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Newbie without a Cluey, does anyone respond?
November 20 2015
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sweetgem
9 years ago
The behaviour of some members on here that is. You're not the first and won't be the last ones to encounter the: - no response; - disappear (so cowardly or disrespectfully) without a trace after viewing your photos; - nasty name calling just because you are not the perfect image that they have been imagining, or because you say no to their sex invite, etc. etc. Don't take it personal knowing that it is not your problem that people would rather turn their back on your messages. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Interested in couples? If so give us s message - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
the question. Pictures, where are your pictures? You need to show yourself, hiding behind the veil of being new is a bit tired on this site. Are you serious? You wonder why people don't respond? Annoying pictures with the tongue poking out or whatever, but where your body isn't visible, is just annoying and a waste of time. I personally hardly ever request pictures, if they're not up and enough so i can get a decent look, i dismiss and don't reply, but you knew this right? If i get crucified for saying this, too bad, high time somebody did - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Of wanting to try all the positions you have seen of threesomes in porn may be a turnoff for some and women may wonder what you are offering them....it's not easy finding bi women interested in couples here....that is why they are known as Unicorns xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
When i was interested in the ffm experiences, I only met 2 couples from online contact. I found it better to meet couples I was attracted to at venues and private parties. (Networking and meeting people through others seems to be the best way) So maybe look at going to some of those.But as Freya said, not a common thing going by what the couples say.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I had a look at their public photos after reading your post. They gave me the impression of a lady who is relaxed and fun with a sence of humour. Can see most of her body. Only thing I would suggest is equal pics of the male half as the single ladies will be interested in that connection as well.
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Insomnian
9 years ago
Is verify your profile so people know you are who you say. Isn't that hard to do and will probably see you get better results.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your profile is not verified....that may be interpreted as a male masquerading as a couple without her full knowledge, or it may feel like you really aren't serious in trying to find a match here and then complain on the forums for attention. If it were me, I would verify my profile and keep a more positive attitude to any perceived (or actual) rejection. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
My thoughts: Bi women looking for couples are hard to find and much sought after, going by the dozens of forums I've read similar to yours. That means that these so-called Unicorns can be extremely choosy. So ask yourself: Out of the 100 messages she receives, why would she respond favorably to ours? How can we stand out from the herd? Personally I'd decline (if you theoretically were looking for me) because: - There are no pics of hubbie (though I really like the robe one)- You're not verified- You both smoke - Your profile doesn't say much about who you are and what you like and nothing about what you're looking for and have to offer. I always advise making clear in a profile it's about the woman as much as you. Many profiles read like the couple is looking for a plaything to entertain them, something most Unicorns I know would balk at*. Check out other couples' profiles to see what competition you're dealing with. Good luck! p.s. As for the not replying at all, there have been many fora on this. Many people find it's rude, whereas others feel they owe nothing to strangers (and no response is a response too), or have just stopped replying after having been abused for saying no a few times too many. Don't take it personally. *See what I did there?
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CandDSwing
9 years ago
Unicorns and MFF I find is difficult on RHP,well in the lifestyle in general, So many couples arrive at the idea of a MFF only and it's quite a difficulty for them to find a suitable female who wants to play with a couple and moreso just with the female of that couple. It will take some time but they are out there and you will find them.Good luck with your search C&D
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not interested in couples. Get caught up in that? Hmmm I'm not that silly. You are not the only option on this site. So perhaps pull your head in and think clearly for a while. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Do you really feel they need to pull their head in and think clearly because its not what you are looking for? Bit harsh for this site dont you think?
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RHP User
9 years ago
Morgana, if this couple contacted you showing interest, when your profile clearly states you're straight and looking for men only, I can totally understand your post. Did they? I thought not.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Morganuh*
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IamMrSilly
9 years ago
In my very humble and male opinion, Consider rewriting your profile completely from the view point of what you will be doing for them. Will you take them out for drinks/dinner, do you like to go out and party or like quiet relaxed seclusion. What will their experience be like? I think the 'end game' of positions should be left out, and instead you should leave it open to find out with them what you and they want to do. And then you need patience as there is not a waiting crowd of women who will immediately reply, it takes time and patience. Have patience, I almost gave up on RHP and I am sooooo glad I did not. Yes most people don't reply, I have spoken to some and the reason why is due to the large number of messages they get, and the abusive replies that some people give. No reply after a message has been read = a polite 'no thanks' without having to give a reason. I know my answers are just restating what others said, but I think it means more if multiple people confirm the same answers. :) Good luck
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RHP User
9 years ago
You may be hunting for quite sometime. They are out there but elusive. We came here with the same intentions but soon discovered there's more fun to be had out there than limiting yourself to ffm. But if that's your chosen option, you may want to start attending private parties or meet and greets, as it seems for some reason a lot of couples are all hunting these unicorns at the same time, so they can be extremely picky.
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RHP User
9 years ago
After reading all your constructive comments I have adjusted our profile to represent us as the real couple we are but i would appreciate the "updated opinions of you all".
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RHP User
9 years ago
The reason for semi hidden public profile is that i am a mother, daughter and friend and mine and my partners private life is private. But i put normal photos of us on Private Album #1. Lastly Thanks for the support with the couple of "Attacking" posts. I am a respectful person and therefore respect everyones reason for being here whether i understand it or not. I was brought up if you have nothing nice to say don't say it at all. ☺ Thanks again xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
I like your pics much better. About asking people to send you friend requests: You'll probably (imho) get a shit load from people looking to pad their own friends lists (to look more genuine, reliable, desirable, etc) and others may even think that is just what you are doing. Careful what you ask for, it may come back to bite you in the bum.
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RHP User
9 years ago
No reason for you to justify not having full face pics in a public gallery. 90% of us do the same. Thats what pg is for. Good luck and enjoy your fun on here.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...in the fact that all those people who are snobbing you, etc are really not likely to be the sorts of people you will enjoy being with. If there's a salient lesson for us all on here, it's that you can't make things happen. You can, and probably should, do everything you can to make opportunities happen (keep looking for well matched people, attend meet & greet nights, be active on the forums - you've already ticked that box) but you can't control how others respond. Taking other people's responses personally would be something to avoid - unnecessary baggage! It certainly took me a while to find my feet on here and so just keep plugging away. When the right person comes along at the right time it's worth the wait. :)
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AussieStriker
9 years ago
Quoting 'youngnkeen12' Interested in couples? If so give us s message - Posted from rhpmobile Tried getting in contact with you after you friend requested me but you never replied.....I'm still here
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AussieStriker
9 years ago
A lot of good advice on here for you. Simple fact is that single females wanting a couple are the smallest group of members you will find on here. For every 100 members there may be 5 of them and out of the other 95 about 90 of them are also after those same females (the other 5 are gay). So like has been mentioned, you need to have a profile that makes them interested. Just saying you want to meet is not enough. Those females you are after have mailboxes brimming with offers and in a lot of cases they just ignore 90% of them because they can. It can be hard to find anyone let alone the most sought after members on the site. But don't give up, attractive couples like yourselves also have plenty of success on here. I do think your pics are not the best though. I just need to find another other half so I can become a couple.
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chevtrek
9 years ago
I find I meet more out and about be it shops and so onhowever you could try some club action.
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