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Newbies .... love them or not?
November 19 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's necessary for men to be knocked back a few times? I must say that I find the notion that men who just joined lack manners and/or need to be educated quite insulting. Also, if a man doesn't have social skills or is rude, I don't think a few knock backs are going to change his mindset. Sure, a newbie may not realise that sending a "hey" message won't do him many favours, but I would not want a man to change how he presents himself. Acting like something he isn't may cause problems for both him and potential lovers. Your choice of course, feel free to send them to me. p.s. Not sure where the hygiene comment fits in.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was full of gusto when I first joined too, now I am just jaded. I suppose it is the same for men when they think they have sex on tap to find out it is just an annoying drip.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm under 6 months on RHP so speaking as a newbie I'd like to thank nearly everyone I've had contact with, I've had lots of good advice and a few great meet ups with hopefully more to come, yes some guys are over the top but I'll keep being myself-polite and friendly and look forward to the future.... I LOVE the forums all u regulars make me laugh most days.... Thank you 😄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
We really like to meet newbies! We were newbies once(Not long ago) and we were lucky to meet the most amazing couple for our first experience who not only showed us a great time but also were patient and loved the fact we wanted to try certain things and were more than happy to oblige. So for us we like to pass on that experience to others and make sure they have a great time for there first experience. We have all heard of some horror stories with couples first times so the less of that the better
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RHP User
10 years ago
Good analogy Ralf! Agreed
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hello. I'm a newbie, and I'm looking for a bit of constructive criticism and advice. I have a look as we all do, I take the time to read profiles, and respect every profile which says "no singles males", etc etc. I'm a polite and genuine guy, who is looking for some fun. When I send a message, it's not crass or crude, and it is usually along the lines "hey do you fancy a chat, leading to a meet up, for a drink or a meal and glass of wine or two". I have several repeat, profile views, but no one ever messages back. So here's where is at, do you forget and move on, or message again, at the risk of being blocked for being a pain??. Geeves
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RHP User
10 years ago
We've been here less than 6 months and are already jaded lol. Probably cos we don't even get drip fed haha. But to be honest, I find new members a breath of fresh air. You can only trawl though the same profiles so many times before it gets stalker-like.
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SacralChakra
10 years ago
They send messages like 'I just joined up! So excited but nervous at the same time. So do you want to hook up? I really want to try anal...' Do they wonder why they don't get a reply?
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its4u2
10 years ago
Well, we have put ourselves out there and organized our profile to put ourselves in the best position to attract other couples. We deliberately don't put cock n pussy pics on our public profile, but prefer to keep them for people we have had some contact with. We have had a number of positive recognitions and a few meetings, which to all indications are positive and we say we will meet again, then......NOTHING. We make sure we acknowledge them by sending a message soon after the meet saying how good it went, but in most cases have received NO reply... not even a thanks, but no thanks. This has been incredibly RUDE and INSENSITIVE. If we did something wrong, we wouldn't hear about it; if we did something right, we wouldn't hear either. We know they are out there and haven't just disappeared as we see they are online from time to time. We don't want to appear as DESPERATE or NEEDY or STALKERS, but when you get no response from what seemed a great first meeting, it makes you wonder. Have you ever had that experience?????
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RHP User
10 years ago
We would still consider ourselves newbies to this scene. (our first anniversary in this is NYE) In selecting other couples to meet, we felt (as newbies) that we would have a much better time if we only set our initial play dates with couples who had a reasonable amount of experience. Consequently, we have ended up with a long list of couples on our "maybe" list. We have steered somewhat clear of complete newbies as a result of where we are at not where they are at. Two complete newbie couples together have a far greater risk of the awkward "what do we do now" moments. A more experienced couple will better understand and be able to assist newbies to navigate this. That said, once we feel we have a reasonable amount of experience ourselves, we don't see us having any issue in getting together with newbie couples. In fact, as we really enjoy the meet and greet phase of this scene as well, we may turn out to be a very good choice for newbie couples.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would tend to agree OP, newbies are to be avoided, especially the guys (I must be having a bad month as I am doing a bit of man hating lately). Though its newbies to the swinging scene, not necessarily to RHP. That is not to say that its a blanket ban, it just means I will want to see a level of maturity, sexual confidence, and an open mind that many newbies lack. Nor am I interested in starting from scratch, I want to be challenged, not to be teaching. Some people are naturals, they may be new to the scene but they instinctively know how to have good sex, others may have been in the scene for decades and still don't have a clue. Of course independent of that, is that it has to click. In the end its not all about sex, if I bump into someone that can engage me mentally then it will not matter if they are a 40 year old virgin (if they exist) that only heard about swinging yesterday. I was a newbie and I know that if that me tried to hit on me, no thanks...
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RHP User
10 years ago
nuff said..
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RHP User
10 years ago
I joined because I was told it was a place to get a root. Have realised a bit about myself since joining and a root isn't what I'm after. Am now actually unsure of what I want from this. Have encountered some wonderfull people here and will stick around as I enjoy the intelligent thought out posts. I'm also entertained by the dribble that comes out of some. Mike x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You need to see a doctor Ralf. I sometimes message new people if something stands out in their profile or a post but general I let the ladies find me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' It's necessary for men to be knocked back a few times? I must say that I find the notion that men who just joined lack manners and/or need to be educated quite insulting. Also, if a man doesn't have social skills or is rude, I don't think a few knock backs are going to change his mindset. Sure, a newbie may not realise that sending a "hey" message won't do him many favours, but I would not want a man to change how he presents himself. Acting like something he isn't may cause problems for both him and potential lovers. Your choice of course, feel free to send them to me. p.s. Not sure where the hygiene comment fits in. Good on you for championing those whose voices are too quiet to be heard yet.I've been here 11 months and I certainly didn't bring any of those distasteful qualities listed in the OP with me.No wonder it felt like fighting an uphill battle here...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oh my favourite type of message. I always reply "oh fabo, I love anal. Are you an anal virgin because I do have a smaller strapon for beginners if you don't feel up to my 10" whopper. How wonderful. Please feel free to bring a mate and we can spit roast you. " Hope I don't scare any newbies with that! :P
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Length of time in here is no guarantee that someone 'gets it'. So many seem to repeat the same patterns which lead to topics asking for assistance to increase "success". And remember....... were all new once. And some people in RHP........ are new more regularly than that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hmm interesting comments, both for and against Newbies. What's interesting, is the ones against, as it's a bit like judging a book by its cover. And I do realise that as you all view the profile, that's all you see is the cover. Maybe I should take my profile to a professional résumé service and get them to write it lol. But at some stage I figure everyone was a newbie, wether to this site or this scene and we all start somewhere. So is polite persistence the key, is it my profile is it telling the wrong story. Because I am a very well mannered, and mature gent. I also truly understand the need for respect. So if a member keeps coming back to your profile, and you have already engaged them with a polite message, do you message again or move on. Geeeves.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
I'm still a newbie too but 6 months has hardened me up considerably (quite a few times actually) with what i've learnt. Luckily I'm further up the food chain than a normal single male and was inundated with offers from the word go which gave me the encouragement.I've seen new single guys starting out full of beans but they wouldn't get a root in a brothel with their profile. Sometimes they seem really nice and I've given them some continuing advice on their profile or their message skills or perhaps suggest being a member. And several weeks later after they send me a flirt from their guest profile, the skill required to post some sort of photo on their page has still evaded them and I'm still talking to a grey ghost. And they reply with "What are you up 2?" I know. Better than "What U up 2? Up for a F*%k?" But I treat everyone as an equal until I'm convinced otherwise. You never now who's behind the grey ghost.It could be a hot master or mistress with a collar with my name on it..........woof woof.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Oh my favourite type of message. I always reply "oh fabo, I love anal. Are you an anal virgin because I do have a smaller strapon for beginners if you don't feel up to my 10" whopper. How wonderful. Please feel free to bring a mate and we can spit roast you. " Hope I don't scare any newbies with that! :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
While I have plenty of work now, six years ago I got a specialised license for operating particular equipment. However, in all that time, I have not been able to use that license as so far, as every employer I've approached has required a minimum period of experience before they will take you on. Do you see the analogy here peoples?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Redundant word above, darn my spealing and grammaratical skills Also, regarding many comments about first messages: What do people actually prefer? Safe, non-threatening messages? A brief fantasy of what they would like to do to you? Cockiness? Humour? I usually go with safe and include mention of things in their profile (to show I've read it properly), as I'm sure women and couples have been bombarded with every (other) type of message a thousand times before. However without replies and feedback you can't make the necessary changes. It did change a photo on another site based on some feedback though. How do you tell if someone is a newbie if they don't actually mention it? By date joined? Whether or not they have any validations? Whether or not they appear in photos with others, in sexual or non-sexual encounters? By coming across too nice/safe/not knowing exactly what they want in their profile?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Been here less than a month, really only came here to have a look see & have fallen in love with the forums, so many diverse & interesting topics & not all are sexual, which really amazed me. Some have made me really think & others have made me roar laughing, so it has exceeded any expectations I might have had. So many varied opinions from people from all walks of life & it has certainly opened my eyes as to how many ways there are of looking at things....fascinating stuff & I'd like to thank all the contributors I'm still only a guest so it was a lovely surprise when I actually received a message from a beautiful lady who has an interest in my thoughts & experiences on the type of lifestyle I lead for many years.....What a lovely bonus that is So I guess I'm a male newbie without an air of entitlement who is not looking a an easy root yes lifes good
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RHP User
10 years ago
But the observation I've made in this forum is not only the men that invest but people have invested more into their experience on here than they'd probably admit... On one one hand women newbies can be disappointed with the quality of men....surely this site has got to be different right?? Men on the other are disappointed by the lack of replies and this seemingly "fight to prove one is better than the average." But... If we were all to remove the idea that success is getting laid every night of the week, or meeting their soul mate/s I'm sure that we would see a much different environment... No tension. No pressure - self imposed or not - to conform to some ideological perfect specimen. No disappointments. Lol probably a bit heavy for my normal style, and probably a bit ideological in itself....but I remember a quote being posted on here by I think a lady poster that was simply this:- "If at first you don't succeed....redefine success." - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love newbies too!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SacralChakra' They send messages like 'I just joined up! So excited but nervous at the same time. So do you want to hook up? I really want to try anal...' Do they wonder why they don't get a reply? So you should take the (very lovely by the way) ' rear view ' out of you profile, along with the 'receiving and giving anal' in your sexual preferences, don't you think ???? I wonder why you DON'T reply ..... why advertise if you don't want to attract the attention .. duh If you are offended by this oxymoron ... its because I've had a wine to many ... sorry
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Freddyawsum' Quoting 'SacralChakra' They send messages like 'I just joined up! So excited but nervous at the same time. So do you want to hook up? I really want to try anal...' Do they wonder why they don't get a reply? So you should take the (very lovely by the way) ' rear view ' out of you profile, along with the 'receiving and giving anal' in your sexual preferences, don't you think ???? I wonder why you DON'T reply ..... why advertise if you don't want to attract the attention .. duh If you are offended by this oxymoron ... its because I've had a wine to many ... sorry Dear Freddy, just because I like anal doesn't mean I necessarily want to bend you over and go to town on your arse. I know it can be a little confusing that women have sexy pictures and gosh even have a few kinks listed, but they still want a classy man. They still want to be treated with respect. I mean Freddy........ what ever happened to hello, I would like to introduce myself my name is.......... Just because women on RHP are adventurous and open doesn't mean they do not deserve the same niceties that would apply in every day life. Also messages like that just make me the think the guy is up to do anybody.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So what I have deduced so far from this topic is, a single guy it's gonna be a struggle. My profile has been viewed this morning by a couple looking for a single guy or couple etc. But there profile goes on to say. "Single guys are mostly cheating in there wives and or cannot satisfy there wife, so they are sexual desperado". Which could or couldn't be true depending on who you meet, but it's also very presumptuous. So what I have figured out is being sexually liberated also leads to elitism, and really as a single guy you're better taking you're chances in the real world. Which leads me back to my first post, which was about getting some constructive criticism or advice on how to move forward as a newbie. I do believe that without validations or friends newbies are going to be viewed and moved on, but it's the old chicken and the egg scenario. Anyways I'm neither cheating or desperate, but do know what I am into and I came here hoping to meet people. I also know that I am leaving myself open here, but hey us newbies have to learn somewhere.
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RHP User
10 years ago
…I'll be honest and say that after the few months it took me too understand the site and..more importantly..find my "standard", that is the point at which I'm physically and intellectually attracted to a womans profile, the messaging and getting replies became much, much harder. What did that teach me?To put it crudely…I realised in only the first few weeks here that if I aimed low then meeting someone was quite easy.So when I aimed a little higher the responses were much less forthcoming. Not surprising really, it's just like real life.Except..to use an analogy..in real life you can judge a book by more than just its cover page and a few illustrations. And I'm referring to myself here as well. Anyway, after pulling back my efforts I've found a niche I'm content with around the forums. If anything more comes my way then it's a bonus. The annual subscription is not that much.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its like any business. If you want to do the cold calling thing, emailing profiles that is, sure you will get some response but what is the ratio? 1 response in 50? You are trying to tap into a saturated market, so how are you going to stand out? So what is the best way of getting your brand known. Let me tell you Mr Geeeves, WOM. That is word of mouth. And how do you do that I hear you ask? Go to Meet and Greet nights, go to other events. Not only will you get to meet like minded sexy people, you get to meet them on mass which is very time effective. And don't be fooled by the fact that this site is supposedly anonymous....... lots of us women know each other. I have met women from WA, QLD, VIC, and TAS and we all email and talk. So, if some women have met you at a meet and greet social night (next one in Brisbane on 29th) and they think you are a really nice guy, handsome, etc. Well the word will get around that you are a good sort. You have been vouched for. Also, contributing a lot to the forums also gets you know so that when you message women they already recognise your user name. Just my thoughts anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
A couple of times I have received a great message from a "newbie". Respectful, referring to my profile, all the things I prefer in an initial message. 2-3 months later I have received another message from the same person and it's basically been a "wanna fuck?" message. I did ask one person why they had changed their style of messaging so drastically and he said the old way never worked so now he was trying it this way, still with no luck. Hmmmm.........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' It's necessary for men to be knocked back a few times? I must say that I find the notion that men who just joined lack manners and/or need to be educated quite insulting. Also, if a man doesn't have social skills or is rude, I don't think a few knock backs are going to change his mindset. Sure, a newbie may not realise that sending a "hey" message won't do him many favours, but I would not want a man to change how he presents himself. Acting like something he isn't may cause problems for both him and potential lovers. Your choice of course, feel free to send them to me. p.s. Not sure where the hygiene comment fits in. Baffled as to why you would find this topic insulting. I clearly doesn't have a sweeping general reference to ALL men or newbies but is directed at those who have poor social skills and have an air of entitlement. Yes you are right in saying, "if a man doesn't have social skills or is rude, I don't think a few knock backs are going to change his mindset." The difference is those that they don't display bad social skills in their everyday lives but do here. Perhaps I wasnt very clear when posting this topic. It is always the few bad individuals that spoil it for the rest who are genuinely nice people. The topic isn't about receiving "hey" messages but you messaging or meeting newbies. Again to clarify ... when I wrote the topic ... I had in mind the ones I have met in person who display a sense of entitlement, for example, without invitation go in for a grope, and are shocked at getting a rebuke. Again they wouldn't act like that usually but because I was from a site like RHP they automatically showed lack respect. Let me stress again .... this topic was written from my own experiences ... it is NOT directed at ALL newbies. After a couple of unpleasant experiences, I admit it has clouded my judgement on meeting newbies and prefer experienced people from the site. My screening process now tends to rarely include newbies. ps. the hygiene comment fits in with the general reference to not taking the time to make an impression because they think don't need to and just by turning up to a meet they will get them an easy root. LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meeka. Cheers for your thoughts and advice, and that is why I followed this post initially to get chatting. Totally agree it's all about marketing and getting out and about meeting people, but also in today's liberal society it's also about time. Not so long ago, internet "dating" came with a stigma for the sad and lonely but nowadays that isn't the case thank god. As time is precious and we use these sites to break the ice, instead of 5 large vodkas and an sometimes good or bad one night stand. And this is where the puzzle lies for me, if I was to repeatedly visit a person profiles, I would feel obliged to send a message, even if it's just a compliment, I believe that's polite. So I have sent a polite message to repeat viewers, only to get no response but another few views. Another comment you made earlier, "it would give me the impression you'd root anyone", not you obviously. And another comment made by a gent in this topic, "if I aim low, I have a better chance"! In my eyes this isn't what I'm here for, a quick shag here and there. But anyways, I'll will take your advice Meeka, but unfortunately I won't be able to make Brisbane, as I will be away working, dreaming of a chance encounter.
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RHP User
10 years ago
hi sexy I just seen your newbie msg thought I would make you feel good xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dear Freddy, just because I like anal doesn't mean I necessarily want to bend you over and go to town on your arse. I know it can be a little confusing that women have sexy pictures and gosh even have a few kinks listed, but they still want a classy man. They still want to be treated with respect. I mean Freddy........ what ever happened to hello, I would like to introduce myself my name is.......... Just because women on RHP are adventurous and open doesn't mean they do not deserve the same niceties that would apply in every day life. Also messages like that just make me the think the guy is up to do anybody. ...... However the question was asked about newbies, who don't know how you all think, and enter RHP sex site all excited and full of anticipation. Just as in real life, there are people with manners and without, of both genders, who are not mind readers in an imperfect communication system where lots of assumptions are made .... Some of the better written profiles do go some way to addressing this issue. It is a learning curve as someone has said, and when men become polite, the girl might then think, "oh, you are too nice, I like a bad boy " Perhaps many have prejudgements already and "damned if you do, damned if you don't " prevails depending which way the wind is blowing ..... just saying Frustrations exist on both sides. As an aside, and I havent been to pubs for years, but remember being in a crowded bar on a friday night, girls all tarted up, everyone excited ... more than a few guys just walking through the crowd asking nearly every girl "hi do you wanna fuck?" I was shocked, but understand that they are just working the odds, eventually some girl will say yes. Not my style, but why would RHP be much different.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Opening messages can be almost anything. The trick is not all in the content of the message. It is in trying to understand the the person at the other end. Its not all in the just the profile, there is more to a profile then just the front end, when and how often someone is online gives you information, how they react when you click their profile. Its not enough to just see who they are friends with but you need to investigate them as well. Of course there is no substitute for experience and if a newbie does not understand that all things require effort and time to learn then they are defeated, and linger in the hell of perceptual newbieisum. To continue the metaphor.I like being a hunter, a hunter does not lay in a tree spitting at passers by in the hope that you will blind one so that they trip up for you to devour. A hunter hunts and only when everything is perfect do they pounce. I have an ego that struggles to fit inside me, but you can not support a hungry ego on bullshit and lies. To feed your ego you have to feed it with hard work, constantly learning, constantly improving, never content with what is, because I can do better, god dang ego is never satisfied. Newbies open to chapter one. Game theory.Its like some far out amusement park side ally skill tester. The prize wall is covered in delectable prizes but you have to hit the target to win, some targets are easy some are almost impossible to see, they flicker on and off, every pellet shot close a target. You have two options, option one, the stubby smooth bore machine gun that just sprays out a stream of pellets, or the high precision scoped riffled pellet gun. The newbie given the option naturally reaches for the machine gun, how can you miss you are almost guaranteed a prize, but there in lies the error. The prize you get is random, and every pellet you shot causes a target to disappear. Before you know it all the targets are closed. You have some prizes and you could be lucky and got what you wanted, but the odds are slim. The prudent thing to do is pick up the riffle, sure your aim sucks. The guy with machine gun has his hands full and you have only manage 10 shots to his 100 and you have not hit a thing, but with every carefully considered shot you get better. By the time you get to 100 shots you have a good aim 1 in 5. The other guy has exhausted all the targets, every now and then a prize target opens up, but no amount of skill will help, easy to hit one target in a thousand with a machine gun, you play the odds, its impossible to hit one target out of one with that same gun. The odds are related to skill and the number of prize, never the number of pellets to the number of prizes. Pellets define only how often it is possible to win and thus are should considered as priceless. By the time the sharp shooter reaches his true potencial, he is confident enough to start doing trick shots, there is an unending supply of targets. It is like shooting fish in a barrel and you have a bucket full of pellets. Back to the message. With skill the message content is crafted, but that does not define the content. You can open with "I think you are in need of a good fuck!" to a 2000 word easy on the joys of child birth and why you love being a man. They have equal odds (low) of getting a response, but with a good aim, its as good as a certainty.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
LMAO. Another gem of a post. You nailed it again or rather shot the guts out of it. Love your work!
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6exxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Freddyawsum' Quoting 'SacralChakra' They send messages like 'I just joined up! So excited but nervous at the same time. So do you want to hook up? I really want to try anal...' Do they wonder why they don't get a reply? So you should take the (very lovely by the way) ' rear view ' out of you profile, along with the 'receiving and giving anal' in your sexual preferences, don't you think ???? I wonder why you DON'T reply ..... why advertise if you don't want to attract the attention .. duh If you are offended by this oxymoron ... its because I've had a wine to many ... sorry Dear Freddy, just because I like anal doesn't mean I necessarily want to bend you over and go to town on your arse. I know it can be a little confusing that women have sexy pictures and gosh even have a few kinks listed, but they still want a classy man. They still want to be treated with respect. I mean Freddy........ what ever happened to hello, I would like to introduce myself my name is.......... Just because women on RHP are adventurous and open doesn't mean they do not deserve the same niceties that would apply in every day life. Also messages like that just make me the think the guy is up to do anybody. Here then becomes the next problem and we have seen this posted in the forum....."You need to write something that stands out? A simple hello, how are you doing doesn't cut it." Many women here have written that. I totally agree on what you are saying about approaching with respect but that doesn't work either by the ladies account. That does not mean that all women do that, but that comment has been made several times on the forums. The thing about Sacral's profile, I know this because I have read her profile, is that she is looking for someone to have a connection with not NSA. So I support her on this one
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6exxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' Opening messages can be almost anything. The trick is not all in the content of the message. It is in trying to understand the the person at the other end. Its not all in the just the profile, there is more to a profile then just the front end, when and how often someone is online gives you information, how they react when you click their profile. Its not enough to just see who they are friends with but you need to investigate them as well. Of course there is no substitute for experience and if a newbie does not understand that all things require effort and time to learn then they are defeated, and linger in the hell of perceptual newbieisum. To continue the metaphor.I like being a hunter, a hunter does not lay in a tree spitting at passers by in the hope that you will blind one so that they trip up for you to devour. A hunter hunts and only when everything is perfect do they pounce. I have an ego that struggles to fit inside me, but you can not support a hungry ego on bullshit and lies. To feed your ego you have to feed it with hard work, constantly learning, constantly improving, never content with what is, because I can do better, god dang ego is never satisfied. Newbies open to chapter one. Game theory.Its like some far out amusement park side ally skill tester. The prize wall is covered in delectable prizes but you have to hit the target to win, some targets are easy some are almost impossible to see, they flicker on and off, every pellet shot close a target. You have two options, option one, the stubby smooth bore machine gun that just sprays out a stream of pellets, or the high precision scoped riffled pellet gun. The newbie given the option naturally reaches for the machine gun, how can you miss you are almost guaranteed a prize, but there in lies the error. The prize you get is random, and every pellet you shot causes a target to disappear. Before you know it all the targets are closed. You have some prizes and you could be lucky and got what you wanted, but the odds are slim. The prudent thing to do is pick up the riffle, sure your aim sucks. The guy with machine gun has his hands full and you have only manage 10 shots to his 100 and you have not hit a thing, but with every carefully considered shot you get better. By the time you get to 100 shots you have a good aim 1 in 5. The other guy has exhausted all the targets, every now and then a prize target opens up, but no amount of skill will help, easy to hit one target in a thousand with a machine gun, you play the odds, its impossible to hit one target out of one with that same gun. The odds are related to skill and the number of prize, never the number of pellets to the number of prizes. Pellets define only how often it is possible to win and thus are should considered as priceless. By the time the sharp shooter reaches his true potencial, he is confident enough to start doing trick shots, there is an unending supply of targets. It is like shooting fish in a barrel and you have a bucket full of pellets. Back to the message. With skill the message content is crafted, but that does not define the content. You can open with "I think you are in need of a good fuck!" to a 2000 word easy on the joys of child birth and why you love being a man. They have equal odds (low) of getting a response, but with a good aim, its as good as a certainty. ROFLMFAO!!!!!!!!!!
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6exxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' It's necessary for men to be knocked back a few times? I must say that I find the notion that men who just joined lack manners and/or need to be educated quite insulting. Also, if a man doesn't have social skills or is rude, I don't think a few knock backs are going to change his mindset. Sure, a newbie may not realise that sending a "hey" message won't do him many favours, but I would not want a man to change how he presents himself. Acting like something he isn't may cause problems for both him and potential lovers. Your choice of course, feel free to send them to me. p.s. Not sure where the hygiene comment fits in. Thank you for being true to Meeka100 words. While it is not at all men it would be nice to give these guys some direction. Do they deserve it? Probably because it could have been handled better. My thing is do we have to conflict? We do have some choices and it is also why if a lady choices not to reply, that is saying something as well.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your comments "crack" my up !!! The comments on these RHP Forums are so much better than the comments on Beauty Site Forums. No wonder I'm spending most of my time here !!! Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've learned my lesson "Don't judge a book by its cover" so I do not agree with the OP here. I'm more inclined to agree with Meander on this. Everybody starts out as a "newbie" on RHP; there is no choice !!! I base my decisions on what a man is like, via their Profile and "messages". Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting '6exxy' Quoting 'Meander' It's necessary for men to be knocked back a few times? Thank you for being true to Meeka100 words. I don't understand. True to Meeka's words?
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RHP User
10 years ago
the 3rd "e" in Geeeves. How many people use 3 of these in their name ? So sue me !!! All Smiles Amy
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6exxy
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting '6exxy' Quoting 'Meander' It's necessary for men to be knocked back a few times? Thank you for being true to Meeka100 words. I don't understand. True to Meeka's words? Meeka100 wrote to me saying that the two of you usually support single men post here on the forums. This is the first post that I have seen this and I simply thanked you for balancing the issue. I simply ask for balance and honesty in post. I understand that there are some issues but we can handle them better for more positive outcomes. If we don't are we perpetuating the same issue? Balance and Honesty unfortunately in this sugar coated world the truth feels blunt to some people.
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