of comments were judgmental without considering you are new and unfortunately it takes time to build the profile. If you like the advice given use it otherwise go with your instinct. But there many members who are genuine and willing to help a newbie. There is also more information in the newbie posts as well as article on writing a good profile. Having lived in big cities all my life I always have respect for country people as they happy to give their time and talk to you compared to city slickers who are always in a rush. Good luck and have fun..

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