RHP

RHP User

G55

No Shows

July 30 2013

After running a Swingers Venue for a while I can be confident that 20% of the guys who express interest and get invite will actually show up. The figure is a big fat zero for guys who are on cam wanking before any event they are wanting to attend.tI know the percentages now but im still working on the reasoning for taking the time to express interest in an event ...get invited and just not show up.need a males view of this... any feedback welcome

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I for one find that as a height of rudeness to no show and not advise the hosts of a club or party. It is a privilege for single males to be attending any event if it is organised and if selected to attend. Singles mostly only get an invite due to other people being able to vouch for them so not only do you let the hosts down but also the people who vouched for you. Just my 2 cents worth

  • Mr_Invisible

    Mr_Invisible

    11 years ago

    I guess some guys are full of bravado but shy when it comes down to itI hope to attend some events eventually myself when the time is right (and the belly is less)

  • lieam

    lieam

    11 years ago

    i for one would love to go to one of these, try my luck, have a drink and a chat. But as previously mentioned by D_under i would never get in as i know no one that is invited therefore have no one to vouch for me.besides this, the chances of actually getting to play (as a single guy) are just the same as rolling the dice at a pub and hoping to go home with some lady there.......and that's not a $60 dollar entry fee to get into the pub just to go home empty handed. so to speak lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think it stands to reason that when guys discover places/event such as this.. thinking, ohh.. i gonna get laid there...But as the night comes closer, they start to doubt the possibility, as the realization dawns upon them that they still going to have to get their work cut out in order to get "lucky".. as oppose to "easy".. as in.. i just stand there and women will flock me.. kinda thoughts..If only these guys know how to court a women, they wouldn't be at home fapping their wotnots .. and crying at the same time.. for being so lonely most of their liveslol

  • cutenaughtygirl

    cutenaughtygirl

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Spartanis' I think it stands to reason that when guys discover places/event such as this.. thinking, ohh.. i gonna get laid there...But as the night comes closer, they start to doubt the possibility, as the realization dawns upon them that they still going to have to get their work cut out in order to get "lucky".. as oppose to "easy".. as in.. i just stand there and women will flock me.. kinda thoughts..If only these guys know how to court a women, they wouldn't be at home fapping their wotnots .. and crying at the same time.. for being so lonely most of their liveslol Or, they could be thinking variety. New flavors. Variety is the spice of life..?! BTW how do you know they're at home crying and fapping? Speaking from experience there Sparty? :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    When we have organised a play date I find that I become insecure on their expectation of how we look. I get second thoughts and really worry about rejection and how we would cope with it. I still go through with the meet as I have said I would. The other way I mans head could work is they are all worked up on the idea of attending an event but then have a bat and the ensuing post climax chemical and mood change they just don't want to attend. I hope to attend PL one day, as Angel has told me all about it, and if I say I am going I will be there Cheers Dash

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'cutenaughtygirl' Quoting 'Spartanis' I think it stands to reason that when guys discover places/event such as this.. thinking, ohh.. i gonna get laid there...But as the night comes closer, they start to doubt the possibility, as the realization dawns upon them that they still going to have to get their work cut out in order to get "lucky".. as oppose to "easy".. as in.. i just stand there and women will flock me.. kinda thoughts..If only these guys know how to court a women, they wouldn't be at home fapping their wotnots .. and crying at the same time.. for being so lonely most of their liveslol Or, they could be thinking variety. New flavors. Variety is the spice of life..?! BTW how do you know they're at home crying and fapping? Speaking from experience there Sparty? :P well you know.. things i pick up from certian people i met along my travels :P