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Newbie saying Hi, couple of questions etc

March 02 2012

Gday, been lurking for a while, reading a fair few topics as their subjects catch my interest. Just finished reading something I found interesting and very applicable in my experience so far. I have created what I think to be a genuine profile, respectful pictures, predominately face shots, and have been honest in my description of myself.I have contacted (messaged) a fair few girls who have caught my eye in one way or another, whether its physical attraction, sexual preferences or just a clever profile. I am always polite and conscious of my msg's, never include anything outlandish or rude for that matter. Just a simple ice breaker like a comment on one of their pictures etc. Now I've had a couple of reply's, exchanged a few msg's here and there, some have added me as friends (which I assume means they are possibly interested in meeting up for a beer/coffee/play). When I suggest a casual meet, as I'd much prefer that to online chatting, all contact ceases. Now I know there are plenty of fish in the sea, and I'd imagine the good looking women out there get flooded with msg's of all kinds, however being honest and genuine, thought I'd have a little more response so far.Wouldn't mind some advice from anyone willing to have a look at my profile and tell me if there are any obvious improvements to be made that may help my cause. I find it hard to come up with a profile that isn't too long winded, or too short and direct. Has to be a balance out there.Short of hiding the truth that I am married but separated, which I am not going to do, how might one be a little more successful in this online game?That's all for now. Look forward to your responses whether it be constructive criticism or just a chin up and keep on trucking.Cheers, Jay

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RHP User

13 years ago

Not a bad profile overall. Pictures are nice but I know some of the younger girls aren't into fishing so you may like to think about substituting that pic. Your second paragraph about your sexual experience may be a little off-putting so I would suggest you leave it out but do find somewhere for the bit about you wanting both to have a good time. It's always a good thing to tell the girls what you would like to do to them (nicely!!) as it shows a bit more of your character. Be subtle!I noticed that the girls that you are friends with are all quite young. I am assuming that the girls who don't want to meet are around the same age group. Try for an older girl with a bit more maturity and you may have more of a positive response.Good luck and hope it all works out for you.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Thanks MistressT, precisely the kind of feedback I am seeking. Will not change it right away as this will lock my profile and prevent others from their input. I will however start drafting those changes.You are correct about the age group of my "friends" (using the term lightly). Shall set my sails for a broader horizon

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RHP User

13 years ago

As a fisherman you should be familiar with it. Bait your hook, drop your line and wait.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Very old girl over here, hides zimmer frame , tucks away the knitting and kicks the cat away. Good point MistressT, and the only other thing. Never say " you will not be disappointed" unless you have crystal balls, and your a gypsy, but then you would walk very carefully

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RHP User

13 years ago

Nice profile Jay. Shows some substance and quality. Good pics too. I agree with TR "you will not be disappointed" is something that cannot be guaranteed. Even with the most promising meets things don't always go according to plan or expectation for any number of reasons. Ladies with more experience may be more interested in meeting. Just a thought! Good luck

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RHP User

13 years ago

that looks like a pretty down to earth profile with good effort put in to me..the 'slightly out there" sexual thing does not read as well as it could i think.. why not try "sometimes a little gentle kink"?

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RHP User

13 years ago

Thanks everyone, received some great advice. Will combine it all to create a new profile. Keep your eyes peeled.Cheers, Jay

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RHP User

13 years ago

Hi everyone, profile has been updated so head on over and have a read. Many thanks to to all the members who gave me advice.Cheers, Jay

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RHP User

13 years ago

Also, spend some time hanging out in the forums. It's where the real RHP community spends it's time .Cheers and best of luckLRE

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