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No Cum, No Fun??

April 01 2016

Ladies... if your partner was inside you and he: 1) did not ejaculate when he came, and... 2) stayed hard, and... 3) came multiple times over the course of your lovemaking, without ever ejaculating Would that be fun for you? Would you be upset because he didn't "cum properly" ?? Or do you think you would enjoy the fact that he can cum and stay hard many times (and presumably, if he knows what he is doing you can cum multiple times, over and over, again...)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    He I enjoying himself and we are both having a great time I don't see the issue. Although I would be a little disappointed if I didn't get a taste 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I wouldn't feel like I'd missed out because he is obviously enjoying himself. His multiples would give me multiples... so both would be happy. To me it means he is very in tune with his own body, has complete control and is somewhat tantric (or tantalising) ... how sexy is that. LG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I always feel a bit like i haven't fully done my job properly but as long as he is happy with it its all good

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Wouldn't bother me provided he was enjoying himself too - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Whether she likes to have multiple O's... I have found some women who like to "rest" (and won't push through the sensitive period, in an effort to have multiples) often feel overwhelmed and don't like it... But those women who are adept at multiples are more likely to buckle down and enjoy it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    difficult question to answer if I'm to be honest. In theory, this shouldn't affect the encounter, if he's getting me off and though not going to completion, getting off himself, then it shouldn't matter. But I do like to satisfy orally and watching and feeling his responses, gets me off, turns me on so much, I can't even put it into words. That's what I think about when I masturbate. I had a long term buddie who didn't always cum, but always took me to heaven lol and loved what I did to him. Last time, I got him there after he pleasured me and had me squirting, I went to town on him lol after, he smiled and said, it was the third time that day puffed my chest out a bit, pretty pleased with myself, but one does wonder whether too much self pleasure with men, can reduce the ability to cum again save some for us guys

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Faked orgasms. Medicated? Substance?

  • Katkat

    Katkat

    9 years ago

    Yes please I do like a man that lasts long in bed, of course I like to go for a long distance 😊👌 But in saying that he has to make me cum first b4 he does & f... Me for hours 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • uneventful

    uneventful

    9 years ago

    Ejaculate .. to have an orgasm - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LittleGiant

    LittleGiant

    9 years ago

    It would be fun as long as he was having fun. And hey, at least it would make clean up easy!

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Because you fail to cum, you have learnt to manufacture this story. Makes the woman feel better........

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    9 years ago

    If he cums or not. Its about meeeee. Isn't it? 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Whilst this is 'theoretically' possible...reaching an orgasm without ejaculation is more common in adolescent men than in adults. It's often diagnosed as a medical condition that can have significant repercussions if not treated. Not ejaculating during orgasm can be a sign of a health problem known as retrogradeejaculation. This medical condition is where fluids flow backward into the bladder and not out the urethral opening. This can be detected by cloudy urine after ejaculation. This condition is most common in men with diabetes or those who have had prostate surgery. Also please keep in mind that not ejaculating during intercourse is not a form of birth control. Whilst it's a nice idea, so are a balanced Federal Budget and lower taxes. This post sounds a bit 'political' and might be a great board in the platform of someone trying to get elected as 'Stud of the Year'. Just sayin'...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    There is so much info and videos on the net on how to achieve Dry Orgasm, Delayed Orgasm, Tantric Male Orgasm, etc. Here's one to search: How to Have Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms: a Step by Step Guide by Nat Eliason I have had lovers who have been practiced these techniques and it has been mind blowing for them and me. What I love about sex is there is always something to learn if we keep an open mind. LG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Summer you say this guy came but didn't ejaculate, what's the difference? Forgive my possible ignorance, but is cumming just a little bit and ejaculating squirting it out? I was confused with the way the op worded this, and continue to be, can anyone enlighten me?

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    9 years ago

    April something... ET xox

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    9 years ago

    There is a difference between ejaculation, and orgasm.... just as there is a difference between squirting, and orgasm for women. Thats kind of why I prefer to use the word "climax".It defines the physical sensation without linking or limiting itself to a visual one. I have seen women experience climax without physical stimulation. Clearly she would say she enjoyed orgasm, but did she really? All that matters to her is that she did, in the way she recognises her own orgasm. Its the same for men.... and they may, or may not ejaculate. However, the other question razed relates to (and I'll phrase this to make a point)... the money shot. Im wondering.... if it even really matters?!!! Obviously, there may be additional lubrication for those not using condoms...... but as the vast majority of us are using condoms, then within the context of what the OP asked.... the question is most likely irrelevant. IE... he climaxes inside of her, so whether he ejaculates or not is of less consequence to her than if he physically expressed his enjoyment of that physical sensation with her. She key feel him pulse on climax... but she won't see or feel him ejaculate, or not... anyway.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    I Never disputed the dry orgasm. Many a guy had dry orgasm. Myself included. OP has indicated he never wet ejaculates.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Some of my most enjoyable sexual experiences ever have involved a series of orgasms, both wet and dry. Thank the lord that womens' are always wet though! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It is interesting to see how we can turn anything into a Rohrschach, isn't it? Some of us Google & Paste... Others reminisce and taste flashbacks from days gone by... Still others cry foul and some turn philosophical... I learned how to do this at a young age, when I found my Mother's sex manuals... So, it *is* possible, and yes, it is called "retrograde orgasm" It is also: + not messy+ not a form of birth control...lol+ clear where the sperm goes when you piss it out later...lol+ not something every woman wants to experience or see... I ^think^ in most cases women don't like it because they: = feel like the guy isn't "really cumming" and it seems disappointing...OR= don't like sex to keep going, want a clear end point ("stop humping me, Homer!!") I am just glad to see the different opinions on here, and hoping to uncover a clear differentiator

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    A difference between squirting and orgasm? Can be, most times not, I orgasm over and over when squirting, it's amazing. On the very rare occasion I squirt and have little sensation, it's because I'm not into the guy, he hasn't worked me up enough, not enough other pleasure prior, but most times, I'm going into orgasm. Big difference though between this and gushing or not getting done over properly, it's a developed skill (for both the woman and her partner), I've been in both places and well know the difference. But I won't open that can of worms any further. What are your thoughts on that? Have you been with a full on squirter who does orgasm properly with it? Not many men have in my experience so not meaning to belittle you at all, just there are opinions from men and women about it, but without the knowledge/experience to back it up. Can I also point out that in my view, it makes sense that men can orgasm without cumming, because women can. I know that for a fact. My solo orgasms, external play, with limted internal teasing of the gspot, eventually going at the clit, will send a chemical type reaction swirling around in my abdomen which rushes up through my body up to my brain, absolutely incredible, I've said before it's the holy grail for me. But interestingly, as I discovered through practice, if I squirt during the process or right before the clit orgasm, it then dulls the other orgasm, so I have to stop myself from squirting to achieve the other one. Mind control, or releasing/relaxing any thoughts or brain activity lol I don't know how to explain it, letting my eyes roll around in my head, head moving side to side, not allowing any other thoughts, very hard to do. But the point is, I can do this when I have a period, completely externally and with no ejaculate at all. So it makes sense to me that the op has posted a valid topic, I can't see why it wouldn't be the same for men. After I've orgasmed and the arousal has gone away, I then go to the toilet and what would have been ejaculate (in it's converted form), then turns back to wee and out it comes. Amazing what our bodies can do, but we should always be open to other people orgasming differently. It's not going to be the same for everyone. I'd like the opportunity to see more women orgasm, to see how it is for them, it fascinates me

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Its wether or not the physical bodily reaction of an orgasm will signal the cessation of bloodflow to the penis. In other words, soften up. Its easy to have a dry orgasm. By applying pressure to the tube in the groin as you orgasm will stop the pumping of semen from the testicles. Therefore, no ejaculation occurs. But every other function is the same. The feeling is the same. Just no mess.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Summer_solstice' And some of us copy and past from Word and post really big. Hooray, Summer... so there is a chance that at least one woman out there maybe just might think that bigger is not always better? Love your work!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Summer_solstice' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Summer you say this guy came but didn't ejaculate, what's the difference? Having an orgasm is not the same as ejaculating. (Think of all the women who can squirt without coming and come without squirting.) The two go usually hand in hand, but don't have to. Have you ever sneezed without sound, maybe by pinching your nose? It's totally doable. However the word "cumming" is now used for both ejaculating and having an orgasm, which is were the debate comes from I think. yes I wasn't questioning whether orgasm was the same as ejaculating but cumming is surely the word used or most associated with semen coming out? Doesn't really matter anyway I know, it's only how the individual wants to refer to it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    And I still made a typoQuoting 'Summer_solstice' Come again: Paste*, not past. Yes, you did...you misspelled 'cum'.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Didn't I tell you to keep talking?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Summer_solstice' For the record, Cruisin: I will never write cumming or cum, don't like either word. Coming will do fine. :-P Perfect, I detest the word 'squirting' to describe the complete female climax. Clams, oysters and an octopus will 'squirt' when they are in danger... a woman that has a complete climax will ejaculate. Semantics I suppose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Didn't I tell you to keep talking? cross threading there, put it down to lack of sleep

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Cruisin Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Didn't I tell you to keep talking? Whatever I've said on the 'Teasing' thread must have hit it's mark...I do aim to please and always take aim. Now then you, scurry back over there as I've added just a bit and made you and offer you shouldn't refuse! Seeeeee ya, lovely lady.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    The mind has a lot to do with what you can feel , for instance once a woman is climaxing she is in somnambulism an I can with just my voice direct her orgasm around her body to different areas , make it inrenser, when she is exhausted after climaxing so much relax her an keep her climaxing , make her feel different feeling with each climax getting stronger , control her squirting, in her mind see colors an rainbows the possibilities are endless , the mind of a woman is the key to the pleasure she can feel , to the piont of passing out , which the first time it happened to me I thought she had had a heart attack lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'MasterL' The mind has a lot to do with what you can feel , for instance once a woman is climaxing she is in somnambulism an I can with just my voice direct her orgasm around her body to different areas , make it inrenser, when she is exhausted after climaxing so much relax her an keep her climaxing , make her feel different feeling with each climax getting stronger , control her squirting, in her mind see colors an rainbows the possibilities are endless , the mind of a woman is the key to the pleasure she can feel , to the piont of passing out , which the first time it happened to me I thought she had had a heart attack lol - Posted from rhpmobile sorry, all due respect, but there's no way you could direct my orgasm around my body with your words, and rainbows?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My last partner before my hubby practiced the Zao and everything involved. We both stemmed his ejaculate. In that relationship, long term- yes, I did find it a bit unsatisfying. I also got a bit of a complex about guys coming in my mouth (another who is happier not to use the other lingo). I honestly became repelled by my partners ejaculate when I could get it (and I would beg for it). It became claggy and thick. I stopped loving a shot in my mouth for years after him. Inspecting it in my hand, poking it around, watching it change.. Ok, enough strange shit... I taught my hubby to do it when I met him and ocassionally one of us will hit the button. I'd also pull it out of the bag of tricks with a lover if I thought it would amuse them or they would get use out of it. With both the guys I've done it with it did mean that they could multiple orgasm, last forever, didn't get soft or lull at all. These are all magnificent things I DID LOVE. As for and end to things? I think there is a natural end when you've exhausted all your sexual desire in that session. There are some things that's are best for party tricks/ intermittent use. I couldn't date a one trick wonder. NOT saying you are OP (at all). I AM saying that I like unpredictability in sex and my Zaoist friend was *ahem* committed. If I knew it was always going to be long haul, extended sex with that person? Personally, I'd make a once a month, maximum* note in my head and move on. *mindblowing for a night. I do love to be played like a musical instrument and get lost in it all together. It is a fab trick. Xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Dimeshreds

    Dimeshreds

    9 years ago

    This is a Lock Ness Monster A man can't orgasm with out ejaculating unless there is a prostate/medical issue. Edging is the closest thing you could get to the real thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    oops lol lack of sleep

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    9 years ago

    1. Dimeshreds.... Nope. You're totally wrong. A man can. Even you...... masturbate to climax several times and see what happens. Beyond that, its possible to learn a different form opt climax without ejaculation. 1. I_touch.... from what you've said, it obviously hasn't happened to you...... but it absolutely is possible.And if you've ever climaxed in your sleep, you know that mentally constructed climax is 100% possible. Well done MasterL for investing in your knowledge.

  • joanne1991

    joanne1991

    9 years ago

    I know when a man is enjoying himself he doesn't need to ejaculate hobestly we all have times where sex is great without the orgasom. It doesn't bother me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Some of the most satisfying sex I've had involved no ejaculation, knowing my partner is enjoying the moment is by far the biggest turn on for me personally, ejaculation is a bonus, in recent years I've been able to stay hard after ejaculation and continue lovemaking something I didn't think was possible.

  • joanne1991

    joanne1991

    9 years ago

    Spelling is terrible apologies to all those who need perfect spelling, fat fingers and brain working faster

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' 1. Dimeshreds.... Nope. You're totally wrong. A man can. Even you...... masturbate to climax several times and see what happens. Beyond that, its possible to learn a different form opt climax without ejaculation. 1. I_touch.... from what you've said, it obviously hasn't happened to you...... but it absolutely is possible.And if you've ever climaxed in your sleep, you know that mentally constructed climax is 100% possible. Well done MasterL for investing in your knowledge. What hasn't happened to me? I have 3 types of orgasm, one doesn't involve squirting, all the brain and clit, what exactly are you talking about? Do you mean for men or women? Tell me what you mean by mentally constructed climax and how you know it's possible. And which post were you replying to, I'm confused, sorry. Your comment here seems defensive and lashing out but not with any foundation. Some clarity would be good

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I also asked the question, have you been with a full on squirter who does orgasm properly while it's happening? To which you didn't respond. Like I said, very few men have seen that response. If you're going to be making statements about your knowledge on the subject, fine, so long as that knowledge has some foundation from real life experience yes? In your last post, were you referring to my comment in reply to MasterL where he says 'I can with just my voice direct her orgasm around her body' ? I was clear in my comment that my opinion is that women can orgasm without ejaculating, and my view is that it's feasible the same should apply for men so aren't we on the same page there? Still curious what it is you think hasn't happened to me? But direct the orgasm once it starts with your voice? Not a hope, if that's what you meant, 100% not possible. Not unless you guys are orgasm whisperers or something

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    you refer to climax in your sleep, so a wet dream right? What does that have to do with controlling or directing the orgasm around the body? Just so you know, I don't orgasm like most women, but if you'd read my entire post, you would know that, but carry on, this is fascinating

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Oh yes I want to get into the no ejaculation orgasms, I recently enjoyed an all night affair and felt like I was cuming but nothing flowed this happened so many times I thought that I was just not getting there well now I know and she was a very happy lady still smiling I believe

  • Funfriendlyguy

    Funfriendlyguy

    9 years ago

    I find it hard to get a girl to make me cum. Im pretty sure its there job. i love foreplay and always get the ladies off well thats my job in the situation so i fulfill my side and love doing. I dont mind running a marathon but its like pulling up 5 metres before the line so i cant see the point in that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Someone once gave me a copy of "The Multi-Orgasmic Man," which I found interesting. I still have it; I'll have to find time to look at it again! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm into tantra but my wife isn't so we compromise in our sex life and it gives us great variety, no one trick ponies here ;) Anything is possible from delayed ejaculation and multiple orgasms for both of us in a long sensual session to surprising her with a quick fuck and hair pulling in the morning while she's asleep (prior consent of course). All the tantric techniques discussed in this thread are possible, even voice activated orgasms (words are powerful). But as they say, variety is the spice of life ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Longest_dream' My last partner before my hubby practiced the Zao and everything involved. We both stemmed his ejaculate. In that relationship, long term- yes, I did find it a bit unsatisfying. I also got a bit of a complex about guys coming in my mouth (another who is happier not to use the other lingo). I honestly became repelled by my partners ejaculate when I could get it (and I would beg for it). It became claggy and thick. I stopped loving a shot in my mouth for years after him. Inspecting it in my hand, poking it around, watching it change.. Ok, enough strange shit... I taught my hubby to do it when I met him and ocassionally one of us will hit the button. I'd also pull it out of the bag of tricks with a lover if I thought it would amuse them or they would get use out of it. With both the guys I've done it with it did mean that they could multiple orgasm, last forever, didn't get soft or lull at all. These are all magnificent things I DID LOVE. As for and end to things? I think there is a natural end when you've exhausted all your sexual desire in that session. There are some things that's are best for party tricks/ intermittent use. I couldn't date a one trick wonder. NOT saying you are OP (at all). I AM saying that I like unpredictability in sex and my Zaoist friend was *ahem* committed. If I knew it was always going to be long haul, extended sex with that person? Personally, I'd make a once a month, maximum* note in my head and move on. *mindblowing for a night. I do love to be played like a musical instrument and get lost in it all together. It is a fab trick. Xx - Posted from rhpmobile Thanks for sharing LongestDream, this is very helpful. I know not every woman will share your thoughts, but there are some that do think as you do.... This is what I was hoping for on this thread...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Funfriendlyguy' I find it hard to get a girl to make me cum. Im pretty sure its there job. i love foreplay and always get the ladies off well thats my job in the situation so i fulfill my side and love doing. I dont mind running a marathon but its like pulling up 5 metres before the line so i cant see the point in that. that's just cruel to leave a guy unsatisfied and the right women wouldn't WANT to stop. If it took me a week, I'd be a very happy girl lol love the journey, bloody love it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'allgoodfun42' I'm into tantra but my wife isn't so we compromise in our sex life and it gives us great variety, no one trick ponies here ;) Anything is possible from delayed ejaculation and multiple orgasms for both of us in a long sensual session to surprising her with a quick fuck and hair pulling in the morning while she's asleep (prior consent of course). All the tantric techniques discussed in this thread are possible, even voice activated orgasms (words are powerful). But as they say, variety is the spice of life ;) - Posted from rhpmobile all due respect but sorry, you wouldn't be talking yourself up here by any chance? In your comment you say ALL the tantric techniques discussed in this thread, including voice ACTIVATED (for the record, that's NOT how it was described, actually described as directing the orgasm around the body with the voice) are achievable. Achievable is a leading word really, doesn't mean you have actually achieved and a pretty bold statement to say ALL of this can happen. How do you know this? So you've actually achieved all of the techniques as you refer to them, wow, that's impressive. Interesting how you give specifics on some acts, but not others. But tell me this, if you're so amazing you can direct an orgasm around the body, and this part fascinates me, where do you tell the orgasm to go? Do you sort of mix it up so your wife doesn't get bored, command the orgasm to stop at her belly button one day, her neck the next day that kind of thing, just wondered Not achievable mate, when that chemical explosion goes off and shoots up to my brain, you or no other man/woman/object or creature or any other factor for that matter, could have any control over it. But then women, many women, fake orgasm so I'm wondering whether some men get told what they want to hear

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Not talking myself up at all as I only commented as it's a topic of interest to me, I'm secure in myself and don't feel the need to strut about like a peacock ;) I never mentioned moving an orgasm around the body, that was someone else so I'll just ignore your piss-taking and sarcasm like a grown up. I did mention voice activated and yes I have experienced that giving and receiving but it's not something that would happen unless you know your partner well in my experience. Yes I'm multi-orgasmic, rode the wave for about 5 hours once without ejaculating. Can ejaculate without orgasm too but that's not as much fun :( Why does that mean I'm "talking myself up" but if a woman says she can squirt and orgasm for hours "that's awesome" and no-one ever questions it? I have never been with a squirter but I don't dismiss it as fantasy because I have not experienced it personally. I'm curious though as to why you are having such a strong reaction to people talking about things they have experienced that you have not??? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    so long as everyone has fun it doesnt....unless you are 'result oriented'

  • Oh_No_I_viewed_U

    Oh_No_I_viewed_U

    9 years ago

    When a guys has Prostate Cancer, there is a procedure where they 'seed' the prostate with a radioactive 'thing' (not sure if it is solid or liquid) which kills the cancer and the prostate. The person can sill get an erection and sensation but there is no ejaculation.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'allgoodfun42' Not talking myself up at all as I only commented as it's a topic of interest to me, I'm secure in myself and don't feel the need to strut about like a peacock ;) I never mentioned moving an orgasm around the body, that was someone else so I'll just ignore your piss-taking and sarcasm like a grown up. I did mention voice activated and yes I have experienced that giving and receiving but it's not something that would happen unless you know your partner well in my experience. Yes I'm multi-orgasmic, rode the wave for about 5 hours once without ejaculating. Can ejaculate without orgasm too but that's not as much fun :( Why does that mean I'm "talking myself up" but if a woman says she can squirt and orgasm for hours "that's awesome" and no-one ever questions it? I have never been with a squirter but I don't dismiss it as fantasy because I have not experienced it personally. I'm curious though as to why you are having such a strong reaction to people talking about things they have experienced that you have not??? - Posted from rhpmobile My strong reaction to what exactly? What have I had a strong reaction to and why do you think that is? A strong reaction to a guy saying he can 'direct an orgasm around the woman's body' and you supporting that by saying it's all possible? I'll continue to have a strong reaction to that, because this is a public forum and I call bs when I see it, rather than have people out in the world believe this pile of poo. Although you weren't the author of that p of p your story and this last post still gives no specifics about how you 'voice activate' your orgasms. Tell us more about that. I saw it and I called it, what can I say? I'm just a caring sharing person ps. if you want to learn about squirting or how to give that extreme pleasure to a woman, you can do it, and take her to new heights, find a couple to demonstrate for you. It's not fantasy, it's reality. But you don't want to know do you? That's what shits me, typical older dude happy whispering

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I mean Tao! I obviously never studied myself, just picked up a few life lessons on the way. ...when things aren't pronounced as they are written little dreamy over here can get a tad confused. 😅 Ta Op xx 😋 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I understand what you are talking about in your post. I don't believe you're big upping yourself or any such. These kind of teachings and awarenesses are not generally easy to learn or open the mind to. Mental resistance is strong. They also really don't improve our sexual function that much or turn us into orgasm giving machines. It does mean at one time or another we took the time to be open and learn about something new and Foreign and enjoyed the journey. Without looking at your profile I'm assuming you are not offering to teach or promising full body extended orgasms with yourself every time. **totally plausible, possible, do it all the time- for the doubters of All good fun, you would really have to read about it to understand what this about, might not be what you think. *** You, all good fun as I see it, are just commenting your useful thoughts on the question the OP set. What did you do to deserve a tirade about something personal to you? Apparently it's a public forum... Don't take it to heart. 😔 L_D xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'AllWorkNeedsPlay' Someone once gave me a copy of "The Multi-Orgasmic Man," which I found interesting. I still have it; I'll have to find time to look at it again! - Posted from rhpmobile I learned it when I stumbled upon my Mother's sex manuals... it was "Any Man Can"...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Can one of you amazing women do that for my man?! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'allnightfuck' Can one of you amazing women do that for my man?! - Posted from rhpmobile Do what for your man? Teach him retrograde orgasms??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Grab a book on it and teach yourself. You're far more likely to have success learning while just masterbating. On another point: The other orgasms I was referring to are Extended Massive Orgasms, or EMO's. There's a book by the name or close by some free loving couple. I read it when I was about 18. It helped me appreciate sex for the beautiful journey it is, and stop focusing on a final typical orgasm. L_D - Posted from rhpmobile

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    8 years ago

    However it was not an issue but after 2 hours of sexshe took control and gave oral and did not stop till I did.Then sucked more so I stayed hard and we went at it again aftera smoke and some water .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    i never worry too much about myself in that regard. as long as she is enjoying the feel of it inside her and its staying the desired size to do whats required. if it happens it happens (if she wants it to ofcourse) else save it for later for manual/oral play to release. but yes, as someone pointed out, psychological blocks, or even desensitisation, but also the "just right" position can also have a lot to do with it. but at the end of the day, as long as each other is satisfied with their own enjoyment, then one shouldnt worry about what didnt