RHP

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Newcastle beginnings for a bbw

April 29 2013

So I was wondering what's the best way to start playing if you are self conscious about your size Are there any full figure friendly places or groups to play in Newcastle. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Then you don't care what anyone says and you let it all hang out. If I was you I would make friends with a man or woman who is interested in checking the scene out and go and have a look. Don't go to play, just go to a few different places and see what they are about. Maybe even go twice and hopefully you will find a place or group that you feel comfortable in. Just remember that it all depends on the night, different nights of the week can bring different types of people, etc. So don't make snap judgements... well only if the place is really awful.Lots of people do this. I have gone to clubs and parties where new people are there just to observe. There is absolutely nothing wrong with this. If you go to a place you do not need to get naked, you do not have to play, you can just watch. Well, unless its a nude night or they have a strict nude policy which occasionally they will have.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What I have found with any of the parties/groups I have belonged to or attended is that there is zero judgement. They are so accepting of everyone and it's incredibly liberating.I have been to many places where there are people 150kg plus and loads of women 100kg plus....and they are all sexy because they just shake their thang and get their groove on.....it's awesome!The only person that will judge you....is you. In Newcastle there is Biology, which is once per month (see the Events page) and also Lifestyle Connexions on the Central Coast (also on the Events page)If you open a browser and search Swingers Heaven, you will also find groups and parties around Newcastle...There are also some daytime local groups too.If you find somewhere you would like to go and need someone to hold your hand.....send me a message or flirt

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Do not sit on the edge, dabbling a timid toe in the waters of online dating.... Dive right in! Each and every woman has body image issues....it is part of our genetic makeup I am sure. After a few play dates you will begin yo realise that the majority of men really donut see you as you perceive yourself to be anyway!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I wouldn't have seen you as full figured.....I call it healthy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The great maker of us all only made a few good bodies the rest he made skiny - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Wow thanks guys. Very supportive. I m going to have a look around at your advice. The only place I've really been was the old lotus lounge and well I wasn't built like the women I saw there. And to be brutally honest I haven't had a new male partner since I was 19 so it's all a bit scary lol- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Beauty is more than just a visual thing, real beauty comes from inside. Its about your spirit and character, the sparkle in your eye, the smile on your lips and how you treat other people. Some of the "beautiful" people really are just empty and ugly.So be yourself and love yourself, others will be sure to follow.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Just have a ways to go yet I guess. Lol I am getting there and you are all lovely- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You could hold my hand miss poppins and lead me to such a place

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Lots of us men appreciate a curvy woman and will treat you with the respect and care that everyone deserves. There are some parties in Newcastle that you can join or maybe just wait for a few nice men to treat you right.