M39
No Luck Meet People
January 06 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
1. Profile....dude...it's shit. I know this may not make ya feel better, but ya gotta hear the truth. It shows no personality...rewrite it using your thoughts....your humour etc. 2. When a guy gets told he is "too nice" then that says to me that you need to get some mongrel into you....I was there once, always dropping my plans or at least making time time to please those I was interested in....that's gotta stop....cos you're giving into them wayyyyyy too easily and you end up being what I call "a butler." 3. Perception.....a magician is a good example here...how do magicians really do their magic?? By making you believe they're doing something that they're actually not...misdirection....if someone says that they're meeting heaps, are they really?? Or are they just telling you that??? The best way to MEET people (note: meet does not mean to fuck), is to get along to the meet and greets. 4. Believe in who you are....there's no point letting someone else tell you who you are, because you never know what their motivations are....therefore you're giving credibility to someone that may just be jealous of you.... Good luck buddy.....be the man, be you, and go forth and get fucked...so to speak lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
You need to read the advice here about building profiles,hopefully Summer Solstice will pop along to give you the link ..As Stirry says.your profile is crap..xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
not into 20 questions either so, as Stirry says, put some of your personality into that profile as template style answers just make me click off.
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RHP User
9 years ago
from my point of view 1. Your profile states you are bi-Curious. Nothing wrong with that but not my cup of tea 2. Your profile states you only use protection when required - again nothing wrong with that but it is a massive red flag for me 3. There is very little text about you - this is hastily put together profile where the user was not even bothered to change any of the template texts - this usually tells me to move on However, you have a lot of lovely photos up which is a good point. I am sure there is a lady who would consider you for a friendly drink or chat at least. best of luck
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Agree the written profile needs to be redone. But Stirry. Get some mongrel? You can be too nice? Lol. We are not in the Bandidos..... Sydnobarbie. Flagging someone because he's bi curious? Perfect for driving people underground with their honest appraisal of themselves. Enough guys around with straight listed when they are clearly not. You have probably dated a guy/s who have been active with guys just you dont know it. Annie
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RHP User
9 years ago
but that doesn't mean you're not respectful..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Agree the written profile needs to be redone. But Stirry. Get some mongrel? You can be too nice? Lol. We are not in the Bandidos..... Sydnobarbie. Flagging someone because he's bi curious? Perfect for driving people underground with their honest appraisal of themselves. Enough guys around with straight listed when they are clearly not. You have probably dated a guy/s who have been active with guys just you dont know it. Annie no I am not flagging him..I stated there is nothing with it - it is just not my cup of tea... As I have the right to say I don't like men with green eyes I have the right to say "I am not into someone who is bi-curious" Nothing wrong with - I am sure it is attractive to many - but I am not one of them
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RHP User
9 years ago
As above, your photos are great. Your words are not. They're template written, and everyone knows that. Says nothing about you. Be yourself in your profile. Your posts show you can be articulate and communicate well. If you are a nice guy, then let that come across in your profile. There is nothing wrong with being a nice guy! Importantly: Keep in mind there are probably 10to1 men to women in here, probably more so in the age group you're looking for; so don't be discouraged by the lack of action. Best of luck
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Seachange
9 years ago
Valid points above. You got great pics. Great smile and you look like fun. Yep, crap profile, get a move on it, show personality and send funny short messages to your intended audience, and WHAM! Report to HQ for status and progress..
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Back into my kennel......
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RHP User
9 years ago
Wont make much difference what you put on here. The male to female ratio is alot. You could have the best profile on here. And you would go from one message a month to two. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' Back into my kennel...... no need..I got where you were coming from Annie - no hard feelings on my side. I am just sooooooooooooooooo boring that I prefer men who are straight as a ruler...That is a sign of how BOOOORING I am :) It does not mean that I think they should not declare their bi-interest - go for it! But when I am making a decision I say "no thanks" for bi men..cos that is not my cup of tea..and if one is wondering why no dates yet--may be it is that the majority of the women looking at the profile had the same preference. It does not mean there are no ladies out there who will favour a man with bi-interest - it just says that lady will be harder to find. More time and patience required :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Mark dude... mate... a few years and no luck??? shit man.. that sucks! I can tell you now it's got nothing to do with your profile and everything to do with you not understanding that women are just people, you know, people like your mates. You don't put on an act when you are with your mates, you don't "pretend" to be nice. You show respect but you don't treat them like royalty, you don't hang on being everything they ever wanted. You have a good time, you are buffoon from time to time, tell stupid lame jokes and embarrass yourself, basically you are being your relaxed comfortable self. So next time you get a message or response from a woman you are interested in, forget she is a woman, forget you are desperate to get some, think of her as a person you can say whatever you want to. Think of her as a new friend to share some laughs with. It dose not mater if it turns out you are not her cup of tea, at least you got some more human interaction, some more experience communicating and being YOURSELF. Desperation stinks, and you have it hanging all over you. Relax and enjoy the game because nobody will be interested while you continue desperately being nice...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes I agree with the bi curious comment, SYDnobarbie not slamming you for the comment, but it's a preference thing, as is age, body type, etc etc I look for bi or bi curious now and only commenting here to put that message out to encourage men to be open about their sexuality, not having a go at you 👍😁
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Seachange
9 years ago
Quoting 'SYDnobarbie' Quoting 'Whateverway' Back into my kennel...... no need..I got where you were coming from Annie - no hard feelings on my side. I am just sooooooooooooooooo boring that I prefer men who are straight as a ruler...That is a sign of how BOOOORING I am :) It does not mean that I think they should not declare their bi-interest - go for it! But when I am making a decision I say "no thanks" for bi men..cos that is not my cup of tea..and if one is wondering why no dates yet--may be it is that the majority of the women looking at the profile had the same preference. It does not mean there are no ladies out there who will favour a man with bi-interest - it just says that lady will be harder to find. More time and patience required :) You are not boring. You just have personal preferences like all of us. Nothing wrong with that. xxx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Those women aren't hard to find at all, there are plenty of us, and the numbers are increasing, bring it on I say 😍😜😛
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not boring at all, purely a preference 👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
there's nothing wrong with being to nice it's a lovely trait , in my opinion you have lovely facial features but maybe trim your beard or see what your face looks like all shaved that might help in your search .... It's only my view not to put you down I wish you all the best in your search - Posted from rhpmobile
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chevtrek
9 years ago
I have met very few women from this site.All talk and little action so get out and aboutand you will meet heaps that are kinky and horny.
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RHP User
9 years ago
your profile doesn't look verified either . I agree with the comment about 'if required' being a red flag for some. Bi might put some off but not all - doesn't bother me personally
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MnauMnau
9 years ago
It's never-ending work here. As everyone else said, you need to write "your" stuff in your profile. And that should be changed until you are happy with it. I add/change something in my profile once a week. Checking other profiles almost every day (stats tells me I've checked 960 profiles last month, I might be a little perv here). Adding people into hot lists and then being checked by others. Posting here in forums now and then. I've been active only for past month and only 2 weeks ago I've uploaded my first public pic. Since then I had two messages and 1 flirt. It takes a lot work to get some attention. Next step will be a paid membership. Good luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm really saying 'your lovely, weird and clingy, but nice'. Just saying :p
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